If a man is unable to live his own life, due to how focused he is on his mother, it can appear as though she is the main problem. It might even seem as though the only way that he will be free is if his mother passes on.
This is something that a woman could say as a result of how caught up ... Views: 1
We all find love to be happy about something. That’s why some people engage in a relationship because they feel a sense of satisfaction being with someone they love and that someone also loves them. However, sometimes a relationship may not go so well. There are arguments and fights that ... Views: 2
What should be normal is for a man to be there for himself and take care of his own needs. By being this way, he will be able to live a life that is worth living.
However, while putting himself first should be normal, this could be something that rarely takes place. Instead, he can typically ... Views: 2
If someone were to take a step back and reflect on their life, what might stand out is that they have the tendency to put other people’s needs first. They may see that this takes place without them even thinking about it.
Naturally, the outcome of this is that they will also have the tendency ... Views: 3
Ten Essential Elements of Violence Trauma Recovery
by
William Cottringer Ph.D.
There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds.
~Laurell K. Hamilton, Mistral's Kiss.
Building Blocks (the basement).
1. Supportive ... Views: 7
In the previous articles that I have written about Yellowstone, I haven’t mentioned Jimmy. However, in the beginning, Jimmy works on the ranch and lives in the bunkhouse, but, as time passes, he ends up going to the 6666 ranch to learn how to be a cowboy.
Now, moving from one ranch to another ... Views: 6
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If you’ve ever tried changing your mind about something or someone but struggled no matter how hard you tried, then you understand the challenge of controlling your thoughts. Or maybe you’ve been trying to effective in improving mental ... Views: 7
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If you’ve ever tried therapy before, or even considered it, then you know how intimidating it can be to talk about your life with a stranger. This is especially true when you need to discuss trauma or other challenging experiences. ... Views: 7
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As humans, we’ve developed a number of emotions since the beginning of time that serve to keep us safe. One of the most prominent and instinctual emotions we have is fear. Fear helps warn us when there’s a potential threat and protects ... Views: 8
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When you think of post-traumatic stress disorder, what comes to mind? Many people think of soldiers coming home from war and returning as completely different people than when they were first deployed. While it’s true that PTSD is more common among veterans than ... Views: 7
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When children are growing up, playing can be an important part of their social, cognitive, and emotional development. Whether they choose Legos, action figures, Barbie, or trains, playing allows kids to express themselves and be creative ... Views: 7
“Tell the truth.” It’s the foundation of science – and the foundation of healthy relationships, communities, and countries.
But the truth of things is complicated. To simplify, there is the good of things that are enjoyable and helpful, the bad of things that are painful and harmful, and ... Views: 6
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“Without this ‘wearying ... Views: 10
Healthcare kiosk opportunities have come an extended way because of the implementation of blood stress monitors in your local pharmacy. As technology advances, an increasing number of options have come to be had that can help streamline the healthcare technique and offer meaningful patient care ... Views: 10
QuickBooks is one of the top accounting software for all small or medium businesses.
This is to ensure that the customer does not face the trouble of any spread in the work of accounting. This is helpful software, it helps in all bank's accounting work, if you face any problem while running it, ... Views: 11
In response to a previous JOT – Find Stillness – a wise therapist, Betsy Sansby, reminded me that sometimes a person just can’t find any stillness anywhere. Maybe you have epilepsy or chronic pain or are wildly worried about a child or other loved one, or have been rejected in love or had the ... Views: 11
The idea of self-improvement assumes a central role in the big drama of life, where there are many moving parts and many unknowns. For an instant, try putting yourself in the shoes of a casino player and negotiating the turns and turns with a bit of bravery, strategy, and fortitude at ... Views: 14
If a man is in a position where he spends a lot of time focusing on and doing things for his mother, his own life is going to be neglected. What this comes down to is that he only has so much time and energy.
It would be different if he could be fully focused on himself and his mother but ... Views: 14
During someone’s formative years, they may have had at least one parent who was very harsh. If so, it would have been normal for them to be put down by this parent and treated like they were nothing.
Therefore, even if there were moments when this parent did treat them differently, it ... Views: 15
During someone’s formative years, they may have had at least one parent who was very harsh. If so, it would have been normal for them to be put down by this parent and treated like they were nothing.
Therefore, even if there were moments when this parent did treat them differently, it ... Views: 14
When a woman meets a man who she is attracted to and takes things further with him, she is likely to have a positive view of him. For example, she can see him as a man who is loving, kind, and protective.
Due to this, when she thinks about him and is with him, she can feel loved, valued, ... Views: 15
If someone has turned their back on themselves, it doesn’t mean that they will be consciously aware of this. However, if another person were to observe how they behave for a little while, they might soon realise what is going on.
At this point, it can seem strange as to how another person ... Views: 15
Narcissistic relationships often go through a painful cycle that is a predictable outgrowth of narcissistic personality disorder. Central to understanding a narcissist's behavior is that their relationships are transactional. Their impaired boundaries and lack of empathy prevent them from seeing ... Views: 19
The term "ego" has a bad rep, but in fact, having a strong ego indicates mental health in contrast to a weak or big ego. In Freud's structural model of the psyche, "I" was translated to the Latin, "ego." Unlike the primitive "id" seen in infants, the ego develops in stages and represents the ... Views: 20
The term "ego" has a bad rep, but in fact, having a strong ego indicates mental health in contrast to a weak or big ego. In Freud's structural model of the psyche, "I" was translated to the Latin, "ego." Unlike the primitive "id" seen in infants, the ego develops in stages and represents the ... Views: 19
A lack of empathy is not sufficient for a diagnosis of narcissism but it underlies several narcissistic traits, such as arrogance, entitlement, and being exploitative. On the other hand, a lack of empathy can be associated with borderline personality disorder, autism, bipolar disorder, and ... Views: 20
Things keep changing. The clock ticks, the day unfolds, trees grow, leaves turn brown, hair turns gray, children grow up and leave home, attention skitters from this to that, the cookie is delicious but then it’s all gone, you’re mad about something for a while and then get over it, ... Views: 14
Embark on a journey to the edge of the universe, where chaos reigns and adventure awaits in the world of Borderlands. Since its inception, this irreverent and action-packed series has captured the imaginations of gamers with its unique blend of humor, mayhem, and loot-driven gameplay. Join us as ... Views: 17
What can be normal is for someone to spend most of their time doing things. Therefore, they will rarely if ever take the time to relax and recharge.
