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When one goes on a date, they may find that they are able to be themselves, and this is going to show that they feel comfortable in their own skin. Therefore, even if they are at a point in their life where they want to be with someone, they are not going to come across as being needy.
The ... Views: 1218
I Broke His Heart Now He Won't Talk To Me: I Accidentally Broke His Heart
I know that making bad decisions and regretting it later is pretty frequent for most of us. Once or twice I have asked myself how can I get my boyfriend back if I broke his heart. Just like a lot of women, I have ... Views: 1216
Husband and Wife Quarrel: Quarrel between Husband and Wife
In every relationship there are bound to be disagreements. How a couple handles these conflicts has a lot do with how they end up feeling about each other. I am a firm believer in the old adage: "do not go to bed angry". When we do ... Views: 1215
Relationships are not going to be without problem at all times. Fact is you are going to be involve in more heartbreaks over time than you can imagine. The way you deal with heartbreaks and heartaches is what makes you turn out to be a better person in the process. If you recently broke up with ... Views: 1215
Dear Dr. Romance:
I really need your help. Could you please recommend one of your books for myself. I grew up in a home with a mother who was famous for saying hateful things that she didn't mean when she was mad. Lately I am doing the very same thing. I am newly married and I love my ... Views: 1214
This world is rife of parents using their children as pawns in the dirty game of divorce or where children are born out of wedlock. We have all heard of the old saying “no maintenance no kids” or “you left me so you won’t see your kids”. Parents don’t realise the damage they are doing in using ... Views: 1214
If you are thinking how to get him back after a break up, in that case let me let you know that it is achievable. But, it takes a lot more than pleading and apologies to get your ex boyfriend back.
I know after a relationship ends you feel very hurtful, confused and emotional. In situation ... Views: 1214
Do you want to get your boyfriend to take you back after you've been caught cheating? This was once something most women thought of as impossible but there is one thing you can do that will make it much more likely to happen. Keep reading to find out what that one thing is. Don't forget to click ... Views: 1211
Dear Dr. Romance
I met a girl about three years ago at work. We both saw a connection, but neither one of us followed up on it. We were both in relationships, she was married. Several months later she told me things weren't good at home and we had started talking. She and I became ... Views: 1210
If you are someone who has a hard time getting their anger control, it’s important that you learn how to do this. Without the proper control you never know when you will end up going crazy and hurting someone, including your girlfriend. Even though you might love her, anger can make anyone do ... Views: 1210
What are some signs that you may be in a toxic relationship?
You'll be able to tell because of the impact being in a toxic relationship does to you. You're probably not aware of it but your body is. It will affect you emotionally, physically and psychologically. What happens is you change ... Views: 1209
Sometimes lessons in leadership come from the most unlikely places; when you look for life's lessons, it's amazing where you will find them. I have found them in the small details, the fleeting moments, and the major life-changing transitions. As Valentine's Day approaches, I want to share some ... Views: 1208
How To Save A Marriage When Trust Is Gone: Rebuilding Trust In Marriage - Regaining Trust In Marriage (How To Heal A Marriage After Lies)
It is a well known truth that successful marriages are rooted in mutual trust and they can withstand any stormy circumstances. Such a strong foundation of ... Views: 1207
1. Physical Abuse
In theory, in this country, no one can touch you as adults in any way (physically or sexually) without your permission. At the horrendous end of the spectrum of physical abuse are the stories we hear about the beating, burning, rape, mutilation, sex slaves, etc. and at the ... Views: 1206
“Mommy, Mommy,” cried the seven year old. “You have blood on your face and in your hair,” she said in a fearful voice.
“It’s okay sweetheart. Mommy just fell in the shower.”
She was silent for a moment than said, “I heard Daddy yelling at you last night. It woke me up.
Will he ... Views: 1206
When one spends time with the people they are close to, they could generally have a positive effect on them; what this can show is that they are not interested in undermining them. Even so, this is not to say that one won’t be able to speak up if they have something to say that is not ... Views: 1206
Husband Neglecting Wife: Husband Completely Ignores Me
There is no easy way to answer the question why do men neglect their wives because some of the things I am about to say will not be things that you wish or like to hear.
