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- Mike’s Story (Couch Tales) - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2004 from Devlyn SteeleMike was completely stressed when he walked into my office last week. Taking a long drink of water, he slumped onto the big couch in my office and sighed. “Coach,” he said. “I need to get out of my relationship.” Mike is 38 years old and a successful screenwriter. Mike was also perpetually ...
Views: 1093(1 vote) - How to Kiss Women at the End of a Date - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2004 from Don DiebelI want to talk about that awkward moment at the end of a date when you're not sure on how to go about getting a kiss. First of all, it's very important to know that some single women have a rule that they don't kiss on the first date. I don't agree with this rule and think a kiss would be a ...
Views: 2284(1 vote) - How to Survive -- and enjoy -- Your First Holiday on Your Own! - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2004 from Holly PedersenHow to Survive – and Enjoy! – Your First Holidays On Your Own The holidays for most of us are a mix of excitement, joy, celebration, as well as sadness, anxiety, and even emptiness. For those who are newly single, the holidays can feel especially empty, sad, and daunting. If this is the first ...
Views: 1103(1 vote) - e-Matchmaking: Can a Computer Program Find Love For You? - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2004 from Devlyn SteeleI logged on to a dating site the other day and was greeted by a large, flashing message. It promised that if I took the time to answer a series of questions that they would find a "perfect match" for me. Imagine that? All the work and worry of being single - gone! We truly have evolved! Not ...
Views: 1035 - Excerpt: Dateworthy: Get the Relationship You Want - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2004 from Yolanda CardenChapter 12 Great Dates You know what I love about dating shows? The producers, in an effort to make good TV, rack their brains to come up with really fun and interesting ways for a couple to interact. Forget just meeting for coffee or a meal. They have them learn how to polka. Go to a ...
Views: 950 - Top 4 Ways to Attract Mr. or Miss Right - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2004 from Leanna FredrichHave you ever wondered why you keep meeting the “wrong” type of person? How do you attract the right person for you? Below are some simple steps to help you attract the perfect partner. 1.Take Excellent Care of Yourself Not only does extreme self-care help you look and feel great but it keeps ...
Views: 2142 - How to Tell What Single Women are Interested In - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2004 from Don DiebelFOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE How to Tell What Single Women are Interested In HOUSTON, TX -- October 7, 2004 -- Gemini Publishing Co., a leading provider of books, cassettes, videos, and pheromone products for single men on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce women, announced today ...
Views: 1250 - How to Be a Great First Date - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2004 from Terry Hernon MacDonladOkay, you’ve scored a date with a sexy somebody for Saturday night, and you’re terrified you’re going to blow it. Don’t worry; if you follow these tips, you’ll do just fine. The bonus? None of them involves getting plastic surgery or renting a Jaguar for the evening. 1. The key to being a ...
Views: 848 - How Watching Sports can Ruin Your Dating Life - by Submitted on Sep 07, 2004 from Don DiebelThis week I want to talk about guys who are "Sports Potatoes." I know you're thinking, "What in the hell is a Sports Potato?" Let me explain. I'm sure that you have heard of a "Couch Potato," which is a person that spends most of his time sitting on the couch watching TV. Well, a "Sports ...
Views: 1455 - How to Approach Anyone and Enjoy it. - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2004 from Michael MyerscoughBut, what do I say? One of my more pragmatic clients recently made the observation that whilst her self -esteem improved by our coaching, she wasn’t really getting better results when it came to meeting Mr. Right. It became clear the more attractive she found a man, the less likely she’d ...
Views: 1997 - How Watching Sports can Ruin Your Dating Life - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2004 from Don DiebelAre You a "Sports Potato?" This week I want to talk about guys who are "Sports Potatoes." I know you're thinking, "What in the hell is a Sports Potato?" Let me explain. I'm sure that you have heard of a "Couch Potato," which is a person that spends most of his time sitting on the couch ...
Views: 1145 - How to Be a Great Date - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2004 from Terry Hernon MacDonladOkay, you’ve scored a date with a sexy somebody for Saturday night, and you’re terrified you’re going to blow it. Don’t worry; if you follow these tips, you’ll do just fine. The bonus? None of them involves getting plastic surgery or renting a Jaguar for the evening. 1. The key to being a ...
