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- Some Of The Signs Of Male Attraction - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSo how could you really say or determine if a man is already attracted to you? Knowing the answers can tell if you find true love in your life. Well, what I am going to share with you are just some of the signs of male attraction. And some of these signs of male attraction are: 1. If a man ...
Views: 2024(5 votes) - Heed This Relationship Advice- Never Lose Yourself In The Relationship - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYesterday I was having lunch with my “self- confessed not marrying type” friend and she asked me out of the blue “How do you keep yourself when you are madly in love with lover? How do you not lose your selfhood in the oneness of an affair?” “How can do you maintain the ‘I’ in ‘We’?” I was ...
Views: 1932 - Commitment Phobia- What To Do About It - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraHave you ever been in that state in your relationship when everything is just so perfect that it scares you? This is too good to be true, you say to yourself. Now, what- you know at the back of your mind commitment is the next step if you want to continue with it. The big “C”- commitment. ...
Views: 2114 - Friends Turning Into Frenemies? What To Do If Friendships Drift Apart - by Submitted on May 11, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraLet's face it, not all friendships are bound to last forever, as there are times when friends cannot withstand and keep up with the shift or the dynamics throughout the years. You may outgrow each other and reality sets in and it happens--just like marriages fail and lovers experiencing ...
Views: 1595 - Love Vs. Attraction- The True Unmasking - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno Spijkstra“Anyone can love a rose but it takes a great deal to love a leaf... it is ordinary to love the beautiful, but it is beautiful to love the ordinary...” it’s right what they say about clichés, they tell the truth. Before we decide to get involved into something- may it be in business, in ...
Views: 2831(2 votes) - Rebound Love: Is He Really Seeing Me? - by Submitted on May 07, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYou swoon, you sigh. He is so romantic, so perfect! He is constantly calling you, giving you sweet nothings. He pampers you tremendously. He tells you every day that he will do anything and every thing you want. Your heart sinks every time he cries by the mere thought of you leaving him. You ...
Views: 1573(4 votes) - Open Your Eyes To The One You Adore - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraEver notice a guy with geeky glasses, murky–colored shirts and acid–washed jeans? In high school, we wouldn’t take a second look with a guy who’s got a bad skin and a hairstyle you can’t even tell which year. We’d rather be caught dead than seen with them in public, we avoid these people. ...
Views: 629(2 votes) - Anger Management: Dealing Kids With Bad Temper - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDealing with kids who have bad temper is one of the difficult tasks that parents or teachers can do. Many people said that it's better to get by with adults because they already know what is right and wrong. No need for you to explain and they can recognize their mistake. But how about kids? ...
Views: 1139 - The Truth About Aspergers Autism Aggression - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAspergers autism aggression is a disorder which can make an individual very furious and aggressive with themselves or with other people. There is no studies or researches done for this Aspergers autism aggression, and just a few number of persons is affected by this kind of disorder. The primary ...
Views: 1842 - Develop Your Empathy Skills To Improve Your Relationships - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno Spijkstra“I know how you feel.” This is usually one of the most overused and abused statement if we want to show our empathy for other people. But you should avoid saying this so casually since our feelings are very personal stuff; let’s face it—you don’t exactly know how a person feels at that moment ...
Views: 2716 - Alcohol Addiction: Alcoholism Is A Disease - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen we hear the word addiction it's apparently connected to drugs or alcohol. When you realize you could no longer control your alcohol intake, you can somewhat call it as a kind of disease. And that's what you call alcohol addiction. When we talk about disease, it's certainly sure that you ...
Views: 847 - Save Your Relationship: Watch Out For Hidden Relationship Traps - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraOften times we get to wonder why it’s so difficult to maintain a peaceful loving relationship. Why it’s hard to keep the fun and frolicking last for even a week. Why it’s impossible to have a month long of harmony in the relationship. There are times when we get tired of feeling empty in an ...
