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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- VENUS RX’S FALL FOLLIES: All Our Karmic Kinks Are Coming Up for Review - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2018 from joan pancoeTo view all visuals and activate all links, CLICK HERE: http://joanpancoe.com/page-newsletter-details.php?nl=129 “In most of our human relationships, we spend much of our time reassuring one another that our costumes of identity are on straight.” RAM DASS Dear One, Welcome ...
Views: 1141(1 vote) - Verbal Warfare! Make Up Or Break Up? (Video) - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2008 from Dan And JenniferIf you find yourself in a relationship where you find yourself constantly arguing and fighting with your partner, you're not the only one. You're also not alone if you genuinely love this person and want to make the relationship work. Are you doomed to a breakup? Not necessarily... Dear Dan ...
Views: 2001(1 vote) - Voice - A Forgotten Path to Success - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2015 from Anne CookHave you ever considered what part the sound of your voice plays in the role of your success? In the book Voice and Diction it says, "People who have poor speaking voices - the kind that set your teeth on edge- are almost always unaware of this." When I was in broadcast school I had to read ...
Views: 1883(1 vote) - Wake up in your relationship! - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2010 from Susan SheppardThe Wake Up Call by Susan Sheppard Be conscious, aware, and alert. Pay attention. Remember when you were in elementary school and the teacher used to say pay attention now, this is important? Well, this is important. Wake up! What does it take to wake up an adult? Many people go ...
Views: 983(1 vote) - Water Signs Love Reading for August 2019. (Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces) - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2019 from Tanisha Snipes-DixonRight now you may be feeling like you have bad luck when it comes to matters of the heart. Things may not be going as anticipated due to a feeling loss or unfairness that has taken place. Have faith and hope that better times are ahead. If you have been arguing with your love one, know that this ...
Views: 683(1 vote) - Ways We Damage Relationships - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2019 from Kare AndersonWhen things go wrong, we tend to blind ourselves to other’s feelings. We are more likely to fall into a destructive behavioral trap. Sadly, when we do, we cannot be empathic. We weaken that human bond that’s vital to re-grouping and resilience. These blinding mindsets make us feel dumb, ...
Views: 741(1 vote) - We Don’t Need Another Crisis - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2011 from Frances LucasWhen things happen to others everyone seems to want to reach out to help. When countries are hit with devastations, when families lose a loved one, or when people are in need for whatever reason, we all want to pitch in and do what we can. It is great we are people who care but why do some of us ...
Views: 1020(2 votes) - We’re Tired of Choosing! - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2011 from Beate CheletteWe’re Tired of Choosing! Today’s woman doesn’t want to choose anymore. Between work and home and personal life and career. She’s had it with the balancing act. Heresy, right? But why is it that men don’t really have to choose and that we women, after a half-century of social progress, ...
Views: 2379(3 votes) - What a Man Craves in a Woman - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2010 from Bob GrantAdmiration One thing that men crave is admiration. As boys, they fantasize about scoring the winning point in the championship game, or being applauded by thousands of screaming fans. As they grow up, they reach a point where they know the championship game or rock star fantasy is just…a ...
Views: 5390(1 vote) - What Does Commitment Mean? - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2011 from Chris HartwellCommitment in a marriage refers to how you think and how you behave. This requires you to remain committed, even when you do not necessarily feel like doing so. Commitment also refers to more than just sexual fidelity. Commitment also refers to how you spend your time. Marriage requires you ...
Views: 2306(1 vote) - WHAT IN THE WORLD IS A LIFE COACH? - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2013 from Marina RatmanskyMany people have no idea what or who is a life coach and why in the world would they need one? OK, I will attempt to explain it to you. A life coaching is the relationship based on trust. The life coaching process helps people to identify what makes them frustrated and unhappy in their ...
Views: 779(1 vote) - What Is a Real Friend? - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2010 from Greg BakerFor most people having friends is having someone who likes them. And it is true, that a friend will certainly like you, but being popular-which is the goal of most people seeking friendship-is not the same as having a real friend. If your goal is to be popular, be with the in crowd, be well ...
Views: 2810(1 vote) - What is Accurate Life Prediction by date of Birth? - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2020 from Sri TulasiWhat is Accurate Life Prediction by date of Birth? Free accurate life prediction by date of birth and time is an astrological report based on Vedic astrology. This report gives you a detailed analysis of your life in various aspects. Want to predict my future online? then this report ...
