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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Dear Dr. Romance: I'm in my late 40s and feeling very unhopeful about my future love life. - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance I am in a terrible funk over a failed relationship that lasted 2 years and I thought would lead to marriage. We met online and now I'm afraid if I go online again, he will see my profile and/or I will see his. I took this breakup so hard, the thought of that happening just ...
Views: 626(1 vote) - 3 Steps to Beat Divorce Loneliness when you’re on Facebook - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2021 from Martha BodyfeltWe’ve all been there. You pour a glass of wine after a long day at work, and all you want to do is some mindless scrolling on Facebook to give yourself a mental break. But the exact opposite happens. The first thing on your newsreel is a picture of flowers that your high school acquaintance ...
Views: 713 - CAREER COACH VS. LIFE COACH? WHICH ONE IS RIGHT FOR ME? - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2021 from Ikhraaf QaiserEvery year, engineers seeking results in their career come to us at OACO and ask, “What is the difference between an engineering career coach vs a life coach? And which one is right for me?” This is a great question. We can certainly understand the need to know the difference. Coaching is ...
Views: 650 - What to do with your irritability? - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2021 from Rudiyr ToporCan you become a calmer person? Yes. And I will tell you how to do it. THE FIRST MISTAKE OF THE MISTAKEN Worrying about making a mistake is an EVEN BIGGER MISTAKE. We always worry when we are wrong. And this is the first mistake of the one who realized his mistake. Because experiences are ...
Views: 586(1 vote) - 5 Things I Have To Remind You About A Sugar Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2024 from Anna GreenYES, IT’S SUGAR, BUT IT’S NOT ALWAYS SWEET The transactional relationship between a usually older wealthy person and a younger in need person is called a sugar relationship. Why sugar? Because sugar is a symbol of pleasure, money, and comfort. In a sugar relationship, both parties benefit ...
Views: 633 - Dear Dr. Romance: I feel like such a damned freak. - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: My entire adult life, I have gone out to all the places you're told to go to meet someone special. Nothing. I never even get asked out. It's like I'm invisible, and my life has wasted away because there's not a damn thing I can to do to 'make' someone ...
Views: 620(1 vote) - 5 Things Women Say That Make Men Feel Insecure - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2021 from Jessy JohnsonEvery man's greatest desire is to be the man that you want in that relationship. And therefore, his most significant insecurity is inadequacy to not measure up to the man you want in that relationship. And there are things that you can say that can lift him, that can help him feel like he's the ...
Views: 688 - Start anew with a good detox and spring clean! - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2021 from Emma ViglucciSpring is almost here. Yay! Do you know what that means? It means it’s time to get ready for New Beginnings… As everything in nature will slowly be coming back to life and starting anew, so can we. We can take this opportunity to come Alive, to engage more with our life, to create new ...
Views: 613 - What is more important: to influence the situation or change your attitude towards it? - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2021 from Rudiyr ToporThe Western mentality pushes us to try to control the situation, the East sees wisdom in changing the attitude towards the world. But is it possible to balance these two approaches? WHY IS ONE IMPOSSIBLE WITHOUT THE OTHER? A person is unable to make the simplest changes in his lifestyle ...
Views: 607(1 vote) - Dr. Romance on Finding Love During Quarantine - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2021 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: Normally, I recommend getting face to face as soon as possible, because you get so many clues, including pheromones, that you don’t get over phone, texting, email or video. However, these are not normal times, and we’re sheltering in place, so face to face is out, unless you ...
Views: 768(1 vote) - Subconscious Signs Of Attraction - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2021 from Rukayya ZirapurWe, Individuals, are too secretive about our emotions. Somebody will secretly like you, and you won’t come to know. Subconscious signs of attraction are signs that tell you who all are crushing on you and who you are crushing on. We will die but not accept the facts that you like someone. ...
Views: 729 - The Pros and Cons in a Sugar Daddy Dating Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2021 from Candy ButlerSugar daddy dating is considered to be the best type of relationship for older men and younger women. Due to the immense wealth that sugar daddy has, it is possible to enjoy all kinds of fun no matter how expensive it seems to be. Every relationship has gotten it positive and negative side. The ...
