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For many parents who are divorced or in the process of going through divorce, holidays are especially challenging to navigate through without losing your cool. As you begin to prepare for the holidays by filling up your freezer full of turkey and pies, it is also wise to prepare ahead of time ... Views: 2554
My Husband Is Not Happy With Me Anymore: What To Do If Your Husband Isn't Happy
As the saying goes, it takes two to tango. In order for any marriage to be successful, both the husband and wife must play their parts actively. So your marriage will suffer when your husband starts showing signs ... Views: 2554
Dumping a partner is difficult, no matter what the situation. You may be torn because of family or other commitments or problems but the odds are that you have thought about this for quite some time and you know that this is what is best for you. This does not mean it will suit your partner or ... Views: 2553
Husband Sabotages Me: Husband Sabotages Everything - Husband Sabotages My Happiness
If you are in a difficult marriage situation and are looking for a real quick way how to save your marriage and live happily ever after, then keep on looking. I can't help you. Complex problems usually don't ... Views: 2553
Divorce is an emotional task unlike any other in modern society, and different people experience it in different ways. While some individuals go through nearly all of the extreme emotional states that we describe here, others have an easier time getting through this period and will maneuver ... Views: 2550
You have been dumped! You are hurt! It can be very painful thing. You don't want to eat, to drink - life has no flavor. You might even feel so angry that you want to do something stupid. You don't care about yourself. And the worst thing is it wont go away that easily.
How to turn pain into ... Views: 2548
Haven’t we all felt the pit in our stomach, the disbelief it’s happening, feeling pissed off, calling up to get back together, and the sadness, when we go through the loss of a romantic relationship that we cared a lot about? Elizabeth Kubler-Ross wrote originally about these stages in terms of ... Views: 2547
Divorce has a lot of difficult moments, but one of the toughest has got to be when you utter the words: "Kids, mommy and daddy are getting a divorce."
No parent likes to see their children suffer or be in pain. Yet learning that family life as they have known it is about to radically change is ... Views: 2544
I recently wrote an article in which I explained that any relationship has a natural duration, after which it ends – unless the people in the relationship hold on to the relationship for dear life.
This raised a question about marriage vows. Divorce statistics prove to us time and again ... Views: 2542
Years ago, I wrote an article on divorce and the stigma it has in the church. I shared that when I was first contemplating divorce and I went to my church for counseling, the advice that I was given was to have more sex. As if a wife who is ready to pursue divorce could have her heart healed ... Views: 2536
How To Fix A Broken Marriage: How To Fix A Broken Marriage After Separation
Saying "I Do" is easy but it takes a great responsibility in making it work out. There are areas in our lives that we tend to give up and suddenly realized that you still want to fix the broken pieces.
Here are the ... Views: 2534
My Husband and I Don't Talk Anymore: We Have Nothing To Talk About Anymore
Most of the problems in a troubled marriage appear during what most consider to be a "midlife crisis". But, what is the number one complaint at this time? Most of the time the majority of the answers would be poor ... Views: 2533
Many articles tell you how to get your ex boyfriend back, and not how you can turn the tables and make your ex boyfriend want you back instead.
The truth is, if you make your ex boyfriend want you back instead, your chances of making up is higher because you let him come to his own ... Views: 2531
I know, I know. Everyone expects to have sex on their honeymoon, right?! That's what you hear your whole life. Sex on your wedding night - to finally consummate the relationship, then sex, sex, sex and more sex throughout the entire honeymoon. After all, this is the person you've been saving ... Views: 2525
There are some dos and don’ts you have to apply should you want to get your ex back successfully. That means doing the good and avoiding the bad. So here are a couple of things that you can use in getting your ex back.
