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It is an unfortunate fact that as a result of the recent recession, many business owners have been thrown into a state of panic about the future of their business. Yes, it is sensible to make ourselves aware of any financial issues which may or will affect us directly, but by adopting a negative ... Views: 1569
A leader should be transparent and his/her integrity should be evident. This is a challenge because when in accuracy emerges from a Leader’s mouth, the trust in his/her ability to lead dwindles.
Therefore, a Leader needs to be detail-oriented. Notes taken on projects, detailed methodology ... Views: 1569
To be able to manage the out of balance moments of our lives is a skill that everyone can use!
Once we understand that we are always creating, you can learn how to support yourself when those "out of left field" things come around in your life.
I was listening to a CD about energy and the ... Views: 1569
Just like it takes two to betroth, there are two things you must do to experience complete happiness and unspeakable joy in your marriage. No matter how you look at it, life is very beautiful and you can only enjoy this kind of life when you know how to. Your marriage can be blissful, if you ... Views: 1569
To Appease or not to Appease
Is placating the answer?
By Merna Throne, M.S.
I thought this was a good topic to finally write about as I know so many people go through this mental dilemma, but they endure in silence and their relationships suffer ... Views: 1568
Circumstances changes people -- for the Better.
Growths are developing basic qualities like intelligence personality and expand skill, effort, strategies and persistence — it makes them more challenging. They teaches how to love hard things, persist, and master them at any given point. They ... Views: 1568
Gaining Personal Growth in Learning the Empowering Techniques of Dealing with Difficult People
In our daily life, conflict and disagreements are unavoidable and there are often difficult people out there for you to deal with. Can you still recall when is the last time you deal with a difficult ... Views: 1568
The secret of how to be happy is based in the words – to be. It is all about being true to your own nature and honouring your dreams and aspirations. Happiness comes from within and you have the freedom to choose to be happy in any moment of your life. Happiness is not dependent on what is ... Views: 1567
There are certain principles that apply to all types of relationships, whether they are friendships, romances, business associations or family interactions. We all lose focus from time to time and can benefit from being reminded of the core tenets of relationship success. Being attuned to the ... Views: 1567
Trying to master self-discipline can be a tough task but it can be extremely rewarding.
The power of self-discipline has never been underestimated. It helps an individual to overcome various obstacles in order to achieve his or her goal. This does not mean that things are easy. ... Views: 1566
Ever since we were young, we’ve been asked to compete, to make sure that we’re the best at everything, to ensure that we are always at the top. For most of us, it starts when we’re young; we are told to be the best in class or get first place in sports and stuff like that. We were not taught how ... Views: 1566
I can remember growing up in Chicago when the year 2000 was a long way into the future. And now, in 2010, as we enter the second decade of the 21st century, I’m taking stock of how far I’ve come and what it took to get me here.
As a child watching movies, I dreamed of being an actor in ... Views: 1564
Lessons I Learned In The Military
My name is James McKenzie from Hardeeville South Carolina with wife Florine, and son Mike. At the age of 17 after high school graduation June 1963, I was on my way to New York City (the big apple) not knowing what to expect upon my arrival. To my surprise ... Views: 1564
Today was a bittersweet day for me. I attended the funeral of my 99 year-old former grandmother in law. It was a day of reflection, sadness, soul searching but most of all remembrance.
The strange thing about funerals, is that there is no code of conduct to follow. Coming from a divorce, I ... Views: 1564
We are either the masters or the victims of our attitudes. It is a matter of personal choice. Who we are today is the result of choices we made yesterday. Tomorrow, we will become what we choose today. To change means to choose to change. ~John Maxwell
What kind of thoughts come to your ... Views: 1563
Beware the constant attraction that all of us carry to feel hard done by and the subsequent feelings of how unfair the world can be that become a hiding place from the more fulfilling journey of achievement.
I learned the truth of how we identify with this loop when, on many occasions, my own ... Views: 1563
Spreaders of malicious gossip, the workplace backstabbers spin wicked webs of emotional destruction, hunting down and trapping unwitting pawns in their incessantly evil games. Sometimes they can be overtly blunt, other times they're subtle and coy, gaining your trust and then turning the tables ... Views: 1562
Redefining Success: Seven New Super-Sized Success Secrets
By
Bill Cottringer
“Success is simple. Do what's right, the right way, at the right time.” ~Arnold H. Glasow.
