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Thoughts and attitudes
The inner game of success largely depends on your thoughts, beliefs and feelings.
Key factor is the change of your thoughts. You have to think not only positive, but think, feel and act like a millionaire.
Because
"You do not need more energy to live a life of ... Views: 1505
Children naturally look at the world in a positive fashion. They have not yet learned that life has many pitfalls and challenges. They look forward to new things. They are willing to do what it takes to learn something new. They take time to stop and smell the roses. To just be instead of always ... Views: 1504
Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory consists of five interdependent levels that one strives to meet in a life cycle. Some cultures may place more or less emphasis on the importance of each level, but each has great applicability to achieving a meaningful life for all people. The hierarchy is ... Views: 1504
CAREER DEVELOPMENT: Coaching provides support for leaders, prepares them for future opportunities
Just like writers need editors and children need parents, current and future executives need ... coaches.
And executive coaching or one-on-one business mentoring isn't just for a company's top ... Views: 1504
“It sucks right now!” Martha said with despair in her voice. “I just lost my job. My husband’s salary barely covers the necessary expenses. Our daughter needs money for a science project. Our son needs a cavity filled. I wrecked my car. The dog is sick. And my credit cards are at their ... Views: 1504
On my way to San Diego, after providing hospital consulting for a few days in the greater Chicago area, I re-read Tony Hsieh’s book, “Delivering Happiness: A Path to Profits, Passion, and Purpose.” This book was a great preparation for The Passion Test conference I was headed to, and following ... Views: 1503
Someone sent me this joke and I saved it. I’m printing it as a topic for this self growth article.
Squirrels had overrun three churches in town. After much prayer, the elders of the first church determined that the animals were predestined to be there.
"Who are we to interfere with God's ... Views: 1503
Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy. ~ Leo Buscaglia
On New Year's day, a dear friend of mine reminded me about a technique she uses to let go of worry and fear. She lives in the United States where they celebrate New Year's Day each year with the Rose ... Views: 1501
Start by listing the judgments that you hold against the person you have in mind. And be honest, very honest. The more real you are with yourself, the better this will be. It’s best if you can write it out, on a piece of paper, because then you’ll have the physical evidence of all that your ego ... Views: 1501
Most of the time when we are faced with choices and decisions, we anguish over them because of all of the baggage that we have built up over the years. Our decisions are made more difficult because of fears, anxieties, past memories and other emotions that press in from all corners. We allow our ... Views: 1500
I have two sons, and they are both great boys. They don’t get into trouble, are doing well in school, and have close ties to friends, family, and community. I am proud of them every day, and I have enjoyed watching them grow. Especially as they are both so very different from one another. ... Views: 1499
Here are some of the reasons that you may have a negative outlook on life. By recognizing these issues and addressing them, you can eliminate negativity from your life.eliminate negativity
Failure
Successful people fail multiple times, but they continue learning from those failures and ... Views: 1498
A New Year’s Resolution Worth Considering
By
Bill Cottringer
Normally, I am not one for making or suggesting good New Year’s resolutions, maybe because I have seen too many short-lived ones dissolving after just a few weeks. However, I am going to make an exception to my own rule this ... Views: 1498
There is a great power in giving thanks and Mike's tips are guaranteed to lift the spirits.
Balancing Act
The expression of gratitude is the ultimate balancing act in everyone’s life. We know whom we receive the good from and we offer our gratitude.
Harmony
The absence of a simple thank ... Views: 1498
Do you ever suffer from low self esteem? The Oxford English Dictionary defines “self esteem” as confidence in you own worth or abilities. So let me ask the same question a different way - do you ever doubt yourself or question your abilities? Because, if you do ever question your own value or ... Views: 1498
On Fri, Aug 12, 2011 at 2:42 AM, News Release wrote:
Press Release
Guide shows couples how to keep spark alive, maintain happy marriage
Sukhjiwan Singh calls on society to honor the institution of marriage and avoid divorce through her various strategies in "Marriage and the Love ... Views: 1498
RESURRECTION IS A LIFESTYLE - LIVE IT!
