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There have been many times in my life that I have operated from the belief that no matter what it was I wanted to do or put out into the world, it had to be perfect before I could ever share it. I wasn’t going to launch my website, write any articles or hold a teleseminar until I was already ... Views: 2459
Don’t hunt me down and shoot me, but I see 9/11 as a blessing in disguise. It helped us to remember our capacity for great things as humans. The loss, fear and anger we felt that day gave rise to something greater – compassion and community.
I lived in Manhattan at the time and was asleep when ... Views: 2456
That’s always been an interesting question, especially since the one asking is portrayed as an evil, mean quuen (Snow White’s step mother.) It represents ego and our obsession with how we look and the superficiality that comes from wanting to be pleasing to others’ eyes.
But what if this was ... Views: 2455
______THE SCIENCE BEHIND SHOELACE TYING
Almost always, you put on either your right shoe initially or your left shoe. Usually, you tie your shoes by either passing the right-hand lace around back of the left-hand lace, or vice versa. Tomorrow morning decide which shoe you put on first and ... Views: 2454
So, your 30th birthday has come and gone and you are trying to define for yourself what it means to be a single woman who doesn't have children. Sound familiar? If so, you are probably already aware of how society can, at times, make you believe that something is missing from your life if you do ... Views: 2449
We begin this lesson with a very simple question. What does being successful mean to you? For some, it may be that they woke up with the privilege to begin a new day. For others, it could be that they got a raise at work, were recognized for doing something good in the world, or perhaps they ... Views: 2449
Over five weeks ago I was approached by one of my patients on the unit who let me know that he hated his life. He talked about the various experiences he had and he was concerned that a short stay in rehab wouldn’t offer him the opportunity to find any kind of comfort or relief. I suggested that ... Views: 2448
Why more or free access to medical care, better insurance, and subsidized meds is not the answer to your health:
There is a prevailing belief that modernity translates into better health. A corollary of this logic is that we can live our lives pretty much as we want because we can always buy ... Views: 2446
I wish someone had told me this when I was in my 20s: Don’t grow old, just grow. But whatever age you currently are – there is still time to just grow.
SEEING INTO THE FUTURE
As you get older you won’t look the same. In fact, if you look at your parents and grandparents you will know in ... Views: 2445
On a wintry morning, shoppers scuffled through the streets of New York, wining in and out of crowds. Amid the crowd was a young woman walking along the shops with a slight frown. She looked at the toys displayed in the windows, but quickly turned away with a sigh. She just did not have the money ... Views: 2442
To some, it may have seemed to just be a conversation about a really cute orange or red or pink teddy bear. Oops, I sound like a dude – okay I’ll go with coral. Honestly, the bear was so striking that it was the thing I first noticed about the guy in the lobby of the military base store who ... Views: 2439
There are many life quotes and love quotes that can give us inspiration to live life feeling alive and loved by the Universe. Those quotes and sayings are worth keeping in our heart at all times. A positive heart will definitely bring positive outcomes in the external world too.
Booker ... Views: 2437
The interesting thing about being the only black man, and black person, in an office is that I have this unique opportunity to educate white people about black culture.
For me, and many black men in my position, we find that once the initial barrier of resistance is overcome and a right of ... Views: 2437
Quotes are famous around the world. They are printed on newspapers and used in speech throughout the ages. The are different type of quotes and the most common are love quotes and life quotes. One of my favorite arrived from Satchel Paige: Don't pray when it rains if you don't pray when the sun ... Views: 2435
I am wondering if nature has something to teach us about what it means to be female. One of the most fascinating aspects of the natural world is the manner in which males earn the right to mate with females. Whether it’s a battle of strength or intelligence, only the best male wins the ... Views: 2435
Silent communication affects a relationship with the suddenness of a lightning bolt, the drip, drip, drip of a leaky faucet, or the enduring radiance of a diamond. Look at the examples below, and you’ll see what I mean.
