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I once heard a comment passed between friends ‘Just wait till you have kids of your own and you’ll be moaning about your husband like the rest of us.”
Although the comment was said in jest, I was still a little surprised at it and wondered when we’d gotten so passive about our lives. ... Views: 1352
These days job dissatisfaction is one of the most common problems among people.
Many people are either dissatisfied with their jobs, hate the tasks they do or even find it boring.
Just ask 10 people on a Sunday night how they feel and you will discover that the majority of them are feeling ... Views: 1305
Gratitude, by Doug Grady
Recently I went on my second trip to Wellington, AL. My church organized the trip to help out those whose lives were devastated by the storms that ravaged the southeast earlier this year. It is unlikely it would have been on my radar without my first ever mission ... Views: 1318
Its always better to know in advance what you can expect from a career in SEO.The demand for SEO experts has been on a steady rise in recent years and this is partly due to the increase in the number of online businesses. Once SEO was not a separate profession – Web masters performed some basic ... Views: 1131
For steps seven through nine we begin to clean up the garbage we left behind us during our addict days. Let's just say there's a lot of cleaning up to do and this process is one that needs to be repeated many times through your working the steps. As you approach these steps the first time, be ... Views: 1505
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, is that one size does not fit all, and I don’t mean clothes-wise, I mean, people-wise. We get into new relationships with certain expectations, only to be disappointed (some times.) - Why? Because ONE size doesn’t fit all. Not one person fulfills all your ... Views: 894
Who’s Running Who?
“Whenever I climb I am followed by a Dog called ‘Ego’ -Friedrich Nietzche
Learning how-to love and accept ourselves at any given time is a never ending course in self-mastery. With the ever looming super-ego spouting out more than 3000 adverts filled with subconscious ... Views: 1195
As long as you keep nourishing the cause of your frustration and you persist in doing nothing about the cure, you will live a very normal, basic life in which you never get to realize your potential or live a complete and satisfying life. You must stop cursing the effect of your unhappiness and ... Views: 1977
I usually look back when my birthday happens and tell you what I've learned that previous year and the character strengths they have created. This year isn't any different and I hope you enjoy this year's list of strengths I've experienced.
I have learned that no matter what odds seem to be ... Views: 1516
Get your hands in the air…The Weekend is Here!! If you don’t know how much I LOVE weekends then you don’t know me…AT ALL. Weekends are my time to recharge the batteries, annoy my the family and get intimate with my creative side.
Now, I typically don’t recommend working on the weekends. ... Views: 1706
Self Acceptance is one of the most important life skills a person should be capable of.
However most people fail to accept themselves the right way because there is a very fine line between self acceptance and self deception.
Some people get self acceptance wrong by believing that it’s a ... Views: 1863
As organizations demand more and more from their people these days, time-pressed employees have to scramble to keep up. You may not be able to make the day any longer, but you can take steps to replenish your energy. Often, employees think that making it through the day using effective time ... Views: 1274
A worldwide epidemic is spreading at breakneck speed! There are fears that billions of individuals are infected with in the next 10 years.
Here are the main symptoms of this viral disease:
1 - The tendency to let themselves be guided by their own intuition rather than by fear, forced ideas ... Views: 1307
Opening up to the possibilities in life is important. If we feel hopeless and challenged too often, we lose the purpose in our life. We stop seeing what could be, and instead see the end of things. Letting go of this viewpoint in life enables you to see life as it really is for you. If we ... Views: 4998
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As you could nicely presently know, some PvP game fanatics obtained completly screwed last Tuesday. We do article a exceptional article covering the situation on how Blizzard punked some PvP players. Blizzard has ... Views: 836
A golfer told me the other day that his problem was that as soon as he hits one bad shot he finds that he just can't stop thinking about it. It then ruins his entire round. There are a lot of golfers who will identify with this feeling and share a similar reaction. I can't help wondering why ... Views: 1076
Next week is Thanksgiving. Many of us will have the opportunity to dine with family and friends for a special once-a-year meal. Many look forward to this event with anticipation – some with dread. And I confess, in my life I have approached this holiday with both mindsets.
