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It's a fact. There are a lot of people who feel unhappy in their marriage. But the real question many of them are asking themselves is, how do I know when my marriage is really over?
Is it when your spouse says, "I don't love you anymore?" Is it after an affair takes place? How do you REALLY ... Views: 81143
It is bad enough when a stranger or foe betrays you, but when it is someone you believed to be a close and trusted friend, partner, or spouse, it is especially hurtful. It might feel like you were taken advantage of, deceived, humiliated, despised, cheated, or stabbed in the back. Oftentimes ... Views: 62419
Rebound relationship is a common occurrence during a breakup. My clients usually get terribly anxious when they find out that their exes are dating again or entering a new relationship. They want to know how to stop this or how their exes can do this, what that means, etc. They ask, "Does it ... Views: 37326
There is no such thing as a broken heart-only a heart that is learning to love more and better.
Realizing that your heart isn't damaged is a relief. But when you're desperately trying to let go of a former mate, and you're in emotional agony, this bit of wisdom is cold comfort. Many say they ... Views: 35990
So you want to learn 5 text messages that you can send your ex boyfriend to get him to regret leaving you… and turn the tables completely.
The beauty of texting is that it doesn’t convey a lot of neediness… so if you play your cards right, you won’t look like a jealous or clingy (which is a ... Views: 32097
Are you a dumped girlfriend? What does it take to move on after a guy has broken up with you? Do you want to move on, but are paralyzed by sadness? Here is a dumped girlfriend guide to moving on.
While Still Mourning, Do Realize That You Can Still Seduce Your Ex Back. Here's How:
The ... Views: 27724
Do you know that you can come out of the pain, and suffering from divorce in just one day?
When you start taking control of your healing, by setting yourself a process for recovery, you will come out of the immobilizing pain immediately.
Complete emotional healing takes a series of steps, ... Views: 27707
When making a divorce decision, there are quite a few things that you should consider. Too often people find themselves unable to clearly identify what they need to think about when making a divorce decision which leads to further indecision and frustration. When making a serious divorce ... Views: 22847
You've lost your Aquarius man. It's come as an enormous emotional blow to you. You loved him and imagined a future filled with wonderfully, fulfilling moments with him. Although many people will tell you that the best thing you can do is to pick yourself up and move on, that may not be possible. ... Views: 20000
Being in a loveless marriage is a frustrating predicament, but it may not necessarily mean that a divorce is eminent.
Solving the quandary of a loveless marriage requires self-reflection to assess the situation, courage to try to create a team effort for the best decision with your spouse, and ... Views: 19026
Sometimes a relationship ends and for whatever reason one person is not able to let it go. They want to be back with the person that they were in the relationship with. They may have feelings that they cannot let go of. Or perhaps they have realized that the relationship ending was not the right ... Views: 18502
Divorce is probably one of the hardest and most difficult situations anyone has to go through. While it would be somewhat unfair to say that women get the upper hand in terms of surviving divorce because of the numerous resources and documented pieces of advice that they are able to utilize, ... Views: 18273
Few things are as painful and depressing as hearing that your ex has already moved on and found someone new. This scenario is especially difficult if you're trying to repair your relationship and get back together with your ex. It can feel like someone stabbing you in the heart, and you may ... Views: 18181
How to Control Your Husband Without Him Knowing: How to Keep My Husband in My Control
Being married is a wonderful feeling but it comes with a lot of responsibility. Here are some ways to make sure that your man stays in control and never wavers to create any difficulties for you.
If you ... Views: 17768
Each of us is exposed to and bombarded by – on a daily basis – an evil that is extremely enticing and appealing, so selfishly gratifying (temporarily), so unavoidably addictive, and so incredibly damaging to our thoughts, lives, families, and society. It is a plague and modern day slavery that ... Views: 17239
You probably never meant for it to happen. It’s not as if you went looking for a lover.
