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- Choosing the Most Important Questions to Ask a Divorce Lawyer - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhen you make the decision to file for divorce, the first thing you need to do is find a divorce lawyer that meets with your needs. Before you attend the first meeting with the lawyer you need to think of any questions you may want to ask, but do not rely on your memory: write down a list of ...
Views: 873 - Finding a Good Divorce Lawyer Requires Research - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWith so many people getting divorced in the 21st century, it is more important than ever to make sure you find a good divorce lawyer. While it seems to be common sense, many people make the mistake of thinking as long as the lawyer is familiar with family law, he or she is familiar with divorce ...
Views: 712 - What a Divorce Lawyer Can Do that You Can’t Do Yourself - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThe divorce rate is continuing to go up, and people are beginning to look at the actual cost of hiring a divorce lawyer—after all, getting divorced is substantially more expensive than getting married even if you use a do it yourself divorce kit. Many people are beginning to ask whether it is ...
Views: 730 - Relocation during Divorce Isn't Always the Best Solution - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIn most cases couples choose to live apart during the divorce process, but with the current cost of living, more couples are choosing to avoid relocation during divorce and even afterward in order to save money and spare the children the heartbreak of being separated from one of their parents. ...
Views: 730 - Relocation after Divorce when the Non-Custodial Parent is Transferred - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThere are many different reasons for relocation after divorce, and some of the factors that come into the picture include being close to a support system. For instance, a wife who is emotional over the collapse of her marriage may feel comfort being close to her own parents, sisters, brothers or ...
Views: 838 - How to Avoid Leaving Prized Possession during Relocation after Divorce - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most emotional things a divorced couple can do during relocation after their divorce is leave prized possessions behind. In many cases the divorce causes a great deal of bitterness on the part of the person being left behind, so anything you forget to take is likely to end up at the ...
Views: 897 - How to Avoid the Effects of Divorce on Your Credit - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThe effects of divorce are not limited to the emotional scars it can cause the couple and their children but can also have a disastrous effect on your credit as well. Fortunately it is much easier to prevent the financial effects of divorce, but many couples get so wrapped up in their anger and ...
Views: 872 - How to Determine when Relocation during Divorce Involves Abandonment - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIt can sometimes be difficult to identify when relocation during divorce is clearly abandonment. Does it begin just because your spouse walks out of the house without telling you he or she wanted a divorce or is there some clearly defined method that determines when you can classify an act as ...
Views: 770 - The Process of Filling out a Divorce Application - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhen you are preparing to file for divorce, you can expect to answer a number of questions on the divorce application. Whether you fill it out yourself or the divorce lawyer fills it out for you is of no relevance. The issue of greatest importance is to remember it will be necessary to provide ...
Views: 560 - Important Information to Provide During Research of Divorce Lawyers - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIt can be a difficult time when you are consulting with divorce lawyers and attempting to choose the one that is right for you. It is important to understand, however, that you can make the process easier for yourself and any divorce lawyers with which you consult if you have everything you need ...
Views: 613 - The Importance of Learning the Common Divorce Steps - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIf you don't know anyone who has gone through a divorce, you may need to learn the divorce steps before you actually file for your own divorce. Many people are under the mistaken impression that you file the paperwork with your lawyer, set a court date and it's over. While in a perfect world ...
Views: 592 - Divorce Steps and the Emotional Component - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorDivorce is a very emotional process for every couple no matter how bad the marriage may be or how long the discord has been showing its ugly face. Of course, there are exceptions: if adultery is involved it might very well be that the emotional component is the first of the divorce steps to ...
Views: 609 - Divorce Steps Differ by State and County - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most difficult parts of filing for divorce is learning how the divorce steps in your state affect your plans for a divorce filing. This is especially difficult for couples that may have recently moved to a new state, or even a new county within the same state or where one of the ...
Views: 588 - Your Visitation Rights Following Custody and Moving - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhile the best thing for the children is for a couple to agree on visitation without court intervention, this doesn't always happen. Sadly some custodial parents use custody and moving as an excuse to deny visitation to the non-custodial parent. This method is an effort on the part of that ...
Views: 523 - Handling a Divorce Application when the Couple Is Unable to Reach an Agreement - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIn the "perfect divorce" a couple will come into their perspective lawyer's offices ready to sign an agreement and quickly end their marriage. Unfortunately the "perfect divorce" does not usually happen in real life, and in most cases he negotiations take more time than the divorce proceedings ...
Views: 557 - When the Legal System Enters the Divorce Application Process - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhile there are certain things an individual can do concerning the divorce application, there is a point when there is a need for the legal system to enter the picture. There is no difference in that respect between hiring a divorce lawyer and filing your divorce application using a ...
Views: 529 - Simplifying the Process of Choosing Divorce Lawyers - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThe process of researching divorce lawyers and choosing the right one for your needs can be very complex—that is, if you allow it to do so. However, you can make the process much simpler if you follow some simple steps that will allow you to conduct some initial research on divorce lawyers in ...
