Small talk used to be really hard work for me. I never knew
what to say and I always worried about saying the wrong
thing.
Then something awful happened to me....
I had to take a job dealing with the public. My worst fears
came true and I had to make small talk with a whole range
of people ... Views: 932
When you feel self-conscious it means you are putting too much
attention on your self, too much focus on what you are doing and
how you are doing it. And this is a formula for poor performance.
The secret then to dealing with this problem is to become other
conscious.
If all you do is shift ... Views: 848
I was playing tennis today with one of my tennis buddies. We
play once a week and we usually chat about work, professional
tennis players and local news.
Today he was very negative about the people of the area we live
in. According to him they are all thieves and crooks.
Now this makes me ... Views: 785
Having confidence is all about believing in yourself and the only
way you can build your belief in what you are capable of is by
taking action in the world and learning through trial and error.
If you think success, happiness and love are going to happen
without learning through mistakes along ... Views: 575
Where I live there seems to be a a growing population of rude and
vulgar people. And no matter how hard I wish for things to change
it is not going to happen. It is up to me to change how I think
and feel about these people. The same applies for you.
1 What does it mean when someone is ... Views: 712
Your health is your responsability. As a human being, you
have the choice to put in your stomach whatever you want. It
is YOU and only you that can choose what you want or not to
eat. In other words, it is YOU who chooses to be slim and
fit or not. That is your choice. You need to take ... Views: 1502
Your health is your responsability. As a human being, you
have the choice to put in your stomach whatever you want. It
is YOU and only you that can choose what you want or not to
eat. In other words, it is YOU who chooses to be slim and
fit or not. That is your choice. You need to take ... Views: 1502
Millions of people suffer from Arthritis. Their muscles, ligaments and cartilage become inflamed and have severe pain in the affected joints. Movement of the joint then becomes extremely painful. The most severe case of this disease is RHEUMATOID ARTHRITIS. Factors causing it are fatigue, shock, ... Views: 1893
Surf the Wave of Abundance
By Keith Varnum
Bank account bare? Bedroom barren? Body running on empty? Buddha not showing up? Why?
Maybe because your beat is off! You’re out of step with the AbunDance. It’s a dance that requires flexibility, fluidity and, above all, the willingness to flow with ... Views: 1161
I want to talk about that awkward moment at the end of a date when you're not sure on how to go about getting a kiss.
First of all, it's very important to know that some single
women have a rule that they don't kiss on the first date. I don't agree with this rule and think a kiss would be a ... Views: 2498
Developing a Holiday Visitation Schedule…
That Works!
In our experience working with divorced and separated parents here at Talk Works, one of the biggest challenges they face is sharing custody during the holidays. Understandably, both parents want to spend holidays with their children – ... Views: 3911
How to Survive – and Enjoy! – Your First Holidays On Your Own
The holidays for most of us are a mix of excitement, joy, celebration, as well as sadness, anxiety, and even emptiness. For those who are newly single, the holidays can feel especially empty, sad, and daunting. If this is the first ... Views: 1262
We watch the star athlete calmly make the final shot, score the winning goal, or lead his team for a touchdown in the final minute of the game. We marvel at their talent and their determination, but what we value and admire most is the supreme confidence they display – they know they will ... Views: 1213
Do’s
Do treat her like any other kid. It may be difficult and take a while for adopted children to feel like they belong within their extended families. Treating these children like they’re “nothing special” can go a long way toward making them feel at home and comfortable within the ... Views: 960
Getting Over the Wall
I was 18 when I announced at the dinner table one evening that I had been invited on a Territorial Army survival course for the weekend. My parents laughed out loud and, in that moment, I decided I would go. I would show them!
And so I did, and immersed myself in two ... Views: 961
Having confidence is all about believing in yourself and the onlyway you can build your belief in what you are capable of is bytaking action in the world and learning through trial and error.
If you think success, happiness and love are going to happenwithout learning through mistakes along the ... Views: 873
OK, this is what I consider a very effective method to getpeople to link to you without you having to ask them to doso. The best part is that, people will link to you for yourmost targeted keyword.
I happen to discover this method after seeing the resultsthat I get on one of my website. I don't ... Views: 1190
Lessons from the Drive Thru Window. The Power of Asking
Eli Davidson, M.A.