A man slowly moves to one knee, reaches into his pocket, and retrieves a ... Views: 2434
Life requires love. Without love, there is no life in living. To be alive is different than just living. Everyone lives but not everyone becomes alive. To be alive, we must have love in our life. If we miss love, we miss the true essence of being alive. So how to make sure we live to the full? ... Views: 2433
Metaphysical teaching through the ages has proposed that fostering a certain mentality will connect us to the esoteric and the supernatural. Meditation, positive affirmations, focused breath and movement, are all spiritual practices which guide one to develop a sense of inner connection to the ... Views: 2429
The industrialized nations are home to societies of doers. Our educational systems ingrain the need to think, complete and meet deadlines. Our childhood life seldom offers or encourages us to simply be. I know that in my childhood it was very dangerous to be seen playing or doing anything that ... Views: 2428
Achieving and sustaining a healthy and high quality of life has parallels to the requirements of building a growing and profitable business. Both involve facing daily obstacles and deterrents, and both require the support of great people to encourage you to stay on track.
Anytime Fitness ... Views: 2428
What’s the best way to define your life purpose? Your purpose is unique, is your definition of how to define your Life Purpose, different from others?
I was in conversation on Skype with a dear friend last week, who said she had done some guided meditation to get clarity on her life purpose, ... Views: 2428
The end of official summer has begun. Days are longer and it’s warmer, often, even though there is a cold day now and then to keep us on our toes. All and all, however, the days are warmer and brighter, and the skies are bluer. We look forward toward the summer-time and summer vacation. For ... Views: 2425
Change…difficult or at least a little scary at any age but for the midlife woman this time in our lives can be very unsettling. The truth is by the time we reach this part of our lives we have become so accustomed to living for other people’s benefit that it can be downright disquieting when ... Views: 2424
Alcoholism - To Sobriety - To Business Success - My Story
I am a true believer that alcoholism is a disease and, unfortunately that disease was bestowed upon me. I started KAS Placement when I was 23 years old (I am 28 now) and began making a lot of money for somebody my age. I would spend it ... Views: 2422
One of the most frequent questions I get from my more spiritual clients is, “How can I reach my highest potential?”
Not surprisingly, your lifestyle habits and preferences contribute substantially to whether or not you ever reach your highest potential. To do so, you must be in peak physical, ... Views: 2418
How flexible are you? For me, it depends - on my mood, how much fear or resistance I have about something, how attached I am to a particular outcome, and various other factors.
However, as I look throughout my life (now and in the past), I realize that the situations, relationships, and ... Views: 2416
From the very beginning, baby boomers were set up to fail at the retirement game. Our shear numbers made it difficult for institutions, social security and employers to put enough away for us to retire. We bought into the myth of retirement. But, just because life hasn’t worked out exactly as ... Views: 2416
Depression & Isolation
by Nancy M. Turcich, NTS, RPP, RPE
I’m not sure what comes first, isolation or depression. I do know the two are twins, perhaps fraternal twins since they are not identical. However, isolation and depression share a common ground... separation. People ... Views: 2413
Happiness is the direct result of a choice. An agreement, between you and you. If you aren’t happy now, it’s because you have not made this choice, this agreement with yourself.
The question is, “Why not?”
Many people simply do not understand this basic rule of life. Apparently, nobody told ... Views: 2412
Elvis Presley: A Short Bio
Although that is a question that need not be asked because Elvis Presley is still a part of modern pop-culture, Elvis Presley was the king of rock and roll music and was the man behind the creation of that revolutionary genre of music. He is regarded as one of the ... Views: 2409
A few weeks ago while I was on a run, the saying "keep your head in the clouds and your feet on the ground" popped into my head. I'm not sure why I thought of this, but once I did I couldn't get it out of my mind. And while I've heard this saying many times (and actually have always thought it ... Views: 2409
We are all connected and all part of the universe and the Kingdom of God. We create our reality and bring about our good fortune by the way we respond and naturally affect the responses of others. In fact, we are all basically seeking to return to the realization of who we are, a magnificent ... Views: 2409
I have no idea exactly how many personal development, self improvement or so-called self help books were sold over the last year – but I do know that it is one of the fastest areas of growth in the publishing world with millions of books being sold every year. I also know that these self help ... Views: 2404
Hero of Middle East ‘Muammar Gaddafi's’ Death?