Views: 697 - The Importance of Hiring a Top Divorce Lawyer - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorBefore you choose a divorce lawyer it is essential to take the time to conduct some research. Divorce is never an easy decision to make, but it will be much easier if you take the time to research and choose the top divorce lawyer in your area. You will definitely pay a higher price for a top ...
Views: 606 - Relocation and Divorce: When You Can Force Your Spouse to Leave - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThere are some hard and fast rules when it comes to forcing your spouse to leave the marital home. Just because you are filing for divorce, you do not ultimately have the right to tell the other party they must move out even if it involves adultery. In fact, even in cases of physical or mental ...
Views: 2443 - Relocation after Divorce: Financial Considerations - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhile it is preferable to remain close to the marital home after divorce, especially when there are children involved, it is not always possible. Quite often one of the parties to the divorce, usually the wife, must face a substantial loss in financial support during and following a divorce. For ...
Views: 606 - Submission to the Legal System: the Final Divorce Steps - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThe divorce steps involve both preliminary and final steps. Once you or your lawyer submits the paperwork into the legal system you are entering the final phase of the divorce steps. For those who have never divorced or known anyone personally who has gone through it, the process may seem ...
Views: 672 - Proper Credential Are Essential Elements when Choosing a Phoenix Divorce Lawyer - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorMaking the right decision in a divorce lawyer is essential, and one of the key elements is verifying the credentials of any lawyer before you decide to enlist his or her services. This is especially important in community property states where it may be necessary to prove separate ownership of ...
Views: 623 - Custody and Moving: Key Factors that Determine Home Suitability - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorMost people assume once custody is granted that is the end. While this is usually true, there may be cases where the process of custody and moving involves an investigation into the suitability of the environment. We don't usually think of this as being part of divorce, but there are ...
Views: 591 - What Information Do You Need to Provide on a Divorce Application? - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhen you are preparing to file for divorce, you must be prepared to provide a substantial amount of information on the divorce application. This information allows the lawyer to prepare his case and know what kind of case to present not only to your spouse's lawyer but also to the court. No ...
Views: 556 - Never Assume Military Divorce Lawyers Have Global Licensing Authorization - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThere are very important reasons to research military divorce lawyers. Even if you are a short-term service person who lives on base, there are likely to be things that are important to you in the civilian world as well. In addition, there may be pensions and other fringe benefits to which you ...
Views: 580 - The Best Alternative: Fault or No Fault Divorce - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhile all states currently offer no fault divorce—New York State was the last one to approve this provision in October 2010—this does not restrict anyone getting divorced from choosing to file under the old provisions of the law. The important thing to remember is that no fault divorce is a much ...
Views: 767 - Everything You Need to Know About Getting Divorced - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorBefore you begin the divorce process, it is essential for you to obtain information about the process. There are several steps involved in the process of getting divorced, and if you attempt to bypass any of the steps, you will actually cause more harm than good; you will in essence delay the ...
Views: 744 - Filling Out the Paperwork: Essential Part of the Divorce Steps - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorFilling out the paperwork is probably one of the most tedious of the divorce steps. Even if you are hiring a lawyer you will need to endure the boring task of either filling out the paperwork before your meeting or sitting in his or her office while they ask the questions on he application. As ...
Views: 601 - Variations in State Laws Make Getting Divorced a Complicated Process - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorEven though all states today make no-fault divorce available, the process can vary from state to state. One of the most important differences is in the residency requirements for those getting divorced that states impose upon those who are getting divorced. Do not assume just because you live in ...
Views: 554 - Choosing the Wrong Miami Divorce Lawyer Can Cost Thousands of Dollars - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIf you think for a moment it isn't important to choose the right divorce lawyer, you should take some time to think about what you might lose without the legal system on your side. Unless you plan to attempt to go before the judge in an attempt to represent yourself in a divorce, you need ...
Views: 533 - Getting Help Filling Out a Divorce Application - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThere is more to a divorce application than just picking it up in the courthouse, paying the fee and filing the petition. It is important for anyone wishing to file a divorce without benefit of a lawyer to understand not only where to obtain a divorce application but also how to fill it out. ...
Views: 558 - Research and Select an Experienced New York Divorce Lawyer - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most difficult parts of filing for divorce is finding an experienced divorce lawyer in New York. This is due in part to the fact that most couples contemplating divorce are already suffering from the trauma of ending the marriage—adding the task of finding a good divorce lawyer adds ...
Views: 547 - Valuing the Competency of Online Divorce Lawyers - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThe Internet offers us many opportunities one of which is the ability to research divorce lawyers. However, you still need to be very careful and make sure you choose a lawyer that is right for your needs. You also need to remember lawyers must be licensed to practice in each state, so if you ...
Views: 590 - Do All Divorce Lawyers Charge the Same Fee? - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne thing you need to understand before you even begin your divorce proceedings is the process is not going to be cheap by any means. How much you pay will depend on many different factors up to and including the following: • Amount of research necessary • The complexity of the ...
