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I am the mother of a junior high student and a high school senior. Even as I write that sentence, I find it difficult to believe. All parents are amazed at the rapidity of time. Wasn’t it yesterday that I was pregnant with my babies? How can one be talking about college now?
This is a ... Views: 931
The term working Mom is really a silly one because if you are a Mom you are working! Still we all know that this term refers to Moms that work both in the home and outside. If you belong to this category you are either reading this because you feel that you need some urgent advice to make it all ... Views: 679
There are many tips for effective parent/teacher communication. Communication is an essential element when it comes to the overall success that your child experiences in their educational development. It is important to understand that, as a parent, you are truly the first teacher that your ... Views: 2227
We rarely hesitate to send our children to public school for 7 1/2 hours every day. After all it is required by law that we educate our children!
As a homeschooling family, I admit, we didn't always spend a full 7 1/2 hours in formal educational exercises; but we probably spent more than 7 ... Views: 1128
Baby showers are parties thrown for friends that are pregnant. This practice has significantly changed over the course of the years and has gradually become more and more elaborate and planned.
Baby showers can make an expectant mother feel more secure in the fact that her friends are all ... Views: 766
Getting your kids to listen to you can be a problem at times. Undoubtedly, you've tried a variety of methods from shouting, finger pointing, scowling, threatening, and the famous counting to ten.
Kids seem to tune out your words if your tone is saying something else. Your tone of voice ... Views: 2326
How do you choose a baby’s name? The answer must be; with care. Here are some guidelines.
If family is important to you, you may want to choose a family name, especially if there is a strong tradition to follow. For example, in Cyprus, as in many countries, it is traditional for the first son ... Views: 1116
A video of five preteens dressed in skimpy outfits, provocatively dancing, surfaced on the Internet in May 2010. Nothing surprises us in an era when girls are exposed to less than ideal role models and bombarded with sexualized messages in the media. Children today are more fully immersed in the ... Views: 1119
Your children are going to encounter other children who are different than them. Here's three ways to teach your children to accept other children.
1. Understanding: We all have situations. There are always underlying circumstances that people are going through that they don’t outwardly ... Views: 1318
Top 5 Tips to raise your child’s self-esteem:
Encourage the best in them - consider encouraging them to focus on the things they do best. As parents we would know our children’s good qualities so why not focus on them to promote their self-esteem.
Give unconditional love – accept your ... Views: 800
Imagine the following scenario, if you will. One hour after you arrive at work, your phone rings. The Caller ID reads, “YOUR CHILD’S DAYCARE/SCHOOL”. You already know what this means…your child has a temperature, is sick, and needs to be picked up ASAP. You have back-to-back meetings and ... Views: 1984
In a consumer-driven society that broadcasts values that don’t reflect what you believe, how can you teach values to your kids? Here are ten ideas to help you:
1. Tell them your life stories and teach through your stories
Kids love to hear stories about your childhood. Weave in some moral ... Views: 2083
Single Mothers by Choice: Can we call this *extremely* conscious parenting?
The other night, I accompanied my younger son to the end-of-season pizza party for his basketball team. In attendance were eight fourth-grade boys, one younger brother, seven fathers and me.
At first, I felt a little ... Views: 1181
I was talking with a friend recently and agreeing that ‘things have changed since we were parented’. There’s a bigger focus on children’s progressive thoughts and feeling these days – a priceless evolution – much of which has come from a greater understanding of what they benefit from ... Views: 1281
Transition times are often stressful for parents and children. Your child may experience transitions in many different ways. Their response may be of great excitement and anticipation which puts them in an emotionally charged or at the other end of the continuum, they might be so engrossed in ... Views: 1620
As parents we would all love to have a quick and efficient way of changing some of the negative behaviors our children display. There are behaviors that irritate us, embarrass us and exasperate us, and ones that present a safety issue at times. And then there are those unique, repetitive ... Views: 1615
Toddlers have lots of energy. In fact, they may have more energy than their parents, if they've just had a nap and they are cooped up in an airplane or carseat for hours at a time. And once they reach their destination, a whole new set of challenges begin.
