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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Making Love Work - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2010 from Dr. D. Ivan YoungManaging conflict is the foundation of a lasting relationship. There were many implications that support the hypothesis that positive affect and de-escalation are predictive of positive outcomes in any relationship, including marriage. To the extent that positive affect and de-escalation ...
Views: 4307(1 vote) - Managing Conflicts with Loved Ones, Helps Love Grow! - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2007 from Nora Femenia,We are all sure that having peace and harmony in our relationships keeps us healthy, vital and productive. We all know that, on the other hand, conflict can make us tense, sick and unhappy…only because we are scared of its consequences. Unfortunately, harmony gets broken because we ...
Views: 1690(1 vote) - Maria Shriver: Hold Your Head High - by Submitted on May 20, 2011 from Darlene LancerIt's must be cellular that a woman automatically feels humiliated when her man cheats. Maria has done nothing to be ashamed of. Too often, women feel embarrassed for their husbands' behavior, whether it's domestic violence, emotional abuse, drug or alcohol addiction, gambling, or sex addiction, ...
Views: 1648(2 votes) - Marriage Counseling: How to Get the Results You Want - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2010 from Joe JamesOne of the questions I am most frequently asked is what makes for successful marriage counseling. Naturally the training and background of the therapist is very important in making for a successful marriage counseling experience. However, I am going to focus on that in a separate article which ...
Views: 1510(1 vote) - Marriage Counseling: What Kind of Relationship Do You Have? - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2010 from Joe JamesIn my close to 20 years of being a marriage counselor, I’ve come to the conclusion that relationships often fall into one of four very broad categories. Do any of these sound like you? Fulfilled: You are best friends and lovers in every sense of the word. You feel supported by and are ...
Views: 825(1 vote) - Marriage Counsellor Suggestions: 3 Do’s and 3 Don’ts for a Healthy Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2010 from Dr. Dan DaltonA marriage counsellor can help you make your marriage loving and long lasting. Whether you are already married, or are considering getting married, whether you live in a small town in Ontario or a big city like Toronto, it’s a good idea to find a marriage counsellor in your area to help you ...
Views: 1220(1 vote) - Marriage Counsellors Suggest You Use Thoughtful Language to Improve Your Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2010 from Dr. Dan DaltonMarriage counselling is a common type of therapy sought by couples in London and throughout Central Ontario. Marriage counsellors can help you with a variety of situations, but often focus on improving communication skills. Many counsellors and mental health professionals teach couples better ...
Views: 1020(1 vote) - Marriage Fails - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2011 from Jesse BirkeyMarriage Fails Marriages are failing! As I reflect on the state of marriage I see almost complete and utter failure. Here is the latest statistic I found: • 50–60 percent of marriages end in divorce, according to multiple online sources. That is failure. What this statistic leaves out ...
Views: 1760(1 vote) - Marriage Help: How Your Relationship Expectations Shape Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Richard NicastroWe are all embedded in a continuous stream of experience—an endless current that is too expansive to for us to take in all the information at once. One function of the mind is to help you deal with this vastness: To select, order and ultimately, create meaning out of all the life that surrounds ...
Views: 1542(1 vote) - Married To A Single Man - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2015 from Pamela SchulteHmmm, I know, you're thinking, "how can anyone be married to a single man?". Yep, crazy. I would never have believed it possible either, then one day I realized that that is how I was able to best describe my marriage! Really! When I said "I do" I thought that meant that we (my husband and I) ...
Views: 1008(1 vote) - Matt Huston Ex2 System - Best Relationship book ever - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2012 from Mohamed Shajid shafeeMatt Huston's Ex2 System is the only one and most popular relationship book out there written by Matt Huston for Guys because of the recent broke-up with your lover then, you should consider using the Ex2 system. Matt Huston promises for how to get your girlfriend or wife back fully guaranteed. ...
Views: 1419(1 vote) - Meditate to Strengthen Your Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2019 from Katrin De OcampoMeditation nowadays is practiced by millions of individuals over the world. And with new studies turning out each year, the advantages of meditation seem to be ceaseless. Meditation today is acknowledged as a mental and physical recovery tool. One of these advantages has a great deal of heart. ...
