Making love is one of the factors that keep the passion burning in a relationship. Keeping it exciting and stimulating can awaken any dormant bonding. But keeping sex life alive requires conscious effort. One thing that makes sexual intercourse exhilarating is foreplay and second to giving a bountiful amount of blow job, doing a perfect hand job can send your man to the roof of pleasure.

Be careful though, incorrect demonstration of a hand job can cause injury and can traumatize your man, sending him running out of the door if not the E.R. First, let us familiarize ourselves with the anatomy of the penis. There is the long hard shaft and the glans. The glans or “the head” is the very sensitive part.

The glans consists of the corona or the “crown”, the largest part of the glans, the sulcus is the area just below the ring of the glans, and the meatus, the opening on the tip of the glans. Now, that we are done familiarizing ourselves with “little Joe”, the next step is assessment.

Size. Small? Medium? Large? Size does not matter to most women unless she has an inner desire for a well-endowed, one-eyed snake. A worthy note, with regards to size, majority of women prefer a larger penis girth size than longer length, women loves the feeling of fullness during penetration. How about the shape? Is it curved as a boomerang or straight like a gun’s barrel? Determine if you will are able to grasp the whole shaft with one hand or not.

Then gently but firmly squeeze the shaft and be sure not to miss any tender area when rubbing. Take your time playing and fondling the penis. Worshiping your man’s penis is one of the best parts of giving a hand job. Let him see you’re enjoying the hand job and you have no qualms in exploring and petting his ever precious organ.

Feel how hard it is and run your fingers from balls to the glans, teasingly and softly. Internalize and enjoy what you’re doing to get into the mood. A hand job can be tiring if you are not up to it. So tease some more especially to the sensitive areas like the tender part of the lower side of the penis, the glans and the corona.

Put your palm on top of the glans, fingers enclosed and stiff while the thumb is pointed straight out. Then turn it around as if opening a tight lid of a jar- then watch him grunt from pleasure. Keep doing this for a while then give attention to the testicles and carefully grab them with your fingers and lightly pull it away from the shaft.

Then position it gently underside the shaft, depending on the scrotum size, some can reach halfway the penis length. He will love the way it feels. Cardinal rule when handling the testicle is never ever squeeze them. After playing with the testicles, let it go and go back to the shaft.

Hold the shaft fully forming a goosehead with your fingers. Then very softly rub his hard-on with your fingers, stroking the whole of the shaft and of course the balls. And once in a while let your goosehead slip to the head of the penis and rest for a few second, then repeat the whole process, depending on your partner requests.

Whatever you decide to do- hand job or everything else, it is much better when you ask your partner what drives him crazy in bed. Telling him you are very much willing to do whatever he wants- is enough to drive him wild. A word of wisdom, learn to give pleasure and you’ll receive pleasure ten-fold.

Author's Bio: 

The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Powerful Secrets of Seduction. Learn how you can seduce any man that you fancy with so much ease and subtlety.