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- Anger: Cleansing Squall or Hurricane? - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2012 from Tina TessinaAnger is the emotional energy within each of us that rises up when something needs to change. If you act on the need to create change, your anger can be channeled effectively; but it’s not redirected to something effective, your frustration will build, sometimes to hurricane force. Anger ...
Views: 1842(1 vote) - 3 Important Tips To Help Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2012 from Bellaisa FilippisHas your spouse acted in a way, or done something, that has left you extremely upset and has resulted in a marriage in crisis? It can be hard to overcome issues that blindside you and hurt you to the very core. Many people just like you are wondering whether or not their marriage can be saved or ...
Views: 1838 - Not Any Farther Than I Can Throw You! - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2012 from Geoff LaughtonDo you have trust issues with your partner (and/or someone you’re not romantically involved with)? If you don’t, you’re a rarity. With so many couples I work with, it looks like communication’s a major issue (which it is), but more often than not, the more fundamental issue you’re dealing with ...
Views: 1838 - Forgiveness doing it for you - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2012 from Carl Tuchy PalmieriFORGIVENESS When we grow up with animals we learn to forgive, accept, go for a walk with them, give them treats, feed them, play with them, and take care of them, and yet when we get into relationships we often do not give the same consideration Nothing worth doing is completed in our ...
Views: 1837(1 vote) - How to Get Your Ex to Return Text, Calls or Emails - by Submitted on May 29, 2012 from Josh TuttleWhen you are wondering how to get your ex to get in touch with you there are very few resources existing to guide you in the right path. After your ex calls it quits it becomes tough at times to get in touch with them. Talking everyday and then all of the sudden having no communication with ...
Views: 1837 - The common denominator of "feeling stuck" - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Bruce DicksonA Healing Toolbox, Best Practices in Energy Healing article When we are stuck, we almost always are facing multiple problems--and do not recognize this. The other day a friend was sharing something of his inner experience that the secret of soul transcendence really works, that it's ...
Views: 1836 - The Soul Loves to Forgive - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2009 from V. Ophelia RigaultThe soul loves to forgive! Catherine Ponder said: "When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.” Forgiveness is something that needs to ...
Views: 1835(4 votes) - Dr. Romance on Learning Forgiveness - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2017 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance on Learning Forgiveness Dr. Romance writes: Learning to forgive those who hurt us is an essential life skill, because it helps develop inner maturity, frees us from emotional bondage to the other person, and helps us develop the ...
Views: 1831(2 votes) - Immaculée Ilibagiza: A Profile of Irrational Forgiveness - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2011 from Steve RiceExtraordinary every-day heroes surround us. Immaculée Ilibagiza is one of mine. Her courage to survive the Rwandan holocaust and her capacity to forgive the ones who massacred her family inspires me. Forgiveness is one of the most difficult decisions that we, as human beings, can be called ...
Views: 1830 - Power To Set Yourself Free - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2009 from Vonzel SawyerThis posting is about forgiveness. I don’t know about you, but most of the time when I have seen forgiveness addressed it involves the actions of two or more persons. This posting will take a more focused view where it mainly involves action of a single person. Part of improving oneself leads ...
Views: 1830(4 votes) - EFT and the Power of Forgiveness - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2009 from Pat BurnsIn 2005, after several years of chronic pain and all the misery that goes along with that, I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome. My rheumatologist’s solution was to immediately medicate me. I was prescribed an antidepressant, 2 pain killers, and something to help me ...
Views: 1829 - "Being stuck" as a lack of simple, healthy discernment - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Bruce DicksonA Healing Toolbox, Best Practices in Energy Healing article To anyone feeling stuck in life, I wish to suggest a simple way to get UNstuck. "Being stuck" is exactly analogous to the "deer in head lights" phenomena, "Do I stay now or do I run now?" If where you are now is comfortable, both ...
Views: 1827 - Do You Respect The EX? - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2013 from Tina TessinaYou're divorced, but you still see your ex. How do you handle it? Here are three tips to help. 1. Treat your ex as politely as you treat your friends or co-workers. Don’t be as familiar as you used to be. A little less familiarity will generate a little more respect. Say “Hello”, ...
