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- Self-Destructive: Can Someone Sabotage Their Life If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may find is that just about whenever they take a step forward, they soon end up taking a step back. There can also be times when they end up taking more than one step back. Thanks to this, they could be extremely frustrated and angry about not being able to move forward in life. ...
Views: 207 - What to Expect at an Insomnia Treatment Clinic near New Mexico - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2024 from Chiranjit RoyIf you are struggling with insomnia in New Mexico, seeking help from an insomnia treatment clinic could be the key to getting a good night's sleep. These clinics specialize in diagnosing and treating sleep disorders, including insomnia. When you arrive at the clinic, you can expect to undergo a ...
Views: 312(1 vote) - The Truth Behind Austells Methadone Outpatient Program Revealed - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2024 from Chiranjit RoyRecently, the truth behind Austell's methadone outpatient program has been revealed, shedding light on the problematic aspects of the program. While the program was created with good intentions to help individuals struggling with addiction, it has been found that the program lacks proper ...
Views: 302(1 vote) - It’s All In The Mind: Manifestation - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2025 from Paul JenkinThere’s a new buzzword that has grown in popularity all over social media, and that is – “Manifestation!” Manifestation has become a phenomenon that everybody seems to be interested in at the moment, particularly on TikTok. The platform’s bite-sized content format has transformed the topic of ...
Views: 303 - Self-Destructive: Can Someone Engage In Self-Destructive Behaviour If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to take a step back and reflect on their life, they may find that they have the tendency to behave in ways that don’t serve them. This can take place in both big and small ways. So, they might have been in at least one relationship that was going well and then, they ended up ...
Views: 193 - Symbolic Fears: Can Someone’s Fears Be Symbolic If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperNowadays, there are numerous phobias that someone can have, and some of these are more well-known than others. Furthermore, while some of these phobias can stop them from being able to live a full and rich life, others can typically be put to one side and not trouble them. If, then, they were ...
Views: 197 - Invisible Child: Can Someone Have A Fear Of Being Seen If They Were An ‘Invisible Child’? - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone can be used to being physically seen by others, it doesn’t mean that they will feel seen. In general, they can feel as though they are not seen and even question if they exist. It could seem strange as to how they could be seen by others and at the same time, not feel seen. ...
Views: 234 - Get Out of the War - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2024 from Rick HansonBy "war," I mean here a mindset, not combat between nations with tanks and bombs. The "war" I'm referring to is an attitude of conflict and animosity toward a person, object, or condition. Parents can feel at war with a misbehaving teenager, and certainly vice versa. Neighbors quarreling over a ...
Views: 267 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Did A Mother-Enmeshed Man Have To Abandon Himself? - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf a woman is with a man who is focused on his mother’s needs and does what he can to please her, she is likely to wonder what is going on. She can struggle to understand why he is behaving in this way. It could be clear to her that he is not there for himself and this is causing him to ...
Views: 244 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Believe That He Is Worthless If He Had An Abusive Mother? - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to reflect on how a man behaves, they could soon come to the conclusion that he doesn’t value himself. The reason for this is that he could have a job that he can’t stand and be in a relationship where he is walked over. Then again, he could have a job that he enjoys but he ...
Views: 217 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Looking For A Mother Figure? - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperAfter a woman has been with a man for a while, what might enter her mind is that she is more like his mother than his girlfriend. Now, there can be a variety of reasons as to why she would come to this conclusion. First, she can be the one who makes most of the decisions and plans just about ...
Views: 232 - Relationships: What Can Happen If A Man Doesn’t Feel Comfortable With His Sexual Side? - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough a man has an intellectual, emotional and sexual side, it doesn’t mean that he is comfortable with all of these sides. Thus, when he is in a relationship, a big part of him could end up being overlooked. So, in the beginning, he could be sexually attracted to the woman and have ...
Views: 195 - Breakups: Can A Man Punish Himself After A Breakup? - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperAfter a man has experienced a breakup, he can experience a number of different feelings. For example, he can feel angry, sad, helpless, and hopeless and be full of regret. If so, what this can show is that he was with a woman who he was very fond of and perhaps loved. Perhaps he was with her ...
Views: 179 - Impulsive Behaviour: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Be Impulsive? - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to take a step back and reflect on their life, one thing that might end up standing out is that they have the tendency to act without thinking. As a result of this, they won’t think about the consequences that may arise if they do something; they will just take action. They ...
Views: 207 - Child Abuse: Does A Child Need To Be ‘Physically Disciplined’? - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperThere is a video circulating online where two police officers visit a home, after being informed that a child is being abused. It starts with a police officer saying to a woman, “We’re here to investigate a child abuse complaint”. The woman then responds with, “I didn’t call the police”. Soon ...
Views: 235 - Drop the Load - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2024 from Rick HansonYou may have seen the old Mickey Mouse movie in which he is working at a conveyor belt in a factory. More and more widgets come at him that he must handle, and he gets increasingly frazzled as he struggles to keep up. Do you ever feel the same way? Think about all the dishes, emails, ...