Views: 578 - Dear Dr. Romance: From a phone call every day to a dead end. - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am new to the entire single scene. Recently I met someone and after a couple of dates, he started to email me with a lot of sexual inquires. I ignored some of it and sometimes I would put a little tease in the reply. When he started getting more vulgar I want this and I ...
Views: 682(1 vote) - Some ways to understand a good Partner - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2021 from Dr.Purushothaman KollamA happy and married life is very important for everybody. There should be a mutual understanding and good relationship with the partners for leading a happy and balanced married & model family life. Each partner should try to contribute a lot to maintain the harmony & happiness of the ...
Views: 515 - 3 Ways to Make a Man ADDICTED To You - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2021 from Sahib BerwalDo you want to keep your man’s eyes on you and only you? Would you love to make him absolutely addicted to you? If so, you’re in the right place. As you may or may not already know, there are certain things women can do to hook men. The good news is that these have nothing to do with looks, ...
Views: 1063(1 vote) - Juventus soccer jerseys proudly again - by Juventus is a household name when it comes to world football and has always been a name that instilled fear in rivals. They have won more trophies than any other Italian team and have had a variety of talented coaches not to mention the players.
Once again they are producing an outstanding ...
Views: 19 - Dr. Romance on Dating as a Single Parent - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2021 from Tina TessinaAs a single parent, you probably have so little free time that dating seems an impossible task. Yet, single parents are dating in unprecedented numbers, so if you’re looking for another “head of household” to date, you can find one. As a responsible parent, you’ll want to be very cautious about ...
Views: 876(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Are there dating guidelines for single parents? - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am an elementary school counselor. If you wouldn't mind, I would like to ask you a question that involves a child of a single parent. This 12 year old boy's father died less than a year ago. His mom has started dating again (I believe this to be too soon). I ...
Views: 693(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Our sex life has been very bad - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance My husband of almost 9 years just told me about 2 months ago that he is in love with someone else. About 5 years ago I caught him cheating on me with this girl and he told me that it was over and it was just for the sex. Then 2 years later I found out that he was ...
Views: 675(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm having trouble letting go of a guy who mistreats me - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm still having a bit of trouble letting go and cutting off communication with a guy who mistreats me. I understand in my head that this is not right, but I can't seem to get it emotionally. Yesterday was his birthday and particularly difficult to ...
Views: 629(1 vote) - Can a HIV Negative Person Date a HIV Positive Person? - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2021 from Jessy JohnsonThere are so many heterosexuals out there with HIV that the numbers are greatly surpassing. Gay couples, fortunately for me, had HIV education. Before I came out of the closet when I was 12 years old, a guy in our church died of HIV. He lived in our house for I think two years before he died, ...
Views: 774 - The Ultimate Truth about How to Meet People and Turn Strangers into Friends or Lovers Instead of Getting Blown Off - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2021 from Kynan PatramWhat’s the difference between someone you consider a stranger and someone you consider a friend? Isn’t a part of it found in the fact that, with a friend, you know things about each other and about each other’s lives? And if that’s true, how do you intentionally go about getting to know ...
Views: 775(1 vote) - For BBW Admirers: How to Choose the Right BBW Dating Apps - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2021 from Candy ButlerSome men are BBW admirers because not only do BBW look beautiful but also they are fun to hang out with. Due to this reason, the demand for BBW hookup apps is increasing. However, you must be aware of key points before choosing a suitable dating app: Consider the brand of the BBW ...
Views: 485 - Post Valentine’s Day Blues are real… - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2021 from Emma ViglucciPost Valentine’s Day Blues are real… There is even a thing as “Anti Valentine’s Day Week”… This week is not just for those that don’t believe on the mushy holiday, but also for those who are disappointed by it. Regardless of what camp you are in on the holiday and your Valentine’s Day ...
Views: 558 - Book Review – Tiny Beautiful Things by Cheryl Strayed: What is this ‘life’ thing, sis? - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2021 from Rochi ZalaniThis article was originally published at rochizalani.com I have 104 Highlights/Notes marked on Cheryl Strayed’s Tiny Beautiful Things – my highest ever in the six years of Kindle reading. This book is a series of advice columns addressed to “Sugar” that was run at The Rumpus. I know the ...
