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Have you ever berated yourself for missing a golden opportunity to talk about yourself and your accomplishments because you were fearful of coming off as too showy or self-serving? How come so many of us can only think of the right things to say about ourselves ... Views: 2045
Family life is always in flux, and sometimes these changes can be subtle, or take place over time. It is easy to say that we all need to achieve balance in our lives, but it can be hard to do-especially when we think balance means spending equal time in each area of life. Mothers can't ... Views: 2045
For many people, family gatherings during the Happy Holidays aren't so happy. While most of us enjoy getting together at holidays, mixed feelings of love, anxiety and confusion often collide. But why in the world would family holidays cause consternation or anxious feelings? Why would family ... Views: 2044
While buying a pair of wingtip shoes, one may think about the style, price, color and especially about comfort. These factors are important when you are purchasing a pair of wingtip shoes.
Amongst all the above mentioned factors, style is the most important factor. These wingtip shoes ... Views: 2044
An apple a day keeps the doctor away. Sure, we don't want to get sick and need a doctor. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't see your doctor regularly. Along with that apple, you should be including routine physical examinations as a part of your overall health care. Doctors are not the enemy. ... Views: 2043
As the Divine Feminine spirit continues to awaken within each one of us through her gentle and compassionate voice, the winds of change will continue to break down the old and outworn system of patriarchal global dominance.
While on one hand, this process can seem daunting and even ... Views: 2042
Have you ever considered what it might mean to you, to be wealthy? Beyond the fantasy of winning the lotto or striking it rich on some far fetched opportunity, have you truly ever pondered the reality of being a wealthy individual? Or has the idea of this remained stuck in some fantasy, never ... Views: 2042
Article by Lola Jones,
author, spiritual teacher,
and creator of Divine Openings
Of course, being a woman I am embodying quite a bit of feminine essence this time around. It's a joy, a pleasure, and a privilege to be a woman at this time. The feminine, magnetic, attractive force brings ease ... Views: 2041
These days most of us have ovens in our kitchen but how many of us truly know how to clean and maintain them? Unlike other kitchen appliances, kitchens are different; they need to clean properly to function in optimum conditions. Needless to say, ovens are very prone to accumulation of grime ... Views: 2041
Microsoft Office has been utilized in immeasureable offices worldwide for quite some time now. The program has transformed through the years by utilizing online Microsoft Office courses you are able to soon be a master.
You may be looking for an accounts management program something like that ... Views: 2041
My Husband Breaks Things When We Fight: Husband Breaks My Things When Angry
Myths and Expectations about Fighting:
There are many myths and expectations about fighting in marriage. Couples come into my office frequently believing that fighting is a necessary part of being a couple; that ... Views: 2041
Is ADHD really a legitimate brain condition? Or is it a made-up diagnosis used to explain aberrant behavior? Is the ADHD label an opportunity for some people to slough off responsibilities and get a pass on completing necessary tasks? Does it give people an excuse for their mistakes and their ... Views: 2040
What's the pulse out there? Many of us opted for a quiet New Year's Eve choosing Mozart and a glass of wine in front of the fireplace over getting drunk, hanging off the rafters, and negotiating a statistically dangerous drive back home in a sort of mad compensatory gesture.
It’s really just ... Views: 2040
We are programmed by a strong desire to seek pleasure and avoid pain. This is so deep rooted in our subconscious that it motivates pretty much everything that we do. Recently, there has been a movement towards positive thinking as a way of overcoming our challenges, and dispelling negative ... Views: 2039
Do you dream of a more fulfilling life? Is your ability to see yourself where you would like to be less clear as time progresses? Do you think that other people are "lucky" when you see them following their dreams?
It is often said that visualizing a dream is the most powerful method of ... Views: 2039
I still remember the feeling vividly. Wind in my face, pedaling hard, weaving back and forth across the street. Using a sidearm technique, which I was quite sure I had invented, I threw newspapers the way other kids skipped stones. The perfect throw was when the paper gently landed on the stoop, ... Views: 2038
This beautiful, blue marble of a planet is racing through space with great dignity. Do we match it in dignity and deserve to belong to this planet? Obviously, we don’t! The reasons are clear too. Can we bring in a new dimension to this scenario?