Views: 1414 - Why Things Don’t Work Out: The Truth About Bad Habits And Cheating - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt’s no secret that bad habits can hurt one’s marriage. But U.S. Government National Institute of Child Health and Development made a study of more than 160 relationships in Louisville University to back it up. Their study revealed that if you have nasty habits, your partner can never get used ...
Views: 2131 - Dangerous Relationship Advice That Can Kill Your Love Life - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe beliefs and rules you live in life are a huge factor on how to save your relationship. If you think that your love-affair is a huge failure because you and your partner are not following certain "rules", then it’s time to break that belief. Here are some love tips that can be hazardous to ...
Views: 992 - Cracking The Alpha Male Code - by Submitted on May 05, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSo much has been written and said about the Alpha Male—that paragon of maleness every man secretly admires and every woman secretly fancies. The internet is awash with tips on how to transform oneself into an A-type male in a matter of weeks, even days, and promises that once the transformation ...
Views: 2960 - Aphrodisiacs: For A More Satisfying Sex Life - by Submitted on May 05, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSex is essential to a marriage or any other romantic relationship. Without it, no matter how much you love each other, you will feel there’s something missing. Sex is an expression of your love and it releases tension and makes you feel good afterwards. But no matter how much you love to have ...
Views: 1599 - Some Easy Ways Of Controlling Anger - by Submitted on May 05, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAnger could be brought about by other internal or external agents. It could come about as the outcome of a quarrel or a fight, a bout with a boss, a traffic jam, or even a past memory of a hurt or grudge could cause anger. According to certain health and wellness experts, anger can be defined as ...
Views: 848 - An Introduction To Aggressive Driving - by Submitted on May 04, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAggressive driving, which involves improper and inappropriate operation of a motor vehicle with the intent to harm or frighten other people, has become more and more usual in current years. The question of ‘why’ is not usually talked about. However, it's essential to acknowledge that aggressive ...
Views: 1805 - Women For Sobriety’s New Life Program - by Submitted on May 04, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFor numerous ladies, hearing that she is constantly in charge of herself and also of her own life is a brand-new concept. Women For Sobriety trains ladies that they do not need to feel like victims, or they are helpless beings, but that instead, they are strong, and capable human beings! The ...
Views: 982 - Your Perfect Guide To Kissing Passionately - by Submitted on May 04, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWho doesn’t want to be kissed? Nobody. Each and every one of us loves it. It has that certain magic that leaves us in a daze. Kissing passionately is truly one magical art. It enchants…enthralls. Kissing passionately is usually a prelude to a more appetizing and exciting action. Even the ...
Views: 1638 - Stress Management: Essential For Preschool Teachers - by Submitted on May 17, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMore than three decades ago, teachers have a strong power to control their students. Parents allowed teachers to give strong punishment to their children because they believe that teachers can make students learn when they are afraid. Teachers in the past have strong direct authority over their ...
Views: 3905 - The Reason Behind Our Specific Food Cravings - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt is a fact of life that we all have food cravings in general—and it’s called hunger. There are actually all kinds of cravings of certain foods which could be caused by a nutritional deficiency, a habit, or can even be caused by our emotions. Some people would crave food when they lack ...
Views: 708 - Can You Handle An Open Relationship? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraOpen relationships are otherwise known as polygamous or polyamorous relationships. It is defined as a situation wherein couples go into mutual agreement to date and engage in sexual activity with other people although they still continue being in a relationship with each other. In the past, ...
Views: 3030(4 votes) - Is It Important To Discuss Your Sexual History? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIn just about any kind of relationship, honesty is one of the qualities that many people want, hands down. After all, who doesn’t want a truthful, genuine and honest partner? These traits are very important, particularly in an individual’s sexual relationship with another person. While sex for ...
Views: 1906(5 votes) - Sex Drive Boosters - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSex isn’t just something that a lot of us enjoy; it’s also something that could improve health. Yes, sex is actually good for everyone! Studies prove that having sex regularly helps increase immunity from viruses, reduces stress, and also helps protect a man’s prostate gland by emptying the ...
