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Most divorce agreements require that one divorced spouse, usually the one paying child support or alimony, maintain a certain amount of life insurance on themselves to protect the financial future of their ex should they die before their financial obligations terminate. But like many ... Views: 1515
There are some common mistakes couples make when asking for what they want in a relationship. Here are some things that may be keeping you from achieving success with your spouse. They are the most common mistakes you can make when trying to ask for what you want when you're struggling to make ... Views: 1514
Anger is a normal, healthy emotion, it’s perfectly healthy to feel angry when you’ve been mistreated or wronged by someone you love, but when it becomes consistent or explosive anger or spirals out of control, it can have serious consequences for your marriage, your health, and your state of ... Views: 1514
Do you ever feel frustrated when you try to communicate with your ex? Are you intimidated or frazzled every time you have to talk to his or her new spouse? How about your attorney, your landlord or your kids’ teachers?
Living a happy and sane life after divorce means learning the art of ... Views: 1514
Is the "what do I need to do to get my husband back" questions and answers leaving you with a bit of frustration?
There is no surprise if they are. The main reason why you would be feeling that way is because your mind is not in the right place! For any uf us to make up from any relationship ... Views: 1514
Husband Is Cold Unaffectionate: How To Make Him Fall In Love Again After He's Become Distant
Marriage problems can seem insurmountable when looked at from the wrong perspective. I realize you may have some serious marriage issues and I don't mean to insult you by asking you to look at your ... Views: 1513
When it comes to our emotions, there is nothing that can shatter them more than going through the divorce. We can even handle death more easily since it’s a natural process. Real emotional hell begins when you need to part with the living. This change in our lives can make even the strongest ... Views: 1513
When a couple decides their marriage is over, a tremendous sense of grief and relief are felt. A recently divorced person will feel grief over the loss of their marriage and the loss of their partner in life. But there is also a sense of relief that the pain and anguish is now over and their ... Views: 1512
Last Kiss: Tips for Divorce and Split Ups with Business Partners
Dr. LeslieBeth Wish, Ed.D.
When “Janelle Booker” divorced her husband Raymond of fifteen years, it made the front page of the society section of newspapers. Janelle and her husband were the socially prominent and successful ... Views: 1509
While a relationship can last a lifetime, there is also chance it will only last for short amount of time. It could also be said that there is a greater chance of one staying friends with someone for a lifetime than there is of them being in an intimate relationship with someone for the same ... Views: 1509
Can't Stand Sight of My Husband: I Can't Stand Living With My Husband
If I had to give one advice on marriage, it would be good communication.
There are a lot of married couples now who only get to have a meaningful conversation a few times in a month. Some have all the time to communicate ... Views: 1508
If the end of your marriage is imminent and you are planning on filing for divorce, you might have some important choices to make. Divorce is a daunting, lonely and misunderstood process for many people, particularly when there are kids involved. Your choices have legal, social and emotional ... Views: 1507
Signs Your Relationship Is Going To Fail!
The fact you’re reading this article right now is no coincidence. Your subconscious, Your Spirit, is trying to protect you from a future disaster. Before you say I do, before you move in, before you introduce this future mistake to your friends and ... Views: 1507
Your love for me has wilted away and died
My favorite flower is the rose.
Just looking at its beauty takes my breath away.
You have been my rose through all these years.
As often as possible I would bring you a rose to share your exceptional beauty with.
Soon we will part and the tradition ... Views: 1507
Divorce in many cases is becoming a fast route to poverty.
Not only does divorce often bring a severe heartbreak that can take a vast time to heal. Research shows that people are not healing from divorce.
> The 2nd marriage divorce rate is 53%
> 3rd marriage divorce rate is 72% and
> ... Views: 1506
4 Real Ways To Make It Work
Are you a stepparent? Are you struggling to make the right decisions for your newly created family? If so, here are four tips to help.
1. Give your blended family a chance to bond.
Don’t worry if everyone doesn’t settle in right away; bonding takes time. ... Views: 1502
With the relationship established by both parties, it has to be a zone where they can feel all the security and support. However, difficulties in relationship can shaken that safety and support you both have in the relationship.Actually, we did not even get the real catch of what the people and ... Views: 1500
Emotional Manipulation In Marriage: How To Deal With An Emotional Manipulator
Are you looking for Christian relationship help? Then here is a seven step plan for detaching from manipulative people.
