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Anxiety is largely the result of what I call ‘emotional landmines’ i.e. negatively charged memories stored in your unconscious mind and body that keep getting re-triggered by daily events. The triggering of these ‘landmines’ leads to anxiety and other painful emotional and physical experiences ... Views: 1038
The Economy and how it has affected the Ego
Being weighed down by self-doubt can be crippling. You know you can, you know you should but, somehow you just can’t bring yourself to move. You get comfortable in the stuck mode, you know this is not good but it gets extremely difficult when you ... Views: 2232
How many times have you said yes to something you didn’t really want to do? This can be simple things like doing a favor when your plate is full or accepting an invitation you don’t enjoy. It can also be around larger issues. Many people don’t pursue their life purpose because of pressure from ... Views: 1084
Melinda and I were chatting after a group class at the gym. I congratulated her on finishing an e-book for her website, and she started to tell me about a new initiative she was working on. She said, "I'm planning on working with a coach on this. I've pretty much decided on someone. He's local." ... Views: 990
We all want to get our needs met, but manipulators use underhanded methods. Manipulation is a way to covertly influence someone with indirect, deceptive, or abusive tactics. Manipulation may seem benign or even friendly or flattering, as if the person has your highest concern in mind, but in ... Views: 1515
High self esteem is an extremely important characteristic of all highly successful people. Without building high levels of self esteem you are unlikely to see yourself as being worthy of success or happiness, and as a result will never truly try your hardest to achieve it.
High self esteem will ... Views: 828
Now that the semesters are over, the exams are right around the corner waiting to pounce on you. It is the time of the season that makes you break out in a sweat at the very thought of the impending doom that awaits you. Even being prepared with the academic assignment helps little and you ... Views: 1092
Earlier on, whilst I was out shopping, I saw an image of a famous athlete with the words “stay humble” written on it. This is someone who is at the top of their game and is known all over the world.
It is clear that this person realises how important it is for them to keep their feet on the ... Views: 934
If someone were to ask you, you would probably say that you were a pretty happy person. You try to keep a positive frame of mind and stay upbeat. It can be difficult, though, to maintain a positive mindset when you find yourself surrounded by negativity.
Here are a few ways you can help keep ... Views: 1188
If someone were to ask you, you would probably say that you were a pretty happy person. You try to keep a positive frame of mind and stay upbeat. It can be difficult, though, to maintain a positive mindset when you find yourself surrounded by negativity.
Here are a few ways you can help keep ... Views: 977
No. It’s one of the shortest words in the English vocabulary, but it’s also one of the most difficult for many of us to say.
We all know that setting limits will lower our stress level and save our sanity, but sometimes we are caught off guard by people who simply won’t take no for an answer. ... Views: 975
Did you know that many people make themselves door mats because they believe deep down that they will be rewarded for doing so? Did you know that there is no “reward” for this self-destructive strategy besides a downward emotional and physical spiral?
Did you know that this tendency to submit ... Views: 970
Did you know that self-respect is impossible if you are needy? Did you know that neediness is the main reason for low self-esteem, low self-confidence, for feelings of inadequacy and feeling extremely unattractive and being rejection-prone?
Did you know that your neediness will undermine any ... Views: 1468
An extraordinary fact about blushing is that it is unique to humans. Charles Darwin called blushing “the most peculiar and most human of all expressions”.
Why do you blush?
The reason for blushing is not the same for everyone; being the centre of attention, someone giving you praise, being ... Views: 2612
Does procrastination rule your life? Does it feel like you sit helplessly on the sidelines of your life as you watch this uncontrollable force run it into the ground? Do you realise that means you:
a) have totally lost control over your life and therefore;
b) have no life?
Do you feel ... Views: 1277
We all know when a needy and desperate person is in our midst. They feel ‘sticky’ and seem to drain our energy. If you suspect that this is you, then you are probably feeling insecure, lonely, in need of validation or love, in need of being cared for, feeling afraid or vulnerable. This is a very ... Views: 1653
Did you know that many people who are afraid of rejection, intimacy, and abandonment often tend to fall into self-sabotaging behaviours such as manipulation, avoidance, overeating, jealousy, drug and alcohol use, infidelity and so on in order to try and “protect” themselves from being ... Views: 1455
Procrastination is generated and kept in place by unconsciously hidden negative programming in the form of negative thoughts and feelings that take control over you and your life. In order to fully purge this life destroying habit it becomes imperative to unearth this underlying negativity and ... Views: 2111
Did you know the only reason most people live in scarcity is because they have been hypnotised into accepting a host of limiting beliefs around their ability to create the abundance they rightfully deserve? Did you know most of those beliefs are held outside of conscious awareness stored deep in ... Views: 1229
Know your Inner Critic.
Most people believe and feed an inner critic who points out faults and flaws, dwells on the negative, and is often downright abusive. This can lead to procrastination, inactivity or avoidance. It affects your emotions, your self-esteem, confidence, courage and joy of ... Views: 1299
I recently read a comment on my blog which read:
"Why do you think self esteem is so important?
My reply to that question was,
Self esteem dictates whether we do something, if we feel like doing something, how we do something and why?
Self esteem is sometimes overlooked by many ... Views: 1009
Shyness is a problem that everyone deals with from time to time. Though it is different for everybody in different situations, shyness essentially stems from the same root in the human psyche, and manifests itself in similar ways, no matter who the person is or the situation they find themselves ... Views: 1677
For understudies who stay away from their course books consistently, tests transform into a ceaseless bad dream. It's a competition to test your speed to traverse an entire year's schedule. With board tests not far off, there are a lot of individuals who are doing likewise. In the event that you ... Views: 737
In the regular life scenario, one has to work under pressure and keep everyone around us happy and contented. In this constant endeavor to these people, are you getting the short end of the stick emotionally? Are you the one who has to constantly compromise and feel short-changed? Do not reach ... Views: 1134
Getting more follower does not mean that your Instagram followers are increasing. What I am trying to say is that if you see the number of followers is increasing but you are not getting the result you want then those followers are nothing at all.
