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- Long Distance Marriage Falling Apart: How To Make Long-Distance Marriage Work - Long Distance Marriage Problems - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenLong Distance Marriage Falling Apart: How To Make Long-Distance Marriage Work - Long Distance Marriage Problems All you need is love. That is what the films and songs say, but what happens when your love or whole family is living hundreds, or even thousands of miles away in another ...
Views: 1633 - Relationships: Do Some Women's Childhood's Set Them Up To Attract Submissive Men? - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperThere are some women who attract men who are in touch with their masculine strength, while there are others who don’t. As a result of this, their experiences with the opposite sex are going to be very different. One Experience If a woman is used to being with men who are in touch with ...
Views: 1632 - 6 Months After Breakup Still Crying: It Has Been Six Months And I Still Cry About My Ex Who Dumped Me - by Submitted on May 16, 2019 from Kayla Eden6 Months After Breakup Still Crying: It Has Been Six Months And I Still Cry About My Ex Who Dumped Me If you're currently dealing with a breakup, chances are you're feeling a myriad of different emotions. From anger and depression to defeat, confusion and rejection - breaking up usually ...
Views: 1631 - My Husband Uses Me Financially: Husband Lied About Debt - Marriage And Heading Off Money Conflicts - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Uses Me Financially: Husband Lied About Debt - Marriage And Heading Off Money Conflicts While many people may not believe that money - or its lack - can have a material impact on their marital relationship, perhaps surprisingly a good 80% of divorces are the result of conflict over ...
Views: 1631 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Attract Friends Who Are Abusive? - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile someone could be in a position where their friendships are generally fulfilling, they could also have people around them who make their life harder than it needs to be. This is then going to be similar to how one can eat food that is good for them or they can eat food that ...
Views: 1630 - 4 Reasons to Date Your Ex After a Breakup - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2013 from Charles ScholarThere are some occasions when it's the right move to date your ex after a breakup. But, how do you know when it's the right move to make? Obviously, this isn't the right choice for all relationships. Some are just not meant to be. That doesn't mean that yours, with a little work from both of ...
Views: 1627 - BeSimply...Strengthened and Renewed - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Suzanne ToroSuzanne Toro shares an introduction to a Self Help Series for Women and Men who have been abused or violated. She shares a simple over view on how to identify if you are still holding on to the trauma and the fears. She will share how you can identify where you might have buried you pain. ...
Views: 1627(4 votes) - ABC's Of Overcoming Fear Associated With Abuse - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2011 from Laura Bonetzky-JosephA - Acknowledge the abuse - past, present and future B- Break the Silence C- Confront your fears & Call for help - There is nothing to be ashamed of D - Don't Blame Yourself - Deliberately set intentions towards empowerment E - Everyone Can Heal F- Fear is worse than the abuse ...
Views: 1623(4 votes) - Stop violence toward women: love is a kind verb - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2013 from Dominica ApplegateWith Valentine’s Day right around the corner, you’re probably not thinking about “relationship advice”, but more about love, romance, and what you are going to do to celebrate. Valentine’s Day is a day that many couples celebrate their love, which is wonderful, but there are also many couples ...
Views: 1621 - What was in the cord of attachment to a stalker? - by Submitted on Sep 13, 2010 from Rose RosetreeGladys had already done the practical things to fix the problems with her stalker, "Zorro." But that wasn't really solving the problem enough for her life to return to normal. Mitch, who makes appointments for my sessions of Aura Healing and Transformation, always makes sure about that. If ...
Views: 1619 - Is He Breaking Up With Me By Ignoring Me: Boyfriend Ignoring Me But Won't Break Up - by Submitted on May 25, 2019 from Amora StevieIs He Breaking Up With Me By Ignoring Me: Boyfriend Ignoring Me But Won't Break Up You start to suspect that your boyfriend's feeling for you have changed and you are worried that he will break it off with you. What are the warning signs that your boyfriend is breaking up with you? One of ...
Views: 1618 - My Husband Wants Me To Move Out: My Husband Asked Me To Leave House - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Wants Me To Move Out: My Husband Asked Me To Leave House Is it possible to save my marriage? If you are one among those who have this question troubling you, then you are possibly in a marriage in which love has evaporated or one which has already been showing signs of breaking up. ...
Views: 1618 - My Husband Has New Moves In Bed: Husband Suddenly Trying New Things In Bed - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Husband Has New Moves In Bed: Husband Suddenly Trying New Things In Bed When it comes to love, men often get a bad rap. "You only hear about the guys who are abusive or cheat, but how about the tons of men who are faithful and kind?" ~John "I've been married for over twenty years. I ...