The first reason why men neglect their wives is because they are ... Views: 1205
Why incorporate? This is a question you might ask should you plan to start your own company. Incorporating your own company has its advantages, but it is still your own choice whether you will proceed with the incorporation or not.
The first advantage of incorporating a business is the ... Views: 1204
Submitting To Your Husband When You Don't Agree: Learning To Submit To Your Husband
To realize the fullness of God's purpose each of us must submit to God, governing authorities as well as each other. This represents God's order to achieve His ideal. But as you well know many of us fall ... Views: 1204
Husband Not Interested In Me Anymore: My Husband Shows No Interest In Me Anymore
Are you in a sexless marriage? Are you willing and wanting to have sex, but your partner isn't in the mood? How can you put sex back into a sexless marriage?
In most relationships, the sex begins to wane after ... Views: 1202
Domestic Abuse and Violence
From Seduction to Survival, Part Three
Written by Randi G. Fine
Domestic abuse creates a complex emotional and psychological syndrome in victims that makes their reality very difficult to accept. Victims believe that if they do and say all the right things, the ... Views: 1201
Did you know that one of the best ways to get your girlfriend back is to change your appearance? It's a little more than skin deep but when she sees you making an effort to improve yourself by changing your look she'll take a second look and this is your "in" for talks about a second ... Views: 1201
There are plenty of articles and books out there suggesting people how we can have better sex, a better orgasm, or pieces like "5 Ways You Can Take Your Relationship To The Next Level", and so forth. But how we can achieve those things we often don't hear much of those. Many couples have the ... Views: 1200
He Broke Up With Me and I Want Him Back: What to Say to a Guy When He Breaks Up With You
Granted that he caused you great pain and heartbreak but you have found that you still love him and want him back. There are ways in which you can communicate your forgiveness and make him want to return ... Views: 1200
“The first time anything violent happened my husband broke my nose and kicked me in the shins. We had been having dinner at a friend’s place and he had been drinking heavily all night. At midnight, after many attempts to get my husband to leave with me, I finally gave up, picked up our ... Views: 1199
What Does A Husband Expect From His Wife: Expectations Of A Wife In Marriage - What Husband Wants From Wife
This what men want article is related to the No. 8: women who always seek to increase their value are often women who respect themselves. They understand that their time is expensive ... Views: 1199
Wife Threatens Divorce Every Argument: My Wife Threatens To Leave Me And Go To Her Parents House Whenever We Have Arguments
I am now the father of two married sons.
Until last week, I was the father of one married son and one engaged son. Last weekend, the elder Marcus and his fiancée ... Views: 1199
Dominique Staruss-Kahn, the scandal-ridden former head of the International Monetary Fund (IMF) is entitled to the presumption of innocence until proven guilty. But, if he did try to rape the hotel maid in New-York in May 2011, his behavior would conform to the type of misconduct common among ... Views: 1198
Looking at domestic violence statistics can be quite disturbing. However, by doing so, it helps all of us understand the issue better and allows us to come up with solutions to abuse.
Any kind of violence between family members, spouses and partners is domestic violence. Domestic violence is ... Views: 1197
My Ex Wants To Be Friends but I Don't: I Don't Want To Be Friends with My Ex
Did your ex say to you "I think it is best if we stopped seeing each other but we can still be friends"? You are sure you want your ex back but at the same time, you are wondering "Should I still be friends with my ... Views: 1196
Who are Emotional Manipulators? They can be your sister, your brother, your mother, your father, your partner, your friend, your co-worker, your boss. The closer the relationship, the most powerful they are. However, they are NOT invincible. YOU ARE STRONGER. And I can tell you EXACTLY how you ... Views: 1195
Through a Simple Twist of Faith
Part two of a three-part article written by Randi G. Fine
Some who suffer adversity have had their lives negatively altered by an identifiable, pivotal event. Others gradually lose their foothold over a period of years. Though unaware that it was happening ... Views: 1195
I Haven't Heard From Him In 3 Weeks: Why Hasn't My Ex Tried To Contact Me
You are sure that you want your ex back and are ready to go all out to capture his interest again. Well - good for you! Here are some sizzling steps that will make him long to have you back. Follow them diligently and ... Views: 1193
Dear Dr. Romance,
I would like your advice in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been living together for a year and a half and known each other for 3 years. He calls me names and puts me down when i try to communicate with him and every time i want to break it off he tells me we should ... Views: 1192
When we talk about sexual abuse, we differentiate between intra-familial (from within the family) and extra-familial (from outside the family).
