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- Rebound Love: Is He Really Seeing Me? - by Submitted on May 07, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYou swoon, you sigh. He is so romantic, so perfect! He is constantly calling you, giving you sweet nothings. He pampers you tremendously. He tells you every day that he will do anything and every thing you want. Your heart sinks every time he cries by the mere thought of you leaving him. You ...
Views: 1576(4 votes) - The Do’s and Don'ts of Mastering The First Date - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa SteadmanIn 2010, finding someone to date isn't nearly as tricky as mastering the art of dating. Between online dating, singles events, and the old-fashioned in-person meet and greet, it's possible to date someone new on a regular basis. But how do you make the most of these chances to meet your perfect ...
Views: 1975(4 votes) - What Dating Is Like for Men (Oh…ya think you know?) - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerLast week was Men’s Health week; and as another nod to the guys, I thought I'd help them by helping you better understand them. (Did you follow that?) In particular, I want to help you better understand the experience men have when they're trying to “date like a grownup.” If you've read my ...
Views: 2809(4 votes) - What Men Really Need To Want To Commit To A Woman - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangIf you think men just want to lead a bachelor life without any concern in the world while having you on the side because it's convenient to him, you are mistaken. Do realize that both men and women want to love and be loved. Both genders want a great relationship as it is our inherent need. ...
Views: 15252(4 votes) - “ I HATE MY LIFE! … LIFE SUCKS!” - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2007 from Perry RoseOkay, maybe not for all of you, but a surprisingly large number of people will fire off a “I hate my life! … Life sucks!” at the blink of an eye. “I hate my job.” “I hate not having a social life.” “I hate not being able to afford a car.” “I hate the way I look.” “I hate these gas ...
Views: 30366(8 votes) - Single and Scared: Debunking the Scarcity Myth - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa Steadman“There are no good men left.” Sound familiar? If you’re feeling freaked about being single, you don’t need to give up on your search for Mr. Right. You may just need to debunk your attachment to the scarcity myth. How? By participating in a fun 3 week experiment. All you need is an open mind, ...
Views: 2215(7 votes) - What Is Stealth Day Game? - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Ben WebbWhat Is Stealth Day Game? What is Stealth Day Game and why is it so important to your day game? Stealth day game is day game that is less obvious or a more indirect style of day game. In stealth day game you are trying to approach as if you are just going about your day and doing your ...
Views: 797(3 votes) - ***Key #4 to Finding Hope and Finding Him: Time to Get Out and Trail Blaze - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerThis is the third in a series of articles sharing my 5 Keys to Finding Hope and Finding Him. The 5 Keys are: M - Me and Me first. A - Assess your list. S - Shed your stuff. T - Time to get out and Trail blaze. R - Real women find their man. I say you need to Trail Blaze because, as you ...
Views: 1441(3 votes) - ***The Secret to Being a Happy Dater - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerWhy is it that when we date — even at 40, 50, or 60 — we can become an alien woman from planet WTF? If you’re anything like I was, it’s sometimes difficult to recognize yourself when you’re in the presence of a hot, nice, or simply available man. The beliefs and habits of our 25 or 30 year ...
Views: 2149(3 votes) - 21 First-Rate Cheap Date Ideas - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2006 from Rod FrosethThese cheap date ideas are by no means second-rate. If you're a real romantic, you know that romantic living need not be expensive. Rather, it's simple, but a little involved as you'll see in these 21 cheap romantic date ideas. What makes a date romantic is not how extravagant the price tag is ...
Views: 25040(6 votes) - 3 Simple Seduction Techniques to Attract Anyone - by Submitted on May 10, 2009 from Michael LeeSeduction is a game anyone can play. Even if you’re just used to being part of an audience, you can still participate and find seduction techniques you can use. Don’t let the other players intimidate you. In fact, why not see them as possible inspirations? After all, there’s no better way to ...
Views: 2336(3 votes) - 6 Powers of Love that Improves Mind Power - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2010 from Nil CelenFall in Love! Have an Extra Support for Your Mind Power. We all experience love differently. No matter how you experience that feeling, anyway it takes your mind power to the top level. I remember the times when I was lonely. There was no one to share my love. I was really feeling the love ...
