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Feng Shui Living Colours
Bring change into your life using Feng Shui Living and Colour
Using colour it is easy to shift the energy in your home with Feng Shui.
The 5 elements that encompass Feng Shui Living; that being
fire, earth, metal, water and wood have colours that represent ... Views: 1743
Just about everyone wants to have more success in business and in life. The desire to be all we can be and feel fully alive is healthy. But in this eagerness to create a good life, many of us miss the mark by unknowingly falling prey to some common formulas for failure rather than grasping ... Views: 671
Desire is the key to motivation, but it's determination and commitment to an unrelenting pursuit of your goal - a commitment to excellence - that will enable you to attain the success you seek. ~ Mario Andretti
There is a law governing life that says "Desire is the motivating factor of life." ... Views: 720
You have two alternatives. You can blend in with the mold or you can rise above the rest.
Remarkable customer support will position a business in a class by itself. But, the craving to grant wonderful customer support isn’t something in which we're born. It’s a option we make. The ... Views: 6008
Attitude can be defined as the way an individual looks at life. It is the outward reflection of what is taking place on the inside. It becomes his/her personality…it pervades their feelings and becomes their actions. Attitude is one of the most important aspects of life and a key to ... Views: 1056
The gratitude season is here. With Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah and the New Year on the horizon, maintaining a calm grateful attitude throughout the next several weeks will reduce your anxiety, put you in-control and increase your personal blessings tenfold. Your holiday season will be ... Views: 2151
One of the best teachers I've learned from, Joshua Rosenthal of the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, once said that you can make more progress when you aim for the middle ground with your actions and words.
He was referring to the die-hard, my-way-or-the-highway, food police type ... Views: 681
No one is perfect, and as long as people work, there will be behavioral errors, and situations that need correcting.
There is a lot of room for improvement in the way bosses, coworkers, and friends handle these situations.
One of the most popular responses to correcting behavior is to ... Views: 1514
We have often heard they hurt my feelings or if that happened I would finally be happy. What someone did or what happened is just an event, it is our story about it our beliefs about it that create our feelings.
Some clarity on the difference between events and stories.
Events just are what ... Views: 1533
Life brings you many experiences, some of which may be good and some which are not so good. Your perception of these experiences will determine whether you look at these as stepping stones to a better you or as stumbling blocks which hold you back. It’s not about life being fair or just, it’s ... Views: 1489
Sandy came to see me to be hypnotized to quit smoking. As we talked, she indicated that she'd tried everything else, and this was a last resort for her. If this didn't work, she was going to give up. Unfortunately, that was the message her subconscious got. Not that she wanted to stop smoking, ... Views: 793
Forgiveness in life
Is forgiveness a sign of weakness? Does unforgiveness hurt you? Does forgiving someone benefit you?
Every person should learn how to forgive, which really means when you think of someone that upset or hurt you, you wish him or her good and prosperity. When you don’t ... Views: 1162
Attitude Problems That Kill Your Business
And What You Can Do About It!
Most of the time we don’t think about our own attitudes. We certainly don’t think they could kill off our business or our personal lives. But truly, everything we do comes from our attitudes. And our attitudes come ... Views: 2071
How well do you build reserves? And we’re not just talking about money, although the concept is the same. Do you have reserves of time, resources and energy? Are you running your life, or is your life running you?
We are all familiar with the concept of building financial reserves. Your ... Views: 1652
Choices; we all make them everyday. Some of us learn from the poor choices that we’ve made in life. Some of us regret the choices that we’ve made. A lot of us understand the repercussions of the choices we have made. A lot of people don’t understand the repercussions at all.
I feel that there ... Views: 1762
Imagine someone you do not particularly like coming up to you, and in front of all your friends, begins to passionately accuse you of things you have never thought of, let alone have done. How would you react in such circumstances?
In such cases, maintaining temperance is the key; otherwise, ... Views: 3038
Why doesn’t everyone just get along???? We hear this all the time. Whether it is differing values or conflicts or misunderstandings, some people have a harder time than others just getting along.
