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Life Coaches are sprouting up all over the Internet as this industry explodes. So how do you set yourself apart from other coaches? Although we may not be in “competition” per se, we still need to make ourselves distinct from each other.
What is unique about you as a coach?
· Is it the ... Views: 1097
Now is the time
Now is a good time to re-assess the important relationships in your life
As another year draws to a close it is timely to reflect about the coming year and how we’d like to it to be. Over the coming weeks, many people will make “new year’s resolutions” that express the ... Views: 702
There is much written about how to improve motivation and hold onto it. Unfortunately, motivation is one of those things that easily elude us. Where does motivation come from? How do we get it and make it stick? Can we really do or say anything to motivate another person if it has to come from ... Views: 1273
Is it just me, or are we all swimming in a sea of messages, texts, Facebook invitation, updates from LinkedIn, the Twittersphere and voice mails (landlines & cells)?
I know of someone who actually carries 2 phones on him at all times. He drops what he’s doing and dutifully bids the phones ... Views: 1353
Calling all procrastinators (there’s a lot of us!).
Would you like to make significant headway with your project this week?
Do the “worst” thing first.
This is probably not what you want to hear, but there’s a very good reason to start with the “hard” stuff. Doing the hardest task ... Views: 963
3 Tips to Get Things Done
Ever kick yourself for not sticking to your goals and objectives? Do you sometimes get derailed and distracted with something else which takes away your focus and taking action? Ever find yourself frustrated and annoyed with yourself because you just cannot seem to ... Views: 887
Fear is an adventure in expanding limitation. Think about it. Normally you experience fear when you are at the edge of your experience. You are about to venture off the familiar path, and explore the new.
Take a moment to find the fear in your body right now. Where do you feel the edge that ... Views: 949
Things are changing everywhere, all the time — in the economy, government, online. And it doesn’t look like the rate of change is going to slow down any time soon. Whether you look at the global or the local landscape, your personal or professional life, change is on the menu.
You can easily ... Views: 994
We live within moods and sometimes we don't even recognize their names... no really. Think about a domain of your life; i.e. work relationships, personal relationships, etc. Then put a name on the mood that mainly runs how you behave there. Taking a look at my work life recently, I discover that ... Views: 1304
I heard a great quote recently that got me to thinking about what it means to be optimistic: “If life doesn’t give you at least a little sugar as well, your lemonade’s gonna suck”. In other words, a positive attitude isn’t always sufficient in and of itself.
I come from a strength-based, ... Views: 1196
“Happiness Doesn’t Depend Upon Who We Are Or What We Have; It Depends Upon What we Think”
Happiness… our ultimate goal. But should it even be a goal, or a daily habit?
Thousands of books have been written on the subject, seminars taught, articles published, debates debated… yet a lot of ... Views: 2167
Lean but not too skinny, and not to muscly either. Slim hips, cellulite free and toned thighs, small calves, skinny ankles… When it comes to talking about our legs, we seem to have what we want pretty clear.
We all have different body types and are genetically predisposed to store fat in ... Views: 2367
Sugar is a name given to a class of edible crystalline carbohydrates, mainly sucrose, lactose, and fructose, characterized by a sweet flavour. In food sugar almost exclusively refers to sucrose, which in its fully refined form primarily comes from sugar cane and sugar beet, though is present in ... Views: 2360
If you know anything about the Law of Attraction, this is the one thing that is forgotten so easily. There is a delay in time, quite often, from the time you decide what you’d like to manifest until the time you experience the evidence that the Universe is about to deliver your goods.
Now ... Views: 1448
TRAINING YOUR DRAGON THOUGHTS
Thoughts become things... so choose the good ones!
~Mike Dooley
I tell people: If you don't want to get into positive thinking, that's OK. Just eliminate all the negative thoughts from your mind, and whatever's ... Views: 990
THOSE INSIDIOUS PARADIGMS-HOW TO SHIFT THEM
We don't see things as they are, we see things as we are.