Views: 1014(1 vote) - Meeting “The Right Person” Is Not a Matter of Luck or Time But of Being “Available and Ready” for a Relationship - by Submitted on May 24, 2011 from Doron GilYou probably know those who, when failing, time and again, in their attempts to develop an intimate relationship, tell you “it’s only a matter of time” until they will; “it is only a matter of meeting ‘the right person’”. What they don’t realize is that meeting “the right person” with whom to ...
Views: 3530(1 vote) - Menopause Effect on Relationships - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2011 from Kristina von RosenvingeMenopause is a natural stage in the life of a woman. This life transition is accompanied by physical and emotional changes that affect not just the woman but also the significant others in her life. It is a time of also confronting the reality that one is entering the second half of life. For ...
Views: 2200(1 vote) - Michael Mantell's Rule When People Suck the Life Out of You: Unsubscribe - by Submitted on Oct 09, 2014 from Michael MantellMaybe it’s just me. But lately, I’ve run into far too many people who I would best describe as “life-diminishing.” They are filled with judgments, criticisms, and negativity. They are quick to tell others what they must do, what they must refrain from doing, what they should and shouldn’t do, ...
Views: 1247(1 vote) - Monogamy Relationship Theory Related to Zodiac Sign - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2015 from KS InfotechFinding a true partner for yourself is not an easy deal, while finding a right partner for yourself you may come across a host of potential lovers who represents every sign of the Zodiac. Undoubtedly, everyone wants a partner who is genuine and truthful and someone who is willing to maintain the ...
Views: 1586(1 vote) - More Secrets to finding Happiness - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2012 from Carl Tuchy PalmieriHAPPINESS The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer ...
Views: 2606(2 votes) - Moving forward begins with making a decision… - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2014 from Larry CraneIf there is one thing that we would like to change, it would be the notion that we can change something that has occurred in the past. Perhaps you may agree that if something occurred in the past, we can accept what happened and choose to begin moving forward. We can decide to change how we ...
Views: 1419(1 vote) - Moving On - Was She Really That Amazing? - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2010 from Tim NelsonHave you been thinking anything along the lines of this since the break up? "In my opinion everything about my former girlfriend is absolutely perfect, I would not change a single thing and I am confident that I will never find someone like her again." This is extremely common for ...
Views: 507(1 vote) - MOVING ON FROM A BREAK UP - PICKING UP THE PIECES - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Lydia StrehlauRelationships end for a number of reasons and sometimes it is the best decision, at the time, for both parties involved. Unfortunately with break ups, sometimes one person is still emotionally attached and may find moving on hard to do, while the other party is emotionally ready to move on from ...
Views: 4757(1 vote) - Must Read: Dating After Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownWhether this is your first time in the dating world or you are newly divorced and entering the dating world, there are some steps you can take to help guard against divorce. There are no guarantees and why not do everything you can to live happily ever after with that someone special? Guess ...
Views: 1251(1 vote) - My Girlfriend Left Me! My Heart Was Shattered And I Woke Up - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2012 from Robert LeesI had been going out with my girlfriend for about three and a half years. We were in a serious relationship and both still quite young, I got home one day from work one day and she had left me. Honestly guys, she had organized a truck to turn up in the morning, chucked her stuff on it and moved ...
Views: 2564(1 vote) - My Newest Book Release - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2019 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance's NEW book! Find it on Amazon! This is a perfect book for any woman who wants to do more than talk about changing her life, it's a road map to her goal. The 10 Smartest Decisions a Woman Can Make Before Forty 2nd ...
Views: 788(1 vote) - Narcissist in Your Life? Get The Support You Need.... - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2018 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachIf you have been dealing with an individual who has severe Narcissistic or Sociopathic Traits, your experience has probably left you reeling and searching for answers! I may be able to help you through your challenges. I am a sought after Relationship Coach and author that specializes ...
Views: 1322(1 vote) - NARCISSISTS ARE CODEPENDENT, TOO - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2017 from Darlene LancerWriters often distinguish narcissists (someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and codependents as opposites, but surprisingly, though their outward behavior may differ, they share many psychological traits. In fact, narcissists exhibit core codependent symptoms of shame, denial, ...