And even worse, when they aren’t getting along, they’re the ones who expect the other person to ... Views: 1281
"Two men looked out of prison bars. One saw mud, the other stars." ~ F. Langbridge
All human beings get to define "what success means for me." Our ideas about success unfold over the years. Once we've mastered using eating utensils, how to walk, the subjects taught in schools, relationships, ... Views: 751
Assumptions are made too often and ordinarily will not get anyone too far while trying to get to the bottom of most issues that arise. For some, assuming answers, rather than allowing facts to be discovered, can come naturally to an individual.
This person may have used this method for so ... Views: 9874
A strange thing happened a few days ago, that I wanted to share with you.
I was part of a small group standing in a field next to an industrial complex, and the subject being discussed - - -was building another accompanying complex...
The group consisted of a two developers, two local ... Views: 837
The continual doom and gloom news of the financial recession in America can bring down even the most lighthearted among us. This is especially true if you have experienced some setbacks due to the economy such as a lay off, a pay cut, or loss in investments.
Even if you're generally a ... Views: 955
Who programmed your subconscious mind
How did your beliefs and opinions become ingrained in you? Did some people affect the way you think? Who programmed your subconscious mind?
You probably know that thoughts are power. You also probably know that opinions and beliefs are formed because ... Views: 1224
What makes a person sexually attractive? Some guys with almost perfect bodies can't get girls while other men who who don't have the looks are surrounded by women. Let's talk about 7 main aspects that make a person attractive.
1. Boldness. Some people do whatever they want no matter what ... Views: 2990
“People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.”
I think most of us have heard that poem before. It’s a very touching and pointed piece which speaks of the heart of life. We all have experienced this with others or perhaps we have been one of these for another. Probably ... Views: 1486
How wonderful it would be if we could help our children and grandchildren to learn thanksgiving at an early age. Thanksgiving opens the doors. It changes a child's personality. A child is resentful, negative—or thankful. Thankful children want to give, they radiate happiness, they draw people. ~ ... Views: 1762
Today's topic? Competition.
I can't tell you how many phone calls we get about this topic. It's number one on everyone's list... who is the competition? How do I beat them? They're going to take all the clients!!!
NOT TRUE. Plenty of business out there for everyone folks.
Let's take a ... Views: 2447
Everyone measures it differently. Some measure it by how much money they make. Others measure it by their career path and corresponding title. Then you have the people who measure it by the things that they have such as the size of their house, their art and jewelry, and the number of cars that ... Views: 1779
Expressing gratitude and acknowledging the positive things in our lives expands our energy, enables us to appreciate the blessings we have and helps us to attract more of them. It also helps us connect with our inner guidance and tap in to our creativity. But being thankful for the good ... Views: 2671
Why do some people need to be right, even if it adversely affects their relationships or degrades their own health and welfare?
Lately, I’ve become all too aware that I’m very fond of being right. As I pondered the premise, a real poser fell into my lap. What if there is no wrong? What if ... Views: 1699
Do you know how to change your behavior? What are the steps needed to change your behavior?
We all want to change some behaviors or habits from time to time. For ambitious people, they tend to have many behaviors that they want to change or improve in themselves. Let me ask you something, do ... Views: 1584
You dread going to work. Every morning you drag yourself out of bed. It is not that the body is weak but the mind is not willing. Most of us know the feeling of dreading to go to work. If not for a long period of time, at least at some point of your career you would have felt that way.
Is ... Views: 5585
Are great employee qualities fast disappearing in the workforce? If it is then you should quickly see if you can adapt some of these and make yourself competitive. Is it so difficult to have great employee qualities? If after reading these you know it is not difficult to practice some of these ... Views: 6267
You are feeling Monday blues and it is only Sunday night. You are not alone in the wide world of working people. Many people feel the way you do and there are many who have found a way of dealing with Monday blues. There are also those who are lucky who they do not feel it. So, how do you deal ... Views: 2505
The Background
In my work as a department head, I have to provide guidance for my staff in terms of their career growth. Unfortunately, when it comes to the topic about successful career planning, they feel that it is some big project that requires deep analyses in order for career planning to ... Views: 1347
How to keep a Job in Tough Times
By
William Cottringer, Ph.D.
