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Isn't it depressing to know that so many people are stuck spinning their wheels living a life they swear was never meant for them in the first place? When we were younger we had such big aspirations for ourselves and somewhere along the way, life took over and the dream seemed to disappear. You ... Views: 1002
At some point in every person’s life, he or she desires spiritual growth and development to some degree. Some people make it a large part of who they are while others do not, but everybody thinks about it at some point, even if just for the moment.
Studies have shown that, regardless of the ... Views: 439
“Spring forward.” That’s a little phrase to remind us which way to turn the clocks at the end of daylight savings time. Some see this clock changing business to mean the loss of an hour. Personally, I’m grateful for the time change because it means we are coming into springtime. We can learn ... Views: 1149
I am a constant thinker. It is not unusual for me to fall asleep with my mind on one or several issues. Normally once my weariness gives way to sleep land – the thoughts go wherever they go until they come to mind the next day. Recently I noticed something that troubled me; I could wake up ... Views: 552
What can I say that hasn't already been said? Hummm...
How about this?
I can almost guarantee that hours from now, days from now you will still be thinking about this article. In fact every time you stand up you will remember this article.
It doesn't matter if you are at work and just ... Views: 1317
Did you grow up hearing…it's better to be safe than sorry... if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen... don't rock the boat....? Has putting stake in those adages left you feeling frustrated, lost, or hungry for more out of life? Has it sabotaged your success? If so, then ... Views: 891
What would you do differently in your life if you were
given the chance? What would you change now if you
were able to wave a magic wand and start from scratch?
No ties, no burdens, no limits, no memories, and no past.
What would that life look like? If the answer that comes
to your mind ... Views: 1728
I lost my husband and best friend of 22 years when he was 59 and I was 47. We have three boys and I'd always thought we'd be together forever, however long that was, or at least another twenty years. I felt blindsided when I lost him to cancer after 11 months of illness. I had a terrible time ... Views: 1024
It's a shame that some people choose to maintain a negative disposition about their lives. Unfortunately negative thinking generally yields negative results. Consider whatever lofty goals you may have in life, you are likely not going to get there if you think negatively. Sure, you may not get ... Views: 1006
Many would agree that a body in motion tends to stay in motion; however, there are times even the most motivated among us need a jolt or two to get us back at full force. When we launch ourselves full speed into a task, at the beginning motivation comes easy, but gradually you may ease your foot ... Views: 1123
We are living in strange, unprecedented times.
With so much uncertainty—and the radical transformation of our daily lives—it’s easy to feel anxious, overwhelmed, and out-of-control.
To stay grounded and maintain a sense of wellbeing, we need to be thoughtful about how we approach and ... Views: 685
Staying clear in the moment is giving up on the idea of trying to manage it. It is letting go of any control and allowing yourself and the moment to exist just as it is. With control there is a fight and when this occurs, we are betraying ourselves; we are letting ourselves be controlled. To ... Views: 679
Most people lead busy lives and have countless work to do. With endless tasks, responsibilities and distractions, staying focused on goals can really be a challenge.
Not everyone is born a multi-tasker. In fact, many people find juggling many different hats stressful and nearly impossible. ... Views: 1770
As an internet marketer you will be taking on many business responsibilities that will be both time consuming and challenging! When building an internet based business you will also be contending with ongoing changes that may have you occasionally changing direction or strategies! The point is ... Views: 778
It is an uncomfortable habit that feels so familiar it becomes comfortable. It turns up the volume on fear so high that to move in any direction instills a panicky feeling. You feel trapped and victimized, convincing yourself that doing anything different will kill you.
Have you ever felt ... Views: 1064
I’m grateful for this day. I’ve found that investing time appreciating who and where I am in life (and people!) helps me grow.
Simple gratitude. It works.
Yes, I want more. I want to be more; I want to have more.
