THE 5 MOST COMMON MARRIAGE PROBLEMS
And How to Avoid Making Them Worse
No marriage is perfect.
So what are the most common problems that 60 million married couples face?
A recent survey I conducted showed that the five most common marriage problems are:
1. Infidelity
2. Constant low-grade ... Views: 2741
Kitty and Lydia Bennet
"From all I can collect by your manner of talking, you must be two of the silliest girls in the country."
--Pride and Prejudice
Kitty and Lydia Bennet, the two youngest sisters from Pride and Prejudice, are the wildest, craziest flirts that Jane Austen ever created. ... Views: 2132
1. Why is it so important to be “of service” to humanity?
2. What can I possibly do that can make a difference?
3. Where is the joy in serving?
4. What does my life purpose have to do with service to others?
5. When can I find time to serve others when I’m barely getting by?
6. How can I ... Views: 1014
One of the most magical moments in my life occurred over seven years ago while I was pregnant with my daughter, Soka.
Prior to the conception of our baby, my husband and I prayed for her to come into existence. Because I had lost my previous child to miscarriage, I also spent my entire pregnancy ... Views: 6212
You had your new year's resolution all planned out. This was your year to "insert your missed goal here" :). You knew exactly what you needed to do; maybe you even got off to a blazing start!
You were absolutely sure this was going to be your year! This goal is as good as in the bag you ... Views: 1537
As a work from home internet business entrepreneur you have several really good tools on the internet you can take advantage of in order to build your work from home business. A blog is just one of those tools that you can use and should be taking advantage of.
In recent months blogs have ... Views: 1329
Creativity is a mysterious force that visits us with great ideas, new ways of seeing the world and the courage to do things differently. Revitalizing your creative talents will help you in the most unexpectedly wonderful ways: a new business idea, a renewed commitment to self-care, an ... Views: 1406
Your 6 year old has just seen video of real children being washed out to sea. Your teen sits transfixed watching images of people clinging to trees, mothers wailing as they discover dead children in an endless line of unclaimed bodies, and babies crying hysterically for their mothers. At the ... Views: 1236
Sometimes living that wonderful and beneficial holistic life can sometimes seem daunting. However! The moment you resign yourself to it, you wonder why you were even thinking about the sometimes nuisance it causes. These weak moments are normal experiences and very healthy to have. Periodic ... Views: 4469
I'm walking down a section of Oak Creek here in Sedona Arizona where the water has literally cut into the Red Rock itself. The river bottom and walls are solid red rock carved in waves and curves of amazing shapes finer than any sculptor could conceive of. It is so beautifully conceived-birthed ... Views: 2181
All children are different and respond differently to divorce. Depending on the characteristics of the children - age, emotional maturity, happiness, resiliency to trauma - the easier or more difficult it will be for children to weather a divorce.
As a parent, you should know your children ... Views: 10652
All I wanted was to fall in love and live happily ever after. The End.
Except it wasn’t that simple. At forty-something, I was hardly “on the shelf”, but I was the veteran of two divorces. That gave rise to plenty of self doubt. It gave rise to another more sinister, subtle symptom too: I ... Views: 1637
Before I was born I knew how to do very complicated things, like make sure my heart, brain and legs developed correctly. I even knew how to breathe underwater. I must have done something wrong because then I got kicked out, slapped and was forced to breathe air.
Since then, everything I’ve ... Views: 884
As a business success coach I have worked with many women in business who consider themselves successful and who are considered successful by their peers. No matter how much you earn, how fast you find yourself expanding your organization, or how much satisfaction your gain from your business, ... Views: 1015
My friend Tellman Knudson of List Crusade.com recently
interviewed Janet and Chris Attwood about "The Passion
Test."
The complete interview is available at:
http://www.ListCrusade.com/attwood.html
What is the Passion Test?
First let me tell you a little about Janet and Chris.
Janet Attwood ... Views: 3130
Q. "My friend is really excited about her new business venture. She assures me her coach and boyfriend think it’s a winner. Personally, I think it’s a harebrained scheme with zero potential. How can I be supportive but also realistic?"
A. You’re a good friend. It’s easy to send lots of empty ... Views: 1535
What NOT to look for when seeking therapy - By James Middleton
What NOT to look for when seeking therapy - or in other words;
(how to save yourself money, time, and loss of independence).
