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Barry: If we only knew how many times we are rescued by divine intervention, we would completely trust this higher power. There would then be nothing to worry about – ever! Joyce and I had yet another powerful reminder of this truth – and divine miracle – last week.
In honor of both of us ... Views: 1655
Abilene Paradox –
Be Aware of the Bug that plagues us every now and then
Madan Tripathy
My experience with the Paradox –
Let me start with a real life example. I & my wife visited a friend’s residential apartment on a Sunday afternoon, who has very recently moved to our locality with ... Views: 1267
The other day I was relaxing at the local pool when I witnessed a really special event that unfolded in front of me.
A young man was sitting in the hot tub with his 5 year old son. It was obvious they had a really special relationship as they chatted in the warm water.
While they chatted, ... Views: 1255
“Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design into the present.” – Jim Rohn
I worked my way through UNC-Chapel Hill as the night manager of a gas station. A 78-year-old man named Butch worked with me most nights. He was a character, gruff and often ... Views: 915
We hear a lot about the importance of loving ourselves these days, and how we can't love someone else until we truly love ourselves. While I don't entirely agree with that statement (adult attachment theory shows that it's through secure attachment to loving others that we feel loved and, ... Views: 1117
NY Post's story of Francis X Cabrini Church, closed in Massachusetts by court settlement in sex abuse scandal, would be a good read for most Christians. After losing an appeal to the Supreme Court, they held their last service. An 86-year old member said, “We fought the good fight. We did ... Views: 1085
Dear Body,
I want to first apologize for not taking the utmost care of you in the past. I have learned some of your limits and vow to stay within them. Although you are not the way you were 10 years ago, you know now with the achy pains and much slower movement, you are still the love of my ... Views: 1249
The concept of sustainable farming is often associated with small farms using organic or traditional farming practices.
It's genetically modified crops, though, that are playing a key role in boosting the sustainability of Canadian farms.
Many GM crops are herbicide resistant, for example, ... Views: 1031
A third of a million results for “Antichrist, August 30, 2016” on Google suggest widespread belief that end-times will begin in 2016, but searching several linked sources reveals no explanation for why antichrist appears Aug. 30, in spite of the date in Hagee's YouTube title.
Hagee's August ... Views: 1438
There are times when things might be bad for your family. The important thing to keep in mind is that you have each other. If you rely on faith and the knowledge that there are ways to get through difficult situations, then you can often come out of the trying time in a better way than you did ... Views: 757
When it comes to picking the right sports shoes it can be really hard to spot the difference between different types of shoes. Many people simply do not know how doing this and it is vital for keeping things in the right way. The confusion between trainers, spikes, racing flats or other types of ... Views: 1119
For parents, one of the most challenging aspects of raising children is helping them cope with failure. Children generally quit when they feel overwhelmed, unless parents encourage them to do otherwise. Helping them understand the creative process rather than inspiring unrealistic expectations ... Views: 1063
Most people grasp how crucial it is for children to not miss out on their childhood, but we often forget that it is equally crucial to not miss out on all of life, be it adolescence, middle age, old age, single life, married life, parenthood, or any other phase. Every stage is an incredible gift ... Views: 2197
Davao City Mayor Rodrigo Duterte cited his win for presidency by 6 million votes as evidence of the church's irrelevance after their strong opposition to him. (ABC News/AP 5-22-16)
Calling the bishops “sons of bitches” and hypocrits for living high when many in the country can't afford food, ... Views: 1104
Has anyone ever told you how to do something that you’ve already done, and they came across as very critical?
Well, they might call it constructive criticism. Personally, I think that “constructive” and “criticism” is a bit of an oxymoron. They don’t go well together.
The goal of giving ... Views: 1117
During my youth, my dad took me fishing. My mom took me on bicycle rides. My dad shouldered me with a small daypack for hikes in the woods. He pointed out chattering squirrels. He helped me see my first deer. He pointed out a fox on a ridge. He hiked me into Glacier National Park to see my ... Views: 1060
Living in the Lower Mainland of British Columbia Canada we are given the opportunity to experience many, many different cultures than our own.
