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- Beliefs & Stories (BS for short) - by Submitted on May 13, 2011 from Steve DahlWe have often heard they hurt my feelings or if that happened I would finally be happy. What someone did or what happened is just an event, it is our story about it, our beliefs about it that create our feelings. Some clarity on the difference between events and stories. Events just are ...
Views: 1646(1 vote) - Are you taking it Personally? - by Submitted on May 13, 2011 from Steve DahlAs with any relationship, it's nice to apply one of the 4 Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz; "Don't take anything personally". No matter what anyone says or does, no matter how personal it seems it really has nothing to do with you. It is just the other individual trying to work through the stories ...
Views: 1434(2 votes) - Change Your B.S. Change Your Life - by Submitted on May 13, 2011 from Steve DahlWe are conditioned by society, family and anyone we believe is an authority on what is and isn't proper and possible. More rules than we can consciously remember are laid upon us through Beliefs and Stories (BS) constantly throughout our entire lives. Most of the time we aren't even conscious of ...
Views: 1609(4 votes) - Sympathy - by Submitted on May 13, 2011 from Steve DahlWe have all been taught to sympathize and feel sorry for our fellow humans that are in distress. Have you noticed how you feel when you're sitting with someone going over their troubles and you start to relate and sympathize? As you connect and relate with the other, you start to feel just ...
Views: 2392(2 votes) - True Forgiveness is Recognizing there is nothing to Forgive. - by Submitted on May 13, 2011 from Steve DahlMany of you have recognized that your experiences of Life are created by your beliefs and stories. Sometimes we get so involved in our stories, that we think they are true. While we are under the power of these stories we become insane; Doing things that no rational person would ever do, ...
Views: 4833(3 votes) - Reality & Real Life - by Submitted on May 13, 2011 from Steve DahlRecently Someone asked me "Is there a difference between Real life and Reality?" My response was; it depends on your definition of Real Life and Reality. My gut feeling is, real life is this game we play and call reality and ultimate reality is what some would call enlightenment. As ...
Views: 1094(1 vote) - Events & Stories - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2010 from Steve DahlWe have often heard they hurt my feelings or if that happened I would finally be happy. What someone did or what happened is just an event, it is our story about it our beliefs about it that create our feelings. Some clarity on the difference between events and stories. Events just are what ...
Views: 1465(1 vote) - Forgiveness Is Remembering There Is Nothing To Forgive! - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2008 from Steve DahlWe all can think of times, when we imagine someone has injured us, hurt our feelings or even our physical bodies, by doing or not doing something to us or for us. What you consider YOU is the personality of you that has very little to do with any specific physical body. Through millennia sages, ...
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