Views: 1617 - How to Heal from a Relationship with a Narcissist! - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2019 from Dr. Anne Brown“Sometimes, you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself.” In our article about Leaving a Narcissist, I spoke about knowledge being your best weapon. Only with knowledge about what is happening, how it is happening, and how to counter ...
Views: 1616(2 votes) - Selfishness is OK - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2015 from Roni Weisberg-RossSelfishness has a negative connotation in our culture; but it’s not selfishness, it’s a lack of empathy that hurts others. While I am no Ayn Rand acolyte, I do agree with her argument in “The Virtue of Selfishness”. Taking care of oneself is not only reasonable; it is necessary – necessary for ...
Views: 1615 - Ways to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back in Love With You After Break Up! - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2011 from Phillip TomRelationships can be complicated things. You can be crazy about a man who someday lets you know that he is not in love with you any longer and he wants to call it a quit. It is shocking and it actually makes you feel as though you can’t move on without him. Your emotions are going to be ...
Views: 1615(1 vote) - Relationships: Is It Normal For Someone To Have Low Self-Esteem After They Have Left An Abusive Relationship? - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile some people are going to be used to having relationships that are fulfilling, there are going to be others who are not. In this case, someone could find that they have the tendency to end up with people who are not right for them. A Mismatch This is not to say that they will treat ...
Views: 1613 - Anger can be explained, there is no excuse for rage, ever - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2011 from Philippe MoisanAnger happens daily. There are many situations that can make it come out. Here are a few examples : 1. A driver just passed right in front of you 2. You get hit from behind while standing in a bus 3. Your child breaks something precious 4. Somebody just put you down 5. ...
Views: 1612(1 vote) - I Dumped Him and He Hasn't Called: After A Breakup and He Doesn't Call - by Submitted on May 22, 2019 from Amora StevieI Dumped Him and He Hasn't Called: After A Breakup and He Doesn't Call You dumped your boyfriend and now you just don't know what to do to win him back? Guys behave different then women in this kind of situation - they are more closed in themselves, it's harder for them to forgive and ...
Views: 1612 - The Power of Text Messages in Winning Back Your ex Boyfriend - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2013 from Franklin FashayaGetting your ex-boyfriend back is a decision you can reach after realizing his importance in your life. It depends on who ended the relationship for you to strategize on how to bring him back. There are several ways you can use, one simple method that is common and you probably prefer in getting ...
Views: 1612 - How To Get Your Ex Back After Sleeping With Him: Should I Sleep With My Ex - by Submitted on May 25, 2019 from Amora StevieHow To Get Your Ex Back After Sleeping With Him: Should I Sleep With My Ex There you are sitting alone on a Saturday nite, eating stale Doritos and watching old re-runs of Seinfeld you have already seen seven times. It would not be so bad except you have an itch, a sexual itch that is, in ...
Views: 1611 - My Ex Boyfriend Still Has My Stuff: Ex Boyfriend Holding My Stuff - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2019 from Lyra NoaMy Ex Boyfriend Still Has My Stuff: Ex Boyfriend Holding My Stuff A common question a woman will ask after a breakup when she wants to get back together with her ex is, "How do I know my ex boyfriend still misses me?" When you still have feelings for an ex, it's human nature to want to know ...
Views: 1610 - She's Not My Mother - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2011 from Womens Recreation, Inc.April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month; this is to honor the abused. A child can be abused by parents, stepparents, grand parents, siblings, and other relatives. This is a hypothetical story about a child and his mother, however, it could be the story of anyone. In this day and age, ...
Views: 1610(1 vote) - I Pushed Him Away Now He Won't Talk To Me: I Pushed Him Away By Being Too Needy - by Submitted on May 16, 2019 from Kayla EdenI Pushed Him Away Now He Won't Talk To Me: I Pushed Him Away By Being Too Needy Are you wondering how on earth you can get your ex boyfriend to talk to you? You are not alone; it is one of the most asked questions by those who have suffered a break up. There are words and actions that can get ...
Views: 1609 - Husband Cheated I Kicked Him Out: I Kicked My Husband Out For Cheating - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyHusband Cheated I Kicked Him Out: I Kicked My Husband Out For Cheating Infidelity is considered as one of the primary causes which impacts the integrity of a marriage, even resulting in divorce. Learning that your partner is cheating on you can be the worst pain in the world. Many believe it ...
