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- Mother Wounds: Can A Man Feel Unsafe Around Women If He Had An Abusive Mother? - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIn general, a man may find it hard to feel at ease when he is around women. Due to this, he could often act in a very submissive and easy-going manner when he is around them. What this will mean is that who he is will rarely if ever show up when he is in the company of a woman. Instead, a ...
Views: 86 - Emotionally Shut Down: Can Someone Be Unaffected By Experiences If They Are Emotionally Shut Down? - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperNow that someone is an adult, they will have had many different experiences since they were a child. But, even though this is the case, it doesn’t mean that they will feel a lot different. However, if they are not in tune with how they feel, this is not going to be something that will stand ...
Views: 85 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Has A Mother Enmeshed-Man Abandoned Himself? - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man has the tendency to be there for his mother, it is going to mean that he will also have the tendency to overlook a number of his own needs. Quite simply, it is not going to be possible for him to be there for both his mother and himself. So, when he is not at work, assuming that he ...
Views: 78 - Rebuilding Intimacy after Brain Injury: Tips and Strategies for Individuals and their Partners - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2023 from Leon EdwardA brain injury can have a significant impact on one's sex life and intimate relationship with their partner. It can lead to physical, cognitive, and emotional changes that can affect sexual desire, arousal, and functioning. But it doesn't mean that intimacy and sex have to disappear completely ...
Views: 124 - iOS Application Bundle By Flutter - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2023 from Manish PatelIn today’s article, we gonna discuss how Flutter’s build system converts Flutter project with its goods into an iOS application bundle. We will also let you know the purpose of generated objects so that it can help you to integrate the same processes with your custom build ...
Views: 113 - Your New Start Begins Now - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2023 from Rita RockerSo what happens when we need a new start? How do we actually get through the amazing transformation our Creator has for us, going from that caterpillar to becoming the soaring, beautiful butterfly? You are definitely not alone in the unpleasant struggle. A metamorphosis is defined here in a ...
Views: 121 - Coping with Communication Changes in Individuals with Brain Injuries: Strategies for Caregivers - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2023 from Leon EdwardTraumatic Brain Injury (TBI) is a major cause of disability and death worldwide. It is a condition that affects the brain’s function due to an external force. Individuals with TBI may experience changes in communication, including difficulty expressing themselves, understanding language, and ...
Views: 109 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Woman Powerless If She Continually Ends Up With Mother-Enmeshed Men? - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperAfter being with a number of men who were overly focused on their mothers, a woman could question if she will ever meet a man who is actually available. To say that she will feel pretty hopeless when it comes to this area of her life could be an understatement. But, as she has gone through ...
Views: 90 - Relationship Anxiety - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2023 from Darlene LancerAnxiety is common at the beginning of a relationship, but relationship anxiety can continue for the long term. It refers to intense worry, fear, doubt, and insecurity about a relationship and is associated with interpersonal dependency and interpersonal avoidance. Insecurity about ourselves, our ...
Views: 119(2 votes) - Signs of Healthy Boundaries - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2023 from Darlene LancerHealthy boundaries are essential in recovery from codependency. They both build and reflect self-esteem. Learning to have healthy boundaries is an essential aspect of individuating and becoming an individual and autonomous person. Boundaries are learned in childhood. Some dysfunctional ...
Views: 112(2 votes) - Individuation: From Codependent Chameleon to True Self - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2023 from Darlene LancerWhen we first met, I told my husband I was very adaptable. I didn’t realize the price of being a chameleon until I started recovery and my journey of individuation. By then I was dead inside. I’d spent years adapting to abuse and belittling that I’d absorbed. I was detached from my feelings and ...
Views: 109(2 votes) - Depression: Can Shame Stop A Man From Being Able To Admit That He Is Depressed? - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is depressed, it doesn’t mean that he will be able to fully accept this. He can then do just about everything that he can to hide what is really on for him from both himself and others. One of the ways that he can do this is by more or less always being on the go and being focused on ...
Views: 88 - Disconnected: Can A Big Part Of Someone’s Being Be Split Off If They Experienced Developmental Trauma? - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperEven if someone is living on the surface of themselves, it doesn’t mean that they will be consciously aware of this. How they experience life can just be what is normal, so there will be no reason for it to stand out. Assuming that they are in this position, they are likely to spend a lot of ...
