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Yes, minutes—not hours. Not days. Not all weekend. Not anymore. If you’re ready to connect with customers and prospects and share your solutions—here is the quick and easy way to design highly persuasive sales presentations.
Sales presenting is a critical part of professional business. If ... Views: 2540
When properly planned and executed, meetings can be an efficient way to share information or solve problems. When meetings are disorganized, scheduled without reason, too often, or not often enough, they become a waste of time and energy, and are a frustration to everyone. Meetings can be a very ... Views: 2539
It’s not easy to admit when you said or did something that didn’t work out the way you hoped. What do you do with your feelings of remorse or disappointment? How do you feel when you make a mistake or when others make mistakes? Your beliefs about mistakes can tell a lot about what you believe ... Views: 2537
Communication is a catch-all phrase for things that go wrong in companies and relationships. Unfortunately, the concept is too ambiguous to do anything constructive to fix it.
I've identified seven communication mistakes that lead to mis-understandings, and cause conflicts between co-workers, ... Views: 2530
The other day, my amazing copywriting director, Michele PW, shared something that really got me thinking.
She told me that the tide has turned and that beauty has finally come into its own.
The reason? Women.
Ugly Used to Sell
In the old days, copywriters, like Michele PW, who ... Views: 2527
The more you understand about any subject, the more interesting it becomes. As you read this article you'll find that the subject of learn french phrases is certainly no exception.
If you base what you do on inaccurate information, you might be unpleasantly surprised by the consequences. ... Views: 2522
These days, we often talk about wanting people to be more expressive about their feelings, about “telling it like it is” so we can have some open and honest dialog. If we could manage that, maybe we’d be happier, marriages would last longer, and maybe even a few other problems ... Views: 2512
Do you remember the Lone Ranger? Everywhere he went he would leave something behind. No, it wasn't Tonto. It was a silver bullet.
He would be riding off into the sunset and invariably someone would ask, "Who was that masked man?" The response always went something like, "I don't know, but he ... Views: 2508
Recently I’ve shown you how to get comformation product, mentorship, etc.
Today I’m going share with you three principles for a powerful close so that you can inspire on-the-spot action in your ideal clients—those people who are perfectly matched to you—without being salesy. You can give them ... Views: 2506
An extraordinary fact about blushing is that it is unique to humans. Charles Darwin called blushing “the most peculiar and most human of all expressions”.
Why do you blush?
The reason for blushing is not the same for everyone; being the centre of attention, someone giving you praise, being ... Views: 2498
There are going to be some people who have always had good posture, and there will be others who have developed their posture during their adult years. However, there will also be people who had good posture at one point in time and then ended up going the other way, and others who haven’t taken ... Views: 2486
Well begun is half done. It's for this reason that introducing yourself in the perfect manner is extremely critical. You could leave a memorable or forgettable impression depending upon the way you choose to introduce yourself.
Speaking at an audible volume is a must. It is the most standard ... Views: 2485
Do you want to have a stronger social impact on others? Then become a better listener and better able to understand other people’s perspective. There are 3 very effective ways to do this.
Listening skills play a crucial role in building quality relationships with others. It is through good ... Views: 2485
The best way to capture the attention of a C-Level executive is to interview him. Senior exec’s loved to be interviewed. Additionally interviewing serves many other purposes.
1. It puts the focus on the executive and high level people like to be the focus of attention.
2. They get to do ... Views: 2483
Just like a fingerprint, you have a unique sound. You vocal cords developed during puberty to a certain length and mass which gives you the pitch that you use. The shape and mass of your vocal tract (the back of the throat, the tongue, the lips, etx) is where the sound is configured. You are ... Views: 2481
‘CORPORATE ROLEPLAY’ - DISCOVERING THAT EFFECTIVE PEOPLE ACROSS ALL INDUSTRY SECTORS SHARE CORE ‘SOFT’ SKILLS
How is it that some people appear to glide effortlessly through their lives and careers, when they may not necessarily have the most qualifications or the ... Views: 2473
So many people tell me that they feel “yucky” when attempting to close a sale. They don’t want to feel that way and they don’t want their prospects to feel yucky either!