Views: 1225(3 votes) - NARCISSUS AND ECHO: THE HEARTBREAK OF RELATIONSHIPS WITH NARCISSISTS - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2017 from Darlene LancerThe poignant myth of Narcissus and Echo crystallizes the tragic problem of relationships with narcissists. They were tragic Greek characters in a story told by the Roman poet Ovid in Metamorphoses. Sadly, both partners are locked into a painful drama, where neither feel satisfied or sufficiently ...
Views: 1876(3 votes) - Negative Empowerment - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2010 from Denise PendletonEmpowerment, that’s a good thing ~ right? Any time we have the ability to empower someone to do their best or make good decisions, it’s a positive in their life. So how do we get caught in the trap of negative empowerment? And what exactly is negative empowerment? Have you ever noticed ...
Views: 5217(1 vote) - NEPTUNE in PISCES: The Urge to Merge . . . and Then Some - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2014 from joan pancoeNeptune, the planet named for the God of the Sea, has now fully entered his home sign of Pisces until 2024. Our Neptunian energies govern a range of consciousness from illusion to illumination, delusion to enlightenment. Neptune's transit of Pisces means that we can expect everything associated ...
Views: 4845(1 vote) - Never Give Up! - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2011 from Susan SheppardOverwhelm is something everyone faces at one time or another. When things seem like they are insurmountable, what do you do? I was at Bridesworld Expo talking with hundreds of brides to be, their mothers, sisters, bridesmaids and husbands to be. It was very interesting to observe how ...
Views: 1388(1 vote) - New Book: Dr. Romance's Guide to Finding Love Today - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2018 from Tina TessinaAnnouncing: Dr. RomanceTM’s Guide to Finding Love Today Please order and review on Amazon.com "I learned so many skills from reading this Guide. When I went out this weekend I was SO aware of going out to have a good time instead of going out in hopes of ‘meeting someone.’ Hung out with ...
Views: 1217(1 vote) - New Moon Reading 11/26/2019 New Love and New Beginngs! - by Submitted on Nov 26, 2019 from Tanisha Snipes-DixonBeware of compromising your integrity in order to belong. Do you hide who you really are in order to play a role within your household or society? This will never fulfill you. Now is a time to assess your willingness to be real. Authenticity is true self-expression and the only way to empower ...
Views: 983(1 vote) - New Year’s resolution: I resolve to put more romance in my relationship - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2019 from Merlyn SeeleyIt’s that time of year when everyone is thinking what they can do to make this next year the best it can be. People make resolutions in the hopes that they are going to successfully make a positive change in their lives. Some choose to lose weight, get into shape, own a home, and stop smoking or ...
Views: 1157(1 vote) - No Contact Rule: When You'e Addicted to Love - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2013 from Jim HallNo Contact Rule Cutting Out the Ex and Moving Forward Healthy people who experience a relationship break up generally experience universal stages of grief such as anger, sadness, and disappointment. Eventually they come to accept the loss and move forward. For love addicts, moving ...
Views: 2632(1 vote) - No Reason - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2011 from Janet PfeifferNo Reason Ten years ago, my Uncle John passed away. Although in his eighty’s, it was hard on his son, Johnny. Three months later, Johnny’s only child, his beautiful fourteen year old daughter, was in a car that plunged into an icy Ohio River where she tragically drowned. Her mother, Johnny’s ...
Views: 1690(1 vote) - Nonverbal Communication and Body Language Power - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2010 from Donna MartinGood communication is the foundation of successful relationships, both personally and professionally. But we communicate with much more than words. In fact, research shows that the majority of our communication is nonverbal. Nonverbal communication, or body language, includes our facial ...
Views: 1746(1 vote) - Not Everyone Wants To Have a Threesome - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2017 from Amy LawDating is hard enough, but sometimes it can be difficult to date someone with a different sexual orientation, especially someone who's bisexual. People sometimes think that bisexual people aren't "gay enough" or not "straight enough" to fit into the LGBTQ-Community which is completely wrong. I ...
Views: 1334(1 vote) - Offended: Should Someone Apologize If Another Person Is Offended By Them? - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile someone might have the desire to speak their mind, it doesn’t mean that they will end up doing so. If one was to take a step back and to reflect on why this is, they could find that it’s because they don’t want to lose other peoples approval. Fitting In Their priority is then going ...