Views: 112 - Self-Assertion: Can Someone Fear Being Assertive If They Were Neglected During Their Early Years? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperAs someone is an individual with their own needs and feelings, they are not always going to want to do what another person wants them to do or suggests. If, on the other hand, they were merely an extension of others, this wouldn’t be the case. Another person could want them to do something or ...
Views: 99 - Healing Contempt in Relationships: A Path to Rebuilding Love and Connection - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2023 from Saba AlamContempt in relationships can be the silent killer of relationships. It can lurk beneath the surface and manifest itself during arguements or even everyday moments in life. Contempt can erode the foundation of even the most promising partnerships, but with dedication and the right tools, ...
Views: 116 - Hold Wants Lightly - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2023 from Rick HansonGetting caught up in wanting - wanting both to get what's pleasant and to avoid what's unpleasant - is a major source of suffering and harm for oneself and others. First, a lot of what we want to get comes with a big price tag - such as that second cupcake, constant stimulation via TV and ...
Views: 79 - Mastering Patience in Golf: Why Rushing Shots Leads to Poor Performance - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2023 from Leon EdwardAs a golfer, it's easy to get caught up in the excitement of the game and want to see immediate results. But impatience can quickly lead to poor decision-making and a rushed approach, ultimately negatively impacting your performance on the course. Here are some tips for overcoming a lack of ...
Views: 125 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Be Submissive Around Women If He Had An Abusive Mother? - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man was to step back and reflect on how he typically behaves when he is around a woman, what he may find is that he rarely shows up. Instead, this can be a time when he will come across as passive and easy-going. Therefore, he won’t act as though he is an individual that has his own ...
Views: 112 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Emotionally Abandon Themselves? - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone has emotional needs, it doesn’t mean that they will be aware of these needs let alone do what they can to meet them. If this is the case, these needs are largely not going to be met. When it comes to their emotional needs, this will relate to their need to be seen, heard, ...
Views: 95 - Overcoming Negative Self-Talk in Golf: Tips and Strategies for a Positive Mindset - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2023 from Leon EdwardGolf is a game of skill, strategy, and mental toughness. While physical training and technique are crucial for success on the course, golfers cannot neglect the power of their mindset. Golf requires immense focus, concentration, and confidence, which can be easily undermined by negative ...
Views: 125 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Find It Hard To Attach To A Woman If He Had An Emotionally Unavailable Mother? - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperWhat can be normal is for a man to only have casual encounters with women, which will mean that he will only share his body and perhaps his mind. This might be the only thing that interests him, with him having no desire whatsoever to experience more. He might sometimes be told that he has ...
Views: 95 - Critical Thinking: Was The Recent Pandemic An Example Of How Humanity Can Be Victimised By Their Own Repressed Darkness? - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperNow that the dust has started to settle, numerous questions have been asked about why certain things were done at the height of the pandemic. For example, it has been said that the masks that were mandatory didn’t make any difference. And, along with this, it has been said that the public was ...
Views: 106 - Are Your Emotions Controlling You? - by Submitted on May 31, 2023 from Judi MoreoBy Judi Moreo Emotions, by themselves, are neither good nor bad. They just are. It is how you allow your emotions to influence your thoughts and actions that is important. Awareness and understanding of your feelings can help ensure that you control your feelings and they aren’t controlling ...
Views: 110 - Discrimination to Recognise the Distinction of Different Forces and the Various Parts of the Being is Necessary for the Spiritual Seeker - by Submitted on May 31, 2023 from santosh krinskyThe Buddhist tradition describes Manjushri as a Bodhisattva who, with his flaming sword of discrimination, cuts through illusion and falsehood to disclose the truth of existence. The power of discrimination between different powers, forces, impressions, suggestions, and their source and intent ...
Views: 156 - A MYSTIC’S TAKE ON KARMIC DEBTS: Only the Giver Can Stamp the Record “PAID IN FULL” Because the Receiver Never Will - by Submitted on May 31, 2023 from joan pancoeRECOMMENDED: To see all visuals and activate all links: https://joanpancoe.com/2023/05/23/a-mystics-take-on-karmic-debtsonly-the-giver-can-stamp-the-record-paid-in-full-because-the-receiver-never-will/?fbclid=IwAR1JJjeH4CuDCTu7G1RQKd7fGvgx1P47EIOB2HnmSfb0dRjXizvUBrFQWe8 Listen along on ...