So what's a parent to do?
Here ... Views: 861
Lately I have had balance on my mind. I am thinking of the difficult balance between a parent’s desire to protect a child and the child’s normal desire to be more independent. This balance is more tricky when with an atypical child — whether due to ADD, learning disability, or Asperger ... Views: 1659
When an adopted child enters the adolescent years and their thinking transfers from concrete to abstract, they might begin asking that unanswerable question, “Why did my mother give me up?” At a time that most kids are trying to “find themselves” and form a concept and understanding of who they ... Views: 1752
Turn your words into gold, by using enforceable statements without threatening, reminding or nagging your children/teens to do what you ask of them.
Do you as a parent often find yourself repeating yourself to your children/teens?
Do you often find times when you have to be stern, mean or ... Views: 1850
Any parent that is aware of the effects of stress from a number of factors and why upon taking a vacation it may be difficult to relax if a person is used to the stress load draining their adrenal function. If the adrenals area used to a certain output of the cortisol hormone and others then ... Views: 2657
1. You are the parent and not the boss
2. Establishing rules is different from enforcing them
3. Love and weakness are not the same
4. Becoming the homeland detective is just not cool
5. Cleaning someone’s mess is not a good idea
6. Too much lecture causes distress
7. Advice is only good, ... Views: 1432
‘Tis the season for Fall sports — when parents spend more time at playing fields or driving to games than they spend at home. At the game, parents enthusiastically cheer their child’s team and discuss the game on the car ride home. While most parents have good intentions, they can inadvertently ... Views: 1301
Is your son or daughter not as respectful and courteous as you would like? Maybe you’d like to instill more discipline in your child. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if you could influence better behavior from your child just by making simple decorative changes in his or her room? You can with feng ... Views: 1836
The duel burden of raising children and caring for aging parents is becoming commonplace for baby boomers, and will probably last longer for us than it did for generations past. Based on a Pew Research Center study, one in eight middle-aged Americans are raising a child and caring for an aging ... Views: 939
Of course we want what is best for our children, right? How outrageous the thought of anything contrary to that belief. However, most people commonly remark to their children to "do as I say, not as I do" or "don't do what I did son, take your own path", and other phrases just like this.
We ... Views: 1855
You know what really annoys me? The insistence that a child’s academic achievement is all that is important.
A grades A grades A grades!
I read an article last year that really stuck in my mind, and the gist of the article was ‘even though he only has his O levels he has still done well in ... Views: 1570
Give your baby something to keep him warm on a chilly night. A blanket is an essential item in a baby’s crib; this will definitely keep your little one cozy and warm than what regular sheets can do. You can purchase baby blankets in several stores. However, if you would like to make it ... Views: 1672
Are you having a difficult time choosing the best outfit for you? Do you wish you could find a clothes store that offers chic yet affordable clothes? If your answers to these questions are in the affirmative, you should check out the great styles and designs by Baby Phat. This clothes store is ... Views: 1376
Newborn babies are indeed delicate and fragile; they need to wear the right baby clothes that would keep them snug and warm. These baby clothes must be easy to wear, as newborns would find it very uncomfortable to have clothes pulled over their heads. Hence, it would be better if the clothes ... Views: 1377
You must have spent months preparing for your baby shower, and finally it has ended. All your efforts must have paid off after seeing the beaming faces of your guests. The food turned out great, the games were amazing and your guests definitely had a wonderful time. Moreover, the gifts you ... Views: 1210
INSIDE RELATIONSHIPS WEEKLY COLUMN
RELEASE: SEPTEMBER 4, 2009
What Are You Doing to Your Child?
When you hold a newborn baby, you sense something God-like … I dare say, even if you're an atheist. A baby is untainted, sacred, perfect!
It's important to hold that thought because ... Views: 1390
Most people inherit their beliefs and values from their parents. So along with Mum’s eyes and occasionally Dad’s nose, we are likely to become conditioned by their set of rules around money, which in turn came from their previous generation. This may work very well if your surname is Rothschild ... Views: 1291
Every parent has experienced the phenomena of their child begging for their favourite story to read, their favourite song to be played or their favourite movie to be watched for the 100th time.
