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- How sexual abuse or harassment can cause the fear of expressing one’s sexual desires naturally - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatIf you have ever been sexually abused or harassed, it’s likely that you still carry the traumatic scars of such a painful incident. Aside from the common symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder that accompany these unfortunate events, is something that may be even more significant and ...
Views: 936 - Unfulfilling cultural marriages and their effect on happiness - by Submitted on May 11, 2017 from Felicity MuscatMarriage, by definition, is a union of two individuals committing to themselves from a place of freewill and love. I have found that many of my clients who are in cultural marriages, have been sucked into a life-depleting situation without any idea of what caused them to make a decision. This is ...
Views: 815 - Oscar Wilde's Fine Dating and Marriage Advice - by Submitted on May 11, 2017 from Marcia Naomi BergerYou’ve probably heard it’s best to be yourself. Sounds easy, doesn’t it? It might help to recall Oscar Wilde's quip: "Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Yet many of us, wanting to please someone with whom we are in a close relationship—or with whom we may hope to be--forget to ...
Views: 1414 - The Nice Guy Problem - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatRelationships are an integral part of most people’s lives. If you are like the majority of people in the world, you want a good, healthy relationship with someone else. The problem is that there are so many different approaches to relationships, and it often feels like the nicest, healthiest ...
Views: 1970 - How to Take Back Your Life after Abuse - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatAbuse is a tragically common experience. People who survive abuse often have a different perception on life than people who have not been abused. On the surface level, they learn to fear other people at a time when they should be learning to discover and explore. At a deeper level, their very ...
Views: 1098 - How to stop self-sabotaging your relationships and reclaim the control over yourself - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatHave you ever said something, done something and/or acted in a way that perplexed you? You know you wanted something but then acted in a way that went contrary to what you desired? For example: You were excited about a new relationship opportunity, but found yourself becoming increasingly ...
Views: 1197 - Sex and Codependents: What Could Possibly Go Wrong? - by Submitted on May 01, 2017 from Dr. Anne BrownSo many women I interviewed when writing my book reported saying yes to sex just to get the sex over with and have the person go away. Others reported saying yes to sex to have the person like them. Others reported gaining weight so they wouldn’t have to say no to dating and sex. Many reported ...
Views: 1556(1 vote) - How to Restore Respect in a Relationship – Overcome Marriage Problems - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2017 from Nicola BeerLack of respect is one of the key reasons many couples get divorced. It is one of the major marriage problem signs. It destroys love, connection and intimacy. Many individuals and couples that join my online save my marriage program, share that respect has been missing or lost in their ...
Views: 2602 - Tips for Women Dating Younger Men: Cougar Dating - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2017 from Kevin CageYou can easily find do many celebrity couples who are deeply involved in cougar dating. And with time, this is becoming a common trend for people. Older women often think about having a young date partner with infinite energy and graceful appearance. They want to make their love life like an ...
Views: 1665 - Essential Tips for Older Singles Dating in Your 50s - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2017 from Kevin CageCourtship or dating is one the inventions of history, the term date was coined by George Ade in 1896. Further, dating has evolved ever since; men don’t call their first date a hangout, dress casually, and don’t write poems. According to the latest research, 60% of the older singles in 50s ...
Views: 1655(1 vote) - Financial Abuse: Is Your Husband / Wife Financially Controlling? - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2017 from Nicola BeerFinancial Abuse – Relationship Advice for a Financially Controlling Husband / Wife: Financial conflict causes a great deal of unhappiness and tension in relationships. I received this email last week and they have given me permission to share it, here is the advice I gave Emily (name changed) ...
Views: 1851 - 10 Signs He’s Falling For You - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2017 from Lucy ClarkeSo you've recently started spending a lot of time with the guy you are into, and things seem to be going great. Like, really great. You spend hours together, go out to dinner just the two of you, and have a connection that goes way beyond just friendship. But are you an item? Is it ...