Yes, I work at my own self improvement consistently, persistently and ... Views: 1175
A couple of years ago, as I marked 10th anniversary of graduating from the American University in Bulgaria, I came to realize that there are 2 important activities that you have an opportunity to engage in a lot when you are a student and have considerably less after you graduate, and these are ... Views: 1860
The final step to your success is #7 - Recap and Review. While this isn't in the IMAGE acronym, it is an important part of the system. Without an overview of the entire flow, we can't see if it is working. There really needs to be a Return On Investment “ROI” when trying to accomplish anything, ... Views: 1174
Have you ever been presented with an opportunity that challenged you to think bigger about your life?
Has fear ever gotten in your way of doing something that you really wanted?
Forcing you out of your comfort zone can leave your stomach doing more flips than an Olympic gymnast.
If ... Views: 915
Recently I spent time with a friend who a few days previously experienced a traumatic interpersonal and intrapersonal event. A few hours into our day he expressed that he feels for the first time since the episode that he is “stepping out of the drama of what happened”. This caused me to reflect ... Views: 1109
Life brings you many experiences, some of which may be good and some which are not so good. Your perception of these experiences will determine whether you look at these as stepping stones to a better you or as stumbling blocks which hold you back. It’s not about life being fair or just, it’s ... Views: 1601
It has been shown again and again that the best way to deter crime is to enforce existing laws and hand down tough penalties, especially for crimes that are committed while using a gun. While gun control has been proven not to deter crime, an example of the how tough enforcement works can be ... Views: 1178
Think back to when you were just a wee little boy or girl. Do you remember the question people used to ask all of the time? “What do you want to be when you grow up?” I was thinking about that question today and realized that on so many levels, it is totally unfair!
First, how in the world do ... Views: 1709
When it comes to self-development, a lot has been said about how important it is to be able to experience self-control and to be resilient. Naturally, these are two incredibly important abilities to have in life.
If one is unable to control themselves, it is going to be a challenge for ... Views: 760
When someone experiences pain in an area of their body, it can make it hard for them to be in the present moment. Their attention can end up being consumed by this area of their body.
If they are able to bring their attention away from this part of their body, they may find that it is ... Views: 720
We all have issues and problems that need to be attended to but it is wrong to put pressure on others to solve your problems or make you feel better. That is your job! Take responsibility for your feelings, for how you value yourself and for what is happening in your life. If something isn’t ... Views: 1825
Some of us seem to attract toxic people like a magnet. Or maybe a better image is of wasps buzzing around a jam pot, and each one packing a nasty, venomous sting they don't mind using.
Skewed Perspective
No surprise then, that so many toxic people magnets end up with a horribly skewed ... Views: 4400
There is massive power in words. The words we speak and consistently think are slowly moulding our future, one simple word and phrase at a time. In a literal sense what we think about, speak about and act upon, we bring about. If your thoughts, words and actions are moulding the way your future ... Views: 710
Stop fighting for your limitations, unless of course, you want to stay stuck with the same results. If you want to take your life to the next level, you have to be willing to let go of all those excuses…all the reasons why you CAN’T do something. Some examples of what we usually do are as ... Views: 853
Last week, whilst driving to my new gig at Visions Medical Center, I was traversing the Mass Pike, Route 90 East or West, when a State Patrolman appeared in my rearview mirror. At another time in my life, that would have been cause for accelerated heartrate and a delicate foot on the brake ... Views: 848
Decades of psychological research prove that about 96% of people use only 1% of their mental energy to focus in the present moment. Instead, the “normal” subconscious (the greater part of your mental energy) lives in your formative years, when you were so “sponge-like” and open-minded that you ... Views: 2458
Stop Procrastinating
What is procrastination? Why do you procrastinate? How can you stop procrastinating?
In our time, there are many diseases and viruses that affect the human body. At the same time, there is a disease that affects our success, which is procrastination. Procrastination is ... Views: 1181
Two people work in a retail environment. It is small and employs about six people. Customers visit throughout the day. One of these people is the manager. The other person handles issues regarding credit and group sales. For the past three years they have not spoken to each other. The manager ... Views: 1474
Stop the Leaks and Reframe
Here is a great technique I have been using in my coaching practice. I call it “Stop the Leaks and Reframe.”