Views: 1829(3 votes) - Alone Time - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2009 from Katie KrienitzWhen my ex and I parted ways years ago, something in me knew I was going to be single for quite a while. Though I actively tried dating (acquiring many priceless dating stories), nothing stuck and I knew the reason why: I needed my time alone. Many of us are looking for the romantic ...
Views: 1249(3 votes) - Attracting women: but what comes next? - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2011 from Luke PorterThis is a big question! For all the information that is out there on dating much of it stops at attracting women, with little thought to what actually comes next. Now, of course, the idea is that once you've attracted a woman the relationship will just follow, as will the fairy tale wedding and ...
Views: 548(3 votes) - Being a single man: Have you become resigned to the single life? - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2011 from Luke PorterIt's very easy to convince ourselves that our single status is a choice, when in actual fact the truth is we're snuggled up in our comfort zone and fear stepping outside of it into the unknown, where we might face hurt and rejection. I spent seven years without a girlfriend. Sure, I grew as a ...
Views: 6628(3 votes) - Can I Find Love When I Have Serious Life Problems? - by Submitted on May 24, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerI received an email yesterday that I want to share. I hear some form of this a lot: “I’m [not perfect because of fill-in-the-blank] and I’m worried no man will ever want me!” I get it but I can’t tell you how much this breaks my heart. I lived in the “no man wants a fat girl” reality for a ...
Views: 1716(3 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: How Can I Stop a Stalker? - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Are you familiar with men who won't leave women alone? I'm just trying to understand why someone would STALK me for well over a decade and, during that time, systematically destroy my life because I refused to be in an abusive relationship with him. He didn't seem to ...
Views: 1569(3 votes) - Find a Husband In 52 Weeks An Keep Him For Always - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2012 from Robert LeesHaving that desirable need to want to find a husband can kind of sound desperate. To me it is MOST important that you do not go rushing into anything that may cause you some long term difficulties. It is and can be a sad world out there, I have seen so much of girls getting hurt. Getting left ...
Views: 1522(3 votes) - Flirting Tips for Girls: 3 Easy Ways To Grab Any Guy’s Attention - by Submitted on May 12, 2009 from Michael LeeIf you’re in need of flirting tips for girls, then you’ve come to the right place. This article will give you three very simple techniques you can use on any guy, regardless of his age or personality. These flirting tips for girls will help you gain more confidence and improve your skills in ...
Views: 3516(3 votes) - Get Your Ex Back - 3 Step System That Works Freakishly Well! - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2013 from Jeff ThomasGoing through a break up is without a doubt one of the most soul-wrenching experiences you can through, especially if your partner broke up with you. Feelings of denial, despair, sadness and anger become your best friends. If you are reading this article, you may be going through a similar ...
Views: 569(3 votes) - Good Dating Suggestions for Men of All Ages to Attain Success With Ladies - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2011 from Irving ToppenYou may already know internet dating strategies for adult men happen to be all around us in today's times...however, when it relates to getting to know how to catch the attention of pretty women of all ages or simply how to acquire a girl, the bulk of the "tips" obviously avoid getting the ...
Views: 1035(3 votes) - How to Attract and Seduce Single Sexy Women With Your Eyes - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Don DiebelThey say the eyes are the mirror to the soul. And you can use the power of your eyes to influence single women to be attracted to you. You can even literally seduce single women with your eyes. Follow these guidelines to use your eyes to capture the hearts of single sexy women for love, sex, and ...
Views: 10194(3 votes) - How to Choose the Best Method To Get Your Ex Back and Prevent You From Breaking Up Again! - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2013 from Jeff ThomasGoing through a break up is one of the toughest experiences someone can go through. Feelings of despair, sadness and even anger can overwhelm you easily and quickly, especially if your ex broke up with you. Luckily, no matter what the circumstances under which the break up occurred, there are ...
Views: 792(3 votes) - How To Find Satisfaction By Discovering What Is Missing In Your Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2009 from David SamuelThere is a nice story of two old friends, one who never married. His friend asked one day, why he never found a wife. John said that he did look, but there was always something. One woman just could not cook well, another was too selfish, another was not a good homemaker. On and on he went ...
Views: 2349(3 votes) - How to Get Him Back and Wipe the Slate Clean - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangI know, you just want to get him back. It seems like it should be simple enough. After all, you won his heart over once before; why not just do it again? Well, the problem is that the first time around you were entering new territory with a clean slate. You had the thrill and excitement of ...
