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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Is your anger keep you stuck? Here's what to know. - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2018 from Martha BodyfeltAs you recover from your divorce and move on, there is one all-too-common emotion that causes us way more headaches than you need. Anger. Being ticked off. The persistent rage that will not leave you but could jeopardize your future relationships. To start off with, there is something ...
Views: 1476 - Positive Parenting Through Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2008 from Lauri Allison LaBadieWhen a marriage ends, the greatest challenge parents face is minimizing the trauma, hurt, and loss for their children. Through positive parenting, adults have the power to help their children adjust to this major change. Healthy parenting also brings rewards to the adults as they get to feel ...
Views: 1476 - Caution: The Starbucks Police Is Listening - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2013 from Valery SatterwhiteIf you follow me on Facebook or Twitter you might have seen my post: "Note to woman blabbing in the corner of Starbucks: The expiration date on blaming you parents for your misfortune is long past." If you know me at all, you know I'm an observer of the human spirit and the human ...
Views: 1475(1 vote) - Spring Cleaning - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2010 from Meghan GehanI love spring. Who doesn’t? One of the things I love about spring is that I get to clean out my closets and dressers, deep clean my bathrooms and kitchen… throwing myself into that yearly ritual of getting rid of what doesn’t fit me or my life any longer in order to make room for the possibility ...
Views: 1475(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm having problems with my Daughter-In-Law - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm having problems with my daughter in law . I I love her. She and my son had a relationship for more than fifteen years and were married for six. They have two preschool age children. I always thought My daughter-in-law and I got along, but now we can only ...
Views: 1473 - How To Stop Your Divorce - The Steps to Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2011 from John VickiThe absurd, yet indisputable feeling of letting your wife slip away has just happened and you are hopeless at this point. Your marriage is coming to an end. You plead and beg with promises to change. She is not willing to change her mind, no feeling, unlike all the other times before. There has ...
Views: 1473 - Wife Shows No Affection After Baby: Unhappy Marriage After Baby - Sexless Marriage After Childbirth - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2018 from Colten ReeseWife Shows No Affection After Baby: Unhappy Marriage After Baby - Sexless Marriage After Childbirth Millions of couples a year suffer through a lack of intimacy. Not all of them make it. The ones that do make it do it through hard work and possibly uncomfortable conversations. It helps first ...
Views: 1473 - Should I leave my partner? - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Dia ThabetShould I leave my partner? A few days ago, while surfing one of the forums, I came across a question by a woman asking, “Should I leave my boyfriend?” She says that he is “cold” toward her and doesn’t show any feelings toward her. She went on saying that he cares mainly about his work among ...
Views: 1472(2 votes) - 7 Ways To Stop Work Stress From Ruining Your Marriage - Marriage Counseling Advice - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Nicola BeerThere is no doubt that work stress has become an increasing factor in marital dissatisfaction. Today couples work on average a thousand more hours each year than people did thirty years ago. This number tends to increase further in expat cities, as well as if you are an entrepreneur. All the ...
Views: 1471 - What are some of the common feelings when experiencing a shock divorce? - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2012 from Adele TheronMy name is Adèle and I am a Divorce Angel. I remember the first four days after my husband left. They were brutal. At 02:30 am I was on my third glass of wine and hadn’t eaten in three days. I had been in my pyjamas for 36 hours straight and had chain-smoked 40 cigarettes (and I’m not even a ...
Views: 1470 - Divorce Support: A Curse or a Blessing? (by: Dr. Anne Brown, PhD, RN) - by Submitted on May 02, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownIt really is up to you every day whether you see divorce support as a curse or a blessing! Whether you are the giver or the receiver, I recommend you reframe it as a blessing. Is this easy? Of course not! However, if you actually go through the trauma of getting divorced and you stay married ...
Views: 1469(1 vote) - Does Divorce Have To Have A Negative Impact On Our Kids? - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley StileGoing through a divorce where there are children involved is an anxiety-provoking scenario with much worry on the past of the parents as to what negative effects the divorce will have on their kids. I firmly believe that it isn’t so much the divorce but how you choose to handle the divorce that ...
Views: 1469 - Going through a Nasty Divorce? How to Cope with It through Meditation - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Nelson BerryBy The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online. There are plenty of reasons why couples would decide to divorce, but the bottom line is this: no matter how much a former husband and wife say it’s going to be all right and it’s an amicable decision, it’s never going to be worth celebrating. A ...