Do Give Your Ex Enough Time
Breaking up is never easy on anyone, so ... Views: 2518
How To Bring A Marriage Back To Life: How To Bring Love Back Into A Loveless Marriage
A lifeless marriage could lead to separation or divorce and this is something that can be prevented if you know how to bring a marriage back to life. Couples tend to develop a routine life making the ... Views: 2517
It is an old story, retold several times a year in Hollywood, many times in books. Two people meet, fall in love, and feel the pitter-patter of their heartbeats forever. They always have that love-sick look in their eyes, even when they are apart. That is proof that they are the right people ... Views: 2516
My Husband Steals My Joy: How To Make Myself Happy In My Marriage
There are 4 rules for a happy marriage that must be followed if you are to experience success in your relationship and rekindle the love and bring the passion back. If you want to do everything you can to avoid divorce ... Views: 2514
My Husband Has A Female Friend Who Keeps Calling: My Husband Has A Close Female Friend
What Is Emotional Infidelity?
According to statistics, approximately half to almost 95 percent of all who cheat cite emotional dissatisfaction as a motivation for stepping out on their wives. In recent ... Views: 2507
My Husband Texts His Female Coworker: My Husband Is Texting A Female Coworker
Emotional affairs in the workplace are very likely to happen because this is where a person spends at least 5 days in a week. He also works with people who have the same interests and passion with him. In fact, ... Views: 2505
I Stopped Cooking For My Husband: Importance Of Cooking For Your Husband - Tired Of Cooking For Husband
Some women put a lot of effort into understanding men. They buy books, consult with their girlfriends and even ask relationship counsellors as to what to do to improve their relationship ... Views: 2502
Divorce etiquette is often badly needed after separation after separation and divorce.
How many times have your family or friends “How’s the Ex”?
You know all too well that divorce requires an adjustment in how you see yourself outside your marriage. When you’re used to saying “we” or “ours”, ... Views: 2501
Do you still define your ex in terms of your failed relationship, or do you relate to him/her strictly as "the other parent"?
How you frame your perception of your former spouse has a tremendous impact on your co-parenting relationship. The two of you may not be friends, but you’ll always be ... Views: 2501
The holiday season can bring up painful memories of happier times, especially if you are divorced and have children.
When feeling yourself starting to sink into negative emotions keep in mind that with the pain comes a choice. You can choose to acknowledge the past for what it was. You can ... Views: 2492
Fed Up With My Married Life: What To Do When You Are Fed Up With Your Husband
Why don't you leave your abusive relationship? Lots of folks have thought of it. Some are doing it now. Most never got seriously interested carrying out such a drastic step, basically staying the way they were. Some ... Views: 2486
DIARY OF AN EX-SPOUSE
Many people going through a divorce or child custody case think that their lawyer will keep all of their records of who, what, when, why & where. That's what you are paying them for, isn't it? The answer is NO. Your attorney is probably handling anywhere from 20-30 ... Views: 2475
The “Statistical Facts” part of the petition is often overlooked by people anxious to complete the Petition for Dissolution of Marriage as being relatively unimportant—nothing could be further from the truth.
In determining the correct date of marriage, the biggest ... Views: 2473
My Wife Never Seems Happy With Me: I Can't Make My Wife Happy
So you realize you have an unhappy wife. She's been ignoring you, slamming the door after her, and staying out a lot with her girlfriends. You even suspect she's flirting with her recently-divorced co-worker.
Your instinct as ... Views: 2472
Have you ever wondered if it's possible to divorce your inner critic? You know that questioning, nagging little voice inside you that is never at a loss to point out your flaws, highlight your doubts and cross-examine you on your decisions? If you don't know what I'm talking about, it's the part ... Views: 2468
As part of her ongoing "Life Makeover" psychotherapy process, Mia brought up her severe neck and shoulder pain in a session. I asked several questions regarding the pain, including when it had started. She said ten years ago. I then asked: What had happened ten years ago? Mia's eyes immediately ... Views: 2463
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It’s Over and I Have Nothing Else to Say! – When there is No Closure
-Author Aleasa M. Word
As a woman, I continually try to ... Views: 2462
Adolescent years are supposed to be fun, but when adolescents have to deal with their parents’ divorce, it becomes a devastating roller-coaster ride. It is common for teens to assume that their parent’s divorce may be their fault. Feelings of regret for being unable to prevent the parent’s ... Views: 2460
When you and your spouse are going through a contested divorce in Ohio, there are some tactics for which you’ll need to prepare. This is because the very nature of a contested divorce indicates the two of you have had some degree of conflict ending your marriage.