Life has changed dramatically since the days of my childhood back in the 1960s when 99% of the people in my life were Western European Caucasians who ... Views: 1382
My daughter is finishing grade 6 and everyone in her class had to apply to an intermediate school. The selection process is quite grueling but I was very confident that she would be accepted in one or both of the schools she applied to. As the announcement date approached, the stress experienced ... Views: 2403
Have you been feeling a bit overwhelmed lately? How about irritated, edgy, angry, or just “heavy” in some way or area of your life?
If so, you may be experiencing what can feel like a “hostile takeover” of your life. I have talked in the past about retrogrades, and how to work with them. ... Views: 1228
Have you ever felt like you were alone in the world? Like you were an observer on the sidelines wondering why it felt so isolating to be seeing the world in a different light?
I sure have.
Being in crowds and social situations was often very uncomfortable for me, sometimes overwhelming. I ... Views: 1215
Making big purchases like homes, vehicles, furniture, electronics and more can certainly set you back in the pocket book. Many people may try to put such purchases off for that very reason. Still, there are strategies you can use to save on big purchases so they are not such a burden for you and ... Views: 840
Who doesn’t want to improve their personal finance? The idea is great, but money matters can be little confusing and intimidating. You must be asking: just how should you improve your budgeting skills and build a solid foundation for financial success? You can definitely master personal finance. ... Views: 1504
Quitting smoking is undoubtedly a psychological challenge.
We’re all familiar with those treatments that can help to curb physical withdrawal, such as nicotine gum, patches or replacement therapy. But coping with physical symptoms of withdrawal are just one aspect; mental discipline is of ... Views: 2200
What have you connected with that is both ancient and sacred?
While I am all for being in the present moment; what makes the present moment what it is, comes from ages and ages of events and choices that have culminated to create the current moment here and now. For most people, there is ... Views: 1600
We all have days when we miss someone so terribly that our heart just aches. We never truly get over someone nor are we supposed to. Their loving soul still moves about, all around us. You can feel their presence everywhere.
Life was bearable when you were here, now there is an empty void. ... Views: 1310
10 Ways You May be Losing Your Brand Integrity
I define Brand integrity as the ability to present one’s brand both in words and deeds to be true, respectable and acceptable without compromising on standards (brand’s promise).
As Wikipedia has it “Integrity is the quality of being ... Views: 1136
When anyone gets in trouble with the law, they need to realize they do have constitutional protections. It's important they follow certain steps when dealing with the judicial system. Following certain steps can prevent a minor incident from turning into a major problem.
Speak With Attorney ... Views: 922
Millions of people worldwide are dying tragically like Prince who are missing a major component of life. Prince may have “had it together” for some aspects, and his ability to sing about life was appreciated by millions. Nevertheless, basic questions must be addressed or there's an emptiness ... Views: 1068
As volatile as the media sometimes presents investment markets, there are many safe and high paying options available. Here are three ways to securely increase your annual income.
Real Estate
Making money in real estate doesn’t require a license or a full-time effort. Smart investors can ... Views: 806
Summary: Seven parables focus on a single event to initiate end-times. Five have links specifically to 2nd Passover. Two are supportive of 2nd Passover, a phenomenon that Christians are largely uninformed of because preachers have ignored the law that Christ said was in effect 'till heaven and ... Views: 1157
At some point in our lives we seek answers to various questions. Rest assured in the knowledge of who you are and what you are made of which lies in your soul. Here are some questions, to name a few: What is my purpose in life? What was I born to do? Where am I supposed to be in this vast ... Views: 1699
You often hear, “what you feel on the inside translates to the outside.” The beauty that flows throughout you relates to how you carry yourself. If you are feeling fabulous, it shows through your smile and carries through to your posture.
