Last week, I introduced you to the Be-Do-Have model. This week lets take a closer look at how to apply it to our lives.
The great advantage of understanding this model is that we begin to see that our inner world creates our outer world, not the other way around. When we focus internally on ... Views: 822
I have been speaking with more and more Christians about the power of these life coaching principles lately, but often they are not well received. There is something about the practical nature of responsibility and choice that just doesn’t seem spiritual enough for some. It seems that some ... Views: 1106
To talk more about Christian coaching or discipleship coaching to be more precise – it’s probably important to take some time to define what discipleship is if we are going to coach people to become better at it.
Here are some discoveries I made after reading the book of Matthew.
The ... Views: 1035
Last week I shared 8 keys with you that are required for a person to genuinely change.
Here is part two which contains the other 8 keys.
9. Say “no” so we can say “yes”- Often we think we’ve said yes to things only to find our attention divided and our commitment weakened by a range of ... Views: 1031
I love the fact that we each have the ability to change, grow, mature, develop and become the people God created us to be. Almost every time we turn the TV on, we are bombarded with hundreds of quick fixes for every issue in our life from weight loss to great relationships, however lasting ... Views: 996
n all the things I’ve read and studied as part of learning the life coaching skill set, I have been most fascinated by discovering the science of how beliefs work.
Life is not shaped by the things that happen to us, but by the meaning we place on those experiences. Once we choose a meaning ... Views: 1041
One of life’s great joys is collapsing into bed at 9:30pm and getting lost in a great book for half an hour before your eyelids can take no more. Last week, I was enjoying one such moment, when I noticed a strange scratching sound coming from behind me. I rolled over to see my beloved whirling ... Views: 995
When I first started my coaching business, I was 110% committed to making it work. I kinda had to be because I’d cut off all other options and safety nets and promised my family that I’d made the right decision. I was convinced that God had led me in this direction and He confirmed this by ... Views: 977
I’ve had a couple of really interesting coaching conversations lately that have reminded me about just how many people seem to find themselves in a very disempowered state. The most amazing thing about how they feel though, is that it’s something they’ve chosen themselves by giving away power ... Views: 3446
My friend Matt Waldron, says there are only three times in life when someone has a legitimate place to speak into someone else’s reality:
1. As their parent, while their child is still living at home;
2. As a professional, where someone is paying for their advice;
3. When someone is ... Views: 883