What NOT to look for when looking for a therapist.
Here are some tips to help you avoid ... Views: 2433
You may have heard the sayings "Thin is in." or "Fat is where it's at." Such extremes in weight are generally not healthy. It makes good sense to find what works best for you according to your genetic makeup, body type, age, gender and lifestyle. There are many factors that contribute to your ... Views: 1212
As I write this, I am looking out over Collins Avenue, in Miami Beach, Florida. It is Christmas Eve and there are a handful of cars on the road. The weather is a delightful 64 degrees Fahrenheit and a cool breeze licks my fingertips. The ocean is over my shoulder and dozens of palm trees ... Views: 1084
Of course, these don't have to be done in any particular order! Just pick one or two that particularly apply to your situation.
* Create your 2005 filing system. This might include new file folders, a new box to hold them or space in a filing cabinet with easy access.
* Set up a folder to ... Views: 1416
THE MISSING PART OF YOUR DIET MAY BE IN YOUR OWN BACK YARD
(Boost Your Immunity and Prevent Cancer With Dandelion, Honeysuckle, Clover and Other Ordinary Weeds)
Did you know that many of those unglamorous "weeds" that you've been poisoning or pulling out of your garden and lawn are some of the ... Views: 1338
Grandma has a scrumptious, old-family recipe for chocolate pecan pie that melts in your mouth. Uncle Bert whips up a killer BBQ sauce for ribs (or grilled tofu). I’ve discovered a more direct route to happiness—a tantalizing recipe for alchemy!
According to Webster’s dictionary, alchemy is not ... Views: 1385
1. Blog- blogs are easy to use and maintain and give you the freedom of updating as little or as much as you want. You can have blogs where you write, create audio or even video if you want.
2. Power PR- More women business owners are understanding the power of Public Relations and making sure ... Views: 1829
Remember when the medical world identified pre-hypertension to better monitor your blood pressure?
The new buzz: Pre-Diabetes concerns a similar condition pinpointing people who are at severe risk for getting diabetes. Because diabetes silently invades your body, early detection and ... Views: 960
Although the practice of yoga has become widespread during the last 30 years, there are still quite a few misconceptions about this ancient method of self-transformation. Here is a brief survey of the most common myths about yoga, and a look at what yoga is really all about.
1. Yoga is a ... Views: 9274
“You must do the thing that you fear until the fear of that thing becomes no more.”
- Brian Tracy
One day, not too long ago, I was in the middle of a 5 day fast. I was looking for spiritual answers to some situations that I was facing. On the third day, I got hit with the truth. ... Views: 12510
Soul Purpose and Life Direction
An Astrological Perspective
“We are born at a given moment, in a given place, and like vintage years of wine, we have the qualities of the year and of the season in which we are born.”–Carl Jung
Are you thinking of changing jobs, getting divorced, or ... Views: 8873
Our country was and continues to be built because of those special people who are willing to take a risk. Many present day success stories are based on people who traveled here, arriving with nothing more than a dream in their heart and little or no financial resources to their name. Risk is ... Views: 1527
Avoid the Top 5 Resolution Pitfalls
(and find more happiness along the way)
Do you make the same New Year’s resolution year after year? Do you ever keep it? Do any of these common resolutions resemble those you promise to keep, but never do?
I’m going to…
· Lose weight
· ... Views: 1854
Your Most Important Decision of 2005
In the next couple of weeks, some of us will be thinking about what we really want for our lives in 2005, and some of won't be. Perhaps some of will make the time to write down a New Year's resolution.
Your most important decision of 2005 will be your ... Views: 1255
Our lives and the circumstances we live in are largely the result of our own thoughts and beliefs. The sum total of our thoughts, if they are positive, will result in a positive life for us. The converse is just as true. If we think negatively most of the time, we tend to attract negative ... Views: 1481
People of two opposing ideas can stir up argumentsand fights. It's that situation when one thinkshe has the right concept while the other one also believes he has the proper notion. Both of themwould try to outsmart each other until one claimsvictory.
Here's an actual example.