Views: 1607 - 3 Smart Moves for Women who are Separating - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2013 from Nancy KayIf you are considering separating from your husband, you are probably overwhelmed with the emotional swings of wondering what will happen next. You may not even want a divorce and are trying hard to reconcile. During a time like this, you may not realize just how critical it is to take ...
Views: 1606(1 vote) - Encouraging Vs Controlling Your Partner - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumIn a loving relationship or marriage, most individuals want the very best for their spouse or partner. People want their partners to be successful, healthy, fit and happy so that each can enjoy the other for as long as possible. There are two ways to handle being involved in your partner's ...
Views: 1605 - I Cheated On My Wife How Can I Save My Marriage: How To Save My Marriage After I Cheated On My Wife - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesI Cheated On My Wife How Can I Save My Marriage: How To Save My Marriage After I Cheated On My Wife How in the world can you ever expect your wife to love you once you've cheated on her? How can she ever forgive you? You've already done the deed, now it's time to make things right. Keep ...
Views: 1605 - Dating Help: Is He Married? - by Submitted on May 13, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeOne of the most devastating betrayals for a woman is to find out that the man she is dating is a married man. The betrayal goes deeper than a break up. There is rarely, if ever, a chance to confront the man. The relationship will break up just as it is ready to move to the next step. In fact, ...
Views: 1604(2 votes) - Childhood Abuse and Adult Survivors: Notes from a Seminar - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2013 from Roni Weisberg-RossLet's begin with the statistics - and they are daunting: Approx. 1 in 4 girls & 1 in 8 boys are sexually abused before the age of 18. Even the most conservative estimates put it at 1 in 6 girls & 1 in 10 boys. It is estimated that as many as 40 million Americans - one in six people - ...
Views: 1600(1 vote) - 6 Tools for Resiliency in Recovery - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownResiliency and Recovery have a nice ring. The two R’s! Having a backbone makes this process a lot easier. Resiliency is having the ability to adapt in the face of adversity. The more you know yourself, the greater your self-awareness, and the greater your backbone, the greater your chance ...
Views: 1599(1 vote) - How To Make Him Realize He Needs You: How To Make Him Realize Your Worth After Breakup - by Submitted on May 25, 2019 from Amora StevieHow To Make Him Realize He Needs You: How To Make Him Realize Your Worth After Breakup You were dumped. The pain that comes along with that is difficult to compare to anything else. You feel such a sense of rejection and even though some time may have passed since the two of you broke up, you ...
Views: 1598 - Relationships: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Hate Men/Women? - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are some people who have moments when they get angry with the opposite sex, there are others who always feel this way. In this case, it could be said that it would be more appropriate to say that they hate them. As a result of this, it might not be possible for them to settle ...
Views: 1598 - Child Abuse: Can Someone Suffer If They Don’t Face What Happened When They Were Younger? - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIn order for something to develop in the right way, it will need it to receive the right things. If this doesn’t take place, it might still grow but it is not going to grow in the same way as it would otherwise. Nature For example, if a tree was planted in the shade, it is not going to ...
Views: 1596 - Dear Dr. Romance: I was reduced to a house maid - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I fell in love and married a man from another city. We have been married for three years. I livedwith his family, which included his parents and his three younger sisters, plus children. In my eastern culture, we mostly live with our inlaws. My mother in law's ...
Views: 1596 - My Husband Makes Me Cry And Doesn't Care: How To Save Your Marriage If Your Husband Is Falling Out Of Love - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Makes Me Cry And Doesn't Care: How To Save Your Marriage If Your Husband Is Falling Out Of Love In case it has reached a point where you realize that your husband is falling out of love, the revelation is likely to hurt you greatly. This is due to the fact that you still love him ...
Views: 1596 - How to Know If Your Ex Still Loves You - 3 Sure-Fire Ways to Know If There is Love Or Not - by Submitted on May 11, 2011 from Charles UadialeYour relationship ended all of a sudden and has left you worried to know if your ex still loves you or not! If your ex still has strong feelings for you then you know there is expectation of your failed relationship being rekindled.... Your ex has not completely cut off with you- If your ...
Views: 1595 - I Can't Live With My Husband Anymore: I Can't Stand My Husband Right Now - Reasons To Stay Married When You Aren't In Love Anymore - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2018 from Jennifer SageI Can't Live With My Husband Anymore: I Can't Stand My Husband Right Now - Reasons To Stay Married When You Aren't In Love Anymore Today's popular thinking is that you should stay married only as long as you are in love with your spouse. Once you are no longer in love you are expected to move ...