~Anais Nin
Our Paradigms create our Reality
"Your paradigm is so intrinsic to your mental process that you are hardly aware of its existence, until you try to communicate with someone ... Views: 1144
Failure as a Welcome Friend
“Be of good cheer. Do not think of today's failures but of the success that may come tomorrow. You have set yourselves a difficult task, but you will succeed if you persevere; and you will find joy in overcoming obstacles. Remember, no effort that we make to attain ... Views: 1140
A life coach is not a consultant, mentor, cheerleader, friend or advice-giver. A life coach helps you access "your own" wisdom, and act upon it. A coaching relationship is not about information flowing downhill...It is a partnership between peers, where the focus in is on you and your life. A ... Views: 638
There are times in life when you sit and think, “if only I had done something, I could have been better off”, or “I wish I would have not done that”, or “Can I reconcile what I have done?”, “Am I satisfied with what I am?, many, many, many such questions arise in each of us’ mind but we hardly ... Views: 500
We often believe that the pace at which we move in life is directly correlated to the success we achieve in life. Well almost 73% of people feel this is true. Actually it is not the speed that counts but the quality that does. Life in not a race, where only speed makes you win, it is like a high ... Views: 577
As humans, being rejected is one of our biggest fears. This fear sometimes keeps us from doing things that we want to do, or that we need to do in order to improve our lives.
One of the inherent needs we are born with, or that maybe we acquire during out childhood, is the need to be liked and ... Views: 2704
At eight years old she was playing in large groups of friends, giggling with the other girls about which boy was the dorkiest.
At 16 she was so fearless and quite the sassy teenage girl who stood strong for herself and her worth.
When she was 24 she had these vivid visions of her amazing ... Views: 1260
If you want to change some things in your life you have to change some things in your life. Start by changing the way you look at your challenges. Use creative thinking to make a long list of possible solutions to your challenges and then critical thinking to narrow down the most effective ... Views: 1447
There are times in our lives when the world seems to buck us off and knock the wind out of us. Things happen that blindside us and leave us gasping for breath. Even if we know a change is coming or a major transition must happen, it is easy to become overwhelmed and to feel defeated. ... Views: 1155
Focus, focus, focus! There is power in focus! How many times have we all heard that? I know I've heard that many times in my life. As a creative person, I tend to have so many ideas flowing through me at once that it is difficult to focus on just one thing at a time. Because of this, I've ... Views: 1233
Psst! Abuse. Shhh!
Voicing openly on the subject of abuse is still largely considered taboo and best kept as ‘civilized’ society's dirty little ‘bully secret’. When you think about it, it’s quite inconceivable that in every society bullying as domestic abuse is more acceptable than ... Views: 1916
One of the most frequent questions I get from my more spiritual clients is, “How can I reach my highest potential?”
Not surprisingly, your lifestyle habits and preferences contribute substantially to whether or not you ever reach your highest potential. To do so, you must be in peak physical, ... Views: 2426
Do you present and speak in public with confidence and project credibility? The way a professional delivers a message has a dramatic affect on the outcome. Discover the top secrets for maximum impact.
If you project authentic confidence, it comes through in all ways. Your attitude, demeanor, ... Views: 2308
This month has kind of felt like I’ve been walking through sludge! I’ve been experiencing some growing pains and bumping up against some really deep inner barriers. The kind of stuff that drains your energy on all levels, physical, emotional and spiritual. I bet you know exactly what I mean, ... Views: 1012
A stagnant stigma
Let us take good look at the stagnant stigma surrounding abuse and see abuse for what it really is: an oppressed, suppressed, repressed mighty universal power that has been stolen – mostly feminine.
Now look closer. It takes extraordinary resilience and endurance to ... Views: 1764
Sometimes it’s good to stay put and not make major changes in your business. A busy schedule, a crazy relationship, high stress, or a new pet or child in the family may be all that you can handle at the moment.
Focusing on one highly challenging situation at a time will prevent extreme ... Views: 1202
Just a quick reminder before we get into it today:
TODAY is the last day for Early Bird Registration for POWERHOUSEWOMEN: The World Needs You! I strongly encourage you to participate in this four day teleseminar. On Day 3, I will be working with participants to:
• Identify & breakthrough ... Views: 1297
I’ve always thought everyone is a little weird, or at least everyone has a weird quirk or two. I owned up to my weirdness long ago. If you don’t believe me ask my high school classmates about my white and green striped jumpsuit or my giant 85 dangle earrings.