Views: 2649 - A Secret Women Know But Men Don't - by I'd like to tell you a story...
It's a story that you might find strangely familiar. Don't be alarmed.
Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a particular woman.
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Views: 814 - What Women HATE Most About Single Guys - by If you listen to a group of attractive, single women talking alone over dinner or drinks, the topic will always turn to MEN.
And in most cases, it will eventually turn into a RANT session about how hard it is to find good men to date...
Which will lead to a FULL-ON RAG SESSION about ...
Views: 3811 - How Guys Screw Up First Dates - by How Guys Screw Up First Dates ...OR...
"The One Thing NEVER To Do With A Woman" By David DeAngelo I get a lot of guys who write in to ask me how to behave around women. Many of those questions focus on the first meeting or the first date.
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Views: 2028 - The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women—And What To Do About It… - by Here Are The Top TenReasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One OfThese Deadly Common Mistakes...By David DeAngeloMISTAKE#1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy” Haveyou ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be ...
Views: 2307 - How To Get A Woman's Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her - by Let me start off by telling you something interesting:
I've personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers. I've found that EMAIL addresses are far better (I still get the phone number too, of course).
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Views: 1375 - Book Excerpt: The Shy Single: A Bold Guide to Dating For the Less - Than - Bold Dater - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2004 from Yolanda CardenFirst Date Dos Dress well. For a first date (and, really, subsequent dates), choose clothes that make you feel beautiful, handsome, sexy, and free. This might seem like an obvious bit of advice, but your appearance can provide you with 'props' that aid the conversational flow and bolster your ...
Views: 2171 - Top Ten Keys to Successful Dating for Men - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2004 from Don Diebel1. When with a woman on a date, under no circumstances whatsoever, look at and flirt with other women. This is just plain rude and disrespectful. It's very degrading to a woman and makes her feel very unimportant. It really hurts their feelings, especially if she is attracted to you. 2. Don't ...
Views: 5277 - A Mission Statement to Succeed with Single Women - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2004 from Don DiebelEvery man should develop a mission statement for succeeding with single women. This will give you purpose, a plan for doing better with women, and motivate you to take action to seduce women. Here's the mission statement that I recommend that you use: 1. I have supreme confidence in myself and ...
Views: 1215(1 vote) - Dating Tips for the Shy Woman - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2004 from Terry Hernon MacDonladYou want to meet the right person, but you’re too scared to do anything about it. Introductions—sticking out one’s hand and looking another person in the eye—can be terrifying for the shy woman. The brain locks up as you scramble to think of something relevant to say. You fall apart as soon as ...
Views: 1412(1 vote) - How to Succeed with Single Women From A to Z - by Submitted on May 31, 2004 from Don DiebelA-Makes you "Active" in your pursuit of women. You never pass up an opportunity to meet a new woman that interests you. B-Expects you to be "Brave" and have the balls to approach women that you are interested in. C-Wants you to be "Committed" to seducing as many women as you can. D-Wants you ...
Views: 1128 - Book Excerpt: The Shy Single: A Bold Guide to Dating For the Less - Than - Bold Dater - by Submitted on May 20, 2004 from Yolanda CardenFacing Rejection The huge obstacle for Shys is when they're either doing the rejecting or being rejected in a relationship. One of the possibilities in any new dating situation is that it's a potentially poor match. But for some Shys, this potential reality can become so threatening, they may ...
Views: 1223 - Where to meet a potential mate - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2012 from Talia ManaHave you been looking for love in all the wrong places? In part 1 on finding love I described how simple attitudinal changes can improve your chances of finding and connecting with a mate. In the second part of the article I tell you where you can go to find a potential love ...
Views: 2942(1 vote) - Why You Never Ask to Spend the Night on a First Date - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2004 from Don DiebelThis article is based upon advice for your first date with single women. Here's a first date scenario that I will be covering. It goes like this: Your first date is going very well. There seems to be a lot of physical chemistry between you. You even exchange some passionate kisses during ...