Views: 1469 - My Husband Drinks Everyday: How Do I Get My Husband To Stop Drinking - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2019 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Drinks Everyday: How Do I Get My Husband To Stop Drinking As a psychiatrist that specializes in treating addiction, I witness people married to an alcoholic elicit promises from their partner to stop drinking alcohol. People will nag, plead, and beg their alcoholic husband or ...
Views: 1469 - Which Spouse Is Responsible For The Credit Card Debt In A Divorce? - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2012 from Adam TijerinaDivorce can be one of the most painful things to happen to a person. Some psychologists believe that divorces are as stressful and as painful as a death in the family. Divorce not only takes a toll on the two spouses, it can have a very negative effect on children. If they see mommy and daddy ...
Views: 1469 - 5 Ways to Avoid Court at all Costs! (by: Anne Brown PhD, RN) - by Submitted on May 12, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownDivorce can be ugly. Courts can make it uglier. I think we are all in agreement "settle out of court". How can a couple do that when they are fighting to the extent they are filing for divorce? You are probably going to get tired of hearing me say first always "Fight for your Marriage." 1. ...
Views: 1468(1 vote) - Book Defends Divorce Challenges Tradition - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2013 from Ennis PepperBook Title: In Defense of Divorce: Why A Marriage Should Never Be Saved At The Expense Of A Life, by Ennis Pepper Published through: Amazon Kindle New book defends divorce from traditional religious ideas, extenuating the guilt and reserving emotional energy for solving practical issues ...
Views: 1467 - Dating After Divorce - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2020 from Randi FredricksMost of us found dating difficult prior to getting married, and it isn’t generally any simpler after divorce. Everybody has baggage, but divorced people frequently have a tendency to carry much more of it, particularly when they’re just coming back towards the dating scene. This is one of the ...
Views: 1467(3 votes) - How To Get Online Marriage Counseling for free? - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2012 from Olivia PeterWhen cash is tight, several couples who are experiencing marital issues might desperately seek different ways to induce “skilled” help, like online marriage counseling. Free of charge is very appealing, but there are a number of things that should be taken into consideration before looking ...
Views: 1465(1 vote) - Cure for the Divorce Blues - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Ed Sherman8 Things You Can Do to Make Any Divorce Better Divorce is enough to give anyone the blues, but based on my experience with success in over 45,000 cases I can give you the following eight tips that will definitely help make things go more smoothly and easily. Not only that, if you follow my ...
Views: 1464 - Did I Marry the Wrong Person? Marriage Problems & Marriage Advice - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2016 from Nicola BeerWhen people get to the stage of seeking help for the dissatisfaction or conflict in their marriage, they often wonder “Did I marry the wrong person?” or “Did I marry right or well?” These are common thoughts many share with me that they struggle with. So, how do you know if you have? Is there ...
Views: 1464(1 vote) - How to Fight Dumping and Divorce in Today's World - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2011 from Kimberly MitchellWith the statistics of divorce being so high, the idea of 'staying together' can be almost impossible to imagine. For those who are in a relationship or already married, the fight is not over yet. First, you decide. You decide that this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life ...
Views: 1463 - After the Divorce; How To Recover - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2010 from PD RiversLESSON ONE: Dealing With the Anger Begin this first lesson by writing down your feelings about your divorce in your journal. Don’t say “I can’t do this” or “I don’t know what to write”. You know what is in your heart and what you feel. 1. Was there another person involved in the ...
Views: 1462 - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm a single father of a 6 year old daughter - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I hope you don't mind me writing you but I came across an article that you said: "The best interest of the child also could preclude a mom from gaining custody," says Dr. Tessina. "If a judge doesn't deem that the mother meets the ...
Views: 1462 - Dr. Romance on: 11 things people won't tell you about divorce - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2014 from Tina TessinaThere's a lot of misinformation about divorce, and Dr. Romance would like to clear up some of the confusion. Here are 11 things people will not tell you about divorce. 1. Divorce will not make you happier, unless you’re leaving an abusive relationship.2. Divorce sometimes seems ...