While many couples opt for ... Views: 2459
Many marriages nowadays have ended in separation or divorce. Yet when they were married, they had the most meaningful ceremony, they had a festive reception and they went on the sweetest and longest of honeymoons. Then after a few years, something happened- before they can’t get enough of each ... Views: 2459
Manifesting and attaining your goals has become an increasingly popular pursuit. The movie, "The Secret," jump-started the discussion of the law of attraction and manifestation in mainstream culture. People seek out seminars, workshops and gurus to help learn the secrets of manifestation so we ... Views: 2455
I Don't Fancy My Wife Anymore: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Anymore
Marriage may just be the most complex, challenging and (sometimes) rewarding thing you can get yourself involved in. What it takes to be successful in a marriage involves engaging many levels of your being at ... Views: 2451
"HE DUMPED ME after all i gave to him, he was my life, now i lost him." We hear a lot of people saying those lines, from being so in love to depression and heartbreak. The feeling of the person being dumped is really at the lowest, as in depression, hurt and anger. However, you need to keep in ... Views: 2449
Breaking up IS hard to do. Sometimes, after all the decisions are made, the moves taken care of and the lifestyles adjusted, it's still hard to let go of focusing on your 'ex'. Thoughts and feelings can still dominate you despite your best intentions to move on. So, how to do really get over ... Views: 2445
There are some hard and fast rules when it comes to forcing your spouse to leave the marital home. Just because you are filing for divorce, you do not ultimately have the right to tell the other party they must move out even if it involves adultery. In fact, even in cases of physical or mental ... Views: 2443
Remember that old 80’s song with Rockwell and Michael Jackson that said "I always feel like…somebody’s watching me???" Well, if you are one of the millions of people currently going through a divorce, the feeling of someone watching you may ring a little too close for comfort.
Many people ... Views: 2442
Unemployed Husband Not Looking For Work: How To Deal With Unemployed Husband
This is a very touchy subject for most people. Money problems are one of the most common causes for divorce. No woman wants to be with some deadbeat guy, and no man wants to be with some lazy woman who sits on the ... Views: 2442
Hi, it's your wingman Dean Cortez and I've got a few quick tips on how to use INFLUENCE and PERSUASION tactics to get hot Asian girls attracted to you.
A few nights ago, my buddy Hunter and I visited a bar in San Francisco. The place was packed with beautiful Asian girls, who were sticking ... Views: 2438
Handling intrusive family members, prying friends and nosey parishioners while going through a breakup is never easy. It’s tough enough coming to grips with the fact your relationship is over. Throw in the frustrations, disappointments, stress and anger, plus, dealing with guilt as you ... Views: 2437
My Husband Beat Me For The First Time: My Husband Beats Me With His Belt
How well are you communicating in order to save the marriage? If you do not communicate effectively about a problem, communication becomes the problem.
A course on communication would be really helpful to the newly ... Views: 2436
The need to seek revenge on wrong- and evil-doers is as ancient as Mankind. But people attempt to address their grievances in three ways:
1. Punitive-moralistic
The aim of this type of vengeance is to restore justice and, with it, the victim’s view of the world as orderly, predictable, ... Views: 2435
Fear of an uncertain future can stop us from doing great things, and it can keep us holding onto things and habits that are hurting us. Today I will share 5 steps to deal with separation and divorce anxiety.
I think it is fair to say, that the majority of us from time to time wonder what the ... Views: 2435
New year resolutions are notoriously fragile and ephemeral. But victims of abuse cannot afford this cavalier attitude: their mental - and too often physical - health depends on strictly observing the following promises to themselves:
1. I will treat myself with dignity and demand respect from ... Views: 2430
Spousal maintenance helps you to run family expense and meet your daily needs. It is a necessary financial support for a partner to lead an independent life after divorce & separation.
Spousal maintenance is a form of financial assistance paid by either the wife or the husband to support ... Views: 2430
The short answer to this question is probably yes.
However you have to adjust to your situation and work your way through the emotions of splitting up before you will be able to move on.
The end of a relationship is always tough whether or not it was your decision to end it. You may need ... Views: 2425
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I ... Views: 2425