I have an admission to make. I just polished off every molecule of a McDonalds Big N Tasty Meal. (That’s a #6 for you Mickey D’s wanna be’s.) Ahh, I loved each bite of burger and salty, soggy fry. Every mouthful ... Views: 1508
Everyone at some point in time has experienced some form of heartburn. Often, what we notice is a bitter, sour or acid taste in our mouths. At times, we may feel as if partially digested foods or liquids are moving from our stomach back towards our mouth. Sometimes we may also experience ... Views: 1479
Peace is a state of mind.
Peace is not the absence of war; war cannot exist in a state
of peace.
War is not an option for peaceful beings.
Peace is a state of mind, an intention to live peacefully
with all beings.
Waging war will never bring peace, just a temporary
cessation of war.
The last ... Views: 1337
Clearing the Path for Successful Weight Management
Dieters striving for success in their efforts to manage their weight may have more than just unwanted pounds to lose. First, they have to shed some common myths about dieting.
Myths about dieting instil false hopes in people striving to ... Views: 2173
"If one diet ever worked... there would never be a need for another."
More than 32 years ago, Green Mountain founder Thelma J. Wayler, MS, RD, welcomed participants with these words. And every woman in the room nodded in agreement. The words ring as true today as they did then. Diets without ... Views: 1121
Most writers are readers first. Whether historical, research, romantic mystery or spiritual focus. Many well versed writers have either read extensively or have been challenged by a variety of in depth life changing experiences. Remember, your best writing already is “in” you.
Let’s talk ... Views: 1005
In this era of Internet, most people are frequent users of computers. Many of us use computers through out the day, accumulating morasses of information in various formats, which include email, digital photo, word document, spreadsheet, presentation file, ebook, article, other downloaded files, ... Views: 1118
I have seen and heard the bits and pieces of the political discord among the masses as well as the “Us versus Them” paradigm that faces the United States.
The energy almost feels like a civil war among the populous, as it mirrors how “right” each participant needs to feel.
My view and ... Views: 1187
There are no perfect relationships because there are no perfect people. However, that your relationships will never be perfect does not mean you have to settle for relationships that are pathetic.
You can cultivate perfectly imperfect relationships in which no one commits offenses so great that ... Views: 5092
According to the Associated Press on August 26th, the US and Canada may have to close schools, restrict travel and ration scarce medications if a powerful new flu strain spurs a worldwide outbreak, according to the federal planners for the next pandemic. It will take months to brew a new vaccine ... Views: 1000
FALLING INTO JOY!
Things just have not been going well at work lately. That new employee is kissing up to the boss something fierce, and the boss eating it up. You can see your shot at the next promotion going swiftly down the drain. Your “task list” (who comes up with these PC cover-ups for ... Views: 1366
Rediscover Your Childhood: Possibilities
When it comes to childish possibilities, there are almost too many to choose from. If you're looking for some little starters -- things that are easy to do and will begin to get you in the right frame of mind -- flying a kite is an old standby. The same ... Views: 1130
What are organochlorines?
Organochlorines are chemicals found in some herbicides and pesticides, in chlorine bleach and most chemical disinfectants, and many plastics, especially PVC (polyvinylchloride).
Organochlorines are implicated in causing and promoting breast cancer because they mutate ... Views: 1104
Choose a stressless lifestyle? That's very easy to say. Yet it is so important. Our health should be our # 1 priority. We all know that, and still we keep hearing about yet another work mate who is now on the sick-list for several weeks to come.
The book stores are filled with books on stress ... Views: 1580
All problems are not equal. Some will bite you. Some just nudge you. Those nudges are worthy of more attention.
There are two types of problems, acute and chronic, with two distinct warnings signs and different methods of solving them. You need to be aware of both and how to deal with them. ... Views: 1224
What a great time of year! It’s a time to be thankful for what we have and enjoy all the festivities that mark a renewal of our hope and faith in the “system” that will carry us toward a bright new year.
Right… So if this is such a wonderful season, how come so many of us wind up in ... Views: 1235
There is a place in the Northern Hemisphere where the night time dark remains most of the year and the sky is showcased by a flickering light show. You would all know this well as the Northern Lights.
