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Who are we, standing here on this planet, looking for a place to be? Are we the “forgotten ones” from a time gone by, a piece of pre-history perhaps, that lets itself unfold through the pages of time?
Are we here all alone, or are we part of something bigger, larger perhaps than we ... Views: 1349
Awareness is unity with the present moment. Being fully aware brings together your spirit, mind, emotions, and body. And awareness is inherently expansive; it grows whenever you grant it the opportunity. Therefore, awareness is dynamic and constantly probing the edges.
Keeping your mind ... Views: 2924
"The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference." — Elie Wiesel, French-American writer and 1986 Nobel Peace Prize ... Views: 830
Those who contemplate the beauty of the earth find reserves of strength that will endure as long as life lasts. There is something infinitely healing in the repeated refrains of nature— the assurance that dawn comes after night, and spring after winter. - Rachel Carson
What does the change of ... Views: 1019
Are You Willing?
We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.
- Joseph Campbell
If there is one question that defines whether we will have a full-filling life experience or not it is "Are You Willing?" We often have goals, ... Views: 1380
My life coaching clients often ask me why their life isn’t working, or why they can’t achieve a specific goal, and I’ve found the easiest way to find answers to these questions is to analyse your successes. Your failures can provide you with the same information but if you focus on your ... Views: 1203
Your success is controlled by your thoughts.
Do you have control over your thoughts? Sadly, the vast majority of people don't.
The quality of the questions you ask yourself and the quality of your answers will dictate the degree of success and fulfillment in your life.
When something goes ... Views: 1221
Boost your Confidence
Are you fairly confident in your own shoes? When do you feel your best? When do you feel the most insecure? Even the most confident individuals go through periods of self doubt. I am pretty secure in who I am and what I believe, but there are plenty of days where ... Views: 3920
Perhaps you are wondering: what does it mean being my own leader?
Well, among the aspects of being your own leader are that you are your own authority, you think independently, you live your life on your own terms, and you are authentic.
And this regardless of whether it is popular or not, ... Views: 825
There comes a time in life when we have to stand still and be honest with ourselves and maybe even someone else. We all have dreams, desires, passions, interests – things we’ve wanted to do, have, or be.
And, yet, often when I talk to people about their lifelong dreams a sort of resistance ... Views: 737
How often have you heard yourself say that you wanted to do something, but your actions led you in another direction? So often we dream about things that we would like to do or be, but we never actually start doing or being that thing. While it is great to have an intention about what we want, ... Views: 926
Why would you set off on a Journey without a map, plan, and vision of where you want to end up?
Adventure you say…Well that's like closing your eyes and just hoping you will hit the bull's-eye in darts, when you really, really WANT to hit the center. Adventure may be fun when you have nothing ... Views: 1010
Are you wondering if you’re burned out or afraid you may be getting there? Here are some quick tips to see if you are burned out and what you can do about it.
Are you experiencing two or more of the following?
1) Difficulty getting out of bed and getting to work in the ... Views: 1207
One of the best things about being diagnosed with ADD is that you finally have an explanation for many of the challenges you experience in life.
So this is why it's hard for me to get started and follow through! This is why it's hard for me to pay attention in meetings! This is why it's ... Views: 925
If you are happy and you know it clap your hands! If you are not happy then now is the time to create the life you want. Our natural state is happiness. Sometimes we are not in our soft circular state therefore we are not open to our happiness. Imagine yourself in the center of a circle and ... Views: 1114
There is an inherent problem with the approach most people take to self improvement of any kind. There is a presupposition that there is something wrong that needs fixing. Perhaps it is true that there are areas in their lives that they wish to change. However, the mindset with which they ... Views: 554
When a bit of sand gets into an oyster, the oyster doesn’t cry and complain about how unfair it is, or tell the sand to get out. It responds by reflex, slowly and patiently surrounding the grain of sand with layer upon layer of a white substance. It doesn’t happen overnight, but ultimately this ... Views: 917
Stacey Chillemi keeps a positive outlook when disorder poses challenge
BY KATHY BARATTA
Staff Writer
Author Stacey Chillemi, shown here with her husband, Michael, tries to look on the bright side of life as she deals with the effects of epilepsy.