When from within, it teaches the target of abuse to not trust people who are closest to them. When from outside the family, it teaches the target of ... Views: 1192
Though the odds of it happening are very low, but a kidnapping is terrifying for everybody involved in it. Your child has been kidnapped. You’re scared, depressed, and confused. The kidnapper demands a ransom. What is your first step? Most parents are clueless. This article will tell you ... Views: 1191
Mark and Valerie had just left a movie. Hand in hand, they strolled toward their car and suddenly heard shouting and screaming. They stopped walking. The mall parking lot was well lit. They listened, scanned the area but did not see nor hear anyone.
As Mark opened the door to their car, ... Views: 1190
In my first marriage I was afraid of the man's words.
He told me that I was stupid, which I am not; he told me no one else would want me, which was a lie. He got in my face and screamed at me for everything. I was afraid that every hateful thing he'd ever said about me was true.
I was afraid ... Views: 1190
Dating Someone New But Miss My Ex: I Like Someone But I'm Not Over My Ex
Hurt and confusion have been your closest companions ever since your partner walked out on you. You are broken hearted and it seems to be the most painful experience you ever had to deal with in your life. You are ... Views: 1189
I believe that most of the violence in society comes from our aversion to our emotions. We fight the reality of what we feel because we don’t like the feeling. We try to make it go away by resisting what is. We battle with our feelings by drinking, running, eating, refusing to feel. When we have ... Views: 1189
This year, as every year, we choose days on which to celebrate the essence of life in its many forms. Valentine’s Day is no exception. But why stick to one day when love is the breath of life and can be celebrated every day?
What will you be doing this year to celebrate V Day? I want to ... Views: 1187
My Husband Has Changed Towards Me: My Husband Has Changed For Worst
Are you hanging on by a thread, at the moment, trying to figure out where it all went wrong? How are you supposed to know what to do when your marriage is falling apart and your entire world seems to be caving in around you. ... Views: 1187
I have started to help people become better, happier, and healthier in their lives.
I work one on one with them to help prevent suicide and be there for them.
I am opening up what I do with the world. For just $20 a week, I will work with you. You will learn and grow as I walk through ... Views: 1184
The pain that you feel when you see your ex-love after they have moved on is something that is hard to put into words.
Yet, many of us go through these emotions and though we think it is the end of the world, there comes a time when we realize that we just have to let go and move on.
Most ... Views: 1184
When we fall in love, it’s natural to become attached and form a romantic bond. But once in love with a narcissist, it’s not easy to leave, despite the abuse. Although you're unhappy, you may be ambivalent about leaving because you still love your partner, have young children, lack resources, ... Views: 1184
A voice within......we all have one - we just need to listen.
It's a parents dream to be a witness to their child's first words. There was a time when it was easy to speak my little words of expression from that point in my life and receive a smile from my mother. But, as time went on my ... Views: 1184
Cheated in the past? It's a real downer on even the "best" of relationships. Nothing kills trust faster for most men than finding out his girlfriend has been cheating on him.
Unfortunately, it's going to be a long rough and rockety ride to convince him that you're not going to cheat again. ... Views: 1183
Most of us were not taught how to conduct relationships effectively, harmoniously and happily. We learned in a haphazard way through the role modelling we experienced and as adults just do what we learned from our parents and other significant adults. If those relationships were unhappy and ... Views: 1183