Are you suffering from the heart sickness of a dream deferred? If so, the resurrection of your hope is at hand. Resurrection is not limited to the Easter season; it can be an everyday experience as in the motto coined by the St. Paul Community Baptist ... Views: 1498
You've probably seen the movie The Secret, and chances are if you're reading this article, you're interested in the Law of Attraction. You know that the idea is that like attracts like or that which is like unto itself is drawn. It's a simple concept. The question is this: Is the Law of ... Views: 1495
Life is choices and there is no way around that. From the moment you wake up to the moment you go to sleep your entire day will be filled with choices that you have to make. Even if you decide not to make a choice you are still making a choice. But the question you should ask yourself is: ... Views: 1494
What can we do when we have a friend who is truly unhappy with their life? Do we sit back and watch them self-destruct in their own situations in their lives where they seem to be oblivious to what is actually going on? Is it our position to even say anything in the first place? If we elect to ... Views: 1494
In this fast-moving world, you need to consider not only yourself, but others as well. What you do does have an influence on other people, just as other people's negative or positive attitude affects the environment around them.
What is magnificent these days is that most people are ... Views: 1494
Most people say face your fears head on. That way you will over come them. That is fine, but you’ll never know where the fear came from.
When you have a fear you have to dissect where it came from in order for it not to re-appear. Something happened somewhere along the lines for you to ... Views: 1494
One of the most important educational activities parents and teachers can put into action is building self-esteem in children. Their happiness and success as adults will be immensely influenced by this factor.
Adults that struggle with low-self esteem have often developed self-esteem ... Views: 1492
We all hold our dreams in our hearts like a pit which carries fire in it. Our dreams, our goals can be very unique, it can be different, it can be crazy and it may seem impossible and may leave people thinking that you’ve gone mad or so but it’s what our heart truly wants. Hence, we should go ... Views: 1492
Not many people know this, but I've been trained in NLP or Neuro Linguistic Programming. With this training I've been able to change thought patterns fast. How fast? I'm talking seconds, not hours, days or even months.
In this video I'll show you exactly how I change thoughts using ... Views: 1492
Throughout my life, I've encountered scores of people who don't appear to love themselves. They say negative things about their appearance, their lack of success at work, not being a good parent or child, or not making the right choices in life. While it is true that we all grapple with issues ... Views: 1492
I look around and I saw that there are people live happy and fruitful life. I believe these people are my best models and not the book authors who give 1001 techniques on time management. I must observe them. I must listen to what they say.
The practitioner is the real expert. People who ... Views: 1491
Every year about mid February I notice indicators of drama starting to emerge. The extra pounds from over indulging during the holidays have your pants fitting a bit too tight. You only worked out two days since your New Year’s resolution to get fit once and for all, but the big snow kept you ... Views: 1491
It is hard to imagine that a generation of peace and love could become the next war mongers. It is far to obvious the wars we fight today are not to protect any thing other than profit.
You who riddled the world with land mines, profit from the resources of others, restrict advancement, let ... Views: 1490
If something is not working for them they simply change. Entrepreneurs know the importance of keeping on top of their industry and the only way to being number one is to evolve and change with the times. They're up to date with the latest technology or service techniques and are always ready to ... Views: 1490
1. Income
2. Physical Health
3. Joy in Living
Research has shown the above 3 are some of the best predictors of successful aging. Where do you fit in on this list?
Having your finances in order breathes a huge sigh of relief in our lives. Stress from debt can cause one to age ... Views: 1490
Want to learn how to improve self confidence? Here's an amazingly effective tip on how to improve self confidence in just about any situation.
It's the power of cues. Many actors prepare for big or important scenes by focusing on their cues and you can to. Here's exactly how to improve self ... Views: 1490
A very important quality what I have learned in my sales career is that you need to know how to control emotions. How to be happy at hard times? How to keep a joyful face when someone insults you? How to keep going despite of opposition? There is a solution...
EMOTIONS MAKE US DIFFERENT OF ... Views: 1490
We live in a world of cause and effect.
I can imagine your response… “No kidding… tell me something I don’t already know!”