Views: 607 - Custody and Moving: Decisions that Can Affect a Child's Right to Visitation with a Non-Custodial Parent - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorCustody and moving are two of the most common points of contention during divorce negotiations. Couples frequently argue over where the children are going to live, and if the custodial parent wants to move out of state—or even into another city or county—there is always the concern about how the ...
Views: 586 - Make Certain You Get Advice on Filling Out the Divorce Application - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorFor those who are not in the legal profession, the process of filling out a divorce application can be a difficult one. It is for this reason that most people choose to at least get advice from a lawyer or paralegal before making the decision to file the divorce papers on their own. While ...
Views: 525 - Separate Property Designations Makes Getting Divorced a Complex Process - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorIn most states the problem of separate property doesn't really create many problems when a couple is getting divorced: what you brought into the marriage remains yours regardless. However, in a community property divorce the process is much more complicated, especially if the property has become ...
Views: 641 - Separate Property Designations Makes Getting Divorced a Complex Process - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThe process of getting divorced has become easier since the implementation of no fault divorce laws. Prior to the changes in divorce laws it was necessary for one of the spouses to have committed some type of wrong doing in order to create "fault." During the period preceding "no fault" divorce, ...
Views: 603 - The Laws Governing Getting Divorced under Community Property Provisions - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorGetting divorced is complicated in any state, but it becomes even more so for those who live in one of the ten community property states: • Alaska • Arizona • California • Idaho • Louisiana • Nevada • New Mexico • Texas • Washington • Wisconsin Most people assume that in community ...
Views: 535 - Failing to Follow all the Divorce Steps is Courting Disaster - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most important of all divorce steps is gathering information. It is essential to know what information your lawyer needs so you can begin gathering all of the documentation you need before the first meeting. When you are better prepared it will take less time for the lawyer to prepare ...
Views: 502 - Dealing with the Effects of Divorce when You Need a Loan - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’Connorn The effects of divorce can go a long way toward making your future unstable or secure. If you fail to make payments on time or are saddled with a substantial amount of debt following a divorce, it will inhibit your ability to obtain a loan. When you have borrowing power your future is much ...
Views: 516 - Hiring a Divorce Lawyer vs. Using a To It Yourself Kit to Fill Out the Divorce Application - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorThere are both pros and cons involved in the process of filling out a divorce application. Some people feel more comfortable enlisting the services of a lawyer while others desire to save the money and file the divorce application using a do it yourself divorce kit. Neither one is any better ...
Views: 531 - Key Issues of Importance in an Uncontested Divorce to the Lawyers - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorChoosing a divorce lawyer is never an easy or inexpensive task, but you can reduce the fees and aggravation if you and your spouse can agree to an uncontested divorce. That doesn't mean you have to agree to everything in advance although that would certainly reduce the costs even more, but if ...
Views: 560 - Choosing a Three Step Divorce for Those Who Qualify - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWith the high cost of divorce lawyers, many people are looking at various ways they can save money such as filing their own divorce papers. The problem with this process is that many states will only allow do-it-yourself divorces for those couples who have no property or children simply because ...
Views: 548 - Making the Right Choice in a PA Divorce Lawyer - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorWhen you are faced with the choice of filing for divorce, you need to make sure you choose a divorce lawyer that has enough expertise and experience to make sure you get the best possible settlement. You need someone who knows the law and will turn it around in your favor. This doesn't mean you ...
Views: 521 - The Effects of Divorce and their Relationship to Pre-Existing Debts - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne problem that tends to affect a substantial number people who get divorce is how pre-existing debts will factor into the overall effects of their divorce. They are of the mistaken opinion that what the judge orders or what they agree to in their settlement will override any legal documents ...
Views: 702 - Effects of Divorce: Determination of Liability for New Debts - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorOne of the most difficult tasks that surround divorce is determining liability for any new debts that enter the picture after a couple decides to divorce. While the process is easy enough when it comes to actual loans—only the person who signs the contract is responsible—it can be much more ...
Views: 537 - Custody and Moving: the Decision That Is Best for the Children - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorEvery couple that is involved in a divorce has to make a decision about custody and moving. The key element in the decision should be what is best for the children, especially in the beginning when they must adjust to a new situation. Of course, if there are financial or safety concerns the ...
Views: 502 - How to Prevent Custody and Moving from Causing Emotional Damage to a Child - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorCustody and moving can be detrimental to a child if the parents do not take careful precautions in their planning. Children are very unreceptive to leaving their friends and their schools, especially when they are beginning to approach the teenage years. At this age they begin to have feelings ...
Views: 672 - Custody and Moving and the Relativity to Those Who Are Abandoned - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Christy O’ConnorDivorce is a difficult process as it is, but it is even more difficult when it extends beyond simple custody and moving and becomes a case of abandonment. As sad as it is, many non-custodial parents—or those who perceive themselves to be—make the choice to abandon their families rather than face ...
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