Views: 707 - Emma by Jane Austen Book Review: The Power Of Unlikable Characters - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2021 from Rochi ZalaniThis article was originally published at rochizalani.com The novel is set in a beautiful, British, fiction town, Highbury. Austen’s Emma is beautiful, rich, smart but also meddlesome, deluded, and spoiled. She is not a likable character and you won’t really root for her when you read ...
Views: 634 - On Honeymoon Periods: Ugh, How Could I Have Ignored This Earlier? - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2021 from Rochi ZalaniThis article was originally published at rochizalani.com Mmm, it is honeysugar, the beginnings. Every gesture so sweet, every crossed boundary charming, and every habit adorable. All of us possess a little bit of this sparkly honeymoon period nostalgia at the back of our palms. It most ...
Views: 764 - How to know Love Marriage according to Astrology? - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2021 from Sri TulasiIf the 7th sub lord signifies 5-11,after marriage the couples will be affectionate to each other.They lead a very happy marital life without any arguments or quarrels. If it signifies 5–11 and 4–10 the love between them will fluctuate according to situations. The native experience mixed ...
Views: 734(1 vote) - How To Tell Her She's Special? - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2021 from Rukayya ZirapurHow to tell her she is special? 1. I am proud of you. 2. I would love to help you 3. You work really hard 4. You make me smile 5. I love your attention on my side 6. I appreciate everything you do for me 7. Hey, you're beautiful! 8. Can we cook your favorite meal ...
Views: 667 - What to do with Valentine’s Day… - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2021 from Emma ViglucciDo you love Valentine’s Day? Some obviously don’t. And, some would totally love to love it but because of their circumstances it is just a painful holiday for them. Which one are you? If you fall in the don’t love it (actually hate it) or in the painful category, I hope you can still find ...
Views: 611 - Top 5 Benefits of Life Coaching that You Should Know - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2021 from Kim SmithDid you hear about life coaching anytime before? I am sure there are many people who don’t have any idea about it. Don’t worry! In this article, we are going to discuss about life coaching and its benefits in detail. Let’s get started without anymore waiting. Life ...
Views: 666 - Dr. Romance: Is there a right way to ask for more sex? - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2021 from Tina TessinaIf you and your partner are not on the same page sexually, you need to learn how to talk with each other about sex: Dr. Romance's Guidelines for Creating a Sexual Agreement: * Set up a problem-solving session: * Having a time to talk about sex will help you create trust and sexual ...
Views: 815(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: How can I let go of a toxic relationship? - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I wonder if you have an article that you've written that you can point me too on how to let go of a toxic relationship. I've been involved for 7 months with a man who is continually evasive, avoidant-attachment, manipulative and I need to figure out ...
Views: 676(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I guess we don't separate the "math" from the "emotion!" - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I saw your article "How to Avoid Financial Infidelity" about couples fighting over finances: I am totally on board as I think what you share is phenomenal. The challenge is my approach I suppose as my wife is almost NEVER on board. I guess we don't ...
Views: 641(1 vote) - The relation between stress and sex - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2021 from Rea SetiaStress and sex are linked in so many ways. We all are well aware of this fact and feel it unmistakably when a stressful week or days zaps us of our sex drive. Although stress can lead to low libido, it can also act as a great stress reliever. Ever wondered how much truth there is to the idea ...
Views: 537 - Tips of Choosing the Right BBW Dating Sites and Apps - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2021 from Candy ButlerBBW is the abbreviation of big beautiful woman. Today there is a large group of plus size women and their admirers in the world. This makes the dating business for them become larger scale. Normal men always like dating thin girls since these girls have wonderful body shape and small food ...
Views: 726 - Tips for Finding the Perfect Home That Both You and Your Spouse Will Love - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2021 from Dixie SomersHouse hunting may be fun because of having to attend open houses and marvel at some architectural masterpieces. However, the process may also be downright tedious and mind-boggling. Buying a home is a lifetime investment that you and your spouse should approach with utmost mindfulness. It may ...