However, once you fell in love with another person than your spouse, things got rather intense. You’re already in what some refer to as an emotional affair. Perhaps you’ve gone further and the relationship ... Views: 16920
If you are a single woman over 30 and are actively dating, likelihood is you'll find many divorced men -recent or not- as your potential suitors. You -and your ex that you are not over with- are even perhaps on a rebound yourself! We all go through transitional relationships at one point or ... Views: 16445
"My wife wants divorce, and I don't...I still have no idea why. I have no idea how I can get my wife back...What should I do?"
If your wife has told you that she wants a divorce, but you still don't really understand why or you're totally lost as to what you can do about it, then this article ... Views: 16264
Maybe you’ve tried every strategy that you can think of to lure your ex boyfriend back into your arms and back into your life but it just doesn’t seem to be working. You have tried playing hard to get; you’ve tried obsessing over what he’s doing and calling every hour; you’ve showed up ... Views: 16218
Anger has turned into an epidemic in our world today. It is crucial to take a step back and realize the enormity of the danger we are facing, not only from external expressions of anger, but from the anger we each carry within. The time has come to face the truth about anger, learn what it truly ... Views: 15990
Wow, what a punch in the stomach. You were just dumped. It can be a shock, even if all the signs were there. Now comes the hard part, what to do next? If you've just said 'my boyfriend left me, what should I do now?" the answer might not be what you expected!
As humans it is our nature, ... Views: 15779
if you've spent any time researching how to win back your ex girlfriend, you've probably come across a number of articles and relationship experts who argue that you shouldn't contact your ex for a certain period of time after breaking up (usually 3-5 weeks). That's great advice, and should be ... Views: 14741
Men are biologically different to women, and yet so many women seem to have no idea why their partners act the way they do. The very biological differences that draw so many people together are also sometimes the very things that can drive them apart.
Biologically, men have almost the ... Views: 14441
The most frequently asked questions after a divorce is "How Do I Make My Husband Want to Come Back?” The sad truth is that a lot of divorce occurs for the reason that one person gives up hope and doesn't believe things are going to work out. The other person is left feeling depressed, sad, alone ... Views: 14426
Eliminate the Mind Games
Stop the “What if” game and start focusing on “What can be.”
The longer you wait, the less of a chance you have to reconnect with your ex. You rowed
the same boat in life for so long, but when the waters got choppy, one of you went
overboard. If you wait for ... Views: 14168
Have you had a relationship with a man that has unfortunately always been on the on-and-off track? Wanting him back is a completely normal reaction to a breakup, regardless of whether the feelings come right away, or over time. Here are some proactive tips for turning your ex to be in love with ... Views: 13577
Women who believe a divorce is a possibility or who think that their husband will be asking about getting a divorce at some point should put their emotions aside and plan "just in case" their intuition is correct that a divorce may be coming in the near future. If women who believe that the ... Views: 13169
The question you’re wishing you had an answer to is, “how can I make him realize what he lost?” It’s understandable given the circumstances that you’ve been forced to deal with. You were dumped by a man you utterly adored. You know, deep within your heart, that you’re the perfect woman for him. ... Views: 13149
One of my best male friends was looking for me on IM feeling totally desperate because his wife was seriously talking about divorce now. They have been on that route before but this time she was totally serious. They have been having a rocky marriage as long as I can remember.
So I went ... Views: 13011
Going through a divorce is probably one of the most gut-wrenching experiences a person can go through. This article focuses on strategies that should ease some of the pain, and should make it possible to see that there is light at the end of the tunnel!
One of the hardest realizations that ... Views: 12900
My Wife Loves Me but Doesn't Desire Me: Wife Not Interested In Intimacy
Relative to having a sexual relationship, there is a certain dynamic that men absolutely must understand and it is this: "A woman's interest in sex and desire for sex (or the lack thereof) with a given man is a REACTION ... Views: 12709
Repeats are nice if you are the Los Angeles Lakers or Lance Armstrong, but when it comes to unhealthy relationships, forget it. Nobody wants to repeat the same mistakes over and over. However, when it comes to relationships, far too many people marry for the second or third or fourth time and ... Views: 12682
All relationships have their ups and downs, and there are always times that things will seem very bleak.