After almost 41 one years in the land of almighty Lord as a ‘Leader’ of the own country, second to non in the nation to rule as a ‘LIBYA’ in the Middle East the Prime Minister of Libya, ‘Muammar Gaddafi’ died, ... Views: 2402
I admire women who return to school in midlife. Mothers, wives and business women who volunteer and care for their elderly parents, their days are already filled to capacity, their lives overflowing with responsibilities. Yet they seek out the best colleges with the most stringent requirements ... Views: 2401
Designing a passionate life becomes a process of self reflection. In order to get to where you want to go, it is helpful to reflect on the past, learn from it, and appreciate the richness of mundane tasks. I did this in a recent writing class that I took and found the experience absolutely ... Views: 2396
The Role of the Singer in the World
May 8th, 2011
I was involved in a project with about 5000 others online a couple of years ago now.
We were each discovering things about ourselves and seeking ways to have an impact on the world we live in. What I learned about my self and my motivation ... Views: 2396
There are times in life when we really can’t pinpoint what is wrong but we have a feeling that things just aren’t right. During these times we may feel uneasy. During these times we may feel a little stressed. During these times we may get angry quick. During these times we may not be able to ... Views: 2393
Outside at night, the chirping of crickets can sound like a harmonic symphony. But inside the house, that harmony can turn to dissonance -- because the sound means you have an infestation of crickets.
Problems Caused by Having Crickets in the House
Having a couple of crickets in your home ... Views: 2392
I lost my blog this morning. And then I lost my mind.
It all started when I decided to delete one of my two Google accounts. I didn't recall setting up the second one and never used it. So, I click-click-clicked and deleted it, confident that my other account was safe and sound. But when I ... Views: 2390
To make it simple and straightforward, "Google Trends" is a form of data collected by Google itself is made available. These data represent the most searched topics on the Internet in a given period. Google Trends has been used in many ways by a number of website owners to increase their website ... Views: 2387
Intuition -- Survival Signals
Intuition: direct perception of truth, fact, independent of any reasoning process; or immediate apprehension, a keen quick insight.
In our western society intuition has many times gotten a bad rap. Talked about in a negative way mainly referring to "women's ... Views: 2386
"Yossi Ghinsberg was lost in the Amazon for 20 days and learned many lessons about our inherent ability to survive and tap into our true instinctual selves."
While in Puerto Rico, my wife Michelle and I had the privilege of seeing Yossi Ghinsberg. We'd never heard of Yossi before, but we ... Views: 2386
We all had dreams as a child, or something we just loved to do. Some of those we remember, and others have been lost to the ages. The ones we seem to have lost, are really only a flash back away. We need only dust off the mirror and look into our past, to recall those thoughts we had, to ... Views: 2385
So many of us rush around stuffing our feeling and emotions deeper and deeper down inside of us. We refuse to let them out. We may subconsciously remember childhood programs we picked up like… “stop crying or I’ll give you something to cry about”, or someone calling you a “cry baby”, or ... Views: 2385
Life is simple….just ask a fish. This morning I looked in the fish bowl on my desk as Johnny Rocket, a.k.a. “Rocket”, my vibrant blue Betta fish, stared back at me. At this moment I realized that we all could benefit from a gentle reminder of the basics – a place we may have forgotten or ... Views: 2385
http://dictionary.reference.com/ defines RESPECT in 19 different ways. However, for the purpose of this article, we are going to focus on just 3 -
3.
esteem for or a sense of the worth or excellence of a person, a personal quality or ability, or something considered as a manifestation of a ... Views: 2383
There is famous saying that motivation does not last. However, if we keep the motivational quotes in our heart, we can ensure that we are continuously motivated to fulfill our purpose. Quotes can also be pasted on the walls or places like the mirror which we look at every morning. If we ... Views: 2380
We’re in our eighth great year living in the French Alps. When we upped and left Ireland in 2002, many friends and clients remarked that we were taking a courageous decision – after all, our children were thirteen, eleven and eight years old at the time and were establishing their own little ... Views: 2380
Where do you think you are when it comes to the success you have had so far? Your life is a multitude of chances for change and positive progression. It is never over; never to a point where a thought or deed will not make a difference. It is part of the overall master plan; one which allows all ... Views: 2380