We all know about cause and effect. But looking at how most people seem to be living and responding to life, I feel it bears repeating.
(And maybe I’m the only ... Views: 1490
Trees don’t try to keep their leaves when autumn arrives, nor do they resist new growth in the spring. But, that’s how we sometimes approach our lives.
Life asks, insists really, that we engage a continuous shedding and new growth aspect. Maybe you’re trying to hang onto something it’s time ... Views: 1489
Life brings you many experiences, some of which may be good and some which are not so good. Your perception of these experiences will determine whether you look at these as stepping stones to a better you or as stumbling blocks which hold you back. It’s not about life being fair or just, it’s ... Views: 1489
The Law of Attraction says that whatever you think about, you bring about. The way we think is a choice that we make.
We can think good thoughts - OR - We can think bad thoughts.
We can think about what we really want - OR - We can think about all the problems that are overwhelming us. ... Views: 1488
1. Dreams Just Happen
When you dream, you just see things play out. If you type “dream big” into Google one of the first things to pop up is an article about advice from Steve Jobs. The article talks about how Steve Jobs told a Disney executive to “Dream Bigger”. If we quote his biography, ... Views: 1486
“People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.”
I think most of us have heard that poem before. It’s a very touching and pointed piece which speaks of the heart of life. We all have experienced this with others or perhaps we have been one of these for another. Probably ... Views: 1486
Operate In ‘I’m Okay’ Mode
No matter what has happened so far in your life – you are essentially fine.
Find a picture of yourself as a young child. If you can’t find a picture, imagine yourself about 10 years old. Now, write that child a letter outlining the perfect life he or she is going to ... Views: 1485
It always cracks me up when I hear this phrase: "it's just another day". It epitomizes just how little some folks value the gift of another day. I'm guessing that were those same people to have some kind of terminal dis-ease, they'd change their attitude zippity-quick. I'm guessing that these ... Views: 1485
What is Your Emotional Awareness About Your Past?
Identifying Unexpressed Emotion
To find out if you are having trouble letting go of the past, please answer yes or no to the following twenty questions:
Do you have painful childhood memories that you have yet to deal with?
Do you ... Views: 1485
My passion is to show folks that everything is energy. You are energy--your body, your thoughts--everything around you is energy. Of course money is energy also--a different form of energy. In learning that everything is energy, we must come to see that in our relationship to any energy we are ... Views: 1485
Presidential election results still being counted November 6 didn’t deter the media from speculating about the “great divide” in our country. In retrospect, I wish Hostess had announced its decision to close down the Twinkie production line sooner. But my diehard faith in the process that ... Views: 1485
There are two ways to live your life - one as though nothing is a miracle, the other as though everything is a miracle.
-- Albert Einstein
Is it just a random event that the Earth rotates perfectly on it’s axis and orbits perfectly around the sun? Is it just a coincidence that the planet ... Views: 1485
In Part 1 of this series, we discussed strategies for eliminating unhelpful self-criticism about your body. In this article, we will explore frequent weighing as a potential contributor to poor body image.
Following a cognitive behavioral counseling approach, we know that it is not only ... Views: 1484
"We must learn to understand what we do not understand." Dr. Michael King
We live in a time of change. What has still been valid 5 years ago, no longer works today. People who take advantage of others are being discovered. Lies are exposed and rulers overthrown. The world is changing rapidly ... Views: 1484
“Never eat with people you don’t like because your state of awareness will influence how your food is metabolized.” This is what Deepak Chopra said in a 1993 interview with Oprah Winfrey. He talked about a study that was done where rabbits were fed a diet that was extremely high in cholesterol. ... Views: 1484
"Sometimes we use words carelessly and actually affirm what we don't want, rather than what we do want..." Dennison & Dennison
Through language and feeling we communicate and create our experience.
Words and phrases like have to, should, can't, must, ought to, always and never communicate ... Views: 1482
Many times following my coaching sessions with my coachees, the same question keeps going around in my head: Why do we tie up our own hands?
Regardless of the circumstances or the context of the coaching, I would be working on with my coachees, a truth always stands out before my very ... Views: 1481