People do all kinds of things to pressure us to do what they want us to do. It is up to us ... Views: 1499
It goes without saying that divorces are intricately complicated and intensely personal. They can be necessary or unwanted; devastating or invigorating. Regardless of the reasons why a couple elects to divorce, or the range of emotions it can produce, it’s a life changing experience that ... Views: 1499
Who’s not scared of love? I mean whether you are scared that it will or will not find you, that it will or will not last, that it can or cannot exist – in some theory we are each scared of love. Scared of getting our hearts broken – scared of taking a risk – scared of putting ourselves out ... Views: 1498
Marriage Problems Due To Stepchildren: Step Children Ruining My Marriage
Having a marriage with children from a previous marriage can be an added stress to the marriage.
Having a marriage with an extended family can also include nieces and nephews, or any child that is not biologically ... Views: 1498
In order to file for Dissolution of Marriage, Legal Separation or Nullity of Marriage you or your spouse need to be a resident of the county you are filing in. Being a resident generally means you are living in that county and intend to live in that county for the foreseeable future. There is ... Views: 1498
In just 11 days Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise reached a divorce settlement.
For most of us, the thought of reaching an agreement with our former spouse in just 11 days seems like a fantasy. How were they able to do it so quickly? From what I can tell there are two major factors that allowed the ... Views: 1498
You're divorced and ready to look for a new love. Here are three tips to help you as you search for a new partner in life.
1. Know the difference between fooling around and building a real relationship.
You can mess around with anyone (if you’re careful and have safe sex) but before you ... Views: 1495
Many divorces go along smoothly, but when problems occur, they usually reflect the dynamics that didn’t work in the marriage – only made worse, because divorce is one of the biggest crises you may go through. Emotions, especially fear and anger, are at their peak.There are definite pitfalls to ... Views: 1495
During the period of a peaceful divorce and emotional confusion, we sometimes say and write things to our partners that are offensive and inappropriate. Instead of clearly communicating our thoughts and calming down the situation, we respond with critical, judgmental words that inflame passions ... Views: 1495
My Husband Controls Everything: My Husband Controls Everything I Do - My Husband Controls My Life
She could not look people in the eye as they greeted her. Head down, shoulders slumped; she headed to the nearest open seat and quietly slid into it. Her husband was a study in contrast. ... Views: 1493
Stress and Conflict
Every machine has natural limitations, its individual capacity. When it is stretched beyond its capacity, it will be stressed. No machine exists that is a singularly whole unit, all machines are merely a sum of parts. And so we can more accurately say that the machine ... Views: 1493
Hell No I Don’t Want them Back, but I Lost Myself When We Broke Up!
by Aleasa M. Word
*****ANY REPRINTS OR USAGE OF THIS ARTICLE MUST NOTE THE AUTHOR******
I remember going through a break up and talking about my situation over and over to my intimate circle of people (sorry I wore your ... Views: 1493
I Have To Beg My Husband For Affection: Begging For Love And Attention
Sexless marriage woes do not automatically mean divorce.
Many marriages that become sexless, especially among mid-life partners, started out as good marriages, and they still are.
There is a great deal of new ... Views: 1492
We all know divorce can be extremely time--consuming, very expensive, and mentally and physically exhausting. But divorce can also be an amazing source of motivation an initiator for growth and a transition to a place of greater awareness. And sometimes this transition has to be expedited with ... Views: 1490
Divorce makes us reexamine the way we perceive a family. You have changed from a nuclear family with two parents to a one parent family. To begin this lesson I would like you to write in your journal about how you perceive parenting.