Views: 172(1 vote) - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Feel Anxious Around Women If He Had An Emotionally Unstable Mother? - by Submitted on May 31, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a man may see, if he was to step back and reflect on his life, is that he often feels edgy. And, if he was to look even closer, he may find that this is usually how he feels when he is around a woman or women. Furthermore, in order to handle what is going on for him and feel more ...
Views: 102 - The Art of Compassion: Nurturing Empathy in a Divided World - by Submitted on May 31, 2023 from Barry ShoreIn an increasingly divided world, the importance of cultivating empathy cannot be overstated. Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others, to put ourselves in their shoes and connect with their experiences on an emotional level. It is a fundamental human quality that ...
Views: 85 - Embracing Diversity: Celebrating Differences for a More Inclusive Society - by Submitted on May 31, 2023 from Barry ShoreIn today's rapidly changing world, embracing diversity and celebrating differences has become a vital aspect of creating a more inclusive society. Diversity refers to the range of human differences, encompassing dimensions such as race, ethnicity, gender, age, sexual orientation, disability, ...
Views: 97 - Finding Purpose in Service: Discovering Meaning Through Volunteering - by Submitted on May 31, 2023 from Barry ShoreIn a world that often grapples with questions of purpose and meaning, volunteering emerges as a profound avenue for discovering fulfillment and making a difference. At its core, volunteering involves offering one's time, skills, and resources to serve others and contribute to the greater good. ...
Views: 80 - The Joy of Giving: Spreading Happiness Through Generosity - by Submitted on May 31, 2023 from Barry ShoreIn a world that often emphasizes accumulation and personal gain, the joy of giving offers a powerful antidote. It is the profound satisfaction that comes from selflessly extending a helping hand to those in need. From small acts of kindness to grand philanthropic gestures, giving has the ...
Views: 76 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: What Would A Mother-Enmeshed Man Find It Hard To Say No To His Mother? - by Submitted on May 31, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIt has been said that someone’s yes will only mean something if they also have the ability to say no. The reason for this is if they are unable to say no, they will say yes out of their need to please another person. On the other hand, if they felt comfortable saying no, they would be able to ...
Views: 89 - Embrace Fragility - by Submitted on May 29, 2023 from Rick HansonThe truth of anything is like a mosaic with many tiles and many parts. One part of the truth of things is that they are robust and enduring, whether it's El Capitan in Yosemite or the love of a child for her mother and father. Another part of the truth is that things bruise, tear, erode, ...
Views: 93 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Expect To Be Treated Badly By Women If He Had A Cruel Mother? - by Submitted on May 28, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperOver the years, a man may have had a number of experiences with women that were anything but pleasant. This can mean that he has been in a number of relationships that greatly undermined him. Additionally, there can be all the interactions that he has had, both at work and in his everyday ...
Views: 104 - Our Many Selves: Practical Yogic Psychology — Introduction - by Submitted on May 28, 2023 from santosh krinskyWe tend to believe that we are a single, consistent and harmonized individuality, personality, character. For the most part, we are not self-reflective enough to recognise the inconsistencies and inner conflicts that take place within the being, due to different drives, needs, desires, and ...
Views: 113 - Self-Rejection: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Reject Themselves? - by Submitted on May 28, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperWhat can be normal is for someone to be there for others and to ignore a number of their own needs and feelings. But, although they will have abandoned themselves, it doesn’t mean that this will stand out. However, even if what is going on doesn’t stand out, living in this way is still going ...
Views: 98 - MAMA - by Submitted on May 27, 2023 from Dr. Sonara Carter-BarberMAMA The love you had for me Every day, I could see You left me a blueprint to live I use it daily to survive Oh how, I wish we could chat I have so much to share Oh how, I miss your care There’s no one who compare This year you’re gone 4 years I cannot hold back the tears Songs of ...
Views: 104 - Mother's Blueprint - by Submitted on May 27, 2023 from Dr. Sonara Carter-BarberMother’s Blueprint The role of a mother is critical. One cannot deny the influence they have on their children. April 28th was the fourth anniversary of my mother’s passing. Time has helped to heal part of my crushed heart. I am determined to celebrate her regardless of the pain. The day ...
Views: 119 - Mastering the Golf Mindset as a Woman: Tips and Tricks to Improve Your Game - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2023 from Leon EdwardGolf is a sport that requires both physical and mental strength. To become a successful golfer, you need to have the right mindset. However, mastering the golf mindset is not easy, especially for women who are often underestimated in the sport. In this article, we will provide you with tips and ...