The key to erasing that concern is what you do before you make your irresistible offer. And this is: Give them a ton of ... Views: 2472
Business leaders often ask me this: “How can I sustain the audience’s attention throughout my speech?”
They go on to say: “Most audiences will be courteous enough to give the speaker a fair chance by listening closely for the first few minutes. Yet after that, I see their attention weakening. ... Views: 2470
Wouldn't it be great if we were born with an inbuilt manual that shows us how to relate successfully to others? Although everyone has the capability to relate successfully to others, often people react in ways that are distorted by past experiences. The culprits are usually one or all of the ... Views: 2466
In all the Cuban business there is one man who stands out on the horizon of my memory like the north star at midnight.
When war broke out between Spain and the United States, it was very necessary to communicate quickly with the leader of the rebels. Garcia was somewhere in the mountain ... Views: 2465
Charisma is perhaps the highest ticket item on any audience’s list to keep them glued to their seats in a presentation. Any audience member knows that the first thing a public speaker must do as he or she steps onto a stage is they MUST instantly engage their audience. It has been proven: the ... Views: 2464
English is often said to be a confusing language - and when it comes to homophones, we know how that notion came to be!
Homophones, similar sounding but differently spelt words, are limitless as they are puzzling. As it is, English has words that are spelled in a way, and pronounced ... Views: 2464
"What turned in on will turn it off" – since the epistemic trap was created by self, it's in one's hands to unlock oneself. In other words, the door can only be opened from the inside.
This point lays in the foundation of Phenomenology.
Let's explain the term using an example: Think of a dog, ... Views: 2463
When I was a little girl and my parents had some visitors, I would sometimes go and hide in the closet. Doing this, I could avoid their overwhelming displays of affection – ranging from wet, sloppy kisses to smothering, inescapable hugs. So, why am I being self-revealing here? – To show you that ... Views: 2452
It's okay to use notes when presenting, especially if you're speaking on a new topic or to a new audience. The key to using notes effectively is what is included in your notes and how you use them. The following ten tips will help you use notes effectively to remember the key points of your ... Views: 2450
Customers are always asking for something. When we first launched our software company, every time a customer would ask for something it did a couple things:
It would shoot the requested feature to the top of our mental priorities, since here it was in realtime right before us: a real customer ... Views: 2450
In this age of information overload, the window of opportunity to keep your audience’s attention gets smaller by the tweet. How bad is it? It has been reported that we are bombarded by the equivalent of 174 newspapers of data a day. No doubt about it; we constantly battle a tidal wave of ... Views: 2449
Communication...it is the root of many misunderstandings and conflicts that we experience in our relationships, whether it is with our partner, our parents, our kids, friends, siblings, bosses or anyone!
Sometimes we may keep silent because we don’t know how to say what we want to say and ... Views: 2446
Talking to the Bureau in Person or On the Phone
Before you call a speaking bureau, do some research to figure out which ones match your goals. Just as two snowflakes aren't a like -- it's the same with speakers bureaus.
Your best plan (and you'll discover if they are truly interested in ... Views: 2444
In my life I have listen many times a famous quote which is, "first impression is the last impression". This is actually a very true line! The first presentation is your resume to an employer. Resume shows your personality and it has the summary of your present and past skills. When you get an ... Views: 2443
Do you ramble when you speak, packing in too many irrelevant details? Perhaps you skip from one idea to the next with no connection between them. The first conversation pattern makes you boring and the second makes you confusing. Either one can have a negative impact on your ability to influence ... Views: 2443
People skills are simply how you communicate with people, whether they be friends, family, work colleagues, clients etc. Before we move on to explaining the different areas of people skills, let us remind you of one point: they are vital for long-term success and happiness in both personal, ... Views: 2437
Executive Summary
Interviews have undeniable value in every organization’s hiring process. Performance-based interviewing is a technique to make your interviews even more effective in finding the best hires. Performance-based interviewing takes into account the most important job metrics of a ... Views: 2434
Silent communication affects a relationship with the suddenness of a lightning bolt, the drip, drip, drip of a leaky faucet, or the enduring radiance of a diamond. Look at the examples below, and you’ll see what I mean.