Even though we adults might be tempted to hide the favourite book or introduce a new book, CD, or ... Views: 1044
Welcome to my little corner of the world! Here is some of my story -- on why I've made "conscious parenting" the primary focus of my parenting practice. This piece was originally published as, "What is Your Parenting Style," at www.BodyEcology.com .
When I was approached by Body Ecology to ... Views: 660
It’s May in my 8th grade class and I am giving the kids time to review for their up-coming French final. I am absolutely puzzled: Most kids are just sitting there, looking at their books, notes or old papers. They sit and swing on their chairs, spend one minute on each page and after ten ... Views: 1983
As a Psychic Medium, one of the hardest parts of the job is helping a parent cope with the loss of a child; however, that said, it’s also one of the most rewarding aspects.
For the purpose of today’s blog, I am going to focus on the loss that comes in the form of miscarriages and abortions ... Views: 8510
"Our child is 'Mr Perfect' so whatever goes wrong makes him angry. Before he was just screaming, now he is shouting "Don't take it, it's mine; I won it, you lost; I was first."
He wants to be the best and most of the time when others create competitions such as who will be first by the door ... Views: 803
After you have decided to send your child to school, you have to prepare your child for the first day of the school.
The first day of the school can be both exciting as well as stressful for both children and parents.
Whether your child is starting kindergarten, day care or nursery school, ... Views: 617
How to teach your child about loyalty?
As your children begin elementary school they learn a lot about relationships. Your daughter's best friend today may betray her trust tomorrow. Or possibly your son wants to leave his basketball team because there's someone he doesn't get along ... Views: 2361
Probably the majority of parents would say ‘best education!’ But is this enough? Or do children need more than just the best education? I believe that they need more! Education - that is to say traditional formal education - is very important for children but they should also receive education ... Views: 814
Many parents notice only their child's negative behaviors and begin keeping account of them as a score record of wrongdoing or bad behavior. This process could actually encourage more of the same behavior instead of their intended opposite. When a child enters this world and their spirit enters ... Views: 1229
Planning for a baby shower is a lot of fun; however, it entails great effort so you can have the perfect party. Weeks before the event, you need to make a list of everything that you need. Among the items that you need to cover for your party are the decorations, favours, games and food, to name ... Views: 965
The time is 5 o'clock and your stomach clenches - What to make for dinner is the question racing through your mind. You know you want to prepare healthy meals for your family, but you're tired and you don't have all the ingredients for your favorite "go to" recipe so you pull out the frozen ... Views: 2023
When a terrible tragedy strikes, as it did recently in a Connecticut kindergarten classroom, our hearts break. We don’t know how to mend. If we are directly affected by the tragedy, then professional counseling is imperative. But we also need to pay attention to our feelings, however tenuous our ... Views: 886
Parents play a lead role in setting the overall tone in their families. Parents whose overall tone tends to be negative often have homes filled with stress and tension. While parents who take a more positive approach create calmer, happier homes.
A Home Filled with Tension
One mom told me ... Views: 1219
"I really do just want my kids to be happy! What can possibly be wrong with that?" The potential problem is that it appears there is a connection between parents focusing on making their kids happy with those children actually being increasingly unhappy.
What does the research ... Views: 1180
Hope is probably the most important factor to dealing with any difficult time. Hope is what drives us forward and gives us the energy to endure and prevail over any circumstances. When someone has lost hope, it makes a person’s life so much harder, suffering even more. Hope is the light at the ... Views: 1125
Sometimes it is difficult to cut the cord to your enabling adult child when you feel it is against your beliefs.
Who is to blame?
As you get more involve with you adult child life you may feel a lot of resentment and may want to blame yourself or your child for the difficulties you are ... Views: 4268
What should you do when your children or grandchildren are moving away from the family's tradition of Christian beliefs?
A 2007 Barna Group study finds that only 63% of Americans ages 18 to 41 identify as Christian whereas that number is 77 percent for people ages 61 or older. The continuing ... Views: 2306