MANALAPAN - Stacey Chillemi is no ... Views: 1407
When the priest was moved to a new parish he approached he asked his superior to ask for permission, “Would you mind if I smoked while praying?” and was, not too surprisingly, turned down.
Some wise people instinctively know they can gain approval by how they ask. Set the stage for people to ... Views: 1729
Avoid being road-kill on this super charged super highway called life in the 21st century. There is an increase in the amount of information and activity that bombards us on a daily basis and there is no sign of a slow down. In fact, we can feel its exponential growth. It is time to take charge ... Views: 2226
Last week I attended the annual conference of the North American Simulation and Gaming Association. I have served on the NASAGA Board for the past six years. During that time I have served as the Chair twice and our company also has pro¬duced the annual conference.
Never have I learned as much ... Views: 1351
As we embark on the first month of a brand new year, most of us have made them, New Years resolutions that we have every desire and intention to keep, but sometimes find it difficult to follow through. Many of us may want 2007 to be the year that we finally shed those extra pounds, exercise ... Views: 1049
The bumper sticker on the car in front of me said it all: “ You ARE your fortune cookie”!
And the message struck home. Every day in everything we think, say, and do WE are creating the fortune of our life. We ARE determining our destiny. And in this time of dynamic energy, the demonstrations ... Views: 767
Helping ourselves live more fully often requires us to "step out of the box". Usually, we live our lives based upon tired old concepts and end up making haphazard choices. The truth is, however, that the perfect life will arise from the space in our heart that is beyond all mental concepts, all ... Views: 682
It's been a little over 17 months since I decided to change my life completely and work full time at my passion of photography. In that time I have attracted many more wonderful things into my life than I ever thought possible.
I have won awards for my photography nationally and internationally ... Views: 1171
According to Ad Age magazine, the slogan introduced for Coca-Cola in 1929 – “The Pause That Refreshes” – was the third best advertising slogan of the 21st Century. I can see why, it’s a great slogan. And I believe its message is one we can employ in our personal and professional lives with much ... Views: 1141
Your Thirty Golden Minutes
Would you like a new idea that could greatly impact your outlook, attitude, productivity and happiness? Would you be willing to make a change to your daily routine in order to increase your personal satisfaction and help you reach your goals faster than ever before? ... Views: 1153
Introduce interesting topics of conversation - good movies you've seen, places you've visited. If you're stuck, ask the other person something - Do you have children? Did you get away over the [holidays]? Have you read [the latest bestseller]? Where do you work? Any of these questions will get ... Views: 1728
Do you remember when you were in school and someone on the playground or in the hallway pushed you? What was the first thing that you thought to do? In most cases you immediately wanted to push them back, right?
Your self improvement efforts work exactly the same way.
If you are considering ... Views: 725
How well do you manage change in your life?
It's an important question, as practically every philosopher in history has pointed out, because change is the only constant in life; it's the one thing we can really count on.
And as there are so many circumstances out there in the world we can't ... Views: 953
“I am a big fan of dreams. Unfortunately, dreams are our first casualty in life – people seem to give them up, quicker than anything, for a ‘reality’.” Kevin Costner
“Study hard.” “Get good grades.” That’s what conventional wisdom says. Success, we are led to believe, will be based on natural ... Views: 1771
Energy-Wise, Are You a Cheetah or a Tortoise?
Christine-Anne Platel, Life Coach and Certified Metabolic Typing Adviser
ENERGY-WISE, ARE YOU A CHEETAH OR A TORTOISE?
ARE YOU TIRED ALL THE TIME?
DOES YOUR WEIGHT FLUCTUATE?
DO YOU HAVE FOOD CRAVINGS AND FEEL WORSE AFTER EATING?
DO YOU ... Views: 2132
Far too many of us have become "life potatoes", sitting on the couch watching passively as our life goes by.