Views: 623 - Use Every Relationship to Uplift Your Life - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2021 from Guy FinleyThe greatest, most abundant resource on planet Earth is also its least understood and utilized. Its unlimited supply is found virtually everywhere, anytime, and under all circumstances, even though few recognize its real value. What is this most precious collective resource? It is our ...
Views: 778 - New Powers to Help You Perfect Your Relationships - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2021 from Guy FinleyThere is always a moment before a problem starts with another human being where we realize that what we want is not going to happen. Ordinarily we'll say the other person is about to "ruin my day." But there is, for those of us who want to understand, not only a way for our day not to be ruined, ...
Views: 690 - Do you know how to have fun together? - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2021 from Emma ViglucciCouples usually have a challenging time coming up with fun things to do as a couple. They have difficulties having fun in their relationship. And, they might struggle having fun with each other. Do you know how to have fun together? This is not unusual as partners have a tendency to focus on ...
Views: 638 - Dear Dr. Romance: He calls me names and puts me down - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance, I would like your advise in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been living together for a year and a half and known each other for 3 years. He calls me names and puts me down when i try to communicate with him and every time i want to break it off he tells me we should ...
Views: 748(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: My girlfriend doesn't think she can handle this relationship. - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am (or was, perhaps) in a fairly strong relationship for a few months now. Recently though, as the upcoming fall quarter approaches, my girlfriend doesn’t think she can handle a relationship. Between stress from school (she really wants her 4.0 this year), over-bearing ...
Views: 630(1 vote) - The All Important Job of Home Mortgage Brokers - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2021 from kingof seoYou will find around 8,000 mortgage services and products to pick from on the mortgage market. A go down your local High Road provides you with accessibility to many of the very most well-known vendors - the big banks and developing societies. But, these major suppliers will not have access to ...
Views: 799 - Episodic Intimacy vs. Committed Intimacy - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2021 from Paul DunionEpisodic Intimacy vs. Committed Intimacy Dr. Paul Dunion There are at least two expressions of emotional intimacy, with one gaining increasing popularity. Episodic Intimacy is the one becoming more and more in vogue. It can offer some advantages that don’t come with the ...
Views: 676 - 3 Tactics to increase connection in your relationship - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2021 from Emma ViglucciI love new beginnings whether it’s a new year, a new season, a new chapter, or just a nice and simple refresh and reset… I believe these are amazing opportunities to take stock and plan anew to keep evolving and expanding ourselves and upleveling our life. This applies to all areas of our life, ...
Views: 699 - 3 Tactics to increase connection in your relationship - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2021 from Emma ViglucciI love new beginnings whether it’s a new year, a new season, a new chapter, or just a nice and simple refresh and reset… I believe these are amazing opportunities to take stock and plan anew to keep evolving and expanding ourselves and upleveling our life. This applies to all areas of our life, ...
Views: 623 - Dear Dr. Romance: What I fear has happened the second time round - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I hope you can help me. My boyfriend passed away two years back... We were pretty much engaged, living together and everything. I thought i was over the whole thing, but now I know I'm not. A month back, or so.. i was seeing a man, and today i found out he had ...
Views: 862(1 vote) - Tactics Narcissists Use to Gain Self-Esteem and Power - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2021 from Darlene LancerTo some degree, most of us desire to improve our social status and self-esteem, but narcissists feel compelled to. A recent study concluded that it’s their constant concern. More than most people, they look to others for “self-definition and self-esteem regulation; inflated or deflated ...
Views: 862(2 votes) - Childhood Trauma: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Fear People? - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone might not be consciously aware of the fact that they fear their fellow human beings, they can still be aware of the consequences of having this fear. So, if someone in this position was to take a step back and to reflect on their life, what could instantly stand out is how ...
Views: 605 - Dear Dr. Romance: It seems to be going in a circle. - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance, I would like your advice in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been living together for a year and a half and known each other for 3 years. He calls me names and puts me down when I try to communicate with him and every time i want to break it off he tells me we should ...
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