Views: 1825(1 vote) - How to Catch Someone Who Is Cheating Online - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2015 from Mike HatcherCheating online is an equal offence to any other type of dishonesty so it should not be treated lightly. In fact it involves the desire of the cheater of making some emotional relationship with someone other than his spouse by contacting her online. Cheating is getting progressively worse among ...
Views: 1825 - Loving Authentically - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2013 from Heather Fraser -Whether you are husband and wife, spiritual partners, lovers, soul mates, it doesn’t matter what you call the union, what matters is - do you cherish and adore this person? Is this person what YOU want? Do you have chemistry? Do you feel uplifted when you see them? Do you feel like ...
Views: 1825(1 vote) - ***Getting a Jump on Thanksgiving Jitters - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2008 from Colin TippingAs Thanksgiving looms, a familiar queasiness in the gut may be forming as you contemplate the annual family get-together. But I doubt your concern is about what dishes people are bringing for the table. Rather, my bet is you are worrying about the emotional baggage that everyone, including ...As ...
Views: 1824(1 vote) - Can Having an Affair Save a Marriage? - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2012 from Sam SmithDepending on where you research, between 40 and 50 percent of all first marriages result in a divorce. Marriage is not what it was fifty years ago, and the role of each partner has changed dramatically over the years. In the 1950s and 1960s, men worked and were the breadwinners for the family ...
Views: 1824(2 votes) - You're Divorced. Get Over It! - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2011 from Dana McIntyreOnce upon a time, I was a happily married mother of a 5 year old son and wife to my very own Prince Charming. We lived in a little neighborhood in a cute three bedroom house that even had a picture perfect white picket fence. Unfortunately however, my Prince Charming turned out to be more like ...
Views: 1824(4 votes) - 4 Keys to a Successful Partnership with the One You Love - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Lisa ChristiansenA Lasting, Fulfilling, Relationship - The "Dynamic of Stay": 4 Keys to a Successful Partnership with the One You Love It is currently my honest belief that more people in the world are mystified regarding how to find - and keep love - than how to find and keep money. There was a time in ...
Views: 1823 - Love Yourself, and the Rest Will Follow - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2010 from Mike RobbinsHow do you feel about self love? More importantly, how well do you love yourself? For most of us, loving ourselves is something we may know is important, but often have difficulty actually feeling, expressing, and embodying. For me, I’ve spent much of my life – as a student, an athlete, in ...
Views: 1821(1 vote) - Making Up with Your Ex - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2010 from Andrew HunterIf you are like most people, you probably want to get your ex back after getting dumped. You find yourself wondering if it's even possible to ever get that relationship back. I want you to know, from personal experience, that it is absolutely possible. But Let me first warn you that this isn't ...
Views: 1818(1 vote) - ***How to Forgive Another Person for Past Hurts - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2009 from Garrett CoanNo one gets through life without being hurt by another person. We all have experienced the pain of a thoughtless remark, gossip, or lie. If you have experienced an unhappy marriage, the devastation of infidelity, or suffered physical or emotional abuse, you know what it feels like to be hurt. It ...
Views: 1812(1 vote) - 5 Elements that Provoke Emotional Infidelity - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2011 from Matthew JohnsonThe relationship of Will (Matthew Morrison), the music club director and Emma (Jayma Mays), the school guidance counselor at the start of the comedy-drama series typifies emotional infidelity. Both were into someone else but there was a strong emotional attraction between them. There was no ...
Views: 1811 - Forgiveness Works! - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2012 from Charmaine HammondMost often people are tougher on themselves than on anyone else. During my Conversations with Charmaine radio show I had with Marilyn Suttle and Shawne Duperon they both asked the question “how long before you forgive yourself?” That's a great question! As a consultant and trainer in ...
Views: 1811 - Discovery of Authentic Self - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2011 from Gayle White Raven CrosmazHow do you know if you are on the right path, what if it seems right but you can’t be sure? Unlocking many past lives and their strong emotional attachments has opened the door to understanding my authentic self and how I came to be. Forgiving, heart and soul is the key, clues of synchronicity ...