Waiting for happiness, peace of mind, love and satisfaction to come along without any effort on your part hasn’t worked up to now, has it? Instead, you can change your life through two ... Views: 697
Many people lead their lives from a safe, familiar, comfortable place. Their lives are good, but they are secretly wishing they could be more, do more, and experience more. They are eager to step over the threshold of comfort and out the door, yet not quite sure how to do it, or where to go ... Views: 966
The beginning of knowledge is asking why,
The beginning of wisdom in understanding how—Kendall Ronin
Much of our life consists of working. Most of us spend at least forty hours a week working for someone else. Many of us spend more time than that either working for ourselves or perhaps ... Views: 1212
Start with the idea that how you do anything is how you do everything and it will empower you to investigate how you relate, not just in a love relationship, but also with yourself and all others. This defuses the mindset of looking to fix what is ‘broken’ and sets you on the path to having ... Views: 2085
Think it, Believe it, Speak it
I think the most important thing we can do in life is accept responsibility for how it turns out. It doesn’t matter what your faith is, at the end of the day, life is what you make of it.
And invariably, it’s the thoughts that we give life to by the power of our ... Views: 571
I recently had the pleasure of watching Marc Forster’s film, Stranger Than Fiction, which I found to be a delightfully charming, intelligent comedy written by first-time screenwriter Zach Helm. I give it two guitars up. Way up. (Platonically speaking of course).
It’s about an uptight IRS agent, ... Views: 1055
Yes, it might feel great to win the lottery. Money, houses, travel - these are wonderful, but not enough by themselves. You need the right frame of mind to fully enjoy life. You need the attitude of gratitude.
Be Grateful
Life is better when you feel blessed, when you can look around and say ... Views: 853
(This is Part 3 of a series of articles by the author on Finding and Following Your Life Purpose and Passion).
What are the signs that you're on the right track and on the way to, or actually already living your life with true purpose, real meaning and passion, and fulfilling your true ... Views: 2052
I have been reading through my books on abundance lately and found the perfect exercise. The method mentioned below left me with a fantastic feeling that "all good things are on the way."
After a few minutes I felt the peace of clarity that had been escaping me for years. No seminar or guru ... Views: 584
by Catherine Franz
Did you know that rich people keep piggy banks around their home? Yes, generally they do. Multimillionaire Kim Kiyosaki, wife of Rich Dad Poor Dad Robert Kiyosaki, and author of “Rich Woman: Because I Hate Being Told What To Do!” was on the Let's Talk Marketing radio show ... Views: 2648
I used to think that being healthy had to do with my body—being physically healthy. I thought that taking good care of my body would make me a healthy person. I have come to realize, however, that health has to do with more than just physical health. Health includes four important aspects: ... Views: 636
Gina consulted with me because her marriage was falling apart. She had discovered that her husband was having yet another affair, and when he was with her, he was either angry or withdrawn. She had requested numerous times that he join her in couples therapy, but he had no interest in healing ... Views: 4682
Everyday I receive at least five artistically photographed catalogues urging me to buy jewelry, evening wear, winter apparel, gadgets, cookware and foods. I get advanced sale coupons from department stores flattering me as a “preferred customer.” Commercials on TV and radio have ramped up the ... Views: 1191
Perfectionism is characterized by compulsive striving to achieve unrealistic expectations. We typically think of perfectionists as striving for perfection in all or many things they do, but some people hold unrealistic standards for others as well. And still there are some who believe that ... Views: 1579
Are you happy with your life? Really? Do you jump out of bed each morning with a smile as wide as Paul McCartney’s lawyers’? Nope? Then we need to have a chat.
The question is: ‘Why not? Why aren’t you that happy?’
Ok maybe using a lawyer is not a great example but you can see where I am coming ... Views: 584
Did know that only 3% of all people have written goals and know where they are going in their life?
Did you know that 10% of the general population dream about changing their life in some way and think about their future periodically?
Did you know that 87% of the general population live their ... Views: 620
"Mind your own business" has gotten a bad rap over the years. Most people use it to mean "butt out!" but really, if we spend more time minding our own business, just imagine how much further we can get in Life.
What is unfinished?
We need to ask ourselves, 'What one thing would I really ... Views: 1432
A few weeks ago, I attended a reading at Barnes & Noble for Violin Dreams, the latest book by Arnold Steinhardt, first violinist of the renowned Guarneri Quartet. When asked during the Q&A about advances in recording technology, Steinhardt replied that while digital technology enabled the ... Views: 818