I have seen the ... Views: 1702
For some of us, we don’t always see positivity for what it is.
It is not that unusual to find that those who live their lives in a positive way, express positive mantras and are regarded as positive role models, will often attract hostility, jealousy, suspicion and other negative ... Views: 1743
When it comes to looking after your home it can be much easier to justify spending money to repair, replace, or purchase things that continue to make it a comfortable place to live in. It makes sense to look after your home, after all – it’s where you live, sleep, most often eat, and entertain ... Views: 1102
1. Work on figuring out your unproductive and destructive habits and replace them with good, healthy habits. One of my favorite quotes is by Charles Noble and he says, “First we make our habits, then our habits make us.” So if you allow a bad habit to continue it will start to define you in a ... Views: 1372
Winners Give Up Burying Their Heads in the Sand!
According to the phrase-finder website, this originated from an alleged habit of ostriches during the threat of an attack. The story was first recorded by the Roman writer Pliny the Elder, who suggested that ostriches hide their heads in ... Views: 1903
Possibly the greatest obstacle we face in achieving success in anything is our own "negative thinking!" Self-sabotage has stopped more people from living a life filled with passion. We ask ourselves to many questions in the wrong context. You never know how really good you are until you step out ... Views: 1600
Are you planning to stage an event in your society? It could be grand or small depending on the budget and other factors. The first thing you need to do is to find out the most appropriate outdoor stage for your event. Choosing the right stage for your event can be a daunting task and the bigger ... Views: 761
Are you traveling through life or are you on a journey? Are you looking forward or at the past? Your answers reveal a lot about the direction you’re going in and what kind of experiences you’ll have.
Maybe you can relate… It was a major life change for me to move from New York City to my ... Views: 1727
This is a well-proven fact that your success is dependent on your attitude. People having similar social and educational background attain contrasting level of achievements. So much so that siblings who get almost same type of social exposures and similar genetics achieve different level of ... Views: 6669
The one new certainty you have in your life in these fast moving and evolving times; is CHANGE. Whether by choice or by circumstance, any change you experience thrusts you out of your comfort zone and into a world of the unknown. We must learn to accept and embrace change in our own lives and ... Views: 1445
The one new certainty you have in your life in these fast moving and evolving times; is CHANGE. Whether by choice or by circumstance, any change you experience thrusts you out of your comfort zone and into a world of the unknown. We must learn to accept and embrace change in our own lives and ... Views: 2741
I have a confession to make. I love Harry Potter. I’ve read all of the books and watched all the movies. However, while sitting through the Deathly Hallows Part II, I noticed something disturbing regarding the aging process.
It wasn’t the final scene where the Gryffindor trio of Harry, Ron and ... Views: 1840
On Monday morning Sam went to a job interview hoping that he would get that job he was after. When Sam first stepped inside the building he started feeling afraid. As time passed and as his turn approached Sam became more and more fearful until they called out his name.
Sam went inside the ... Views: 1564
I need to tell you something. I hope you don’t mind. You see, what I have to tell you might not be something you want to know. But here goes, “You are not always right.” This is my polite way of telling you that sometimes you are wrong.
It’s OK. Believe it or not, we all are wrong about ... Views: 1272
I recently learned about a young Korean boy who found his way to Korea’s Got Talent. He’d been on his own since he was 5, sleeping in public restrooms, selling gum and candy on the side of the road to get by.
But he was inspired one day by a singer in a nightclub whom he said sang so ... Views: 1215
By Linney Elder
Your worth is not determined by how clever you are, how much money you have, how physically beautiful you are, or how famous you might be. Neither is self-worth the same as self-esteem, which is more an indication of how you “feel” about yourself, for example do you feel ... Views: 2968
There are so many self-help books on gaining wealth; some give you mental techniques, some give you practical skills. The biggest secret to wealth is that it starts from the inside. You can learn how to make all kinds of money, find killer investments, have multiple streams of income, but if ... Views: 1468
I grew up as an activist, always fighting to protect those I felt were being treated unfairly, fighting unjust political wars, racism, unjust rules and authority. I'm glad that I was awake and aware enough to take this path, although, I am ready to adjust this fighting nature.