Views: 870(1 vote) - What is Intimacy? - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Joe BeamShe interrupted my talk to tell me that I should say the word differently to make its meaning clear. Instead of intimacy, I should say it into-me-see. She had a great point. The Dictionary defines intimacy as “a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with ...
Views: 3318(1 vote) - What is love - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2012 from Margit Miryam HerburgerLove is a word we live to understand, walking our paths we plead to comprehend. Our eyes will search and our ears will listen, for what we hope we will find bliss in,” taken from my poem entitled “Learning Lessons.” Movies and fairytales have been stereotyping love for centuries with ...
Views: 944(1 vote) - What Is Love? - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2015 from Ilya TeslerWe hear it all the time, “opposites attract.” It’s said so often that nobody even stops to question what it means or whether the theory is correct. Much like most clichés, this one is a dangerous one. You meet someone and you start getting to know them. Of course, there’s a good chance you ...
Views: 1090(1 vote) - What Is Love? – The Investor’s Guide - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2015 from Ilya TeslerAt some point in our lives, most of us go through the process of searching for and finding our dream home. Equally, at some point in our lives, most of us go through the process of searching for and finding the person we will spend the rest of our lives with to live in that dream home. I draw ...
Views: 971(1 vote) - What is Mahabhagya Yoga in astrology? - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2020 from Sri Tulasi'Mahabhagya Yoga' is a god blessing… There are many Raja Yoga in astrology. And they all have their importance. But the most special of these is Mahabhagya Yoga. Mahabhagya Yoga is yoga beyond Raja Yoga. The person born in this yoga is especially blessed by God. As the name of this yoga ...
Views: 859(1 vote) - What is more important: to influence the situation or change your attitude towards it? - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2021 from Rudiyr ToporThe Western mentality pushes us to try to control the situation, the East sees wisdom in changing the attitude towards the world. But is it possible to balance these two approaches? WHY IS ONE IMPOSSIBLE WITHOUT THE OTHER? A person is unable to make the simplest changes in his lifestyle ...
Views: 608(1 vote) - What is the key to Hugh Jackman and Deborra-Lee Furness long- term marriage? - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2019 from Tina TessinaAccording to twentytwowords.com, Hugh said “You love each other — and respect each other. You truly want to be together.” Respect and caring are so important in determining who will stay together. Respect and caring create what I call mutuality in the relationship. Mutuality means that love, ...
Views: 812(1 vote) - What Is the Role of Unconditional Love in Our Relationships? - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2011 from Rakesh SethiWhat is unconditional love? Simple as it may appear, it is perhaps the most misunderstood & misused phrase in our relationships. Unconditional love is a benevolent feeling that emerges from deeper level of our Consciousness for all of creation. Universal Consciousness that is pervading through ...
Views: 1254(1 vote) - What is the Worst Thing About Being Bisexual? - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2018 from Anna GreenBisexuality entails a strong attraction towards people of any sex. In the case of a woman, she can be attracted to a man while still being a lesbian. Such women form perfect partners when it comes to a threesome. In as much as they might find fun engaging in lesbianism, threesome and other ...
Views: 1246(1 vote) - What Makes You Think You’re Right That Other People Should Change? - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2010 from Adele Tartaglia INSTANT SUBCONSCIOUS REPROGRAMMING The Life Management Center 480/220-2089 eztherapy@gmail.comAs you proceed to go right on judging the loved one in your life, and labeling them, you forget you did attract them in and many of them by agreement, for a higher purpose. Maybe them being exactly as they are, and you being who you are in this moment of time, is your gift to yourself and ...
Views: 2694(1 vote) - What should I do, if I am the “other” woman? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2020 from Valeria TariShame, negative judgment, scorn is unfortunately a common side effect of this status. Thus most women do not open up about their situation, only suppress it. For this reason, we have no way of knowing the real numbers of how many women take on this difficult and unforgiving role, not to mention ...
Views: 840(1 vote) - What Should You Know before Moving in Together? - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2012 from Rebecca HendersonDo you think that you're ready to spend the rest of your life with your partner? I'm glad to hear that you have no doubt about that but let's take for a moment the rose-coloured spectacles and discuss what you should know before moving in together. Everyone who has been in loved before knows ...
