How to dump your partner by Beth Shepherd psychic

Dumping a partner is difficult, no matter what the situation. You may be torn because of family or other commitments or problems but the odds are that you have thought about this for quite some time and you know that this is what is best for you. This does not mean it will suit your partner or that they will be easy to talk to and deal with about it, but nothing in life that is really worth having comes easy.

Beth Shepherd the well established clairvoyant psychic says that to be fair to your partner you should make sure you are 100% sure you want to finish the relationship before you make plans or tell them. If you keep changing your mind and being vague about things you are toying with them and hurting them.

You may find it helps to discuss it with people close to you but they cannot make this decision for you and they have their own personal reasons for advising you. It may be that they hate the idea of you splitting up with your partner for reasons that do not suit you.

If they have done nothing wrong and it is simply a case of you becoming bored with them or the situation then by all means be fair to them. Make sure you get a chance to sit down in private and talk the whole thing through with them as they deserve respect. It is not their fault if you have become unhappy. But make it clear that you want to finish things. Do not say maybe or but or if or anything else that might lead them to think you are unsure and do not let them talk you out of it. Usually when you tell a partner that you are ending a relationship they are upset and it dents their ego so try to make it clear that it is not their fault, that you think they are a very nice person, but you were too pre occupied with work or other problems or wanted to be on your own and not in a relationship for a bit. If you tell them the reason you are ending the relationship is because of their behaviour they will feel much worse and then try to make promises of changing and nagging you to carry on with them and give them a chance to prove it.

If your partner has treated you very badly and you are scared of their temper or the way they will react then it is better to tell them when you are on the end of a phone or by text or email or when other people are there.Put your safety first. Make sure you have sorted out where to go and all the rest that goes with this BEFORE you tell them. Never burn your bridges and show you will be ending it if you will then be homeless or have some other major problem. Always sort out the important practical issues before you inform your partner that it is finished.
How to dump your partner is all about looking to the future so that you do not get trapped in the present.

By a leading life coach, clairvoyant and agony aunt, at http://www.accuratepsychicreadingsonline.com.