You may think that being weird is ... Views: 1410
"Don't let a mad world tell you that success is anything other than a successful present moment." - Eckhart Tolle
When I moved to London several years ago I didn’t really know the place at all. I’d visited a few times with my family for the odd touristy day out but still didn’t know my way ... Views: 1217
The safest principle through life, instead of reforming others, is to set about perfecting yourself." - B.R.Haydon
So, how does the above quote reference the importance of personal growth and development? Well, very simply, we must stop trying to expect other people to change so that we ... Views: 1571
Nothing else makes somebody's life less complicated more than technology. One particular things which modern technology has surely made easier is acquiring a relationship with a person by way of internet dating.
As you get yourself into the realm of online dating for initially, you're going ... Views: 836
When we lose our “mojo” and self-confidence is not only painful, but it can keep us stuck in a fearful and emotionally uncomfortable place. “Mrs. Doubtyourself” is the name I give that voice in your head that is your voice of doubt. If you listen to it, it will keep you stuck, scared and keep ... Views: 1181
Coaching supports people in living creative and resourceful lives. The idea that freedom and wholeness are our birthrights are two of the Core Principles that the Coaching for Transformation* method uses in supporting people in realizing their creative potential. In this article we will explore ... Views: 1049
I found myself in this beautiful light room. It must be one of those rooms you would find in a baroque palace. The ceiling was high and decorated with beautifully carved angels overlooking the whole room. On one side there were windows high enough to let the angels look into the world. On the ... Views: 1248
I’ve heard many tales of things gone wrong in a business, like…
• Partners stealing
• Outrageous debt
• Employees that disappear when needed most
• Stacks of bills and no new customers
• Overwhelming amounts of work and not enough time to get it done
• Computers crashing and no ... Views: 1334
The other day a client told me he had been taking anti-depressants. I didn’t know him to be depressed, so I asked if he had been diagnosed. He said he went to the doctor because he’d been having trouble sleeping and he’d been stressed out, and the doctor prescribed anti-depressants.
I was ... Views: 2421
/mo·ti·va·tion/
1. The reason or reasons one has for acting or behaving in a particular way
2. The general desire or willingness of someone to do something
3. *My own definition: the art of getting off your butt and getting stuff done
Because here is the thing: you may have a ... Views: 3909
I am living in a brand new landscape as of 2 weeks ago. Yet it is the same one where I have been living for almost 2 years.
It is a beautiful landscape that is home to the smaller house where I live with my partner and my dog-child Ollie, the larger house of the man who owns the property, ... Views: 1039
I’ve been doing joint ventures (JV) for over a decade. Last week I had a major aha moment that will change the future of every JV I do.
"A joint venture is a strategic alliance where two or more parties, usually businesses, form a partnership to share markets, intellectual property, assets, ... Views: 1068
Getting in touch with your inner guidance lays a firm foundation for self-empowerment. When you get in touch with your inner guidance, you are no longer working alone. You have “inside” help. You are opening up to being guided to your highest good. This is important because part of the ... Views: 1510
Let me ask you this: What is being your Legacy to the world? How is your perception of yourself? How are you projecting to the people around you? Is it consistent with who you are? What Meaning you are giving to your Life? What you Stand for?
Yes! I know… These are very deep questions that ... Views: 1414
What holds you back from your dreams?
It is usually not lack of ability or talent.
Often, what holds us back is fear.
Fear of failing.
Fear of being successful.
Fear of not knowing how to attain our goals.
If you can think of achieving your goal not as one big action but as a series ... Views: 890
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we're powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are you NOT to be?
Your ... Views: 812
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we're powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are you NOT to be?
Your ... Views: 812
Recently, I registered for a three-day marketing event intending that I would walk away with a new and brilliant tagline for my company. I felt that the tagline would solve several of my marketing issues. I was straight up desperate.
I filled my notebook with tons of next steps during that ... Views: 1421
Please pardon my choice of words I hope I didn’t offend you. I just couldn’t find a better word to describe what I am experiencing right now. I remember as a kid when my legs would hurt my mom would say, “Oh you’re just experiencing growing pains.” I thought, OK that makes sense, a small price ... Views: 1278