Views: 1636(4 votes) - Marijuana Addiction: Answer These Questions To Find Out - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraToday’s marijuana is up to 10 times much stronger and potent than the marijuana of the past decades and with advanced efficacy, relates advanced addictive properties. Much of the social understanding regarding this drug where formed in those times when it was quite difficult to get addicted to ...
Views: 703 - The Not So Delicious Facts About Food Addiction - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFood addiction is a very serious topic that requires discussion in its own right. It’s a problem which affects not just the individual suffering from it, but also their family and close friends. In essence, this condition is one which mingles a craving for food with a food allergy. If an ...
Views: 772 - This Christmas, Be Nice To Yourself - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt's Christmas season once again, and it's time for a breather since the past 11 months you've been working hard. It's the season to be merry and gift-giving. And speaking of gifts, you give your family, friends and loved ones gifts in the spirit of Christmas. But have you ever realized that ...
Views: 560 - The Top 3 Things To Try To Relieve Stress - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIn our world today, people just have too much in their hands that they lose sight of some of those things which are somewhat important to their well being. As a matter of fact, stress management tips are fast becoming something we constantly look for when we do get some time. That is because ...
Views: 1091 - Reaching The Top Most Peak Of Orgasm - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraReaching the top most peak of orgasm for women is like finding your way through the streets of China. It has lots of twist and turns and U- turns; you can get lost and end up being laughed at or gotten angry at. But if you can discover the way to females orgasm, you will be greatly rewarded. ...
Views: 2487(3 votes) - Me Jane, You Tarzan: Examining Gender Differences - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMost men are clueless about women. No matter how hard they try, the poor souls are often swimming in a sea of confusion where the supposedly weaker sex is concerned. Whether they are arguing with their mothers, sisters, wives, girlfriends, and yes, their 5-year-old niece, they always end up ...
Views: 1664(4 votes) - Sexual Confidence Boosters For Him - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraNot all men are born like Casanova, whose amorous charms no woman can resist. It is not unusual for men to experience a sudden lack of sexual confidence around women. In fact, a lot of guys usually feel some form of anxiety because of being unsure of what to do to satisfy their partner in bed. ...
Views: 1098(3 votes) - De-stress- Nobody Can Get Rid Of Stress But You Can Reduce It - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWho wants to destress in life? No one wants to have stress but almost everybody has it. Young or old, students or professionals, gay or lesbian, and worker or employer, everyone don't have a choice but to face the fact that once you live in this planet, stress is always with you. Simple ...
Views: 1560(5 votes) - Hand Job 101: Let Your Hands Do The Talking - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMaking love is one of the factors that keep the passion burning in a relationship. Keeping it exciting and stimulating can awaken any dormant bonding. But keeping sex life alive requires conscious effort. One thing that makes sexual intercourse exhilarating is foreplay and second to giving a ...
Views: 6352(4 votes) - Why Sex Is Important To Men - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraI know, I know some would say that what a ridiculous statement, of course it is important to men but why? Some say that they think about it twenty three hours a day, seven days a week. Even the most famous psychologist, Freud agreed that it is the main goal of men- to get sex when they need it. ...
Views: 10276(3 votes) - Losing Her Interest In Sex? Cure Your Premature Ejaculation - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMen hate to talk about this. It’s either they deny the problem and shove it off in the back of their minds or they are too embarrassed to discuss it. For those with innocent minds, let me explain to you what premature ejaculation is, it is the most common sexual dysfunction. It is a man’s ...
Views: 970(3 votes) - The Advantages Of Joining Social Anxiety Forums - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSocial anxiety disorder is characterized by severe fear during social situations and this could start at a very early age. If a child does not get help and support, he or she could develop the condition until adulthood. The harshness of this condition could become truly worse that the individual ...
Views: 740 - The Principle Of Getting Rich: No Need For A 9-5 Job - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIf you think about it, no one really gets rich or is getting rich just by merely saving money or depending on your paycheck from a 9 to 5 job. Your mindset has a lot to do with how you view wealth, abundance and prosperity in general. The whole world is open to anybody who will be willing to ...