I never used to wear makeup before, but I do now. When I ... Views: 1282
Summary: A 15-year old boy with a near-death experience relates seeing WWIII starting “very soon.” His YouTube text cited Zechariah 14: the “day of the Lord” comes with half of Jerusalem taken captive, houses rifled, women raped. Yeshua's warning would have spared the Jews in 70 AD. He said to ... Views: 1154
Becoming Open Minded and A Growing Individual - The Journey
What is the difference between being open minded and close minded? Taking you back to that time you were in that seminar or in that class, focusing only on what you already know. At times just standing by waiting to hear knowledge ... Views: 1436
A miasma is an unpleasant or unhealthy smell or vapor. Media has a moral obligation to tell the truth, and there is so much that they are silent about that an odor of something dead is recognized by many who decry their white outs.
If knowing the truth makes us free (an odd motto for ... Views: 1375
Everything in life is meant to awaken our sense of being. Every situation that we bear witness to is meant to awaken our true meaning. We are not to pass judgement on these circumstances but to absorb the true meaning of it. Judgment clouds our openness and attaches us to the situation.
When ... Views: 1623
We are taught that beauty is only skin-deep, that we can be happy and successful even if we do not meet societies ideals of beauty. But unfortunately, recent research shows that people who are considered more attractive do indeed have an advantage over those who's looks are not considered as ... Views: 2233
When Dr. Michael Mantell began a recent speeck quoting President John F. Kennedy who said, “So let us begin anew—remembering on both sides that civility is not a sign of weakness and sincerity is always subject to proof" little did he realize he'd touch the life of a mom in the audience. "Dr. ... Views: 1588
Welcome to Creating Harmony’s monthly email of indication. Our intention in this Harmonising Times is to provide our readers, friends and everyone else, with foresight as to the influences impacting all our lives as we move into the next phase of 2016. So helping each to Create their Life of ... Views: 1633
I am writing about this subject matter because it affects all of us on a daily basis. Each day we transform ourselves through our thoughts, actions or a life event. The people around us may be a strong influence on the types of changes we wish to make.
The transformation process affects any ... Views: 1195
Occasionally I watch various TV shows where people display their talents. Inside each person was a level of nervousness. Sadly, I felt that some were judged by the way they looked before they even displayed their talent. Not every show displayed this, but there were some.
It is sad that some ... Views: 1221
A third intifada is likely this spring (Zechariah 14:1,2) and a US megaquake in May ('as the days of Noah') because 'the day of the LORD' was signaled by the solar and lunar eclipse and Iran Nuke Treaty last year,”
The view is like our connecting dots for pictures we drew as kids. In this ... Views: 1244
The prophet Zechariah (14th chapter) paints a picture of Jerusalem surrounded by hostile forces that destroy the city, rifle the houses and ravish the women in “the day of the Lord,” the end-time apocalyptic period.
Dr. Richard Ruhling believes “the day of the Lord” is impending because of ... Views: 1161
In a world full of reasons to brood and be upset about, there is only one thing that can bring in some hope. A wide, bright SMILE.
Mother Teresa once said, "Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing!" It is so true. Even when you are ... Views: 1285
Summary: Pastor Jack Darnall dreamed of a tall black man with short cropped hair and large ears who was well-liked initially, but became a “terrible dictator” as president when Christ came. (Google Jack Darnall's dream) It seemed so unlikely that he told only a few people of his dream in the ... Views: 1392
Have you ever wondered why many successful people are great at what they do? Apart from being smart workers and passionate learners, many of them share one winning habit: they don’t eat lunch at their work tables. In other words, according to Dale Krow, a New York-based executive coach, using ... Views: 1063
We all hold others in high regard. When we give all of our love and devotion, we expect others to live up to the same expectations. When we call others to catch up or to show our concern, we expect the same when we are going through things as well.
When we reach out, you shouldn’t have any ... Views: 1362
In my industry, there are many caring people. After all, it is a caring industry. We care for humans and animals. We post about abandoned, neglected, and abused animals on social media. We do our best to raise awareness. I do wonder, however, about the people who dump their animals at a ... Views: 1948
Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
February 29, 2016
Are there people in your life and wounded parts of yourself who want to limit you from being in your personal power?
How many of you had the experience growing up of being told in various ways to not claim your personal power and instead limit ... Views: 1643