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Years ago, I heard Zig Ziglar say, “It is your attitude … more than your aptitude … that will determine your altitude.” When he said it, a lot of people saw it as a bit of fluff from a mere "motivational speaker." After all, Zig was a salesman. What did he know?
Apparently quite a bit. The ... Views: 2256
The Only Unwinnable Conflict Worth Trying to Win
By
Bill Cottringer
“There is one conflict that will never go away until we either figure out how to communicate past it or die trying. This conflict involves arguing for the beliefs and truths we are most certain about.” ~The Author.
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(THE ORIGINAL SIN) part 1
......THE LOSS OF INNOCENCE .... ( genesis 3)
One of the greatest things to observe is the innocence of a child. Children are simply pure, having a rare form of peace and joy. However, as they grow, there comes dents, which start as little misgivings but grow ... Views: 1408
Along with everything else that all of us human beings have to worry about in our daily lives is the haunting yet very real fact that the world around us is going through some changes. I'm talking about what's going on with our planet. It's what I call 'Out of Our Control Worry.' The worry about ... Views: 1458
If you are searching for a case for ones computer system as well as your current laptops subsequently Hard lightweight aluminum case will probably be great for you. For the reason that of the simple reason why by making use of this kind of case your notebook will likely be guarded as well as be ... Views: 434
If you feel hemmed in by your own thoughts and habits you can do something about it. With hypnosis you can change automatic thoughts, behaviors and expectations.
Who you are now and how you act now is what matters. The past is the past. Now is your opportunity to be as you want to be ... Views: 1025
The Path from Nobody to Somebody
by
Bill Cottringer
"Be a somebody who makes everybody feel like a somebody." ~anonymous.
Sometimes without being aware of it, or at least not fully knowing the details, we are all searching for a path to help us go from being a nobody to become a ... Views: 368
Recently, the Critics’ Choice Awards were televised and, the Golden Globe nominations were announced. I am fascinated because I LOVE movies. They have been a staple part of my life since my earliest childhood. Films have entertained, influenced, informed, educated and ignited my ... Views: 1590
In the interest of complete transparency, I want to be absolutely clear about my intention in writing this article: My aim is to hit you hard and repeatedly with the 'yes' hammer until it's permanently embossed on your head and in your mind. My hope is that you re-wire your knee-jerk reaction ... Views: 1269
The power of a positive attitude is actually an immense one! A famous Mathematician with a natural knack for philosophy by the name of Rene Descartes once said: “It is not enough to have a good mind. The main thing is to use it well.” Amazingly, we each have immense capacities when it comes to ... Views: 1739
The Power of Awareness
By
Bill Cottringer
“What is necessary to change a person is to change his awareness of himself.” ~Abraham Maslow.
Focusing on one thing in life being more important than any other is a common mistake we often make. This usually results in over-embracing a ... Views: 1429
I like to think of each one of us like a branch on an enormous tree. We are a part of something bigger than each of us, yet we are a part of creator/spirit/universe. Because we are a tribe of one, and individually, a part of the whole, our ability to create our life is astounding. (In other ... Views: 1083
Do you believe in yourself?
I do.
Sometimes all it takes to be successful is a positive mind set.
Positive thoughts can be powerful.
Believing in yourself is a huge first step towards a successful presentation.
Just for a moment, forget all the stress, anxiety, and nervousness you ... Views: 1242
"It's the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief. And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen." - Muhammad Ali
Nobody really starts out believing in themselves or in their goals. One has to constantly remind himself that he is not crazy and his goals isn’t ... Views: 2004
I’ll never forget seeing Uncle Tony in the hospital bed...
Doors of hospital rooms are so big and wide – they make you feel exposed just standing there. And that smell is always there... some mix of chemicals and medications that's supposed to smell “clean,” but doesn’t.
