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Human beings have many different needs, and one of those needs is to feel important. However, this is not to say that everyone will be influenced in the same way by this need; as some people will have a greater need to feel important than others.
It could then be a need that is no more ... Views: 3348
The final element we need to discuss in this series is the element of void. Void really has no traits of it’s own except for one, freedom. Void is the ability to adapt and use what means are necessary to get the results we are shooting for. Void is about a freedom that very few people ever ... Views: 3341
"Who am I Kidding?"
"Who am I to do this?"
"What am I thinking?"
"I'm not (fill in the blank) enough."
These are questions creative people in the visual and performing arts ask themselves every day. They are the questions that stop an artist from starting a project. Stop an actor ... Views: 3330
In one of the Harry Potter books Harry comes face to face with a mirror in which he sees his parents staring back at him. He longs to stay with the mirror to continue to see his parents and Professor Dumbledore tells him he must stop. This mirror shows exactly what the viewer wants to see ... Views: 3324
Making Peace with Yourself
By Dr, Janolyn F Moore, PhD
"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Do not be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Do not let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And, ... Views: 3318
It started with the toaster.
My wife and I get up one weekend morning, plug in our humble little toasting machine, drop in a few slices of bread, then sit back and wait for toast. One minute goes by, then another, then another, and then still another. By now we should have made charcoal let ... Views: 3313
For this week’s Monday Morning Mini-Motivation Meetings, I chose the topic “Spontaneity and Trusting Your Instincts.” To walk the talk, I did not plan an agenda, but trusted the likelihood that interesting things to say about planning, spontaneity and trusting your instincts ... Views: 3309
The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rocks the world. This hand also prepares the family’s meals, drives kids to school, pushes the swing, gives a pat on the back, and lends itself selflessly, among many other wonderful things a mom does for her family.
What are the traits of a ... Views: 3306
We are ALWAYS at CHOICE. Sounds simple. For many things, this is an easy and empowering concept to embrace. Someone asks you out to dinner. Do you really want to go? You decide "yes" or "no". You're at choice. Someone asks you to do something you DON'T want to do. Again, you're at choice..."yes" ... Views: 3303
I’ve had a couple of really interesting coaching conversations lately that have reminded me about just how many people seem to find themselves in a very disempowered state. The most amazing thing about how they feel though, is that it’s something they’ve chosen themselves by giving away power ... Views: 3292
When I'm down, down in the dumps, everything feels bad. I'm not interested in anything, don't feel like connecting with others or even going outside, don't even try to move me. Pass the ice cream. It seems that I want anything that will actually make me feel even worse! The last thing I want is ... Views: 3290
Extraordinary times, like the ones we are currently living, tend to bring out the best and the worst in everyone. Tendencies, beliefs, and even decisions get easily polarized because there are forces at hand that push us to make tough choices—about relationships, work, finances, health, and ... Views: 3288
Inspiration for the Day
“The only thing even in this world are the number of hours in a day. The difference in winning or losing is what you do with those hours.” -Woody Hayes
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Your self-concept is made up of three parts, each of which affects each of the others. Understanding these ... Views: 3282
Article Title: A “REVIEW” OF THE BOOK 'Three Wishes: Palestinian and Israeli Children Speak'
Shared by Craig Lock
Web site: http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B005GGMAW4
The submitter’s blogs (with extracts from his various writings: articles, books and new manuscripts) are at ... Views: 3273
You thought you had figured it out and that everything was under control
But then just at the worst possible moment before the big event, panic attacks grab you and reduce you to a heap of jelly. You try to keep it quiet, push through it, chop its head off before it gets a grip, but you can’t. ... Views: 3273
GANDHI'S LEGACY OF NON-VIOLENCE
“Those who stand up for justice will always be on the right side of history.”
- Dr Martin Luther-King, Jnr
"Those who say that religion has nothing to do with politics, don't know what religion is."