Views: 1462(3 votes) - Feeling Lost After Divorce? Help is here! - by Submitted on May 30, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltDivorce is tough for many reasons. Not only are we dealing with the emotions and logistics and finances, but after the dust has settled, we may feel like our life's plans have changed direction. The life you planned and your vision of the future may disappear, leaving you with a feeling of not ...
Views: 1462 - Get An Ex Back - Common Mistakes to Avoid When You Get An Ex Back - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2011 from Kevin TeoWhen you want to get an ex back after you’ve broken up, be careful to avoid the following four mistakes that can make your ex detest you more and avoid you in the process. Don’t worry, avoiding these mistake will be easy once you know what they are. Mistake 1 - Begging Your Ex Begging ...
Views: 1462(1 vote) - 3 Sure-Fire Relationship Killers - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2013 from nancy traversWhen couples get married they never think they will be among those who get divorced. Yet a hefty percentage of marriages do end in divorce, so some of these people who can’t imagine divorce on their wedding day will certainly face that prospect eventually. Psychologists have identified behaviors ...
Views: 1461 - Dr. Romance: Spouse's Child - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2013 from Tina TessinaInfidelity: 3 Tips on Finances after your Spouse's Girlfriend Has a Child It’s not the first thing everyone thinks of, but the existence of an out-of-wedlock child will have a big economic impact, and the financial responsibility will grow with the child. 1. Unless you can settle with ...
Views: 1461(1 vote) - Tired of Being Bitter? - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltWhen we are experiencing or recovering from divorce, remembering to find joy in everyday things during any season can be difficult. One of the reasons that, despite our best efforts, we can find it almost impossible to move on is when we are prisoner to one of the ugliest feelings of ...
Views: 1461 - Coping With Breakup - 5 Essential Steps In Coping With Break Up - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2010 from Johnny WayneIt is difficult in coping with break up. However, when you cope with break up, it is very important to think that you really can move on despite the hurt and you can really let go of that love. Even if time will only tell that you are healed, patiently wait as time will also heal all the ...
Views: 1459 - “Who Am I And Where Did I Go?” - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2007 from Patti HandyI remember it vividly. It was shortly after my divorce was final and the highly emotional state had calmed a bit. Although it did not happen suddenly, the realization hit me like a slap in the face. I didn’t know who I was. The I that I was looking for had been pushed aside for years, by me. ...
Views: 1458(1 vote) - Is rejection actually a gift? Yes! - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltNone of us are immune to rejection. It doesn’t matter where you are in life, and whether it’s ending a marriage or breaking up with a partner. Even the strongest of us can’t help but feel like we did something wrong when the person we loved and cared about and spent our lives with as a ...
Views: 1455(1 vote) - SO YOU WANT TO DIVORCE. SURE, WHY NOT? JOIN THE CLUB! - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2017 from Harry KarmeliSo You Want to Divorce. Sure, Why Not? Join The Club! We know there is something big happening in our society, the very old and traditional bond agreement we call Marriage, is losing bedrock foothold it long held with stability. At my children's elementary school class, close to sixty percent ...
Views: 1454(1 vote) - Why your friends and family are sometimes the worst support during your divorce - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2012 from Adele TheronAlthough your friends and family are an important part of your life, you may find that they’re ill-equipped to support you through your loss. I found that even though my friends and family were well meaning, they often said or did things that were inappropriate. Whenever we hung out together, ...
Views: 1452(2 votes) - How Your Children’s Divorce Affects You - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from rita morganIt started out to be a nice visit from my son. We spent a great deal of time talking about our jobs and how our family members were coping with every day trials and tribulations. When we moved on to his family, he dropped the bombshell. I felt as though I had been kicked in the stomach when the ...
Views: 1450(1 vote) - The Journey Through Divorce/break-ups/relationships - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2011 from Marion LicchielloEach time something in our life ends it creates room for a new experience. Within each new experience is a stepping stone;some are little tiny pebbles and others are big boulders. Some are fun and some are exhausting. But with each passing day we learn why we are here, what our mission is ...
Views: 1449 - My Husband Never Touches Me Sexually: My Husband Doesn't Touch Me Anymore - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Husband Never Touches Me Sexually: My Husband Doesn't Touch Me Anymore "My husband doesn't want sex. Will general techniques help?" It may surprise you, but actually, "Yes!" Read on to find six techniques that improve things across the board. These often improve things in the area of ...