Views: 670 - Conflict Resolution: Not As Easy As 1, 2 And 3 - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWouldn’t it be great if we can just take a simple and easy test to resolve our conflicts and have a proper conflict resolution? A multiple choice test will be the best: 1. The individual you’re in conflict is? A) Demanding B) Controlling C) Indecisive. You can select from letter A, B, or C and ...
Views: 959(1 vote) - Career Counseling For Teenagers - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraJust like everything else in life, if you want to do something the right or proper way, you have to know the basics in order to succeed. You cannot add up 100+100 until you know that 1+1=2. The same goes for finding your first job in high school; you got to have the basics. A friend of mine ...
Views: 1040 - What Women Want When It Comes To Fondling And Kissing - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt doesn’t take an Einstein to figure out that a woman’s body is every man’s preferred figure to explore. But you have to remember, my dear enthusiastic explorer that there is so much more in a woman’s body than the breast, vagina and butt. And if you want to have a fulfilling intimacy with your ...
Views: 4313(2 votes) - Using Sex To Relieve Stress - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Menno Spijkstra“Not tonight, Josephine” even the famous conqueror Napoleon Bonaparte can decline the carnal needs from the Empress Josephine because of stress… well I’m not sure about that but basically most couple compromise their sex- life because of too much pressure. If only I’d get a penny for every man ...
Views: 1143(1 vote) - Sexual Pleasure Your Man Would Love For You To Know - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraEver been curious to know what mind blowing sexual pleasure your man would truly appreciate? More important, what tricks a girl does to really thrill him and maximize each level of bliss he hits. We’d probably think that one has to know how a guy thinks and understand his bodily function. ...
Views: 6364(3 votes) - Never Be Fooled Again- Know The Signs Of Real Orgasm - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFace it, when it comes to giving a woman real orgasm is like being in the episode of CSI- elusive, mind-boggling and requires hard evidence. On the contrary, some cocky men brag that giving women real orgasm is like a walk in the park. But the truth of the matter is that, 75% of women cannot ...
Views: 8001(4 votes) - Are You Good In Bed? - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraBeing in a romantic relationship has its rewards. And one of these great rewards, other than having someone to love and be loved in return, is having the chance to experience the magic of sex. Sex may not be the only thing we think of in a relationship but it is something to consider. It may ...
Views: 1088(2 votes) - Career Coaching As A Profession - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt is no exaggeration to say that a lot of unemployed people are having a hard time to find a good and interesting job. Did you ever think of choosing career coaching as a profession? In the present time, many people are interested to know more about it. A job instructor is a person who is going ...
Views: 886 - The Many Forms Of Foreplay - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen it comes to sex, men usually focus on size and stamina. As a woman, I tell you that you are definitely focusing on the wrong things. How to please a woman sexually is all about focusing on the right things… and when I say, “right things” these are the things that are involved not during ...
Views: 3745(2 votes) - The Abc's Of Pleasing A Woman Sexually - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraNothing can be more frustrating for a man, than having his woman reject his sexual needs. If you want to put an end with this cruel rejection, then you better wise-up! Sexually pleasing a woman requires little work, but the pay- off will be worth it. It will surely turn things around! So here ...
Views: 4604(2 votes) - Out Of This World Intercourse Positions That Can Drive Your Man Crazy - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDo you want to have sex tonight? Then better make it as unforgettable and as wicked as possible. Remember, a wise and witty woman always makes her mark every time she makes love to her man. Keep in mind that great sex should not only spice up your love life, but it should also have a lingering ...
Views: 16631(2 votes) - Signs of Attraction - Finding Signs Through Body Language - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDid you ever ask yourself if you have the ability to read the opposite gender's body language? How will your know if they are giving you a sign of attraction through their gesture? Can you interpret their signs? Usually parents can recognize if kids are lying or not through their eyes. Well, ...
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