- Mahatma Gandhi
For people around the world, to ... Views: 3267
When Walt Disney materialized at the back of my elementary school cafeteria in 1957 he was already a very famous man. He was visiting the brand new elementary school in Anaheim that had been named in his honor, and escorting every one of us kids and our teachers to his “Happiest Place on Earth” ... Views: 3264
Pages 23-25 from my book Pathways to Wholeness
All positive thought is based on the principles of unconditional love
and by definition, contains the following ingredients:
1. Positive intention
2. Positive content
3. Positive outcome for self, others, and for all life in general
Why is ... Views: 3264
Playing it safe is the most popular way to fail - Elliott Smith
In order to achieve your goals, you sometimes have to get out of your comfort zone. It may be hard. You may think that it is not necessary. If you indeed are serious about being successful, you will have to enter into the ... Views: 3262
This article explains the main reason that people lack the personal power needed to make their dreams come true. By conquering the reality illusion, the main barrier to success, you are ready to start increasing your personal power. Warning - you may not be willing to accept the awful ... Views: 3262
"We share what we know, so that we all may grow."
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HOW TO MAKE GOOD DECISIONS
and especially the really important ones...
Life is full of decisions; we make hundreds of them every day.
Most are automatic and minor ones. However, occasionally ... Views: 3246
Take a look at your hands and pretend that they represent a problem you are having. Now put your hands (your problem) one inch or less away from your nose. What can you see? Not much besides your problem! In fact, if you're like most people you probably can't even see all the edges of the ... Views: 3244
We go through our days, busy and rather unaware. We run our errands, care for our family, go to and from work not really having consciously experienced all the wonderful moments of the day. Keeping a Joy Journal is about becoming more conscious of your joys and less focused or your ... Views: 3244
I am sure you have heard the cliché “Life is a Journey, Enjoy the Ride” Bandied about recklessly by people around you all the time. These same people then tell you that they are not enjoying their lives, but when they get the new promotion, their kids go off to varsity or they start to earn a ... Views: 3240
Energy flows in and out of everything. It’s not just something that comes through the electric power lines. It’s in the air, the water, the earth and in US. Everything IS energy AND energy flows through everything. We do create some of our own...but more flows through us than we could ever ... Views: 3240
For many the word journey conjures up unrestrained emotions and grand visions. It stirs up images of exotic locations, faraway places, or tropical locations. The idea of climbing the Himalayas or sailing down the Amazon River brings a sense of excitement anticipation, and adventure. Yet you can ... Views: 3231
We have all experienced moments of frustration in modern life. Frustration is usually associated with not achieving what you want in a particular situation. Some level of frustration is expected in our lives, and can even be a useful sign to stop and see if we need to make some adjustments. ... Views: 3226
"He who fears he will suffer, already suffers from his fear." - Michel de Montaigne (1553 - 1592)
Fear is a sneaky emotion. Fear causes us to stop taking action. When we stop taking action we reinforce the fear. This way of being becomes an endless loop to get caught up in.
Fear is the ... Views: 3223
Stop! Take a few seconds and look around you… What do you see?
You may be at your office, or in your home, maybe you’re at the beach with your laptop. Wherever you are, what do you see, I mean really see? piles of stuff? Arranged décor? Work to do? The waves lapping at the shore..? As you ... Views: 3223
“I’m ambitious enough to want to live the life of my dreams. And the life of my dreams is a laid-back, relaxed life.” - Marc Allen
‘Your Mental Beliefs Skewed My Model of Reality….’
I’m going to go out on a limb here and suggest that you strive to make your actions congruent with your ... Views: 3201
If you are at all familiar with the story of Dorothy and the Wizard of Oz you know that among Dorothy's fellow travelers along the yellow brick road to find the great and powerful Wizard was the Lion. The Lion wanted the Wizard to give him courage as he was afraid of nearly everything he faced ... Views: 3197
Couple of years before spelled the disappointments of hundreds and hundreds of badminton followers at the Beijing Olympics 08. The long looked forward to badminton finals concerning world number 1, Lin Dan, along with the number two, Lee Chong Wei.