A man slowly moves to one knee, reaches into his pocket, and retrieves a ... Views: 2433
5 Steps to Real Improved Listening (or Why You Were Tricked Out By Your Last Listening Course)
Admit it. You’ve read the articles that give you the ten or so points of how to listen better. Maybe you’ve even sat through a course or two that was intended to drill home the tenets of fine ... Views: 2431
If you are not big on small talk, then why not learn the art of “big talk”, to land your dream job or career, or magnetize more ideal clients? Spend your conversational time and energy doing what is high on your list of things you love to do. Add big talk to deepen your rapport and relationships ... Views: 2427
One significant problem with the inner elephant is that it hinders people's ability to see reality. Most individuals perceive the world based on their needs and biases, rather than on external events.
The inner executive must deal with the inner elephant's tendency to judge others and the ... Views: 2425
I was talking with my fiancee yesterday and she was sharing a story of one of her friends whose image has diminished because of her activities and the quality of status updates she puts on her Facebook page. After the sharing, we then realized the impact Facebook can have in people's lives when ... Views: 2424
Dr. Romance writes:
What do you do after you have tried everything and your partner, friend, child or colleague still won't negotiate?
In previous articles, like “Asking for What you Want,” “Couples Can Cooperate for Success” and “Gentle Persistence” we’ve explored a lot of ... Views: 2423
Because they are so powerful, words must be chosen carefully. Words are much more than letters strung together. They are the means by which we convey our thoughts to one another. Words touch all of our senses. They have a rhythm we can feel and hear. They evoke pictures in our minds. They help ... Views: 2422
A Deeper Look at Personality Concepts.
Image by Ed YourdonUsually, when I'm meeting with a couple that's having trouble talking together, I'll ask each of them to identify whether they're a "head" person or a "feeling" person? They usually know already and that gets us off to a good ... Views: 2421
Quality conversations are a necessary part of relationships, especially between family and friends. Conversations with those we care about can help us learn more about them and their lives. It also gives them a chance to get to know us better.
Moreover, conversations with our loved ones can ... Views: 2419
Imagine being alone all day, living in the same environment you've explored thousands of times. You have nothing to do except sleep and wait for your roommate to get home to feed and hopefully spend time with you. He’s been rather stressed out and crabby lately. Your quality time together has ... Views: 2415
One of my friends recently asked me how she should handle an upcoming lunch with her lawyer. She was worried that the lunch would become awkward if they ran out of things to talk about. I suggested she should try to mentally prepare a few general questions such as, “Do you still enjoy being a ... Views: 2411
Five important secrets for building rapport with your customers and growing your business
First A Story: A lesson learned about customer service, courtesy of Rude Dude.
I was buying a new color laser printer from the office supply store with all the bells and whistles—wireless printing, ... Views: 2407
When you have something important to share with your sweetie, but feel like all you want to do is blame him (or her) here is exactly what you need to move forward.
Take these 4 steps with ease:
1. Take 5-10 minutes to journal what you are upset about (don't skip this very important ... Views: 2406
…Interaction.
However, before we do, let us review something recently written and published in Marketing Magazine, the author is Marc Ritson, Assistant Professor of Marketing at The London Business School.
"A pipe bursts in your house. When the local handyman arrives, he is carrying a large ... Views: 2403
It truly amazes me how often in too many businesses there is such an aversion to sincerely asking people (employees, customers, suppliers, vendors, et al) what they think. During my 35 year professional career, I have witnessed countless missed opportunities to gain insight and powerful ... Views: 2401
Whoever spent time as a child on a school playground and been the victim of name calling knows the deflective phrase used to counter those slurs, “sticks and stones may break my bones but names can never hurt me,” isn’t enough to overcome the impact of those bullying communications to youthful, ... Views: 2399
In all my years training managers how to coach staff, common misconceptions always arise regarding what we actually mean by coaching in a business setting.
If you are planning to improve your coaching skills with your employees to help develop their potential, here’s what you need to know ... Views: 2399