Views: 1810 - Self-Forgiveness and Letting Go of Guilt - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2013 from Darlene LancerGuilt is good. Yes! Guilt actually encourages people to have more empathy for others, to take corrective action, and to improve themselves. Self-forgiveness following guilt is self-essential to esteem, which is key to enjoyment of life and relationships. Yet, for many, self-acceptance remains ...
Views: 1810 - The Harmonising Times, January 2106: The Year for Your Purpose - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2016 from Gregory Reece-SmithWelcome to Creating Harmony in Your Life's email of indication. Our intention in this Harmonising Times is to provide our readers, friends and everyone else with foresight as to the influences impacting all our lives throughout 2016. So helping each to Create their Life of Harmony by assisting ...
Views: 1809(1 vote) - A Season for Non-Violence - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2009 from Joan Breiner, M.Ed. and Susyn Reeve, M.Ed.January 30, 2009 marked the beginning of the 12th annual Season for Non-Violence. A Season for Nonviolence is an international 64-day educational, media and grassroots campaign dedicated to demonstrating that nonviolence is a powerful way to heal, transform and empower our lives and our ...
Views: 1808 - What really works in overcoming the trauma of a relationship breakdown? - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2011 from James RichardsonWhen a relationship ends it is one of life’s most stressful and painful experiences. Emotions are in turmoil, children are disrupted,concentration is reduced and productivity is lost. I have run Divorce Recovery courses for many years for people experiencing the trauma of a breakdown of ...
Views: 1804 - Mending Our Ways - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2010 from Eugene Yiga“Not to mend one’s ways when one has erred is to err indeed.” – Confucius We all make mistakes. What separates us is how we respond. Either we pull up our sleeves and do what we can to make things right or we throw away something beautiful and potentially lose it forever. Please don’t do the ...
Views: 1797(4 votes) - 6 Ideas to Move You Toward Empowerment - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2018 from Pearle Lake1. It’s more important what you think of you than what others think of you.When you think well of yourself and know your strengths, others can’t help but turn their thinking in that direction. 2. Everyone has been hurt in some way. Whether through bullying, abuse, or insensitive remarks, ...
Views: 1796(1 vote) - If You’re Wondering How To Save My Relationship Then There Are Ways It Can Be Saved - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2010 from Andrew HunterAll relationships have their faults if you look hard enough. Relationships all have difficult times and you need to make sure that you do something about it before things get out of hand. If you’ve got to the point where you and your partner are constantly fighting and about to give up then you ...
Views: 1792(1 vote) - Forgiveness - The Right Time is Up to You - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Kristin Robertson"Timing is everything, and this is not the time," a colleague once said to me when I offered her a job that would require a move to another state. Her family situation didn't allow her to move at that time, but she left open the possibility that the timing could be right in a difference ...
Views: 1791(2 votes) - Forgiveness. Why is so difficult. How to. - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2008 from Oscar Basurto CarbonellForgiveness is one of the deepest and most intense spiritual manifestations. And from the spiritual perspective, it has to be completely honest, integral and absolute. It requires of a great effort and after this, follows the experience of conciliation and then balance and harmony. Why is so ...
Views: 1789 - The Shiny Pen: Taking Responsibility in Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2012 from Barry and Joyce VissellFor a relationship to be healthy, both partners need to be willing to take responsibility for their own part in an argument. This is sometimes very difficult to do. It is always easier to see your partner’s fault than your own. If you’re angry or defensive in a situation, look deeper and you ...
Views: 1789(1 vote) - 5 Ways to Fix Your Relationships - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2013 from Erin HeavenMost of us have struggled in unfulfilling and troubled relationships. We may have tried counseling, couples' therapy, or even the self-help section of our local bookstore! What if I told you there was another way to address relationship issues that often produces dramatic results in your life ...
Views: 1788(1 vote) - Family Constellations: Fate Is Not Polite - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2009 from Suzi TuckerThe room is filled with people. Old, young, men, women, different styles, different postures, open curious faces, closed sceptical ones, intent, cautious, waiting. Bert Hellinger sits calmly at the front of the large, airy room, the well-known smile resting comfortably on his face. We have come ...