There are literally thousands of good books and articles already available regarding what to do and how to do it, ... Views: 1562
An old Zen story tells that you must empty your cup before you can achieve something new. This applies also to your life situation.
You must dare to give away in order to make room for something else to replace it.
If you have a garage filled with old car tires, an old furniture, or ... Views: 1562
Joy to the World! is one of my favourite carols. If it makes us feel so fantastic when carolling, why not focus on feeling joy every single day of the year.
Joy opens our heart to recognize miracles happening all around us. When we focus on some happy, positive thought, these little ... Views: 1561
I started writing online about 5 years ago. I was so ignorant then of how to blog or find writing jobs that, in hindsight, I lost out on a lot of stuff I could have been doing like growing a brand and building up personal sites as well as adding to my portfolio. I wouldn't call it wasted time, ... Views: 1561
You could say that in life we are motivated by two basic forces – love and fear. Love opens us to the passion and excitement that love has to offer, while fear causes us to withdraw from life and hide away, terrified of hurt and pain. You can’t live life to the fullest with fear. John Lennon ... Views: 1559
As a leader it is your duty to make sure the rules are enforced. Even though some rules may seem unimportant, you have to see the big picture. Just as there is a reason for wearing seat belts, there is a reason your company has instituted rules. Rules provide a framework for how you operate and ... Views: 1558
Several years ago I received an e-mail with the following quote from Henry Ford: “Never Complain, Never Explain.” Below the quote it recommended that we print the quote on a piece of paper and hang it on a wall where we would see it every day. We were only allowed to take it down when an entire ... Views: 1558
Have you ever felt disappointed because you broke a promise to yourself or you failed to keep a resolution? Did you give up on goals because you felt you let yourself down when you were not strong-minded enough to follow through? It is easy to become disillusioned and too self-critical when all ... Views: 1557
Our experiences are what move us into our life’s work. The choice is whether to respond to whatever life throws at us in a proactive way and keep moving forward, or stay stuck and flounder about.
There are people fulfilling their life’s work each and every day. Some are visible in the ... Views: 1557
"I Don't Want to Play this Game Anymore!"
I admit it: I got so mad at my sister when working a jigsaw puzzle the other night that I said, "I don't want to play this game anymore... I'm going to bed!" It was silly, childish, and, of course I was "right" as she was hogging the picture on the ... Views: 1557
Over my career I have read and heard thousands of quotes from great leaders, but there is one I replay in my mind more than any other. Jim Rohn, one of the greatest personal development teachers of our time said, “Success comes from making a series of good decisions over time, while failure ... Views: 1557
Some individuals are naturally charming, some are not. Being charming is an art and it requires having an attractive personality, which each of us can achieve. Each of us desires to be someone that is admired, and when we learn how to be charming we are taking the steps to become desired. ... Views: 1556
The other day I received a phone call that gave me pause. Someone I know quite well was pleading with me to vote for the presidential candidate of their choosing. They had seen videos and heard expert testimony about the perils that will befall our country if the other guy wins the election. ... Views: 1555
You might not wish to hear this but, YOU are responsible for much of what is happening in your life and your life, is your responsibility! Unfortunately, nobody is coming to save you! In all situations in life, you have the freedom and choice to choose how you will react and what actions you ... Views: 1555
We all use different motivations to reach our goals.
*Some of us always compete with our selves and some compete with others.
*Some of us put milestones related to ourselves and others prefer mile stone directly linked to others.
*Some of us think success means happiness, others think ... Views: 1555
During the last two or three decades there has been a huge movement which encourages everyone to put themselves first. You hear many a person encourage another to look after number one or else nobody else will do so; or perhaps you will hear said that you have to look after yourself or you ... Views: 1554
AlooooooHA!!!
By now, the important place that holding an attitude of gratitude occupies in personal/spiritual development and even practical planning has received enough mainstream press to be passe. My intent here is to revitalize the concept by returning to the basics, as many who've ... Views: 1553
The time changed for most of the U.S. last weekend. We “fell back.”