Views: 12132(3 votes) - How to Make Women Chase After YOU! - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2009 from Chris TylerOne of the most classic mistakes that men make with women is that they chase after them. For some reason, a lot of men seem to think that if you chase after woman, eventually she will give up and surrender to you. However, it hardly ever works out that way. Sure, it does in a Hollywood ...
Views: 5699(3 votes) - Journey to a Better Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Ray Kadkhodaian,CAC,LCPC,CADC,PsyD & Jean Kadkhodaian,MA,CH,Rev.The symbol for a journey towards a better relationship is a spiral. Growth itself is also a journey. Look at the center of a spiral, this is where life begins. As we walk on our journey we soon come to a challenge and descend into the shadow side. This is where we face our fears, learn our ...
Views: 1579(3 votes) - Learn the Best Way to Pick Up a Woman - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Cody Holpp‘I wish picking up women was as simple as picking up groceries,’ said a famous artist. True in the context literally!! But, many people (mostly young men) believe that some people have some inbuilt ability to attract women, and many somehow get retracted. Life is not a game of snakes and ...
Views: 850(3 votes) - Nine Ways to Make Your Date Great (in the First Ten Minutes!) - by Submitted on May 20, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerThe first 10 minutes of a date often determine whether a second date is even going to happen. And let's face it: second dates are not the norm for many. That was definitely my story until I learned about (what I now call) "Date Waste." Date waste is when a date is a drag but has little to do ...
Views: 1507(3 votes) - On Which Part Of The Interaction Should You Compliment Her - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Richard LisoMen tend to have many issues and difficulties when it comes to giving compliments to women. Men who use too many compliments are considered needy, and in many cases find out that their behavior is completely the opposite of being "Attractive Men". When men understand this, they usually go ...
Views: 1555(3 votes) - Relationships: Why Are Some People Attracted To People Who Are Self-Centered? - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperWhen people think of a relationship, they often think about not only receiving, but also giving. These two parts come together to form a relationship and while it is not always possible to give and receive in each moment, this doesn’t mean that one of these aspects will then be ignored ...
Views: 6046(3 votes) - See Your Value Rise in the Dating Game! - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2010 from Cherokee Billie• Ladies If You Are Amazing, You Will Not Be Easy. • If You Are Easy, You Will Not Be Amazing. • Gentlemen If She Is Worth It, You Will Not Give Up. • If You Give Up, You Are Not Worthy. As much as the world changes, the above statement still holds true. These values have always existed ...
Views: 2558(6 votes) - Serial Dating - by Submitted on Sep 13, 2009 from Jyude AllbrightSerial Dating In our attempt to find...”the one,” we may dance with many trolls. Some may become serial daters for a time, going from one to another. Below are questions and answers that may assist you on this journey. Ultimately, he or she will show up when you understand, love, honor and ...
Views: 3530(3 votes) - The Top 3 Reasons You May Be Single Forever..and How to Avoid Them - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2011 from Seria ChattersSo you were in a relationship at one time or another, but for some reason you have been having difficulty finding the 'one'. Although we may become pros at blaming the other person (people) saying things like, 'She wasn't my type anyway.', 'He was such a loser.', we may need to take a moment and ...
Views: 4587(3 votes) - Top 3 Straightforward Tips For Getting Your Ex Back - Follow Them Or Lose Your Ex Forever! - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2013 from Jeff ThomasIf you are reading this article you are probably aware that breaking up with someone who you have strong feelings for and a strong bond with is one of the hardest things you can go through. Initially, the feeling of denial about the demise of the relationship can turn to sadness, frustration ...
Views: 1615(3 votes) - Un-lucky in love? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellNot dating? Haven’t been in a relationship for a long time? Don’t know why? It’s sounds too simple, but it’s true—you probably do not look men in the eyes and smile—a real smile! Not just that dry, half turned-up smile you greet fellow co-workers with as you glance up from your work ...
Views: 2265(6 votes) - What *Sign* Are You Wearing? The Truth About First Impressions - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2009 from Janice BennettIt’s not uncommon for singles to ask, “What’s your sign?” when meeting someone new. Depending on the extent of their belief in astrology, knowing someone’s astrological sign can aid in making assumptions or conclusions about someone’s personality, character, and consequently, their potential ...