But, if this was pointed out to them, it doesn’t mean that they would be able to accept this. For example, they could say that life is too short ... Views: 21
If a woman is with a man who is overly focused on his mother and is out of reach emotionally, she is likely to wonder why she is even with him. Ultimately, he won’t have much time for her and even when he is around, he is unlikely to be very present.
Based on how he behaves, it will be clear ... Views: 19
Understanding Violence
By William Cottringer, Ph.D.
"Violence in an uncontrollable animal, which usually ends up attacking its own master." ~Renny Yagosesky.
There are two main problems standing in the way of understanding violence. One roadblock is that the violence trauma event ... Views: 23
In general, a man can be out of touch with how he feels and a number of his needs. He is then going to look like a whole human being, but he typically won’t operate like one.
As a result of this, it is going to be normal for him to ignore how he feels and overlook a number of his needs. But, ... Views: 19
Even though a man’s childhood will be behind him, it doesn’t mean that he has fully moved on from this stage of his life. A big part of him can be anchored to this stage of his life.
The reason for this is that this might have been a time when he missed out on what he needed from his father ... Views: 20
In the midst of the complex fabric of human feelings, depression poses itself as a mighty foe and leaves shadows that seem impossible to conquer. It is a chronic and widespread disease that cuts across the board, involving all ages, genders, and societies. On the other hand, despite all these ... Views: 24
What someone may see, if they were to step back and reflect on how they experience life, is that they don’t have a strong connection with their feelings. They could find that, in general, they are not aware of how they feel.
This is likely to show that they spend most of their life living in ... Views: 19
Most people, me included, are holding onto at least one thing way past its expiration date.
It could be a belief, perhaps that your hair is falling out and you are ugly and unlovable as a result, that you can’t say what you really feel in an intimate relationship, or that you must lose ... Views: 19
What can be normal is for someone to ignore a number of their needs and to focus on others. But, if this is just what is normal, it might not be something that they are consciously aware of.
Consequently, they will be neglecting themselves but this is not going to be something that will stand ... Views: 22
Even if someone feels worthless and unlovable, it doesn’t mean that they will be consciously aware of this. But, if this is not something that they are aware of, what is going on for them is still going to have an impact on their life.
It is likely to influence how they perceive reality, how ... Views: 27
It is often said that someone shouldn’t have any expectations. One of the reasons that is put forward is that, by having them, they are likely to end up being let down.
However, even if someone is able to arrive at a place where they no longer expect anything, it doesn’t mean that they won’t ... Views: 25
The significance of cyber security in the digital age, where technology is permeating every aspect of our lives, cannot be emphasized. Cyber security is essential to maintaining our online safety and privacy, from securing financial assets to preserving personal information. But a lot of people ... Views: 25
In recent years, the online gambling industry has experienced exponential growth, providing players with unprecedented access to a wide range of casino games from the comfort of their homes. However, with this convenience comes a multitude of considerations, including safety, legality, and ... Views: 24
If a man is focused on his mother’s life and is ignoring his own, it will be clear, at least to some people, that something is not right. Of course, he is not here to be an extension of his mother; he is here to express himself and live a fulfilling life.
This is not to say that he can’t be ... Views: 24
When it comes to living a fulfilling life, one thing that is often mentioned is having an open heart. Or, perhaps to be more accurate, this is what is often mentioned in the world of self-development and spirituality.
What this typically relates to is someone being connected to how they feel ... Views: 21
Liking feels good, plus it encourages us to approach and engage the world rather than withdraw from it.
Your brain continually tracks whether something is pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral. In essence, is it a carrot, a stick, or safely ignored? Naturally, we like - we enjoy - what's ... Views: 21
If someone has just broken up with their partner, they can be in a bad way. They might have been with them for a number of months or years but, no matter how long it was, they won’t just be able to carry on with their life.
Yet, as this person will have been a big part of their life and now ... Views: 24
When a man not only meets a woman who he is attracted to but starts dating her, he can believe that his view of her is accurate. However, as time passes, he can find that she is nothing like how he thought she was in the beginning.
Due to this, he can come to the conclusion that he was ... Views: 25
If someone were to take a step back and reflect on their life, what they might see is that they don’t have a very ‘positive’ view of themselves. So, they can believe that no one likes them, are worthless, are a burden, are unlovable and are incapable, for instance.
What could enter their mind ... Views: 25
For a little while now, a woman may have been with a man who is unable to be there for her. This can be because he is too focused on taking care of his mother’s needs and doesn’t have much time or energy left for anyone else.
As a result, this is not going to be a relationship that is having ... Views: 27
Whether someone is watching the news or browsing a social media site, they can hear about how a certain country is a problem. Alternatively, they could hear about how people who belong to a certain group are a problem.
Then again, they could hear about both of these things. Either way, this ... Views: 23
What someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on their life, is that they have the tendency to eat when they are emotionally unsettled. This can be something that takes place every now and then.
Alternatively, this could take place a few times a week or it might be more often. ... Views: 26