We are currently looking for an Official SelfGrowth.com Guide to "Life Transitions". If you have expertise in Life Transitions and your own website and/or product for this topic, please review this form for complete details. The Official Guide Position is part of our Premium Placement Package
If you follow my work you know that I view anxiety quite differently than most people. Instead of seeing it as something to eliminate as quickly as possible – usually with medication – I see it as the soul’s way of communicating, via the vessel of the body, that something is awry inside and is ... Views: 1805
The same thing that makes a diamond sparkle makes you sparkle, too: individuality!
Everyone leaves their unique mark on the world. Your actions have an impact on the future of your family and friends; they’ll carry the memory of you as part of their life. How do you want to be ... Views: 2825
Every fall, we see the stories of students who seem to have “everything” going for them - great grades, good SAT scores, lots of activities – but their application to a college that should have been “a sure thing” is rejected. We scratch our heads and wonder why.
Well, it has to do with all ... Views: 989
Are you traveling through life or are you on a journey? Are you looking forward or at the past? Your answers reveal a lot about the direction you’re going in and what kind of experiences you’ll have.
Maybe you can relate… It was a major life change for me to move from New York City to my ... Views: 1633
Tales from the Online Marketing Crypt – Vol. 2
Transforming from a Shallow Entrepreneur to a Successful Businessperson
When I was 9, I joined a group called The Pioneer Girls. We met in a single-room; 3-grade classroom school located a few doors down from our farm in Mt. Lehman.
I found ... Views: 914
“The great tragedy of life is not death, but what dies inside of us while we live.”
— Norman Cousins
“And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in a bud was more painful then the risk it took to blossom.”
— Anais Nin
“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with ... Views: 1472
It’s such a simple question. Your initial reaction may have been an offended “NO!” But too often, we get caught up in the daily busyness of life that we don’t look that far ahead. This is why those milestone birthdays – 30, 40, 50, 60 – can be a struggle. “Where did the time go? How did I ... Views: 1625
The Zenith, is described as the highest point or state, the summit, or highest level of development: To have ended and thus arrived at a final stage. It is also considered the culmination of all that has gone before.
From a spiritualists’ point of view, the zenith may be reaching ... Views: 2126
Have you ever noticed that the best essays, articles, speeches, counseling sessions, etc. usually begin with a well-formed question?
The human brain to conditioned to answer questions. Questions draw people in and engage the mind. If used properly, they can make a tremendous different in the ... Views: 1989
Everyday, as we walk our daily routine, there is a constant internal dialogue happening. Whether we are working, relaxing, having meals or taking a walk, our mind is prevailed by this never ending chain of questions. It is very significant to ask questions and it is very important to try to ... Views: 2158
Quitters never win and winners never quit!
Actually sometimes the opposite is true.
There's a philosophy prevalent in our culture of "never give up" or "die trying" mentality.
But some of the most successful people in the world are ones who knew when to hold 'em and knew when to fold 'em. ... Views: 1202
There's a concept that keeps coming up lately when I'm doing coaching and consulting with my clients. It's the concept of experiencing the valley of your "new normal." It could be a huge change that you're making to your business, like adding on a new income stream, or closing down a division ... Views: 1587
The world is changing and so are the people in it. When life used to feature such simplicity, we have moved into an era were simplicity is a thing of the past on the outside of our characters, and an alter ego has a central role in our lives. At what point have we stopped being authentic and at ... Views: 3078
Becoming an adult means different things for everyone. Some people live with their parents while others live alone. Some have kids while others don’t. However, there are some life skills that everyone should learn and embrace—especially before they’re 30. Here are a few!
Be Happy Alone
One ... Views: 1001
To lead a better life is our real necessity. Most of us, most of the time are unaware of how to lead a better life. Throughout the Ages all the Religious and Spiritual teachings all over the world emphasized about the importance of various values and virtues of leading a purposeful life. Here we ... Views: 788
A catastrophic event often leaves you in a state of shock, feeling as if your life has been turned upside-down. Considering that these events often take you completely by surprise, it’s natural to feel this way. It could seem that your life will never be the same, and you’ll wonder if you’re ... Views: 1723
Many years ago I met a lady who did something brave and adventurous (at least in my eyes). She saw a certain city in her dream and felt quite urged to move there, in spite of the fact that this particular city was on the other side of the world and she was not much of a traveler. However, she ... Views: 1232
How do you choose to grieve the loss of something or someone in your life? Have you ever thought about the possibility that you can be happy even in your grief? What is the most challenging piece of grief for you?