Views: 1168(1 vote) - What To Do About Annoying People? - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2016 from Janet PfeifferI'd venture to say that everyone of us has had to deal with annoying people at some point in our lives. Whether it's a family member who is in everyone's business, a coworker who continually needs your assistance, the know-it-alls who always have to be right or a friend who talks incessantly, ...
Views: 1217(1 vote) - What to Do After Being Falsely Accused of a Sexual Assault - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2020 from Kalyna KapurThere are several crimes in this world for which each day innocent people are charged with. If for some cases, misjudged or suspects are let go, many wrongful accusations and charges end up getting administered in the system. There is a difference between being targeted as a suspect due to the ...
Views: 619(1 vote) - What To Do When Husband Cheats - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brenda StewartYou feel that something is not right with your relationship and you know that your intuition is not wrong? What should you do? Looking for evidence. But if the evidence is already checked? Then it is indeed a deadlock. How to fix this situation? You know best, but here are some useful tips about ...
Views: 1136(1 vote) - What to Do With the Ring After a Broken Engagement - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2019 from Catherine PalmerOnce the engagement finally breaks, the logistics that both parties are required to follow are downright maddening. All you want to do is wallow in melancholy and anger, yet the barrage of ‘matters that need to be handled’ hits you with a relentless force, as if fate is in a ...
Views: 1097(1 vote) - What to do with your irritability? - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2021 from Rudiyr ToporCan you become a calmer person? Yes. And I will tell you how to do it. THE FIRST MISTAKE OF THE MISTAKEN Worrying about making a mistake is an EVEN BIGGER MISTAKE. We always worry when we are wrong. And this is the first mistake of the one who realized his mistake. Because experiences are ...
Views: 586(1 vote) - What To Realize For Getting Your WIfe Back From Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2012 from Robert LeesIt took me a lengthy time to discover the correct path for the finest way to get my ex wife back again, and for quite some time, a lot of the time of 2 years it was quite very difficult avenue indeed. But immediately after realizing the way I was trying to win back the love of my wife was ...
Views: 7365(1 vote) - What Woman Really Want for Valentine's Day - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2013 from Ana ColeThis articles is for all the men, who are looking forward to impress their better half on the 14th of February. If you are uncertain how to make St. Valentine's Day a night to remember (in a good way), here is a feminine point of view on what woman really want for Valentine's Day. Valentine's ...
Views: 679(1 vote) - What You Should Do When Feeling Depressed After A Break Up - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2011 from Andrew HunterNo one can really blame you if you're feeling depressed after a break up. After all, relationships are an integral point of any person's life. It's normal for you to feel bad if you lose something this important to you. But what should you do if you are finding it hard to work through the day ...
Views: 1037(1 vote) - When Did We Become Enemies? - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2012 from Renee Richardson M.Ed.Article: Written by Renee L. Richardson When Did We Become Enemies? Through many years of observation and failed relationships, I have become interested and dedicated to studying human interactions on an intimate level. Because I am an African American female, I spent countless amounts of ...
Views: 2350(1 vote) - When does being clingy become a problem in a relationship? - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2019 from Dada BhagwanIt's wonderful to find a person we love and enjoy being in their company, but the problem transpires when this love for them becomes overly clingy and oppressive. Do you know how does our affection for our loved become so clingy? It is from one’s own lack of insecurity and emotional neediness ...
Views: 503(1 vote) - When is Constructive Criticism Not Constructive? - by Submitted on Aug 19, 2013 from Nicole NenningerDoes this sound familiar: “Would you mind if I give you a little feedback?” Or, “Can I be honest with you?” (Here comes the criticism!). You know what’s coming and your body reacts immediately. Maybe you catch yourself holding your breath for a moment, your heart picks up a beat, or your ...
Views: 1654(1 vote) - When Mr. Close Enough, Turns Into Mr. Wrong! - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2015 from Pamela SchulteSociety, at least as it was when I was a young adult, expected that women should and would get married. In fact, women still didn't really even have to worry about having a career - as long as we married and had a man to take care of us. And heaven help us if we made it into our mid to late 20's ...