Views: 283 - Withdrawal: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Withdraw Under Stress? - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on their life, is that they behave in a way that doesn’t serve them when they experience a lot of stress. So, they can see that they have the tendency to withdraw physically. Along with this, they can lose touch with their emotional ...
Views: 202 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Mother-Enmeshed Man Want To Save His Mother? - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperA man could have a mother who is unwell or he might not but he could still spend a lot of time doing things for her. From the outside, it can be as though she is his daughter and it is his responsibility to take care of her. So, when he is not taking care of his basic needs or at work, for ...
Views: 237 - Child Abuse: Can Someone Have The Need To Stay Small If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone can be free to express themselves, it doesn’t mean that they will do so. Instead, based on how they typically behave, it can be as though they are in an invisible prison. However, if this is just what is normal, they might not realise that they are living in a very ...
Views: 219 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Have An Idealised View Of His Father? - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man were to take a step back and reflect on his life, he could see that he is too focused on his mother's needs and is ignoring a number of his own. He might soon find that this is how he has been for as long as he can remember. For whatever reason, he will have started to see clearly ...
Views: 234 - Child Abuse: Can An Abusive Parent Be Too Wounded To Admit That They Were Abusive? - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to come to see that their early years were anything but nurturing, they could feel the need to talk to their parent or parents about what happened. They can hope that this will be a time when what they say is validated and empathy and remorse are expressed. Now, assuming that ...
Views: 241 - Willpower: Can A Man Have A Weak Will If He Had Controlling Parents? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a man may find, if he were to take a step back and reflect, is that he finds it hard to stick to things. So, he can come up with a goal and start taking action and then, before long, he can put it to one side. He might see that this often takes place after he has experienced a setback. ...
Views: 225 - The Signs and Effect of Emotional Incest - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2024 from Darlene LancerEmotional incest has been compared to actual incest because it similarly creates long-lasting effects on psychosocial development and into adulthood. Sometimes the targeted child is referred to as a “surrogate spouse,” due to parent-child enmeshment or a codependent parent-child ...
Views: 326(1 vote) - Child Abuse: Can It Be Easy For An Abusive Parent To Get Away With Abusing Their Child? - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was attacked in a public place, they could end up paying a visit to a police station. They will have been harmed, so naturally they will want to do something about what has happened. If they were attacked in a public place, there is a chance that at least one camera recorded what ...
Views: 222 - Accept Dependence - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2024 from Rick HansonWant to try a little experiment? Stop breathing. Really. For a few seconds, maybe a few dozen seconds, and see how it feels. For me, this experiment is an intimate way to experience a deep truth that we live dependently, relying on 10,000 things for physical survival, happiness, ...
Views: 286 - Willpower: Can Someone Have A Weak Will If They Had Controlling Parents? - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIt has been said that when there is a will, there is a way. What this illustrates is how important willpower is when it comes to achieving something. This is then an inner source of power that will allow someone to get from where they are, to where they want to be. Along with this, it is this ...
Views: 203 - Is Our Past All Over Our Present? - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperThe other day, when I was walking around a city, I saw a number of street names that reflected its medieval past. This was in addition to all of the buildings from this period that were dotted around. What played a part in me noticing these names and the builders is my interest in medieval ...
Views: 225 - Give Them What They Want - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2024 from Rick HansonResearch shows that relationships are built from interactions, and interactions are built from moments. A critical moment in an interaction is when one person wants something from the other one. ("Wants" include wishes, needs, desires, hopes, and longings.) The want could be simple and concrete, ...
Views: 282 - Invisible Child: What Can Happen If Someone Was An ‘Invisible Child’? - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperDuring someone’s early years, a time when they needed to be seen and heard in order to grow and develop in the right way, they might have largely been ignored. This would then have been a time when their basic needs might have typically been met but their emotional needs wouldn’t have. One or ...
Views: 241 - Child Abuse: What Can Happen If Someone Was Treated Like Their Parents Enemy? - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone wasn’t cherished during their formative years, it doesn’t mean that they will be consciously aware of this. But, if they were able to take a step back and reflect on how they experience life, what might soon stand out is that they are not in a good way mentally and ...
Views: 230 - Critical Thinking: Why Do Some People Look Towards Other Human Beings To Save Them? - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperDuring an election, numerous people vote for a party that they believe is going to change their lives for the better. For some of these people, what goes on at this level defines what their life is like. In other words, their life will be in the hands of whoever is in power and so, it is to ...
Views: 243 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Feel Disconnected If He Had An Unavailable Mother? - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man reflects on his life, what he can find is that he often feels as though he is on the outside and doesn’t feel connected to others. This can mean that he will spend a lot of time feeling lonely. But, if he doesn’t feel this way, it can typically be because he has distracted himself. ...
Views: 213 - Child Abuse: Can An Abusive Parent Have An Idealised False Self? - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to come to see that they were mistreated during their formative years, they might have the need to talk to their abusive parent or parents about what happened. Now, assuming that it was one parent who mistreated them or that one of their parents has passed on, they might not get ...