The smell and the ... Views: 1441
"Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative and creation, there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then ... Views: 1083
I've been thinking a lot about gratitude. I am a firm believer in the concept of, "you get what you give" and have seen it play out in my life (and the lives of others) on a regular basis. In everything we do and say in our lives, we are emitting energetic vibrations and those frequencies that ... Views: 991
I recently have been reminded of something I have known but had forgotten its importance. Everything you do should come from a place of pure joy in your heart. It is key to your success and happiness. When you do every task, even the mundane with joy and gratitude - that task will be done ... Views: 1265
Love:Strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties; attraction; affection felt by lovers; affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests; warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion; the object of attachment, devotion, or admiration; unselfish loyal and ... Views: 1100
The power of mindset comes from focusing your attention on a certain thing in a particular way. By focusing on something you want, or for that matter something you don’t want, Law of Attraction brings what you are focused on to you.
Although the more scientifically minded among us might argue ... Views: 1065
To achieve success requires a number of personal qualities.
PerseverenceTalent, hard work, dedication, commitment, focus- these are all things that you need to experience the sweet taste of success.
But if there’s one necessary quality that over rides all the rest then without hesitation I ... Views: 1535
The Powers of a Positive Attitude
I am going to ask you to something very weird right now. First of all, I want you to listen to your thoughts. Now tell me, what thoughts fill your head? Would you label them as positive, or negative?
Now let's say you are walking down the street with these ... Views: 785
The Power of Sincere Apology
[Vinod Anand]
The word ‘sorry’ is synonymous with apology. It is a common, familiar word but it is t potent and magical in its efficacy.
In our day-today life, it is symbolic of a polite apology for a wrong done intentionally or inadvertently and normally ... Views: 1409
Learn how the power of style can change your business and help you get more clients. What if what you're wearing is steering your potential clients into the arms of your competitor? And what if your wardrobe is causing you to leave money on the table? Now imagine if you could fix that so that ... Views: 511
The Problems a Divided Mind Causes
By
Bill Cottringer
“I have realized that the past and future are real illusions, that they exist in the present, which is what there is and all there is.” ~Alan Watts.
First, I suppose we should clarify what exactly a divided mind is. ... Views: 1465
”People are not lazy. They simply have impotent goals – that is, goals that do not inspire them.” - Anthony Robbins
There is no question about it. Just having a goal is not enough. It’s like a motor without the fuel – it just won’t run.
The fuel to keep your motor running is your purpose, ... Views: 1668
THE RACE 2 #seedtract
GET SET (the place of preparation.)
In a race when everyone is on the block, the next instruction is “GET SET”. To get set means to be ready, to prepare, to be vigilant because the race is about to start.
In life’s race, everyone needs to get set for the race. ... Views: 1107
Have you been performing certain tasks for clients (often just “throwing it in”) and delivering phenomenal results, yet haven’t made it “official” that you’re offering it as a standalone service so you can be compensated for it fairly and squarely?
You probably have a dozen reasons why ... Views: 1133
The Reason that we need to Forgive
Learning to forgive others is something which I wrestled with for quite a long time. I was the type person who would hold a grudge for years if I had to, and my favorite saying was: “I’ll get even if it takes a thousand years.” This attitude didn’t help me ... Views: 1378
Color three-dimensional imaging technology means that using two images, which were taken by different perspectives, print in one picture through two different colors. If you watch this picture with the naked eyes, you just can see blurry ghosting images. Only wearing corresponding red-blue 3D ... Views: 2897
The purple haze of the evening hours washes through the valley as an observer stands on a hill top. She watches the hustle and bustle of the village below. The residents come and go as they please.
She notices the negative reckless traveler causing chaos in the flow of the pattern in the ... Views: 1303
Developing mental toughness is not easy. However, with the right information and a motivation to succeed, you will be able to develop this through your own efforts.
In this article I will discuss the benefits of possessing a mental toughness, and I will also provide you with some mental ... Views: 1084
Shyness as a psychological condition is bad enough, but chronic shyness is even worse. In order to deal with it effectively, you’ll need to explore a whole new territory.
