If getting your ex girlfriend back after breaking up is your reason to live then keep reading. The majority of the time the break up happens because you have done something wrong. Maintaining lasting relationships by men can be bit of a mission but it is definitely possible, they just need a little know how. The main thing you need to be aware of is the actual reason why the relationship ended in the first place.

Where did the relationship break down? Where did you lose track of everything? These are probably the sort of questions going through your mind right now. If they are not then they will be when you start thinking about getting back with your ex girlfriend. What you will find is some girls are outspoken about what your faults were whilst others tend to keep things to themselves. If you are trying to figure out where you went wrong there is no harm in asking your ex girlfriend straight up. This will help you understand more what she feels that needs to be changed to make the relationship work.

If you are not having any luck with getting her back, here are a few tips to try:

1) Pay more attention to her. If you really want your ex girlfriend back then this is important as it demonstrates you care and are sensitive to her needs. All women desire their partner to give them due love and attention, women are just wired that way so give them what they deserve. Compliment her on that new dress she's wearing or mention her radiant smile still looks as beautiful as the day you first met, small things like these will make her feel special and will make you bond more.

2) Provide more emotional support in the relationship. Women have different views on emotional support than men so you need to figure out what exactly she is looking for her. She may need more than simple verbal affirmations that you are going to make it work so show her you really care by buying her that something special she had an eye on but never got chance to get. This will put some emotional attachment to the object and will get things moving to the next stage to getting her back.

3) Needless to say but don't cheat on her! This also applies when she has cheated on you. Doing this will only make you more emotionally fragile and will not allow you to think straight, you need a cool and logical head if you are to get your ex girlfriend back. On the contrary cheating will only confirm that you are not ready for a long term relationship. If you like sleeping around then you don't really deserve a lasting partner so you shouldn't be reading these tips in the first place!

4) Show her you care. If you still live together then help out more with chores around the house or try sharing more experiences together. This will show how much you respect her and are willing to share all responsibilites equally with her. This will also be reflective on how you handle your relationship, helping your ex girlfriend understand how serious you are in getting her back.

The whole process of getting your ex girlfriend back is not that difficult but it does involve making basic life changes and you must act in a mature and responsible manner. It is very important to show your love for her and build on trust by being open about your relationship. You need to be loving and caring but at the same time address both your needs. This will help your relationship grow and blossom into a lasting relationship.

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