Views: 6256 - How Showing Grace Tames Rocky Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2017 from Marcia Naomi BergerCan you show grace during those awkward relationship times? The word, “grace” can mean charm, which is a nice quality to cultivate in ourselves. In a religious context, as in the song, “Amazing Grace,” it means unearned kindness. You may be the giver of this kind of grace or its receiver. ...
Views: 1624 - How To Restore Intimacy & Connection in a Struggling Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2017 from Nicola BeerWhy do couples struggle to stay intimate? This is a question that baffled me when I started working in this field. Many women would say to me “what do I do when the feelings in a marriage are gone?” or men I work with to save their marriage would share “when a marriage is over to one person can ...
Views: 1845 - Husband or Wife Not Affectionate – How to Deal with a Lack of Affection in Your Relationship! - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2017 from Nicola BeerTips on How To Save An Affection-Starved Marriage and Keep Your Relationship Happy Affection can be one of the first things to go after children are born or when a marriage is in trouble. BUT it doesn’t have to mean something serious and it can be naturally restored as I will go on to ...
Views: 2767 - Celebrities: Is It A Surprise For Celebrities To Have Abusive Relationships? - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIn today’s world, a lot of people are obsessed with celebrities, and there are a number of reasons as to why this is. For some people, this can simply be a way for them to avoid their own life. This is likely to show that their life is not going as they would like it to go, and focusing on ...
Views: 1443 - How to Come Back To Love Even When It's Hard - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2017 from Robyn VogelRecently I went through one of those life trials where I might instead think, "Another f---ing growth opportunity!" F.E.A.R was running the show. Do you know some of the acronyms for "fear?" Fck.Everything.And.Run is my favorite. Also, False.Evidence.Appearing.Real another favorite of mine. ...
Views: 2069 - How to STOP the Same Arguments Resurfacing and Become Closer - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2017 from Nicola BeerAre you exhausted of the same topics, issues or arguments resurfacing time and time again in your relationship? Are you sick and tired of the emotional relationship rollercoaster you find yourself on? If you have tried speaking to your spouse (or even tried marriage counselling) and nothing ...
Views: 1720 - Dating: Is It Easier For Someone To Hide Their Insecurities If They Are Attractive? - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperBefore one goes on a date, they can worry about what the other person will think of them, and this can cause them to put on an act. How they come across is then not going to be a reflection of who they are; it will be nothing more than a role they are playing in order to please the other ...
Views: 1550 - Love Life According To Zodiac Signs - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2017 from Harshad JethraHow much could you possibly know about love compatibility and interpersonal human relationships just by knowing the zodiac signs of two people? It is this question that people sometimes ponder upon! A very personal viewpoint is that the readings could never possibly be absolute, not full and ...
Views: 1342 - 4 Ways to Get and Stay Close to Your Partner - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2017 from Nicola BeerDo you feel like you are drifting along in your marriage? Do you lack excitement or fulfilment in your relationship? Do you sometimes wonder why you are still married? As mentioned last week there are four elements that help build and support a shared meaning, all of which should be ...
Views: 1624 - Loving Yourself When Your Partner Shuts You Out - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2017 from Margaret PaulWhat do you do when your partner shuts you out? Do you know that being shut out and stonewalled is even more hurtful than being yelled at? Children would rather get yelled at or even hit than ignored. This is why the worst punishment for prisoners is solitary confinement. Yet, along with ...
Views: 1521 - How to Stop Defensive Behavior & Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2017 from Nicola BeerWhen we feel that we have been wrongly accused of something a common reaction is to put up our defences so our partner will back down. But all this succeeds to achieve is to make our husband/wife feel that we are not taking them seriously. Where the real underlying issues in a marriage don’t ...
Views: 1704 - The Next 5 Great Romantic First Date Ideas (II) - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2017 from Huyen My6. Cook Dinner For Your Partner Cooking dinner for your partner is also a safe solution for many couples. If you like cooking, cooking dinner for your partner will be a loving and warm gesture that your partner can feel easy. Actually, this is not cheap but you can express yourself and show ...