Views: 1073(1 vote) - When The Other Man Becomes... A Roommate! - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2015 from Pamela SchulteRoommates, you may have had one when you were in college or just starting out so that you had someone to share the burden of expenses while you worked to become financially independent. Then eventually you met someone, took the leap of marriage and rather than having a roommate you now had a ...
Views: 1349(1 vote) - When “Make Nice” Doesn’t Work In Divorce (by: Anne Brown PhD, RN) | DivorceForce - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownUnfortunately, there are several types of people who are going to be contentious in a divorce and they have to be handled differently. And many personnel involved in the divorce process do not prepare or educate the spouse of a contentious person correctly. If you have ever been told or if you ...
Views: 817(1 vote) - Where to find a man for a relationship - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2020 from Alvina JenniferYou are a pretty, young and interesting woman. But in personal life, everything does not go well. And that is to say the least. You yourself do not remember when you had your last relationship. It seems to you that you are wasting your energy looking for a man and do not want to be alone at all. ...
Views: 1014(1 vote) - Where to Find Your Sugar Baby? - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2020 from Jessica LawIn your spare time, are you considering whether you need a sugar baby to enrich your life? It is not a responsibility, but some company. And you have enough to pay for all her expenses. When you need her, she will appear. But you don't know where to find such cute sugar baby. Are they ...
Views: 915(1 vote) - Whether you feel jealous when you are in a threesome relationship. - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2018 from Amy LawHave you ever been I a threesome relationship? If so what conditions made you be attracted to a bisexual relationship?Can you comfortably watch your life partner with someone else or would you be jealous? Been in a threesome relationship can feel awkward sometimes, especially when you imagine of ...
Views: 1952(1 vote) - Which Is Better To Pursue; Enlightenment Or Emotional Independence - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2013 from David SamuelThe most attractive is of course enlightenment, spiritual realization, self-knowledge or anything in that direction. Promise of this draws many people, and although it would be wonderful to have a large following, I will not claim to have achieved or promise something I cannot deliver. What I ...
Views: 1241(1 vote) - Which is better? Get married or stay single? - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2019 from Jessica LawIf someone want to be single forever, what do you think about it? With the development of all kinds of institutions , many people are looking for single forever, they are fine by themselves. They don't need a husband or wife, they don't need anybody to make them OK. Bisexual people love ...
Views: 1549(1 vote) - Who Am I Who Are You - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2011 from Naomi TickleWho Am I Who Are You We all read faces from the moment we meet someone, we get a sense about who that person is. Over the years we subconsciously record these patterns and when we see someone’s face it triggers off a connection or memory we have noticed in the past. Face Pattern Recognition, ...
Views: 1166(1 vote) - Who Can I Trust - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2011 from Jesse BirkeyWho Can I Trust? I am fairly certain that we all want someone who we can place our trust in. The only question is “Who is that someone going to be?” Who are you going to place your trust in? If the answer is yourself then you are going to be frequently disappointed. If you answer is your ...
Views: 1761(1 vote) - Who Is A Sociopath? - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2021 from Dr. Anne BrownWho is a Sociopath? "Sociopaths/Psychopaths are fun, exciting, seductive, charismatic, impulsive, sexy, AND unfortunately, individuals diagnosed with an anti-social personality disorder." — Dr. Anne Brown What does this mean to you? After you have been drawn into their world, then you ...
Views: 808(1 vote) - Why A Man Won’t Emotionally Commit - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2010 from Christian CarterWhy A Man Won’t Emotionally Commit Have you ever hid your true feelings from a man because you thought you'd "scare him away?" This is a frustrating situation. Shouldn't you be able to just be yourself, and have him love you for who you are? Unfortunately, there's a common mistake ...
Views: 6037(1 vote) - Why Am I Still Single? - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2019 from Anna GreenMy Friend Karen complained to me : I have joined a lot of dating sites, why I am still single? Am I ugly? Earn less or short.. Bisexual.... I don't know... I want to know the reason.. Even my aunt found her love, although she is fifty years old. Today, we can have a talk about how to find your ...
Views: 1292(1 vote) - Why are there so many bisexual dating sites? - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2017 from Jessica LawAccording to data from the Office for National Statistics, the number of women identify as bisexual has increased from 142,000 to 236,000 between 2012 and 2016. The category has been the fastest growing of any in percentage terms, with the proportion of women who say they are bisexual almost ...
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