Views: 1447 - A Man’s Guide To The First Night of Marriage - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2017 from Randy SkiltonThe build up to ‘The Big Day’ is generally dominated by the female of the species and her chosen band of merry women – bridesmaids, mother, mother-in-law to be, sisters, aunts – basically any woman with a relationship or blood connection to the bride. Don’t be fooled. Weddings, their ...
Views: 1446(1 vote) - College Planning – What Needs To Be Done During A Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2010 from Brian JamesMost couples with children have no structured college savings plans set up. This is even more so after divorce proceedings commence. There are so many complex issues to discuss that college planning for the children takes a back seat to everything else. Things such as, “We’ll work it out when ...
Views: 1446 - Does Marriage Restoration Work - Restoring Marriage, Does It Work? - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2011 from Johnny WayneDo you believe that a broken marriage can still be mended? Restoring a marriage is possible if you know the “hows” of doing it. Love needs to be protected, secured and preserved. You have to give in to its “necessities” in order for it to develop to its fullest. Nobody can eradicate a ...
Views: 1444 - My Wife Never Seems Happy With Me: No Matter How Much I Do It's Never Enough - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2018 from Henry JosephMy Wife Never Seems Happy With Me: No Matter How Much I Do It's Never Enough Living with an unhappy person presents its own unique set of challenges. If that person happens to be your wife, it's an even more difficult situation. It's natural for any husband to take on the weight of blaming ...
Views: 1444 - Solution to Getting a Divorce in a Recession - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2011 from Edward L. Amaral, Jr.Divorces are a financial strain on your family because they divide you and your spouse’s cumulative assets (lawyer’s fees aside). In this economy, where assets are quickly turning into debts, it is critical to understand the financial consequences of a divorce and how to make the most out of its ...
Views: 1444 - Marriage: The Anticipated Birthday Gift - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Dawgelene SangsterDo you remember what birthdays were like when you were a child? You anxiously awaited your birthday gifts so you could unwrap them. You didn't really know what to expect sometimes, but the excitement of getting that gift was well worth the wait. Your spouse is like that much anticipated birthday ...
Views: 1443(3 votes) - Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Especially For Men - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2007 from Pauline WallinBREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO -- ESPECIALLY FOR MEN By Pauline Wallin, Ph.D. Divorce is harder on men than on women. Surprised? After all, it's the woman who suffers financially . . .who has to juggle work and kids on her own . . . who is more apt to end up in a therapist's office. Meanwhile, ...
Views: 1441 - You Can Only Be Replaced If You Let It Happen! - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2021 from Dr Rick GoodmanIt was 1994 when the papers were delivered to my apartment; I had just joined the ranks of 50% of the population when my wife filed for divorce. As a single father my biggest fear was that someone would come in to my ex-wife's life and that person would eventually replace me as the figurehead ...
Views: 1439 - 4 SIGNS THAT A MARRIAGE WOULD END IN A DIVORCE - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2017 from Pritom DasAfter going through several divorces, it becomes easy for the divorce lawyers to figure out a shaky relationship from the one which would last a lifetime. Having seen several couples fight out till the end or give up the fight in favor of their love, they know the ground rules of how to make a ...
Views: 1438 - 4 Tips To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Kay iqbalIf getting your ex girlfriend back after breaking up is your reason to live then keep reading. The majority of the time the break up happens because you have done something wrong. Maintaining lasting relationships by men can be bit of a mission but it is definitely possible, they just need a ...
Views: 1437(1 vote) - Demi Moore Is doing Divorce Right! And Her Children Are Reaping The Benefits. - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2008 from Rosalind SedaccaToday’s Hollywood is rarely a place to find role models for our culture, especially when it comes to divorce and family issues. Year after year we’ve been exposed to dramatic, painful, explosive relationship breakups resulting in tabloid headlines that feed upon scandal and ...
Views: 1437 - Instant Gratification BUT what IS best for me? PART II - by Submitted on May 14, 2013 from Adele TheronAs human beings we can tend to become fascinated by ourselves and our stories and can allow ourselves to become too self-indulgent and it can be destructive. As long as we recognise the vision of where we want and need to be and what it takes to get there, the time that you determine it to take ...
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