Views: 1787(1 vote) - The four human tasks of dying - communication - by Submitted on Dec 16, 2010 from Malcolm PayneThe founder of the Hospice movement, Dame Cicely Saunders, identified four important human tasks that people want to complete during the process of dying. They are: • To say ‘goodbye’ – to people, animals and things that have been important to them • To say ‘thank you’ – for a life together, ...
Views: 1787 - Three Steps for Surviving an Affair - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2010 from Kim OlverMany people ask, “Can my relationship survive an affair”? My answer is yes when you follow the three- step process outlined below. Step One: Prioritize Your Relationship The first step is for both people to realize that their relationship is important enough for them to attempt to heal ...
Views: 1781(2 votes) - How to Trust After You Have Been Hurt - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Andrew HunterTrust issues in a relationship aren’t uncommon. After all, whether it was in your current relationship or in a past relationship, who hasn’t been hurt at some point? I’m sorry to say that part of being human is to be hurt at some point in your life. The point though isn’t to use your past ...
Views: 1780 - Radical Self Forgiveness - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2011 from Michelle Lee, CHRadical Self Forgiveness As you know I’ve been writing and speaking about the Divine Feminine a lot lately. I always make a point to explain that this is a Feminine that we haven’t known before. It’s the Powerful Feminine. I’m not talking about women owning their power through masculine ...
Views: 1780 - Learning to Control your Anger - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from cedric riceThis is an article that I can write with some authority because I have been there and done that. I used to have a serious anger management problem. It was so serious that it encompassed all areas of my life and had serious negative effects on my friendships. This problem was not natural and not ...
Views: 1778(1 vote) - New Relationship Forum - by Submitted on May 05, 2012 from Rosemary PriceNew relationship forum.... The main subject people like to read about and write about on boards is their own or other peoples' relationships. If they are going through a difficult time they love the idea that others will be there to listen and understand and maybe also give advice. There are ...
Views: 1778 - Dr. Romance Happiness Tip: Public Politeness - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2013 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: How do you feel when you walk into a public rest room and there are papers all over the floor, unflushed toilets, and wet toilet seats? How do you feel about drivers who tailgate, zip around the roads going over the speed limit, and hog the road? Most of us don’t ...
Views: 1777(2 votes) - How To Forgive and Let Go f The Past - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Maria ErvingForgiveness and letting go of the past is empowering and freeing. You do it for you and not to let others "of the hook". Give yourself the gift of forgiveness. How to forgive? When I was younger I used to say that I can forgive but I can't forget, and in a way that's good advice if it is ...
Views: 1777(1 vote) - 7 tricks to discover if someone is lying - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2012 from Kevin Chonyuieveryone lies from time to time, may it be a big fat lie or just a small white lie. Even so, nothing good can come from repeatedly lying to someone. However, these are certainly not foolproof. Saying whether someone is lying or telling the truth is as risky as forecasting next week's ...
Views: 1775(2 votes) - Don't Sweat the Small Stuff PS It's All Small Stuff: The Story - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2014 from Michael MantellIn 1988 when I wrote “Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff: PS It’s All Small Stuff,” little did I know that a number of years later my book would go into three printings, have an audio version, be celebrated and awarded wonderful titles like “Good Morning America’s” "Hot Pick" and “Publishers Weekly ...
Views: 1775(2 votes) - Proven Ways To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - Cute Ways To Get Your Ex Back After Breakup - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldProven ways to get your ex girlfriend back; Going through a break up with your girlfriend can be both confusing and emotional. You may want to get your ex back but are not sure how to approach them because of mixed signals. Until you have those mixed signals figured out you will have to put off ...
Views: 1772 - The Challenge of Forgiveness - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2016 from Darlene LancerForgiveness can sometimes feel impossible or even undesirable. Other times, we forgive only to be hurt again and conclude that forgiving was foolish. Both situations arise from confusion about what forgiveness really means. Forgiveness doesn’t require that we forget or condone another’s actions ...
Views: 1771(1 vote) - Will My Ex Want Me Back If I Do This? - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2011 from Mika MaddelaAre you trying to get your ex back into your life? Have you heard about the No Contact Rule but don't know exactly where to begin? If you're suffering from the heartache of a painful breakup, check out these common questions about the No Contact Rule. Q: I know about the No Contact Rule and ...
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