If you are chronically shy, then you’re past the phase of feeling somewhat uneasy when you’re talking with new people. ... Views: 4828
At some point it’s wise to accept or create a “Rubicon Challenge” for yourself. It’s a way to stretch your talents, exceed your potential, dare something worthy, and achieve what others might call impossible. The line or “river” you cross is the self-imposed limitation of your own potential.
I ... Views: 1353
The four-day trip around the Channel Islands, just off the coast of Southern California, started out like it was supposed to—calm seas, plenty of sunshine, and moderate wind speed of 18 to 20 knots. The channel was only about 35 miles across, which meant we would make safe harbor for the evening ... Views: 775
Note: This is the original preface of The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles (available in PDF ebook for free download). If you like this preface, you can download the entire PDF Ebook version of The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles for free HERE. Although it is possible ... Views: 1644
If you’ve ever doubted that you could accomplish something, you’ll love this story.
A year ago I hadn’t written a single song, couldn’t carry a tune, didn’t have a solid beat, only knew a few guitar chords, and never sang in public or in the studio.
Today I have my first singer-songwriter ... Views: 1033
How would you describe a self-confident person? Generally, many people consider a self-confident person to be a perfect know-it-all, who is the center of attention, and never shows weakness.
Some folks confuse the terms self-confidence with self-esteem. The former is cosmetic, and may not be ... Views: 2195
“Human kindness has never weakened the stamina or softened the fiber of a free people.
A nation does not have to be cruel to be tough.”
-Franklin D. Roosevelt
Are you a kind person? Do you like to be treated with kindness? Why should you be kind?
What if I told you that ... Views: 1349
Last week the dices were thrown and this week is time to see the results, understanding the "why's" and wherefore's, and putting the pieces back in a more meaningful manner.
This is the time of building bridges, of uniting and understanding, what the bleep is going on. Realize the changes in ... Views: 1448
The Short sentence to change your outlook in Practical Life.
I am writing this topic based on my experiences , about how I overcame my difficulties , hoping that the same would be of help to you.
Its quite a paradox in life that the things we aspire and long for, is often out of our grasp ... Views: 1268
The Significance of Yin and Yang (Part One)
Complementary Opposites
If you study any aspect of oriental philosophy or culture you soon come across the terms 'yin' and 'yang'. These terms are used to describe the opposite yet complementary nature of iChi energy which ancient people ... Views: 860
The personal advantages to laughter and humor are not so much about being funny or the ability to tell jokes well. Rather, it is more about being open to humor, to finding it (almost) everywhere and taking it in. Humor makes us feel good (or better) and when we do, we work better, play better ... Views: 2223
“I knew today was going to be awful the moment I got out of bed” is something most, if not all, of us have uttered at least once in our lives. You get out of bed, feeling just awful, the hot water runs out in the middle of your shower, and then you burn the eggs, miss the bus, and arrive late ... Views: 741
What does success mean to you? Are you successful when you have lots of money, power, or an expensive car? What does failure mean to you? Are you a failure when you weigh too much, work at an unfulfilling job, or live alone?
The Success Secret
I believe that success is when you become ... Views: 776
Think for a moment about a big goal or objective you accomplished in your life. Maybe it was a financial goal, a physical, emotional, or spiritual one. Maybe it was buying a new house, getting a new job, securing a new client in business, having children or getting children through college. ... Views: 1287
Who wouldn’t like to be more fulfilled? If you’re not feeling totally fulfilled, you’re not alone. In a recent research project I conducted on fulfillment, few Millennials and only some of Gen Xers described their lives as fulfilled.
I define life fulfillment as achieving one’s dreams and ... Views: 1442
The Three Main Highways to Success
By
Bill Cottringer
“Knowing how to succeed is the easy part. The hard part is in translating your desire into hard work and maintaining perseverance through inevitable setbacks.” ~ The Author.
If you do a Google search on “success” there are ... Views: 691