Views: 2122(3 votes) - Why Nice Guys Have No Chance With Hot Women - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Chris TylerWhen it comes to dating hot women, nice guys really haven't got much of a shot. It's a cold and cruel reality of the dating world and it's not likely to change anytime soon. That doesn't mean that you should suddenly turn into a real jerk just to try and get women, or that you should give up ...
Views: 3615(3 votes) - Break-Up Depression? 3 Ways To Get Over It Fast - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2010 from Andrew HunterYou've been through a break-up and now you're depressed. It's sad to go through the day on the verge of tears. Break-up depression is a fact of life. They are among some of the most important aspects of our lives, losing a relationship to a break-up is especially punishing. Because of the ...
Views: 4565(8 votes) - Mr. Wrong or Mr. Right? How to tell if it’s time to stay or go - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa SteadmanHow do I know if and when it's time to break up? There's a lot of good in the guy I’m dating, but the bad is unacceptable. What do I do? I keep waiting for the guy I’m seeing to make the changes I need. How long do I wait? And what if he never changes? Chances are, at some point in your ...
Views: 4727(8 votes) - ***3 Ways to Manage Rejection So You Can Move On - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerRejection sucks. There’s no other way to say it. When he doesn’t show interest, doesn’t show up, or breaks it off after a relationship develops; it’s ugly and icky. No doubt about it. Thing is: rejection doesn’t have to strike a mortal blow. I know so many women who avoid connecting with ...
Views: 4978(5 votes) - How to love yourself? - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Dia ThabetHow to love yourself? You can’t have a fulfilled life without loving yourself. After all, how can you love someone if you don’t love yourself? How are you going to achieve your goals if you don’t value yourself? Loving yourself means accepting who you are just the way God created you. You ...
Views: 1129(5 votes) - How You Can Use Texting To Transform Your Love Life and Make Him More Passionate and Romantic - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangThe amount of time we get to spend with our partners is less and less. Commutes are longer, people often spend eight or ten hours at the computer and in meetings. Our increasingly complex lives also come with a host of professional, personal, and hobby-related commitments. As a result, the ...
Views: 11078(5 votes) - Reading a Man’s Body Language - by Submitted on May 10, 2009 from Michael LeeWomen are often hard to understand. But trying to decipher men’s motives are not that easy either. After all, guys are not exactly known for being expressive with their emotions. They have a tendency to mask their true feelings. However, reading a man’s body language can change all ...
Views: 7283(5 votes) - The Four Urgent Breakup Warning Signs - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2009 from Jay CataldoThere’s nothing wrong with preventative medicine…. especially when it comes to relationships. Sometimes, all it takes to save yourself from the pain of a difficult breakup is a little bit of knowledge and preparation. Interestingly enough, the warning signs of an impending breakup will be ...
Views: 4364(5 votes) - The Single's Guide To A Healthy Self-esteem - by Submitted on May 19, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMany people would agree that being single is fun, liberating and definitely much better than being in a relationship. However, not all singles have it easy all the time. Single women, especially, are at times faced with difficulties about how other people perceive their current status. Friends ...
Views: 843(5 votes) - The Ultimate Guide To Texting And Making Him Addicted To You - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangIf you have a new guy in your life and are in the early stages of courtship, chances are good you will be texting him and he will be texting you. Flirty texting is fun, but if you aren't careful, you can unknowingly put a huge damper on his attraction. If he is pulling away from you, one of ...
Views: 40051(5 votes) - What Men Are Attracted To - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2008 from Kim SarrasinThere’s a bit of a misconception amongst women that men are attracted to them primarily by how they look. Granted, men certainly are visually orientated but there’s actually something deeper going on that turns a man’s attention towards a woman. If you think that when you slip ...
Views: 16410(5 votes) - Rebuilding Your Relationship To Rekindle The Passion - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from Katarina PhangThere comes a point in almost any successful relationship where things calm down and cool off. There is no longer a major spark between the partners. They get comfortable in their relationship and develop a routine. They no longer find as much time to spend together. Often, this is not due to a ...
Views: 9716(7 votes) - Six Secrets Of Successful Russian Dating And Marriage - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2012 from lisa yungMany men like Russian girls and many are dating them online. How can you have successful dating online and a happy marriage? Read through the six secrets, also the keys to successful date with your dream soul mate. Be Devoted to your dream Russian bride Love calls for devotion. It is ...
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