How does this change affect you? Pretty much like any change does.
Here are 3 Timely Strategies to Positive Change:
Acknowledge the Change
Like most change, the reversal back to Standard Time came without our ... Views: 1552
What’s gonna happen next? Do you know?
Yeah, me, either.
But aren’t we cute? We think we do! We all hold the belief that we know what is going to happen next. Chances are good that the next thing will be similar to the current thing, but that’s just a change, it’s not knowledge.
We ... Views: 1552
There is a moment in everyone’s life where you will be tested and feel the pain of the unknown. You will feel as though you can't handle one more thing and then you are hit with one more and you wonder when you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. Remember: Good days give you happiness, ... Views: 1551
It's Time to Fall In Love ~ With YOU!
I’ve saved the best for last. It doesn’t matter how hard you work or how much natural talent ekes out of your every crevice – you will not achieve satisfaction in life if you do not love yourself. Instead, you will sabotage your own success, knowingly or ... Views: 1551
The economy, global warming, corporate downsizing, obesity, etc…WOW! With all this all this perceived horrible situations it’s not wonder that our society is paralyzed with fear. After all, if you listen to the news it sounds like we’re in the worst situation every, right?
Wrong! ... Views: 1550
How To Let Go Of Limiting Beliefs That Hold You Back From A Career You’ll Love
“If you accept a limiting belief, then it will become a truth for you.” ―Louise Hay
“When I grow up I’m going to trap myself into a job I hate but feel like I can’t leave.”
Said no one ever.
Except you’re ... Views: 1549
Inadvertently, we do an amazing amount of things to keep our emotional pain alive. It’s not our fault, like some (including ourselves) may think. Most of us don’t have a deliberate self-destructive masochistic side to us! We just don’t realise what we’re doing, but we are making it worse by how ... Views: 1548
Deeply engrained in our bodies is the rage that wants to kill and destroy. This is the energy that fuels war, violence, and hatred. Unless this energy is met head on and transformed, it will continue to pervade human consciousness.
This rage lives in your brain, your nervous system and your ... Views: 1547
Positive thinking is not a new age concept that only optimistic people practice. It’s a necessity for people who want to live happy and successful lives. Behavioral and psychology studies have proven that individuals who think positive thoughts are happier, more resilient and achieve goals more ... Views: 1546
How many seconds, minutes, hours, days, years, and decades have we wasted our lives on trivial like grumbling and whining about one thing after another. Then there’s the criticizing, judging and pointing fingers. And don’t leave out the infamous triplets … should’ve, could’ve, would’ve. Say yuk ... Views: 1545
We all want parenting advice that provides us with the tools we need to raise happy healthy children. Good parenting does not result from using a standardized recipe or cookie cutter approach to the many challenges our offspring present to us.
Good parenting really comes from learning as ... Views: 1545
Aloha!
Those who identify as being on a spiritual path most frequently embrace the concept that yes, everything happens for a reason. True, however what’s often left out of that paradigm is that it doesn’t mean every single occurrence holds a deep meaning. Sometimes the reason is simply that ... Views: 1545
Spurts of Growth Blessing
B: Believe your ideas can grow to be great things, that your mind can achieve great things when you let yourself grow. Blast yourself with brimming ideas that you are growing and growing.
L: Life from the growing point of view lets you become more: experienced, ... Views: 1544
Learning to create your day can have a profound impact on the ease at which you manifest your goals and dreams. You can improve the very quality of your day, simply by deciding to. This may surprise you but you are the one who is really in control of how you perceive your day. So, are you having ... Views: 1544
I recently read an article that stated, according to research, despite unemployment and any number of economic and social indicators to the contrary, 80% of the population holds “unrealistic, optimistic beliefs” about their own future.
It really got me to thinking about the two sides of ... Views: 1544
Let’s face it, beginning something new is one of the toughest things to do. The routine is not established yet and you have to deal with the learning curve, figuring out what works and what does not work.
A common New Year resolution is to begin an exercise routine at the gym. Usually when ... Views: 1543