Views: 1219 - Broken Trust – 7 Keys to Rebuilding Trust In Your Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2017 from Nicola BeerTrust is an essential key in any relationship. I’ve helped couples rebuild trust after an affair, financial dishonesty, physical and emotional abuse as well as constant lying over small things. I’ve also worked with individuals to trust again after previous childhood trauma or relationship pain ...
Views: 2116 - Is Your Present Partner a Victim of Your Past Relationships? - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2017 from Kelley KosowThe other day I was speaking to a friend who had just started dating someone a few months ago. Although his face lit up as he exuberantly told me about the "fabulous" new woman in his life and all of the fun they are having, after a while he paused and said, "There is only one thing...I am the ...
Views: 1044 - 5 Stages: How To Manage Grief After Losing A Loved One - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2017 from Brooke ChaplanWhen you lose someone you love, it can be a very difficult time to get through. You might not want to go on in life yourself, especially if it's someone you were close to, like a parent or a child. There are a few ways that you can manage your grief so that you can be a support for your family ...
Views: 2020 - 5 Best Romantic First Date Ideas (I) - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2017 from Huyen MyMaking the good impression on the first date is always a difficult problem for many boys and girls. If this is the first time they date, they will pay attention to where they should go, what they should do and something like that. Many people think that having a romantic dinner with wine and ...
Views: 1462(2 votes) - To Stay or Leave a Struggling Marriage? - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2017 from Nicola BeerToday we live in an age that promotes self-awareness BUT when it comes to relationships, it fails to show us how to use our self-awareness to arrive at good decisions. Most of the advice we get makes our problems even worse. There are literally millions of men and women ambivalent about ...
Views: 1801 - Relationships: Does Someone Lack Self-Awareness If They Say They Are Unlucky In Love? - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough some areas of one’s life can generally go to plan, there can be others that don’t, and this is something that can cause them to experience a lot of pain. For example, they could find that their career is going in the right direction, but that it hasn’t been possible for them to achieve ...
Views: 1296 - Rewriting Your Valentine's Day Story! - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2017 from Kelley KosowIt's Valentine's Day – a day when many wear red, receive roses, and revel in romance, while others roll their eyes, denounce it as being "no big deal," and wish they could ignore it completely. It is also a day that can trigger painful memories, uncomfortable emotions, and give rise to a steady ...
Views: 1279 - 6 Ways You Can Remind Yourself You’re Worthy of Love - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2017 from Alex ReddleRejection can be hard on anyone and sometimes it can make you think you aren’t worthy of love. Newsflash, you are, and here’s how to remind yourself of that! A person can only take so much rejection, be it in person, on an app, or on an adult dating site, before they start to doubt their ...
Views: 1413 - Tips to Make Your Ordinary Valentine's Day Plans Extra Special ! - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2017 from Atul DhirWell, valentine’s is just around the corner. It is that part of the year in which everyone in this universe is dancing to the tunes of togetherness. Only love is one such feeling that heals everything. During valentine’s; new relationships are made, anguishes leave some relationships, casual ...
Views: 831 - 6 Great Ways to NOT Hate Valentines Day This Year! - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2017 from Christina MichelleHaving found myself single or away from my sweetheart plenty of Valentine’s days gone by, I’ve tried a few things over the years to keep from being among the jaded every time I see a balloon or rose that doesn’t have my name on it (we’ve all been there!). If you’re looking for an alternative to ...
Views: 1374(1 vote) - The Harmonising Times January 2017 Second Installment: Complete The Unfinished ! - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2017 from Gregory Reece-SmithWelcome to Creating Harmony’s Harmonising Times. Our intention is to provide our readers, friends and connections with an overview of what is emerging in our much larger, ever evolving community as in the new beginnings of 2017 we bring balance between the Divine Feminine and Masculine. ...
Views: 1778 - Feeling Lonely? 4 Steps to Leave Loneliness for Good - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2017 from Nicola BeerFeeling Lonely? 4 Steps to Leave Loneliness For Good Today I felt compelled to pour my heart out to you and talk about a subject that I care so deeply about and that’s loneliness. You don’t need to be single to be lonely. In fact, there are literally thousands of husbands and wives who feel ...
