Being in a romantic relationship has its rewards. And one of these great rewards, other than having someone to love and be loved in return, is having the chance to experience the magic of sex. Sex may not be the only thing we think of in a relationship but it is something to consider.

It may not be the only factor that can make the relationship meaningful but it can definitely add spice and passion to the affair. And of course, if we want to make love with our partner, we want it to be great and mind- blowing. We always want to make sure that our partner is satisfied and contented.

I am sure that our partner, who adores us in return, would never dare rate the sex and tell us “Honey, it was good but not good enough.” That would be inappropriate and detestable, to say least. I am certain, that our lover is happy with us and with sack that we do to them.

But for personal reasons and awareness' sake, we sometimes get to wonder and ponder, and ask- “Am I good in bed? Is there a way in telling if a person is good in bed or not?” Yes, there is, and you are going to discover it right here right now if you are a legend or a lamely in bed.

One of the indicators if you are good in bed is your history. Try to look back and recall your past sexual experiences. Have you ever been complimented because of your awesomeness in bed? If all you got was a smile, or a silent reaction and little small talks here and there, then that is saying something close to what mediocrity means.

But when you had several “thumbs-up”, then that’s a score for your sexual prowess. Aside from your sexual history, your present relationship is also a competent barometer to gauge if you are good in bed or not. If you had positive acknowledgments before and after sex, then you have nothing to worry about.

But if your partner is short of compliments, don’t fret-- the groans, moans and screams can be a positive sign that you are better than good in what you do. But if your partner cannot take his eyes off from the T.V. while you’re doing your thing on him, then it’s time to consider some improvement in your sexual skills.

Besides from compliments and moans and groans, assessing your point of view about sex is also the best determiner if you are good in bed or not. Do you view love-making as a menial labor that should be done every Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays? Or do you see it as the greatest gift that the great Almighty has ever given mankind? If you regard sex as the latter, then it will manifest in your relationship, thus making you a sex goddess.

But if all else fail and assuming is never your style, you can always be blunt and talk to your partner about sex. By far, this is the most accurate and effective way in knowing if you are good in bed or not. You can start by developing your communication about sex.

Both of you can exchange ideas about what can turn you on and turn you off. Learn from each other, and you will get to learn more about yourself, including the answer to your question. Grow together in sex and you will not only become a good lover but the best lover ever!

Author's Bio: 

The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Powerful Secrets of Seduction. Learn how you can seduce any man that you fancy with so much ease and subtlety.