The writer has participated in discussions on ... Views: 2038
If you have ever gotten your rubber boots stuck in a muddy garden, you will remember how hard it is to lift your boot out of the mud. Sometimes you can manage it by holding onto the top of the boot and pulling up as you lift your foot. This requires excellent balance and could result in landing ... Views: 2037
The profound and powerful emotions, experienced upon discovering a marital affair, can cause significant emotional damage to the person experiencing them, if they are not handled properly. How can you handle the strong emotions triggered by a husband’s infidelity? Closing down and effectively ... Views: 2037
You’ve heard that “curiosity killed the cat,” and for cats that may be true. But for human beings, curiosity can be a powerful enhancer of life’s enjoyment, comfort, and fulfillment. It’s a key to discovering our limitless potential.
At times curiosity utterly revolutionizes our lives in the ... Views: 2036
Why is it that most of us spend our entire lives trying to experience our worth, keep it and prove it to others? Could it be that our concept and experience of worthiness has gotten lost in the preconception and misbelievings that we are not good enough unless we offer value through our deeds, ... Views: 2035
Yes, everyone has bad habits. Whether it’s smoking, biting nails, chewing on things, or even eating too much, it’s possible to get rid of it easier than you think.
With 3 key factors called willpower, determination, and perseverance, you can overcome the nasty habits you’ve developed for ... Views: 2032
So how do you stay calm, composed and maintain self esteem in a tough environment? Here are some tips you may to consider as a starter guide to self improvement.
Imagine yourself as a Dart Board. Everything and everyone else around you may become Dart Pins, at one point or another. These dart ... Views: 2032
Dance combines movement in the most pleasant way with music and communication, bringing cheerfulness and health. Nowadays, dancing is one of the best ways of discharging emotional stress, slimming and to improve communication between partners.
Dance creates harmony between body, mind, and ... Views: 2031
It is indeed possible to stretch time—to make the time you have go farther, and use it more for what you really want to do. Stretching time is not difficult if you have the prerequisites: self-awareness, a sense of purpose, thoughtful action, and a playful approach.
Self-Awareness:
As with ... Views: 2030
Many of us spend very little conscious time thinking about our values, those principles that are most important to us.
This is not to say that we don't have values; we learn from our parents, our teachers, our culture and our friends. Most of us have learned to distinguish right from wrong, ... Views: 2030
Over seventy years of psychological research proves conclusively that we live automatic lives. "Automaticity" is what psychologists call our extremely efficient ability to perform routine tasks without paying attention to them. Stop for a moment to reflect on how much attention you paid, this ... Views: 2030
Do you consider yourself an avid gambler? Like to hit the crabs or blackjack table whenever you can? Well, if you are not located in a state where gambling is considered legal then you probably have a hard time fulfilling your desires. Sure, there are a number of states that have legalized ... Views: 2030
Not feeling the holiday spirit this year? Feng Shui principles can help you create a joy-filled holiday season. Although our society tends to compress much positive energy (good Feng Shui) into the last six weeks of the year and forget about all of that great energy by the second week of January ... Views: 2030
Anyone with a computer, an address, a telephone or a doorbell is a potential victim of some unknown entity attempting to swindle us out of our identity and money.
Telemarketing scams seem more likely to target older Americans. A 1995 AARP study found half of the consumers targeted for such ... Views: 2030
Installation of toilet safety rail is quite difficult and hard task however, it is necessary for the safety of your loved one and especially for the safety of your children. During and after the installation of toilet safety rail many questions emerge in the mind of people about its successful ... Views: 2029
Flooded basements are a serious hazard. They can encourage mold growth in the home; weaken foundations and structural support, and damage items and equipment. Fortunately, there are many skilled professionals such as those at midatlanticwaterproofing.com and basements.com to help you protect ... Views: 2029
Instead of books, many parents are purchasing iPad apps for their children to help them learn. There are many benefits to creating apps for kids. This can be a great marketing tool, as apps often can be used alongside TV shows and other products aimed at children. As this is a new field, there ... Views: 2029
Depression and suicidal moods
Have you ever been so depressed, you felt like life was bleak and nobody cared? Sometimes you do not even notice that your behaviour is actually induced due to chemical imbalances in the brain. Counselling could actually help resolve your deep set emotional ... Views: 2028
I was helping my daughter, who is in grade 11, with her assignment on the George Orwell classic 1984 and we were discussing the symbolism of the diary in the story. Now, here is a quick re-cap for those of you who read this book many years back. 1984 is Orwell’s peek into a future totalitarian ... Views: 2028
Stress. It's the body's natural response to pressure and change. It's a part of life. You can't hide from stress or avoid experiencing it, but you can learn to manage your reactions and efficiently deal with the effects of stress.