Views: 1595 - My Husband Never Hears What I Say: My Husband Doesn't Listen To My Opinion - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Never Hears What I Say: My Husband Doesn't Listen To My Opinion There must be some reason why some couples excel at marriage and others have such a hard time going at it. Let's face it right here and be honest, marriage is not easy. Having a good marriage means that you and your ...
Views: 1595 - How To Ignore Your Ex To Get Him Back: Ignoring An Ex That Dumped You - by Submitted on May 17, 2019 from Kayla EdenHow To Ignore Your Ex To Get Him Back: Ignoring An Ex That Dumped You "Should I ignore ex-boyfriend to get him back?" The most common mistakes that women make after the breakup is to plead their ex to return back. But on the contrary it pushes the ex further away. So stop following him today! ...
Views: 1594 - Registration in a Hospital in Chinese Language - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2012 from james tomaThe purpose we learn mandarin is to communicate with others more convenient and live a better life in china. As ordinary people, we inevitably need to go to hospital for consultation. Today I will show you the registration in a hospital in Chinese language. 护士：早上好！请问您需要挂哪个科室？ ...
Views: 1594 - How to Tell If Your Ex Likes You Still - Know If Your Ex Still Loves You! - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Phillip TomDo you want to get back your ex, however they are giving you confusing signs? Would you like to know what your ex is thinking and tap into their emotions about you? If you want to know if your ex still has strong feelings for you, so you can eventually clear all the mixed signals up and win back ...
Views: 1592 - Cycle of Abuse and How to Leave - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Rhonda NeelyThe Cycle of Abuse and How to Leave Eleven years ago I was married to an abuser. Before I met him I had very high self-esteem (maybe even a little too high), was happy in my career, and pretty much worked and got whatever I wanted. Life was good. After I married Justin, he started showing ...
Views: 1591(2 votes) - Self Help for Depression - by Submitted on May 05, 2012 from Rosemary PriceSelf help for depression... One of the saddest things about this illness is that it makes you feel very alone. You feel trapped within yourself as if things are happening to you which you have no control over and which cannot in any way be stopped but you also feel as if you are going mad ...
Views: 1591 - My Husband Is Miserable In Our Marriage: My Husband Is Unhappy With His Life - Living With A Miserable Husband - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaMy Husband Is Miserable In Our Marriage: My Husband Is Unhappy With His Life - Living With A Miserable Husband Consider this article your marriage problem how-to guide. I hate divorce and will do everything I can keep a couple from divorce. Divorce breaks hearts, and it destroys the children ...
Views: 1590 - My Husband Speaks To Me Disrespectfully: Husband Disrespects Me In Public - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Speaks To Me Disrespectfully: Husband Disrespects Me In Public A quarter century of working with chronic resentment, anger, and abuse of all kinds has firmly taught me what the ancients knew. The only way out of the relentless pendulum of pain that keeps loved ones hurting each ...
Views: 1588 - Haunted By Wife's Past: Have Trouble Dealing With Your Wife's Sexual Past - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyHaunted By Wife's Past: Have Trouble Dealing With Your Wife's Sexual Past Are you having trouble dealing with your wife's sexual past, and now it's really starting to affect your marriage in a negative way? Believe me, you're certainly not alone in this, and I had trouble with this myself ...
Views: 1587 - Islam: Religion of Peace or an Abomination Birthed by Failed Vatican Strategy to Reclaim Jerusalem? - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2014 from Richard RuhlingSummary: Rome is “the Mother of Abominations” including Islam. The Bible describes well the destiny of both and projects war with militant Islam and the defeat of Iran. America gets “payback” as suggested by the conquest of Babylon by the Medes and Persians (Iraq and Iran). In his book, The ...
Views: 1587 - Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Feel Comfortable With Abuse? - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperWhile some people feel comfortable with relationships that are healthy and functional, there are other people who feel comfortable with relationships that are unhealthy and dysfunctional. There are going to be people who have relationships that are unhealthy and they are aware of this. And ...
Views: 1587 - Dear Dr. Romance: I rescued my mother from the big bad wolf, my father - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I read your article about RESCUING: "Avoiding the Drama Triangle". I have been rescuing my mother from the big bad wolf my father. He would beat my mother, beat me, and beat my sister. I decided to rescue her. She decided for me to rescue her from her ...
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