Views: 1712 - 5 Best Birthday Gift Ideas For Him - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2017 from Misty JhonesShopping for the love of your life can sometimes be very difficult especially when choosing the best birthday gift ideas for him. It becomes more difficult because of the fact that you do not want to disappoint him especially on his special day. Even if you know him in and out, it will still be ...
Views: 1321 - 5 Ways You Are Practicing Self-Hate Without Knowing It - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2017 from Kemi SogunleWe all experience pain in some form but not knowing how to move “Beyond the Pain,” may result in self-hate. Here are 5 ways you may be practicing self-hate without knowing it: 1. You believe everyone is against you. You cannot seem to accept anyone who tries to show you love or care but allow ...
Views: 1595 - Is Love Enough? 3 Truths about Romantic LOVE… - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2017 from Nicola BeerI hear people say all the time… I love my husband/wife but I’m not “In Love” with him/her. I’m just not sure if I love them anymore. I love them but he/she said I don’t love you anymore, is my love enough? These kinds of statements can be extremely confusing not to mention painful ...
Views: 1475 - What do we learn about love and relationships from The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind? - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2017 from social engtutoWhat do we learn about love and relationships from The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind? Answer by: Vanya Sharma on Quora. I watched this wonderful movie again, for the fifth or sixth time. There is just so much to this movie; each time I watch it I find another nugget worth keeping. ...
Views: 812 - Relationships: Should Someone Find Out About Another Person's History Before They Start A Relationship With Them? - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIf one has the desire to be in a relationship, they could end up going out and/or they could join an online dating site. They could be clear about the kind of person they are looking for, or this could be something that they are not too clear about. In this case, they could believe that ...
Views: 1234 - 3 Things We Can All Learn From Barack and Michelle Obama’s Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2017 from Kemi Sogunle1. They supported each other’s mission and growth Supporting your partner’s vision and growth is essential to building a healthy and stronger relationship. Barack in his farewell speech stated,” For the past twenty-five years, you have not only been my wife and mother of my children, you have ...
Views: 1250 - Kindness Brightens the World and Uplifts the Soul - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2017 from Sandra Miniere“Kindness is like snow—it beautifies everything it covers.” – Kahil Gibran After a year filled with political incivility, I feel as though my body and soul need a reminder that human beings are also compassionate and kind. While the media aggrandizes and normalizes aggressive behavior, it is ...
Views: 1239 - The Do's and Dont's of Cancer - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2017 from David HarmCancer. A word that no one wants to hear or say. A word which even in this modern time conjures up thoughts of death. The surgeries, the chemo, the radiation, at times, you wonder will it ever stop. And at times, you wonder, how much fight the both of you have. But, somehow, by the Grace of ...
Views: 1929 - Syntropy --- the Rest of Reality - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2017 from Linda Reneau• On October 20, 1942, Fantappié presented his theory of syntropy to the Academia d’Italia in a paper called "The Unified Theory of the Physical and Biological World." See http://www.syntropy.org/. • In 2015 Ulisse Di Corpo, physicist, and Antonella Vannini published “Syntropy: The ...
Views: 1522 - Christmas Reflections - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2017 from Joan Marie WhelanAt this time of year, we all go shopping to buy gifts for our loved ones and we try to make a point of making that gift memorable. Have you ever thought of the gift that you receive daily from your Creator? It is a gift of life, of abundance and riches that no material object can improve upon ...
Views: 1278 - Valentine's Day Gift Ideas - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2017 from Kumari SujataAdoration is a blessing from the heaven. It has its own one of a kind charm that touches you with its silver wand and assurances to tickle each one of your resources pleasingly. It is that stand-out feeling to illuminate which, words are not imagined. It has unmistakable significance for ...
Views: 811 - Relationships: Are Some People More Interested In What People Say Than What They Do? - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIt has been said that what people do is more important than what they say, and this going to come down to the fact that actions speak louder than words. As while it is easy for someone to say something, it is going to take a lot more effort for them to do something. In The Beginning ...
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