Views: 1308(1 vote) - On Integrity - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2011 from Radomir SamardzicHere is the theme and the statement of the day: In order for any relationship to work and have any lasting prospect of existence what it must have first and foremost is INTEGRITY. So, what is this thing we call integrity? We use the word usually in relationship with others, like ...
Views: 1724(1 vote) - On Spiritual Teachers: "Buyer Be AWARE!" - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2014 from joan pancoeSpiritual teachers come in all shapes, sizes, colors and sexes—and many of the truly Great Ones will always choose to remain in disguise and anonymous while in a human incarnation. Here is the definitive teaching of the Buddha on this subject, called The Four Reliances: Rely on the ...
Views: 2216(1 vote) - Only Funny in the Sunday's - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2012 from Janet PfeifferI love reading the Sunday funnies. One of my favorites is For Better or Worse by Lynn Johnston. In a recent comic, the young child, Mike, was having a bad day. Trying to construct a building out of Lego-type pieces, gravity was working against him as the entire structure collapsed. In a fit of ...
Views: 1890(1 vote) - Our Words Define Us More Than Our Actions - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Greg BakerWe think that our actions define us more than our words. But the reality is exactly the opposite. Our actions are important, but our actions are psychologically used to verify the truth of our words and not the other way around. Be careful what you say. This article attempts to prove that your ...
Views: 8303(1 vote) - Overcome The Blue—What to Do After a Painful Breakup - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2013 from Elisa IemmolaDealing with breakup can be painful. So things didn’t work out and she dumped you. After a long time of thinking that you’re on top of the world, she shoots you down the way they do in old Westerns and runs off with your horse. You’re appalled, heartbroken; there’s a nagging pain in your chest ...
Views: 1034(1 vote) - Overcoming The Fear of Committment - by Submitted on May 07, 2009 from Brenda Shoshanna"Most women ultimately want their relationships to lead to marriage. They feel they need a man to make a commitment in order to feel secure. This need can scare men away, making them feel like an object, as if they’re being used for a woman's security. No man wants to feel as if he's being used. ...
Views: 8476(1 vote) - Owning Our Inner Pluto before . . . It Eats Us for Lunch - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2014 from joan pancoePluto, the planet of transformation, was discovered in 1930, coinciding with the birth of Fascism and the rise of the third Reich in Germany. Its name is synonymous with Hades, God of the Underworld, and, if one believes in synchronicity, represents the transpersonal force of our collective ...
Views: 10471(2 votes) - Parents - Reboot Your Connection - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2016 from Daydree HornerBusy parents sometimes don’t communicate well with each other because they’re - well, busy. They’re preoccupied with their work, children and all of the responsibilities that go along with them. Sometimes as a result of this juggling act, mom and dad lose a wee bit of the warm and loving ...
Views: 1172(1 vote) - Passion - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2014 from Dr. Anne BrownThere is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing.” Aristotle OK we all know this right? And yet how many of us enter into the most intimate relationship with our partners “saying nothing.” For those who still can’t discuss sex, it is time to lift that veil. ...
Views: 1070(1 vote) - PERSONAL RESPONSES TO CONFLICT: Where are you and where are they? - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2011 from H AtkinsonHave you ever been embroiled in a dispute at work, home, or with a stranger and wondered how to extricate yourself from the mess? Well it might be worth knowing that there really are a lot of choices. The real question is how you feel about yourself and what resolution will cost you in money, ...
Views: 2048(1 vote) - Pornography and Infidelity in a Marriage - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2011 from Rakesh SethiThis is a very interesting subject in a marriage. When you have not engaged in a physical act of sex with a third person, have you cheated on your partner? Should pornography be considered infidelity in a marriage? Pornography is a big in our culture and growing like a weed. Growing in this ...
Views: 2397(1 vote) - Positive Ways In Getting My Ex Back - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoI experienced an emotional breakup with my ex girlfriend. I would have liked to resume the relationship as soon as possible but I had to face the reality that this barely happens. My first instinct after the breakup was to call text and email my past lover. Fortunately , fact sat in and I ...
Views: 6765(1 vote) - Power Struggles - Being Right or Being Loving - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2005 from Margaret PaulMandy and Evan consulted with me for couple’s counseling because they were always bickering. Every little thing seemed to become an issue between them. They loved each other very much, but the bickering was certainly getting in the way of enjoying each other. I ask Mandy and Evan to come ...
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