Views: 131 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Too Underdeveloped To Realise That He Is Separate From His Mother? - by Submitted on May 26, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperNaturally, in order for a man to live a life that is worth living, he will need to do what is right for him. For this to take place, he will need to be in tune with his needs and feelings and allow his inner world to impact his outer world. This is not to say that he won’t be able to be there ...
Views: 110 - 10 Techniques and Practices for Improving Your Golf Mindset - A Few May Surprise You like Tai Chi and Why or Golf Journaling Benefits - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2023 from Leon EdwardGolf is a mental game that requires focus, concentration, and a positive mindset. The way you approach the game mentally can greatly affect your performance on the course. A strong mindset can help you overcome challenges, stay focused, and make better decisions. In this article, we will explore ...
Views: 179(1 vote) - 10 Techniques and Pratices for Improving Your Golf Mindset - A Few May Surprise You like Tai Chi and Why or Golf Journaling Benefits - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2023 from Leon EdwardGolf is a mental game that requires focus, concentration, and a positive mindset. The way you approach the game mentally can greatly affect your performance on the course. A strong mindset can help you overcome challenges, stay focused, and make better decisions. In this article, we will explore ...
Views: 171 - Child Abuse: Why Would Someone Idealise Their Abusive Parent? - by Submitted on May 24, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperDuring someone’s early years, they might have had at least one parent who didn’t treat them very well. If they did, this parent would have often been very cruel and, as a result, this would have deeply wounded them. Still, it doesn’t mean that they will be able to acknowledge how cruel this ...
Views: 93 - The Future Directions for Neuropsychology in the Prevention and Treatment of Cognitive Decline and Research Areas in TBI Healing and Recovery - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2023 from Leon EdwardNeuropsychology is a branch of psychology that studies the relationship between the brain and behavior. It is concerned with how the brain works, how it affects behavior and cognition, and how it is affected by injury, disease, or aging. Cognitive decline is a condition that is associated with ...
Views: 169 - Online EMDR Courses: Advantages, Challenges, and Tips for Success - by Submitted on May 23, 2023 from Android smartwatchesAre you interested in becoming an EMDR therapist or expanding your knowledge of this powerful therapy technique? Online EMDR courses may be the perfect solution for you! With the convenience and flexibility of online learning, these courses offer a range of benefits. However, there are also some ...
Views: 127 - Relationships: Why Would A Man Only Be Attracted To Women That He Can Control? - by Submitted on May 22, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperAt this point in time, a man could be with a woman who is anything but his equal, and this might be how it has been with a number of other women. Now, she might be the same age as him or very close to his age, or there could be a number of years between them. However, regardless of this, she ...
Views: 118 - Lighten Up - by Submitted on May 22, 2023 from Rick HansonOn the path of life, most of us are hauling way too much weight. What's in your own backpack? If you're like most of us, you've got too many items on each day's To-Do list and too much stuff in the closet. Too many entanglements with other people. And too many "shoulds," worries, guilts, and ...
Views: 92 - Repression: Can Repression Cause Someone To Believe That What Is Going On ‘Out There’ Is Defining How They Feel? - by Submitted on May 22, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is in a position where they feel powerless, they could end up coming to the conclusion that it’s because of what is taking place in their life. For example, they might have lost their job, been through a breakup, or have a friend that lacks boundaries and is controlling. Therefore, ...
Views: 111 - Understanding the Aging Brain: The Neuropsychology of Cognitive Decline in Elderly Populations - by Submitted on May 21, 2023 from Leon EdwardAs people age, they may experience cognitive decline, which can range from mild cognitive impairment (MCI) to dementia. This decline can affect memory, attention, language, and problem-solving abilities. As a result, elderly individuals may experience difficulties completing day-to-day ...
Views: 127 - Understanding the Aging Brain: The Neuropsychology of Cognitive Decline in Elderly Populations - by Submitted on May 21, 2023 from Leon EdwardAs people age, they may experience cognitive decline, which can range from mild cognitive impairment (MCI) to dementia. This decline can affect memory, attention, language, and problem-solving abilities. As a result, elderly individuals may experience difficulties completing day-to-day ...
Views: 123 - Relationships: Why Would Someone Dehumanise Their Ex? - by Submitted on May 21, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperAfter someone’s relationship has come to an end, they could experience a number of different feelings. So, they could have moments when they feel angry and moments when they feel very sad. At other moments, they could feel very little, with them being in an emotionally shut down state. And, ...
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