“The quickest way to appreciate your job is to imagine yourself without one.” ~Oscar Wilde.
In tough economic times, it is not a good thing to be unemployed. And if you are lucky enough to have a job, you don’t want ... Views: 2075
I recently returned from a 3 week vacation in Ireland and Scotland. During that time, I changed the ordinary flow of my days. I felt like I had taken charge of my life again. Simplify, Simplify, Simplify were the words that kept ringing in my head. I checked email only once a week in order ... Views: 1046
With all the excitement of the playoffs and the World Series (which, thanks to the success of the San Francisco Giants, we get to experience directly here in the Bay Area), I've been thinking about, watching, and appreciating the great game baseball a lot these past few weeks. As someone who ... Views: 1480
Personal presentation skills include correct, method of portraying oneself in public or a social surrounding. It is basically the ability to enhance our communication skills in an appropriate manner. Whether in a completely official set up or while dealing with situations in our daily life, ... Views: 2190
A young college athlete stands at the free throw line and throws the basketball at the basket over and over again. She is visualizing her success and at the same time she is conditioning her body to automatically respond to the stimulus of her desire to successfully put the ball through the ... Views: 1171
Are You A Worry Wort?
By
William Cottringer, Ph.D.
“You know you are in big trouble when you start worrying about how much you are worrying.” ~ The Author.
With all the stresses from the overload that now plagues us today, we all probably worry too much about the past, present and ... Views: 2083
We are all tested to find our persistence level. How dedicated are you to achieving your vision? Will you keep trying no matter how many times you get knocked down?
Persistence is to the character of man as carbon is to steel
Napoleon Hill
The basis of this is the power of your will. ... Views: 1321
Q.T.I.P.
Is your curiosity peaked? You never know where or when an important message will present itself. Last weekend I heard such a message. Patricia Clason, a speaker and Business Coach, talked about different triggers you can utilize to empower yourself in any circumstance.
The ... Views: 6957
Pain
Pain; it’s a subject that most of us would rather not hear about. Others less fortunate cannot get out of their minds. Of course pain comes in many forms.
Physical pain is the most obvious form. I am not a physician so I will not address the physical or psychological issues ... Views: 1133
“Quality is never an accident; it is always the result of high intention, sincere effort, intelligent direction and skillful execution; it represents the wise choice of many alternatives.” - William A. Foster
Loads of people begin out as average students. We were continually daydream at ... Views: 1060
The Law of Attraction is simply this: the more intense your feelings around something, the sooner it will come to you. That is why it is more important to talk and think about what it is that we want in our lives as opposed to what it is that we don’t.
- Katherine Woodward Thomas
What is ... Views: 6396
I was once a prisoner of perfection. If I couldn't mop the entire kitchen floor perfectly, I wouldn't do it at all. If I couldn't declutter my entire closet, I wouldn't clear out anything. See, here's the deal with perfection. Some people may look at a cluttered, messy home and think, 'well, ... Views: 1330
It's no wonder that bad things happen in threes (or fours or fives). It's no wonder that certain slumps go on and on.
It's easy to allow negativity to swallow us up. When we focus on bad things, that's what we see. But it goes beyond that: When we focus on bad things, we get more of them. We ... Views: 3378
Do you ever ask yourself the question, "Why is this happening to me?" Most of us do, especially when things aren't going the way we want them to or we're dealing with something that's difficult or painful.
A few years ago I was talking to my friend Brian about this and he said, "If you ... Views: 1793
8 characteristics creative people have
Are you creative? Do you come up with original thoughts? How can you become creative?
There is a study that was done in the United States that shows creative and successful people have certain characteristics that other people don’t have. The study ... Views: 3556
How to change yourself for the better?
How do you improve and change yourself for the better? Do you to grow and evolve as a human being?
Each and everyone of us wants to change our life for the better and change our behaviors. You should know that true change comes from within. Your ... Views: 3526