Have you ever found yourself obsessing about a situation that doesn’t seem to be working for you? It could be an unbalanced relationship; a frustrating ... Views: 1130
Almost every day, I hear someone remark how fast the world is changing – and it’s true. It’s almost unrecognizable from our parents’ days, and even from the world we grew up in.
We live in a world far more touched by a constant state of change than any generation which has gone before us. ... Views: 3827
Are you putting up with things in your life that annoy you or drains the energy right out of you? A good majority of people have been carrying around suitcases filled with unfinished projects and things they are tolerating. You could be tolerating an annoying neighbor, excess weight, or a bad ... Views: 1165
There are times when we feel like others are getting the best things in life. They get the promotions. They get the bigger house. They drive the nicer cars. Their children make good grades and appear to do the right things. We may wonder why we don’t have the nicer things in life especially ... Views: 1593
Many of us speed through the day without much awareness. The whole day is about doing and then doing more. For others of us, we feel lost in our day, directionless, not sure what to do next. By the time the day is finished we often feel frustrated. We didn’t get enough done. We didn’t meet our ... Views: 1867
One of the many benefits of using storytelling in business is that it can communicate powerful messages about you and your product. In today’s ever-changing and competitive market, using just facts to send out your important messages wouldn’t cut it anymore.
People are looking for that ... Views: 1604
Do you sometimes wonder why you made a specific decision? Looking back on what happened, you cannot find the reason for doing what you did? Why did I say ”X” to him or why did I not do “Y”?
Everything that you do involves making use of a strategy to get to a certain result or effect. Does ... Views: 1352
He who conquers others is strong; he who conquers himself is mighty. –Lao-tzu
Your purpose is the foundation
Living life purposefully begins with identifying that which is uniquely rare to you. How do you find this rarity? Look back through your life. In your mind, play a movie of your most ... Views: 755
Men aren’t the only ones who like to fix the problem and dive straight into the solution. When it comes to business, sooner or later we all fall into the trap of searching for the formula that will fix our latest crisis fast.
On the other hand, there can be the problem of so many solutions ... Views: 927
Your intuition can be a powerful guide in any situation, helping you to avoid dangerous and detrimental experiences – or even leading you to the best opportunities to improve your life.
However, as with any skill, the strength and intensity of your intuition will fade with disuse. If ... Views: 1014
When we are in a stressful situation, it is hard for us to respond or react clearly. We are overwhelmed by our emotions or thoughts, and therefore cannot see the situation for what it really is. We make it harder on ourselves because we are not only dealing with the moment at hand, but we are ... Views: 1132
Stress is a very important part of everyone’s life. Stress is inevitable. It can occur any time. People experience stress in different phases of life. Students face stress most of the times throughout their academic lives. Many experts believe that stress is good for students as they learn how ... Views: 518
Is it a good idea to remove as much as potential stress and frustration as we can from our children's lives as well as our own? A parallel can be drawn between the health of your immune system and the ability to manage stress that may surprise you.
This morning I read an article entitled The ... Views: 1092
Is it a good idea to remove as much as potential stress and frustration as we can from our children's lives as well as our own? A parallel can be drawn between the health of your immune system and the ability to manage stress that may surprise you.
This morning I read an article entitled The ... Views: 1037
Stress isn’t sexy? Do you want sexy back?
These times give us plenty of fodder for stress if you didn’t already have a very large does of it. When we are stressed we have several patterns that usually go hand and hand with it and it’s not a cozy loving hand.
1. We breath shallowly
2. We ... Views: 977
A while ago my fortunes changed and I was not working and experiencing a very hard time financially with all the obvious pressures associated with that. I became exhausted and completely run down. I found it hard to control my thoughts.
I would often wake up in the early hours of the morning ... Views: 639
I want to introduce you to one of the very simplest yet most effective stress management techniques for tough times that I discovered some years ago, but first I want to tell you a story.
There is a story about a king who sought wisdom. He searched all over his kingdom for wisdom and did not ... Views: 864