Views: 191 - False-Self: Can Someone Have A Needless False Self If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone will have a number of needs, they could typically act as though they only have a few needs. They can then come across as though they merely have basic and mental needs, for instance. Due to this, they could see themselves as someone who is very independent and doesn’t need ...
Views: 249 - Mindfulness Mastery via Minesweeper: Improving Attention & Patience - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2024 from Leland LebrunMore than just a game, even though it is understandably enjoyable to play Minesweeper, the classic Minesweeper, with its simplistic interface and high cognitive demand, offers something more beneficial. In "Mastering Mindfulness Through Minesweeper: Enhancing Focus and Patience," we dive into ...
Views: 283 - Football: Did Cristiano Ronaldo “Cry Like A Little Girl” During The Portugal vs. Slovenia Football Match? - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperSince the match between Portugal vs. Slovenia in the European football championship, a lot has been said about the emotion that Cristiano Ronaldo expressed after he missed a penalty. Some people have criticised him for crying after he missed a penalty, while others have been supportive. When ...
Views: 245 - Atlas Pro’s Goal to Personal Growth - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2024 from Christopher thomasAtlas Pro is one of the leading streaming services providers in the world and in the UK. As it stands out, you may ask, what is something special about Atlas Pro? And why is it connected with personal growth? Well, Atlas Pro and Atlas Pro ONTV have this feature about building a community. ...
Views: 301 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Believe That He Will Be Free After His Mother Has Passed On? - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperEven though a man will be free to live his own life, it doesn’t mean that he will feel this way. Instead, he can feel as though his mother owns him and is then in control of what he does or doesn’t do. From this, it will be clear that he doesn’t feel loved and supported by his mother. She is ...
Views: 207 - Transform Ill Will - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2024 from Rick HansonGoodwill and ill will are about intention: the will is for good or ill. These intentions are expressed through action and inaction, word and deed, and-especially-thoughts. How do you feel when you sense another person taking potshots at you in her mind? What does it feel like to take potshots of ...
Views: 283 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Feel Responsible If His Mother Becomes Ill? - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperEven if a man does a lot for his mother and neglects a number of his own needs in the process, it doesn’t mean that he won’t end up in a position where he de does even more for her. This is something that can take place if his mother was to become unwell and less capable of looking after ...
Views: 241 - Child Abuse: Can Someone Be Very Guarded If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone can want to experience intimacy, it doesn’t mean that they have been able to experience it. So, they might have spent a fair amount of time on their appearance and spent time socialising but not been able to make much progress. This could be something that has been going on ...
Views: 242 - Procrastination: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Procrastinate? - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may find, if they were to reflect on their behaviour, is that they have the tendency to put things off. So, this can relate to one area of their life or it could relate to how they are in general. If this relates to how they are in one area of their life, it might have much of an ...
Views: 230 - Being Seen: Can Someone Have A Fear Of Being Seen If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to take a step back and reflect on how they typically feel, what they could soon notice is that they often feel invisible, ignored and lonely. They can show that when they are around others, they seldom feel seen and heard. It is then to be expected that they would often feel ...
Views: 239 - Lack Mentality: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Have A Lack Mentality? - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to take a step back and reflect on what often goes through their mind, they could come to the conclusion that they have a scarcity mindset. They could see that they often think about how there is not enough. This can relate to there not being enough money, opportunities, ...
Views: 234 - 7 Effective Therapies for Treating Psychiatric Disorders in Oklahoma - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2024 from Chiranjit RoyPsychiatric disorders are complex and often debilitating conditions that can greatly impact an individual's quality of life. Fortunately, there are a variety of effective therapies available to help treat these disorders and improve mental health outcomes. In this essay, I will discuss seven ...
Views: 340(1 vote) - The Untold Success Stories of Austells Top Rehab Facility - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2024 from Chiranjit RoyAustell's top rehab facility may be known for its state-of-the-art amenities and cutting-edge treatment methods, but what truly sets it apart are the untold success stories of its clients. These success stories are not always highlighted in the media or shared widely with the public, but they ...
Views: 312(1 vote) - The Untold Success Stories of Austells Top Rehab Facility - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2024 from Chiranjit RoyAustell's top rehab facility may be known for its state-of-the-art amenities and cutting-edge treatment methods, but what truly sets it apart are the untold success stories of its clients. These success stories are not always highlighted in the media or shared widely with the public, but they ...
Views: 317 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man In An Emotionally Collapsed State? - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is in a position where he has the tendency to do what his mother wants and neglects a number of his own needs, it could be said that he needs to assert himself. However, although this is what he will need to do, it doesn’t mean that this will take place. Firstly, he might not be ...
Views: 236 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Need To Realise That He Owns Himself? - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperWhat will be clear, if a man spends a lot of time doing things for his mother, is that he has the sense that his mother owns him. Nonetheless, this is not to say that this is something that he will be consciously aware of. Therefore, if it was put forward to him that he is behaving as though ...
Views: 237 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Feel Abandoned After His Mother Has Passed On? - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man’s life revolves around his mother and has been this way since he was a boy, it is naturally going to be difficult for him when she passes on. However, he might rarely if ever think about her passing on. This can be because he is so caught up in her world that he doesn’t have time to ...
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