In today's fast-pace world, many people are so accustomed to ... Views: 2027
Sometimes in life we face challenges. While some days go by with great ease, others are a bit of a struggle. We can say don’t stress over the small things, and some occasions that is easier said than done. We spend countless hours of our life worrying about things that we have no control over. ... Views: 2027
Have you ever noticed that the people who have lots of connections to other people seem to be more healthy and happy than those who have few or no connection to others? This is no coincidence.
Connections are the essence of life. At a very basic level, it is our connection to other people ... Views: 2026
Did you ever think you were showering the wrong way? Or that your shower and overall bath process might actually be wrong, and could do more harm than good, even when under the exquisite bronze showerhead? Well, there is one way to find out. If you do any of the things listed below, then you ... Views: 2025
How can I get my children to be more organized?
What are some signs of hoarding in children?
How can I get my spouse to follow through and clean up after completing a chore?
How can I make my home office functional instead of a “clutter-catch-all?”
How can I explore my dreams and organize ... Views: 2025
Recently I was reading a few articles about pending legislation on both the state a federal level that would make it illegal to discriminate against ex-offenders with regard to employment, housing and public services. This legislation would be a seemingly powerful step in helping ex-offenders ... Views: 2025
Always remember the lyrics from Bing Crosby's song Accentuate the Positive:
You've got to accentuate the positive
Eliminate the negative
Latch on to the affirmative
You've got to spread joy up to the maximum
Bring gloom down to the minimum
Have faith or pandemonium
You’re on your way to work. ... Views: 2024
Sometimes the hardest step to take is the first step. What makes that step so hard is that we have our plan down, but then we second guess ourselves. We play out different scenarios in our mind, which in turn builds fear. Fear stops us from moving forward. That is why some people cannot move ... Views: 2023
During a recent trip to San Diego, I was reminded of the importance of deliberately chasing your dream life.
On an early morning stroll on the beach, I walked past a surfer and said, “Gosh, it’s early to be out here.” He replied, “I have to get it in early because I have to be at work by ... Views: 2023
If you would like to learn how to be more attractive, then you might be interested in the words that follow. Whether things go smooth or hard for you is directly related to what people think about you. Right or wrong how you present yourself is the key to it all.
No matter whether you are ... Views: 2022
Fatigue is one of the most common complaints today. Because of the hectic world we live in, exhaustion will most likely continue. Having fatigue is not a natural state. Children and animals are not fatigued. When they get tired, they go to sleep and then awaken renewed and fresh.
Most adults ... Views: 2021
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What would it be like to live in global peace? I think it would encompass having complete trust in everyone else. That would cause us to all be working as one global entity. If that were the case, what would it mean for the world? It would mean countries and organizations ... Views: 2021
Since I started Personal Development around 12 Years ago, I always wanted to answer one burning question: Is there a set of steps that you can advance through in order to grow as a human being? And if yes, what would be the first step?
After several years of intensive work on Personal ... Views: 2021
Latest warning about bed bug symptoms and the effects of bites.Bed Bugs are small insects that can be extremely difficult to spot but can ruin a perfectly good nights sleep with their feeding habits and bites that cause itching.
Worse still, these bloodthirsty little creatures multiply fast ... Views: 2020
In this article I will be discussing some very important areas of study. These "gates" as they were known in ancient Japan, were the required areas of study for anyone, or any school, professing to be studying or teaching Ninjutsu.
Did you know that there was a standard by which the art of ... Views: 2020