I once ... Views: 1347
By Linney Elder
What are negative judgements?
Negative judgements are generally based on our personal beliefs and perceptions about a person or situation.
When the judgements are directed at ourselves, it’s those unwanted thoughts that creep in hinting at how unworthy we are, how ... Views: 5097
I'm sometimes amazed and embarrassed by how critical I can be - both of other people and of myself. Even though I both teach and practice the power of appreciation (as well as acceptance, compassion, and more) when I find myself feeling scared, threatened, or insecure (which happens more often ... Views: 1597
In a recent session I conducted with performers on what they wanted out of their performances, I found that many of the performers in the group were big believers in the Perfectionists’ Creed:
Perfectionists’ Creed: “If I try hard enough and I am very careful and I follow all of the ... Views: 4032
If negative things keep repeatedly happening in your life, you need to work at creating positive energy and I promise you, this is not only possible, but necessary.
I have a close friend who is a bouncing bean of positive energy. Luke is somebody who Nature did not endow with good looks, ... Views: 2004
To achieve success requires a number of personal qualities.
PerseverenceTalent, hard work, dedication, commitment, focus- these are all things that you need to experience the sweet taste of success.
But if there’s one necessary quality that over rides all the rest then without hesitation I ... Views: 1607
When I meet my clients for the first time, the majority of people actually know deep down what they SHOULD be doing, but they are not moving forward due to fear of what COULD happen. We often fear the worst if we change a habit or behavour fearing that other people won't like it or that we ... Views: 1409
There are numerous possibilities available, for you to become the best possible version of your unique self. Accept that there is only one version of you on this planet; no one else has your unique mind, life experience, character, attitude and exactly the same philosophy as you. This ... Views: 2464
The Importance of Reflection
Reflection is an important process that successful leaders and achievers have used to learn from the past. Reflection is a way of making learning conscious, to get to the heart of the matter, the core, the absolute truth.
What is reflection? It is more than ... Views: 1100
Time To Turn Those “What If’s” Around In Your Favor
So many people get anxious, get worried, get stressed and let the thoughts of ‘What If’ start running through their head. Even with me just saying that, I’m sure almost everyone reading this immediately thought of the term ‘What If’ in ... Views: 892
Great inspirational quotes about life, achievement, conquest and success have been something that I’ve used to comfort, inspire and motivate me throughout my adult life.
Any time I’d be feeling down, overwhelmed, worried or stressed then reading some inspirational quotes would always lift the ... Views: 970
In the interest of complete transparency, I want to be absolutely clear about my intention in writing this article: My aim is to hit you hard and repeatedly with the 'yes' hammer until it's permanently embossed on your head and in your mind. My hope is that you re-wire your knee-jerk reaction ... Views: 1359
Smiling is a great stress buster and it can also change the environment around you. I have noticed the power of a smile when visiting workplaces for consulting or training projects. When the team is in their “serious mode”, it is obvious through their facial expressions (or lack of expression) ... Views: 2253
We will all eventually die. The real tragedy is failing to fully live. Too many people are having "near-life experiences."
• "How many people work for your company?" "Oh, about half."
• "I think you're confusing me with someone who cares."
• "The most dangerous place in this organization is ... Views: 882
I had a round of golf with a couple of girls the other day and ended up coming off the course chuckling to myself over our focus upon the optimal hip turn and weight transference through the swing. All three of us had individually been paying extra attention to this important part of the golf ... Views: 1118
When you are learning Arabic language, it is very necessary for you to have many language skills in some Arabic dialect. The same as other languages, Arabic language also has many different dialects which are spoken in different areas. For many English speakers, they often want to know how to ... Views: 1776
I recently had to take my princess to get a piece of clothing for home coming since my wife had an event out of town. Being a well trained male shopper, I set up shop in the food court until she was finished.
There was this mother and her children paying for their goods. Of the three ... Views: 1059