But somehow, at least so far, you've always managed to get her back. But now you're afraid that this time will be different, that somehow your relationship is so damaged that there is a ... Views: 12471
We all are aware that in India horoscope matching is an essential process during marriage between the boy and the girl. Most of the astrologers or pundits would match the kundali or Horoscope based on Guna Milan. Under this Milan there are many parameters which are to be studied in depth before ... Views: 12399
I've received so many requests for advice from women who are desperate because their men either broke up with them or became more and more distant and less willing to keep in touch or show affection.
I can relate to that. I have had my share of similar experience in my 20's when a man whom I ... Views: 12367
Everyone knows breaking up is hard to do. But staying in contact with your ex following a breakup? That's where things get really tricky. By remaining in each other's lives, you run the risk of a post-breakup rendezvous, holding onto feelings for your ex, and in general delaying your ability to ... Views: 12356
I know, you just want to get him back. It seems like it should be simple enough. After all, you won his heart over once before; why not just do it again? Well, the problem is that the first time around you were entering new territory with a clean slate. You had the thrill and excitement of ... Views: 12127
If you've recently discovered that your worst nightmare has come true - that the absolute most painful thing that can happen in a marriage has just happened - then you must have just found out about your wife's affair. The emotions and thoughts inside of you are threatening to rip their way out ... Views: 12024
As ‘sleazy’ as it may sound, jealousy is one of the fastest and most effective ways to influence how your ex girlfriend is feeling after breaking up. When you make your ex jealous, you skip straight past her rational thought processes and into her deeper emotions.
In some cases, making her ... Views: 11453
To lose your partner is always painful. It is a heartache, any way you look at it. It hurts. Your body aches and your broken heart feels like it is going to explode. You are face to face with the most important relationship decision in your life.
The choice you make at this moment ... Views: 11403
I Don't Like My Wife Anymore: I Can't Stand My Wife Anymore
I don't like my wife. It's painful to say that, isn't it? The woman you were once crazy about is now someone you find unappealing. There are endless reasons why relationships end up in a place like this. If you're a man experiencing ... Views: 11340
So, your husband wants a divorce and you don't. How do you win your husband's love back, so you can stop the divorce from ever happening and save your marriage? I know how much it hurts to be in this situation. Stop panicking and read through the article!
I know the first thing you thought of ... Views: 11175
Are you in a marriage where things have gotten a little wacky, and your wife has changed and isn't showing affection anymore like she used to?
If so don't panic. Though this could mean many things it doesn't necessarily mean that it's not something that can be fixed.
This article will show ... Views: 11131
Have you ever been emotionally triggered and hijacked by something your ex said or did? Have you ever been emotionally triggered and hijacked by something your ex didn't say or do? When you're "plugged in" to the actions of someone else, you typically have a strong emotional reaction. You know ... Views: 10899
My male best friend from my home country recently, in a state of panic, IMed me, "Where are you? I need to talk. It's really urgent." When we finally talked he was shaking in anguish: he found out his wife was cheating on him with the next-door neighbor and the guy's wife informed him at 3 am a ... Views: 10839
When an individual suffers from depression, feelings of isolation and a general sense of unworthiness can infiltrate their thoughts, making relationships difficult to manage. Relationships are put to the test and sometimes unravelled when depression takes hold.
Depression Wears a ... Views: 10771
For many people, a trial separation means the end of your marriage. For others, it means a new beginning for their marriage. Marriage separation gives couples a chance to evaluate what they want out of their life and how their spouse fits in. If you and your spouse are temporarily separated to ... Views: 10680
My Wife Complains About Everything: How To Stop My Wife From Always Complaining
Have you nearly had it with your marriage because you're saying my wife complains about everything?
If your wife is complaining about everything then I know how frustrating that can be.
It sounds like ... Views: 10613
One question I’m repeatedly asked by women on my blog is, “should I tell my ex boyfriend I’m doing no contact or not?” It’s a legitimate question and if you’re unsure you should always double check either by searching for some information online or asking someone with a bit more insight. Here’s ... Views: 10611
You've broken off for reasons best known to you, but you know the guy and what his likes, dislikes or preferences are. So if you want him back you'll know how to go about it even better this time than you did the first, so go along with these ideas and impress him back.
Smarten up
To ... Views: 10551