At some point in our lives, we all experience the loss of someone close to us ... Views: 1846
I was volunteering in a job mentoring program and reviewing a participant’s job history which included several short-term jobs. When I asked him why he left each position he replied “It was the people.” After hearing him repeat this four consecutive times, my polite-self left and I said “You’re ... Views: 991
Changes can be unsettling. Honestly, they can be so scary they literally paralyze you in your tracks. Yet, without change we never achieve growth in our lives, careers, or relationships.
Recently I was faced with emergence of changes in the area of my career and whether to sell our home of 14 ... Views: 2322
In the waves of change there is an undertow that can pull you down. Unless you are consciously participating with the flow of the waters these days, you can lose yourself in one of life’s most debilitating obstacles to liberation – fear of change. It’s not to be taken lightly.
The ... Views: 1113
In a conversation with a few colleagues, I was asked how compassionate service contributed to making my life’s decisions. After pondering the question for a minute, I realized how compassionate service had impacted decisions in my life for the last three decades. So, let’s look at the meaning ... Views: 262
There is no doubt we are living in an economy that is more like a roller coaster than smooth sailing. If you find yourself in a position where you want to change jobs or careers or have to change jobs or careers here are some things to take into consideration.
Financial Concerns
Do I have ... Views: 1995
This is the second article in a series. We already decided you are coping with a loss this year. Now, we need to decide how you want to deal with the holidays. By this I mean, do you want to talk about your loss or not want to talk about it?
Lets go over 3 different things you can do to ... Views: 1204
Life is constantly changing. A reality which can be difficult for people with ADHD who often struggle with making changes, especially when they are unexpected. In order to make change more successful it is not enough to know what we want to change or even what is motivating us to change. We need ... Views: 2240
How do you figure out what to do in life and how to do it? Start from your purpose. Get practical practice by choosing three small steps to do for now that matter to you. Then? Do one! Why does this approach work? Because goals matter to your growth.
Indeed, goals help you to figure out ... Views: 1397
I tend to find like marmite, garlic or someone packing your bags at the supermarket, people either love or hate the concept of making new year’s resolutions.
Working with hundreds of people through relationship issues, there is often one in a couple one who loves to plan, organise and ... Views: 1441
What are your goals in life? What do you hope to achieve in the future? Let us take an example. Let us say that your goal is to lose weight and live a healthy life. This is a goal that you would like to attain, therefore let us determine what habits you should have that will work towards ... Views: 1872
My husband Jon’s grandparents lived right around the corner from him while he was growing up, and I was lucky to have met Jon while they were still alive. During the early years of my relationship with Jon, it was a form of entertainment to go to his grandparents’ house and have them show us ... Views: 2115
When you discover what it is you feel destined to achieve, go for it! Even if at first it’s a vague concept in the back of your mind, be sure to nurture it, embrace it, and allow it to expand. As you focus on your dream…start to live it! Open up to all the possibilities that are presented to ... Views: 1269
One of the things that can be drummed out us as we age is our ability to dream. When we were younger they came so easily. Somewhere along the way this ability, those delicious ever changing desires, ambitions and dreams become so deeply buried we seem to be unable to find them. Where did they ... Views: 1576
The Circle - “Driveway Dwellers”
A few years ago when the children left home we scaled down to a new townhome. Having never lived in a townhome community before, and always benefiting from a neighborhood surrounded by long term friends and acquaintances, it was a challenge to make the ... Views: 2112
The Universal Cycle of Change – the natural cycle that describes how everything in the whole universe evolves – has seven stages:
1. Creation – the starting point of every process of change.
2. Growth – the realization, the shape forming, of the creation.
3. Complexity to Maturity – ... Views: 2321
Transcript from 6/14/12 blog talk radio show A Fine Time for Healing, Transitions in Life
Transitions in Life
Written by Randi G. Fine
Life is a series of beginnings and endings. Seasons change; trees blossom and then go barren, flowers bloom and then go dormant, day turns to night, years ... Views: 2301
Throughout our lives we are going to experience the unexpected. We will welcome the things that bring us joy and happiness with open arms and we will resist the things that bring us sadness and heartache. Both are natural reactions to what we want and what we don’t want.