My girlfriend ... Views: 4232
Imagine waking up each day knowing that you have a clean slate on which to create the life you desire. Your past is behind you, your tasks are up to date and your projects are complete. What could you accomplish if there were no unresolved issues, projects or relationships to divert your ... Views: 1033
It was a cool winter morning, and getting cooler. That morning, before I left for the barbershop, I told Sherry that maybe the yard work we had planned for the next few afternoons should be postponed. The clock radio had said it was supposed to be very cold for a few days. It would be very ... Views: 1027
THE ABC’S OF INSURANCE “ Complementary Health Series” hosted by Lester J. Robinson FIC.
TOPICS: Show 15: Massage and Pregnancy and Children Health
This week the show will be interviewing Erin Gugliuzza of Route 78 Hair Design & SPA. Erin will show examples how Massage Therapy is Healthy ... Views: 1378
Do you make the same New Year’s resolution year after year? Do you ever keep it? Do any of these common resolutions resemble those you promise to keep, but never do?
I’m going to…
• Lose weight
• Stop procrastinating
• Exercise more
• Spend less money on things I don’t need
• Eat ... Views: 1073
Debra was radiant in her scarlet dress wrapped tautly over her swollen belly. Proudly she gave each guest a tour of the nursery, decorated in yellows and greens with love and care, as she awaited the birth of her first child. I commented to her friend Carol, “What a perfect day for a shower. ... Views: 2261
Whether it’s a holiday, anniversary, birthday or a time in your life where the rug of life itself seems to have been ripped out from beneath your feet, and you feel the kind of depression where you pray to not wake up, take heart. I have been there, and have learned how to come out of it to the ... Views: 6530
October 1, 2004
Recently, two friends and I went rock climbing at Nashville Climb, a popular indoor spot. It was an absolute blast! If you haven't already experienced it, I recommend finding your nearest indoor rock climbing place and just doing it! Most places have lessons on rock climbing ... Views: 983
The most under rated method to achieve success is: The power of Visualisation. The best kept secret of success on the sports field and in athletics is: The power of Visualisation. The situation where the mind is in charge of the body. Athletes and other sportspersons constantly use the power of ... Views: 1886
Introduction for Couples:
The Art of Conversation is a homework tool I developed for couples in my therapy practice. It's a structured exercise in which one person (Person A) gets to talk for 20 minutes about any issue she wishes while her partner (Person B) asks specific questions designed ... Views: 3574
Twenty-four percent of women and 17 percent of men say they would give up more than three years of life to be thinner. That’s according to a poll conducted by Psychology Today magazine.
At the same time, studies show that half of American women overestimate the size of their ... Views: 1493
Why Even Bother?
The Importance of Motivation
If, from the meditative perspective, everything you are seeking is already here, even if it is difficult to wrap your thinking mind around that concept, if there really is no need to acquire anything or attain anything or improve yourself, if ... Views: 2611
Do you know anybody that you feel is particularly engaging and lively? Take a moment to picture that person in your mind. What is it about that person that you find most attractive? He or she may have a charming voice and a great laugh, but it is also very likely that you find their face very ... Views: 3085
Say you had a stressful day at work, didn't get enough sleep the night before and as a result you've got a bad headache. What do you do? It's easy! You take good old Tylenol or other over-the-counter medicine. And it helps! No more headache, the world is bright again.
The next day you wake up ... Views: 1429
Night photographs express a special something that cannot be seen in normal daytime photography. Whether it is a photograph of a moon and starlit sky over a windy deserted beach, the excitement of a downtown cityscape when the lights go on, or just a picture of you and some friends in front of a ... Views: 1381
Brrrrrringgg. The telephone rang.
It was as predictable as Niagara Falls. We had just sat down to a piping hot dinner, so of course the telephone would ring. My wife reminded me that just because the phone rings, doesn't mean we have to answer it, but...
"Hello," I answered.
"Good ... Views: 1493
Can you believe a New Year is here already? I believe wholeheartedly in setting goals, setting intentions, deciding what you will do over the next year. However, I also think it's equally important to know what not to do.
Try these Anti-Resolutions to add some Don'ts to your day, and see how ... Views: 1184
“My son won't go to bed at night without a struggle. He keeps getting up with all kinds of excuses. It doesn't seem to matter what we tell him. Nothing works. What do you recommend?"
This question was posed by a concerned parent in the middle of a fifteen-minute question and answer period ... Views: 1230