This is the Artic at its very best and worst because the cold and winds collaborate to bring ... Views: 951
You've probably heard the expression: "It's not what you're eating. It's what's eating you!" This well-known saying reminds us that the thoughts we entertain can have an impact on our health.
Scientists have discovered that what you're thinking actually affects your physical health as well as ... Views: 1136
There’s a famous song lyric that asks: “Is that all there is?” Every seven seconds, an American turns 50 years old. So there’s a good chance that song is running through some of their heads.
The question captures the ennui that many people feel in mid-life. They look up at the clock, see it ... Views: 979
Did you know that over 6 million boys and 4 million girls are involved in fights every year on school grounds? Many are physically threatened while a large number of students are also robbed.
Bullying has become a very serious "Hot" topic today. It's been in the news, and the theme of several ... Views: 2532
FIVE STEPS TO A NEW ROUTINE
I've noticed that in the two years since the major de-cluttering of my apartment, clutter has been creeping back in.
So what DO you do after you've cleared the clutter? If your day-to-day routines are continuing to create clutter, then you'll always be one step ... Views: 1251
What the world needs more of is...stress.
This means I must deliver a formal apology to all 17,124 subscribers to my newsletter, A Daily Dose of Happiness, for running a series on stress reduction tips and wasting their time in such a frivolous fashion, when they could be using that time to ... Views: 1409
I logged on to a dating site the other day and was greeted by a large, flashing message. It promised that if I took the time to answer a series of questions that they would find a "perfect match" for me. Imagine that? All the work and worry of being single - gone! We truly have evolved! Not ... Views: 1222
MAGICAL Holiday Emergency Kit
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With all the travel, gift buying, last minute cramming at work, and family issues, is it any wonder that some of us find the holidays more stressful than fun? If you get a little crazy during the holidays, take ... Views: 1221
ADHD NEWSLETTER from Patrick J. Hurley
www.addcorridorcoaching.com
October 2004 Volume I Issue X
ADHD –Sleep Difficulties, Procrastination and other threats to Job Stability
Statement: My intent in this newsletter is to express as quickly as possible my own ... Views: 5863
How "powerful" are you?
Do you ever cover up how you genuinely feel? Do you ever say what you think you "should," say, based on how you want others to perceive you?
Do you ever think you "should" be a certain way?
Why?
I’ll share with you why I did in the past. I "thought" I "should" be a ... Views: 1005
Let me address this issue of eternity, this promise many couples demand of each other and recite in standard wedding vows. Taken literally, this promise is broken more than it is kept. But “Till death do us part” can be interpreted differently.
In this phrase, “death” does not need to mean the ... Views: 1167
1. How can anyone receive direct communication from Divine Source, God, All That Is?
2. What is the difference between doing My will and God’s will?
3. What does it feel like to receive direct communication from Divine Source?
4. How can I tell the difference between “false prophets” and pure ... Views: 1160
1. How do I begin to like myself when I’ve had low self worth my whole life?
2. How do I stop cutting myself down and insulting myself?
3. How can I change my self worth when I still get put down by others?
4. How can I be as confident as so many other people?
5. Isn’t it true that if I ... Views: 1645
I've seen a lot in my life. A lot of people suffering, fearful, temporarily joyous angry, hurt, resentful, longing, hopeful, and ecstatic too.
I've felt all of the above, and I would venture to say that you or someone you know has as well. This article is dedicated to those who want relief and ... Views: 2396
Is successful living really that elusive? As adults we are so chained to a certain way of living. We are creatures of habit. When it comes to change aren’t you like that baby sitting in a poo poo diaper? It’s stinky. It’s gooey. It’s gross. But HEY! It’s yours! (I hope your idea of successful ... Views: 1309
My favorite herbs for postmenopausal women are horsetail, oatstraw, red clover, stinging nettle, seaweeds, and the plants rich in flavonoids. These gentle green allies are more like foods than drugs; they offer bone-creating, heart-protecting, disease-preventing, sex-enhancing optimum ... Views: 3192
Achiever,
If you strive setting NEW goals,
if... you constantly excavate
inside your own mind to extract
powerful characteristics...
if ever you wished someone,
sometime, showed you
how to *unlock* the
hidden cells inside
your ... Views: 3907