But….what if, ... Views: 1574
Have you ever had days when you felt like Bill Murray in the movie, Groundhog Day, when he wakes up every morning experiencing the same day? Do you feel unappreciated at work? Or even worse feeling worthless because you are out of work at the moment?
How many have had days like ... Views: 2659
“Teach me to dance...”
So goes the line by the character Basil in Zorba the Greek after his friend Zorba has disastrously ordered a third log to shoot down their already-compromised zip line, publicly destroying what was left of the logging business both men had spent months creating.
And ... Views: 1861
As a foretaste of things to come here is a copy of the February 2015 Newsletter from Gregory Reece-Smith for CreatingHarmonyInYourLife.com and originally sent to his subscribers and an opportunity to look back and review how things have unfolded so far in the year, both cosmically and ... Views: 1965
“Our eyes are not viewers; they are also projectors that are running a second story over the picture that we see in front of us all the time. Fear is writing that script. Now fear is going to be a player in your life. You get to decide how much. You can spend your whole life imagining ghosts, ... Views: 2362
With the availability of the various online stores, now the new iPad keyboard case could be easily purchased at an affordable price that would protect it from all damages.
IPad is yet another gadget launched that has cool, stylish and classy look that is a result of successful creations. The ... Views: 1621
It was supposed to be the year you lost the weight/trained to be a rocket scientist/ditched the husband/married the hot chick from accounts/went global. Or at least made some money. You know, the big stuff.
But somehow it’s fizzled out or been swamped by the old routine or engulfed in the ... Views: 1332
We all know purchasing your first home is a monumental occasion. But getting to that day isn’t necessarily a walk in the park. House shopping can be stressful enough, and often, people tend to settle because they can’t seem to find what they’re looking for as quickly as they’d like it. These ... Views: 1035
Sufferers of social anxiety disorder have varying needs when it comes to daily life, and that includes, of course, work environments. While some need limited social interaction, others feel they need to get out and work with a small group of people in order to keep from feeling isolated. One of ... Views: 2211
For a busy working mom, the holidays can be a wonderful time to spend time with friends and family and to drink in all the joy and festivities of the season. And as joyful as this time of year is, it can leave you feeling more rushed and depleted than ever. Maybe you find yourself busily ... Views: 1253
How would your life be right now if you could live each moment without any baggage from the past? "Baggage" as it is referred to is previous memories and experiences that to this day influences our current perception of our reality. Since baggage is in our past, it is safe to say that our pasts ... Views: 2734
Feel the anticipation and sense the wisdom. Have you participated in a debriefing? If not, hang on tight. Accountability is about to enter your life and forever change how you choose to participate in your beautiful First Class Female life.
A definition of debrief: to assess the results of an ... Views: 1408
So, you've completed your college search and registered for your classes. The next step to succeeding in adult education is carving out a dedicated study space for yourself. Having a quiet place reserved exclusively for your studies means that your brain knows it's time to get down to business ... Views: 1812
Setting goals and then pursuing those goals with enthusiasm and joy is like learning how to fly. Taking that big leap to pursue your goals is exhilarating and scary at the same time. Imagine for a minute what a bird feels like when he makes that initial attempt at flying.
The initial flight ... Views: 1890
“What I really need is to set goals for myself“ I told my coach at the start of our call “if I knew what I was working towards, I would be able to take action”, I continued.
Within thirty minutes on this call, I was in tears, admitting both to my coach and to myself that what I really needed ... Views: 1087
Clearing space typically means something like organizing your garage or clearing the excess activities off of your calendar.
These are the kinds of things you get to choose to eliminate.
What about those areas you don't get to choose?
What about the space created from loss?
All ... Views: 1620