That is why when you increase your Instagram ... Views: 978
Tolerance is something which is becoming a relatively scarce commodity in today's world. In fact, it might be said that a state of intolerance abounds. But like anything, this depends on the particular circumstances or area to which the concept is being applied. In many ways we are more ... Views: 1149
Are you one of the many people who have trouble with motivation? You are not alone. It is extremely common to simply feel unmotivated to do the things we need to do. But as common as this feeling is, it is not our natural state at all. While motivation experts have made millions of dollars ... Views: 1183
Do you get down on yourself so often that you feel depressed or weighed down by your negative thoughts? Have you lost the self confidence you once had? It may be helpful to know that you’re not alone.
Many people have an internal dialogue that fuels negative thoughts and hinders their ... Views: 1473
As you know, shyness can create an array of problems. You struggle in pretty much every social situation. You ask yourself, how can these people speak so effortlessly? whilst you’re stuck trying to form a sentence. You look at the more spontaneous people, wonder how they do it so easily and wish ... Views: 1017
I do not quite remember who said this but one of the most familiar quotes which I found nearly everywhere I went when I was getting into college was ‘when the going is tough, the tough gets going’. Impossible, as it seemed to me then, the saying was in picture frames, was hung behind doors in ... Views: 1722
How To Use Affirmation Correctly
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"I am, therefore I exist," is a phrase affirming one's existence as a being. It may be a simple phrase, however it says everything about the being saying them. It indicates a confidence not commonly ... Views: 667
Rapport
Rapport is the exchange of communication between two or more people. It is like a table tennis match with the ball going back and forth between two or more players. In good communications the ball is in play. When the communication breaks down, the ball is no longer in play and ... Views: 1340
Are you feeling overwhelmed by complicated or confusing emotions? In order to increase your self-awareness and gain an understanding of why it is you feel the way you do, or react in certain ways, journaling could be the answer for you. Through journaling, you can expand self-awareness by ... Views: 6329
One night last week after everyone had gone to bed, I sat by myself fully immersed in a self-doubt session. What if my latest e-book is a dud, what if my articles aren't up to scratch, what if I'm doing the wrong thing, what on earth made me decide to follow this path anyway (duh hello, you ... Views: 1128
There's more than one way in which travel contributes to building confidence. The most obvious is that you have to step outside your normal day to day routines and familiar places and people to travel at all.
Following on from that is the fact that travel opens your eyes to new things. ... Views: 6477
From the book "Contemporary Parables"
We need to understand how we value ourselves and hopefully heal ourselves from an epidemic of self-doubt and self-rejection.
We are spirit which is eternal and divine. Being divine in nature there is no question about our worthiness. As spirit we are ... Views: 4369
We hear a lot about the importance of loving ourselves these days, and how we can’t love someone else until we truly love ourselves. While I don’t entirely agree with that statement (adult attachment theory shows that it’s through secure attachment to loving others that we feel loved and, ... Views: 1266
OUR MIND IS LIKE A TIME PIECE
Let’s imagine for a moment that we are each equal in some aspects to a chunk of time… we sort of are, right? And let’s imagine that our minds are similar to a fine time piece, because in some ways it is. We are gloriously complex and beautiful in our ... Views: 1765
Recently a little something fascinating occurred to me. I crafted a present for somebody, and they totally adored it. As they commented on it and praised it, they questioned me about the time it took me to create. I shrugged and replied, "Only a couple of hours" - while in truth I actually spent ... Views: 955
While doing research for this article, I came across this clip. It’s hilarious and a perfect representation of how what we expect can completely overpower our better senses.
Now, this clip is about water, but the same can’t be said of people, can it? Believe it or not, but a study by ... Views: 1604
Do you spend your days feeling like you aren’t really living up to your potential? Are you frustrated by the feeling that the way you are today isn’t who you really are? Many people don’t realise it, but your Authentic Self can, and probably has, become buried over the years under old emotional ... Views: 947
There are some people who are able to be themselves, and while they can adapt, this is not something that always takes place. Not only do they have a sense of themselves, but more importantly, they will feel that it is safe for them to be themselves.
At times, they’re going to understand the ... Views: 1730
If an alien came to planet earth and asked someone who they are, one is likely to say that they’re a human being. But without needing an alien to land on the earth, this is the description that one could use.
However, although one is a human being, it doesn’t mean that one acts like one. ... Views: 1648
From a very young age most of us were taught to respect authority; it started with our parents, then went onto include our teachers, and continued with the people we worked for. There will also have been the government, the media, and there might have even been different religious leaders.
... Views: 1131
When someone achieves something, they could tell other people about it or they could simply carry on with their life. As a result of this, there is the chance that everyone they know will find out about what has taken place, or there is the chance that no one will.
A Closer Look
Now, if ... Views: 1905
Hunting is the pursuit of wild animals and birds with firearms. Some hunters use traditional weapons, such as muzzle-loading rifles from the colonial era, to hunt small game. For big game, hunters use high-powered rifles to bring down their prey. Waterfowl hunters use specially-bred dogs and ... Views: 702
Self esteem is the person’s estimation of themselves and this could also be based on the way they observe others. A feeling of low self esteem could create phobias and annoying problems for people from all walks of life and could even cause them to behave or act in an unacceptable manner. ... Views: 620