Just when every badminton followers thought ... Views: 3196
For most of the people that I know, the month of November is one that is filled with times of giving thanks, chances to acknowledge our blessings, and moments of reflection on the good things that have happened all throughout the last year. Sentiments of gratitude can be seen all around and are ... Views: 3196
In today’s multicultural world, many people are looking to eliminate their accent and I have a better suggestion. Instead of trying to get rid of your dialect or accent, why not clean it up?
You may believe that your accent is keeping you from getting the job you want or moving ahead in ... Views: 3177
June 22nd, 1993 … A day I will never forget. A day edged in my mind but continues to change with time.
I was an RN working in critical care and I had decided to become a travel nurse and had only two weeks to go before my son Dishan, daughter Barbara-lee and myself would leave to start our ... Views: 3168
Is EVERY member of your team contributing SIGIFICANTLY to your strategic goals? By EVERY member of your team, I mean EVERY member, including front-line talent that you pay by the hour. By significantly, I mean directly to your bottom-line in the form of tens of thousands to millions of dollars ... Views: 3157
According to http://www.thefreedictionary.com/crone. a crone is “an ugly, withered old woman; a hag.” My definition changed though when I read, “ Crones Don't Whine: Concentrated Wisdom for Juicy Women” by Jean Shinoda Bolen. She gives us thirteen ways that to re-look at the word crone.
As I ... Views: 3149
The key to relating to others is first understanding yourself and your personality type. Which one of the 7 personality types are you? There are many combinations of facial and body types. They have been narrowed down to 7 basic personality categories that establish the backbone of your ... Views: 3148
If you are not already aware, you are constantly talking to yourself. Your conversations are about yourself, others and your stories about the world. Some of it may be positive self talk that encourages you. However, more often than not, our self talk is made up of a lot of negative, self ... Views: 3144
Some bosses are quite skilled at “psyching” an employee into doubting the value of his or her contribution to the organization.
An example of this is the president of a company who recently tried to “show up” his sales director by taking over a sales meeting in an effort to prove to everyone ... Views: 3136
I constantly tell my clients that meditation is like your life in miniature - in other words, everything you encounter during meditation mirrors your daily life.
So, for example, during meditation, your conscious mind will distract you - with an average of 50,000 random thoughts whizzing ... Views: 3136
Within the article, I don’t plan to go into all the details of why some people tolerate poor behaviour more than others, but I do plan to give you a few key concepts which may help you put appropriate boundaries in place when dealing with such people.
On the whole, we often attempt to be kind ... Views: 3133
Sometimes you don't have the energy needed to start or resume an important task. However, you can train your subconscious mind to give you a burst of energy on demand. This may be all you need to get going on that special task. Once you start a task, it is human nature to continue working, at ... Views: 3132
Something’s making you anxious. In today’s world it could be any number of things, and sometimes several in combination. Maybe it’s a big assignment at work with a pressure deadline you’re not sure you can do it all and you feel your job depends upon it. Or you suspect your husband’s having ... Views: 3130
Like a stone thrown into a body of water produces ripples over that water, your thoughts produce ripples and waves which transmit over the great ocean of thought that surrounds us.
The same way that we are surrounded by a sea of air, We are encircled by a great sea of Mind. Our thought waves ... Views: 3128
Do you find that shyness holds you back and stops you from really living a life true to yourself? Do you find that there are people you’d like to talk to, social occasions that you’d like to go to and experiences that you’d love to try but can’t because your shyness gets in the way?
We can ... Views: 3126
For most people the prospect of having surgery or “going under the knife” is a terrifying prospect. Totally giving over control of your life to a comparative stranger who will make changes to your body. Cut pieces off or out, or sometimes put pieces in – or move pieces around. The idea of ... Views: 3124
Whether you can or you cannot do something usually depends upon your chosen patterns of thought. If you put yourself down you will find that your own thoughts are what get in the way of your happiness and success.
When you put yourself down you set in motion a cycle of negative effect. ... Views: 3121
- Have you craved to be strong and looked in awe at those who gain the respect of others easily?
- Are you tired of getting ignored when hanging out with other people?
- Are you speechless when someone talks down to you or pushes in the line in front of you?
- If you can relate to ... Views: 3120