We all have issues and problems that need to be attended to but it is wrong to put pressure on others to solve your problems or make you feel better. That is your job! Take responsibility for your feelings, for how you value yourself and for what is happening in your life. If something isn’t working, explore your options, learn and search out information that will help you change and/or reach your highest potential. Don’t let others take control over your life instead start doing the job yourself. If you are serious about improving the quality of your live so that you can transform your life, you will need to take back control and do the work yourself. It requires you to dig deep within the resources of your heart and soul as you discover your inner power, wisdom and strength. If you are walking and talking in the way of your Higher Self, your Creator, you will begin to realize that you are more than enough. You have all you need inside of you to experience your personal gratification for your life so you can feel content and fulfilled; however, you are the only one who can unlock the door to that realization.

Don’t rely on others to fulfill all your needs because no one will ever satisfy and fulfill your greatest demands. That is your responsibility! Your value and worth doesn’t come from others; it comes from within your core. The valuable life lesson for all of us to learn is that we have all that we need to live within our own strength. It is important for you to feel good about who you are as you live your life that way because you are created in the image and likeness of your Heavenly Father. Your Heavenly Fathers loves you and approves of you just the way you are, so stop feeling like you need to be validated by others and instead ask your Heavenly Father to show you the way. When you learn to connect with your Infinite Intelligence for your personal growth and development, you will have all the reinforcement and courage you require to build yourself up. If you are pursuing to transform your life so you can reach your highest potential, you only need to seek out the approval of your Creator, your Source.

Change your point of view! It’s time to stop looking for your value through other people and stop depending on someone else to make you feel worthy, and accepted. You are a great masterpiece created by your Heavenly Father so now is the time to build yourself up, encourage yourself to reach your highest potential by making sure you are meeting all of your needs through your own inner strength and power.

Of course, we all like to be complimented and noticed but the key to remember is not to depend on other people to make you feel whole and complete. The negative thoughts and feelings that surface from time to time will only drag you down and cause you to be bitter. That is the work of the enemy not the truth. Never question that you have free will and that free will gives you the power to make right choices and decisions for your highest and best good. Quit looking to others to give you what they don’t have. Instead, look within because you have the power to fulfill your own destiny so you can transform your life for the better.

Author's Bio: 

Joan Marie is a woman with a mission. She is an author, life coach and a lecturer currently residing on the Gulf Coast of Florida. Her objective is to help people awaken to their true potential by taking back command of their lives through the process of changing the way they act, think and live. Joan Marie considers herself as a “seed planter” and through her techniques/approach both men and women will awaken to their authentic self by heightening self-awareness, thus improving their daily performance as they enhance their quality of life.