I think the most important thing in a parent-child ... Views: 1490
Kids of Separated Parents: The Annual Holiday Access Dispute
Forget about the last minute gift shopping. The real issue for separated parents this season is who gets what time with the kids. With divorce seemingly as popular as marriage, more and more kids will be subject to the annual access ... Views: 1489
Wife Says She Has Never Loved Me: Wife Said I Never Loved You
Knowing that your wife does not love you anymore is a horrible experience. Your heart sinks and you think it's the end of the world. You just need to know why she feels like this. Maybe it's you? Maybe they've found somebody else. ... Views: 1489
Holiday stress relief for those alone over the holidays: If you are single, divorced, widowed, or recently separated, it's not uncommon to feel unhappy or even depressed during the holiday season. With all the images of couples and families smiling at each other, it is easy to feel like you are ... Views: 1488
Transitions tend to be a time when we are very emotional. Part of the problem, then, is that we're not staying present if we're stuck in our emotional roller coaster. I hesitate to use the phrase "staying present" because it is so overused and people tend to glaze over when they hear that. But, ... Views: 1488
How Important Is It To Compliment Your Wife: How To Help Wife With Body Image Issues
In marriage, it takes two to make it work. One just doesn't have to rely on the other all the time. There has to be effort on both sides to nurture the marital bond and keep it strong moving forward. While ... Views: 1486
If you leave a wet towel on the bathroom floor, it could be somewhat irritating to the next person who uses the bathroom after you, but would anyone start a major fight over it?
Most definitely, according to research funded by the US government's health research arm and conducted in the ... Views: 1486
Wife Refuses Marriage Counseling: My Wife Says She Doesn't Love Me and Won't Go to Counseling
When a guy tells me "My wife says she doesn't love me and won't go to counseling", my first response is to tell him not to worry! The truth is that marriage counseling has an extremely low success ... Views: 1486
So, you have spent the past months, maybe even years going through a divorce. It has been a long, uphill battle, but you are finally at the top of the mountain. You are probably feeling an overwhelming mixture of emotions. You may be relieved, drained, excited, or unsure. But like with many ... Views: 1485
Infidelity is an unfortunate occurrence that strikes too many modern relationships. Cheating in any relationship can be devastating for both partners; both the person committing the infidelity and the person betrayed can be strongly affected by the after-effects of breaking the relationship’s ... Views: 1485
How To Stay Positive When Your Marriage Is Falling Apart: Positive Expectations Can Help Save Your Marriage From Divorce
What if your marriage was everything you wanted it to be? Have you considered what it might look like? You can not only save your marriage but rebuild a relationship that ... Views: 1485
Divorce brings out the lunatic within us. Rage, anger, depression, sadness, resentment and blame are just some of negative emotions running the show. Your emotional state is hard to pin down from one moment to the next. This is not the best state of mind to be in when you are being called ... Views: 1483
My Husband Picks On Everything I Do: How Often Does A Healthy Couple Fight
There is really no way around them. Disagreements are a normal part of the human condition. You can learn how to save your marriage from the unnecessary rifts that many of us experience if you set your mind on conflict ... Views: 1483
Lawyers are able to provide a number of legal services which will enable you to smoothly and efficiently resolve disputes. They will also be able to provide guidance regarding a number of legal matters. This article takes a look at some of the most common types of legal services that are ... Views: 1482
I Slapped My Husband And He Hit Me Back: He Hit Me For The First Time
If you do not show respect to your spouse, then better expect for argument. If you want to veer away from an unhappy marriage and you want to save your marriage alone, you can do so by giving proper respect to your better ... Views: 1481
There are 7 skills that a good lawyer must have:
1) Communication skills
Lawyers must be articulate with their words, possess the ability to write effectively, and be astute listeners. Speaking in front of audience is crucial to a lawyer’s job. Drafting documents that put the client in the ... Views: 1480
Sustaining intimacy and fulfillment in a romantic relationship can be challenging. Often couples find themselves lacking true connection with each other as the daily routine of their lives take over.
Intimacy is a creation that has to be cultivated and tended to. When we take time to ... Views: 1480
It is part of popular knowledge that in romantic relationships women want commitment from men, and at some point push, openly or subtly, for a marriage certificate. Men, on the other hand, are assumed to want to explore and experiment, but “cave in” to women’s pressures at some point or another ... Views: 1477
Do you find it takes time for your children to settle in when they come back from your Ex's place? If you're like me, sometimes I wonder what goes on there that means they have to change so much. I mean, they've only been away a weekend and yet it feels like I get completely different children ... Views: 1476