Views: 4988 - It's Saturday Night... Home Alone Again? - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2004 from Giuditta TornettaIt’s Saturday night… Are you home alone again? How long has it been since you have been kissed? Loved? How long since you have felt those butterflies in your heart? We know you don’t need a relationship to feel whole, or complete. You simply would love to share the joy and sorrows of your ...
Views: 5108(1 vote) - Are you looking for love in all the wrong places? - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2012 from Talia ManaHow can you increase your chances of finding a love match? In this article I describe how simple attitudinal changes can improve your chances of finding and connecting with a mate. In the second part of the article on finding love I tell you where you can go to find a potential love ...
Views: 1457(1 vote) - How Living in the Past Can Effect Your Dating & Relationships With Single Women - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2004 from Don DiebelAre you living in the past? Do you keep thinking about a lost love in the past? Do you keep thinking about the good old days? If this describes you, then you are living in the past. Sometimes this can become all-consuming and it gets to a point where it interferes with the present and your ...
Views: 1633(1 vote) - Cut Cupid Some Slack! - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2004 from Stanley LeffewValentine's Day! What a great idea to set aside a day for remembering those we love. It's even more than just remembering; it's romancing. But it is also a holiday that many dread. Because of the romantic tradition of this holiday, many hearts feel isolated, alone and left out. Many dread ...
Views: 1052(1 vote) - Single in a Couples' World - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2004 from Thelma MarianoAdvertising for St. Valentine’s Day seemed more relentless than ever this year. Everywhere I turned, I saw candy hearts or jewelry glistening in store displays. Radio announcers drummed the message home through constant promotions of dinner for two. There was no one “special” in my life. I had ...
Views: 1044(1 vote) - No Bad Dates! - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2004 from Devlyn SteeleDo a Google search for “dates from hell”, and you just might crash their servers. There are tons of websites devoted to subject. One described a guy who talked about his ex-girlfriend all night, then drove by his ex’s house a few times because he was “concerned for her welfare”. Another told ...
Views: 1083(1 vote) - Why You Need a Plan to Succeed with Women - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2004 from Don DiebelTo succeed with women you must have a plan. You just can't leave things to chance and hope some gorgeous babe is going to drop out of the sky and jump your bones. You've got to come up with strategies to meet and approach single women. You can try all kinds of plans. Dating services, ...
Views: 1185(1 vote) - Warning Signs of Women Who Are Untrustworthy - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2004 from Don DiebelLet's talk about trust in a relationship. Mutual trust is very crucial in establishing a successful relationship. If you get involved with a woman you can't trust, this can cause some serious problems in your relationship. So, what are some of the warning signs that the woman you're dating ...
Views: 11344(2 votes) - The Top 10 Smoochy Love Songs - by Submitted on Jan 01, 2004 from Susan Dunn1. Lay Lady Lay - Bob Dylan 2. I Will Always Love You – Whitney Houston 3. Take My Breath Away – Berlin 4. Can’t Help Falling in Love With You, It’s Now or Never – Elvis 5. O Elizabeth - the Statler Brothers 6. Unchained Melody - the Righteous Brothers 7. Blue Velvet - Bobby Vinton 8. ...
Views: 4252(1 vote) - Why Not Average Joe: Exploring Melana's Choice - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2003 from Antoinette (Toni) ColemanAdmit it. You snickered, rolled your eyes and laughed out loud as the group of "Average Joes" filed out of their bus to meet Melana that first night. You probably thought "no way" as you settled in for a soap about a beautiful girl's rejection of the geeks. Indeed, Melana herself stated, ...
Views: 1840(1 vote) - How to Make New Year's Resolutions to Meet and Date More Women in 2004 - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2003 from Don DiebelA very important time for making beneficial changes in your love life and relationships with single women is coming up. And it will be a golden opportunity to turn your love life around. What is this special time? It's the upcoming New Year 2004. This is the perfect time to make resolutions ...
Views: 1227(1 vote) - Ten Great Holiday Dates - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2003 from Antoinette (Toni) ColemanDating during the holiday season can be a special treat. Of course, in order to fully experience this you may need to re-order some priorities and make time for yourself and your own personal needs. Don't give into the temptation to put your social life on hold until after the New Year. Manage ...
Views: 1469(1 vote) - What Should You Do if You're Stood Up for a Date? - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2003 from Don DiebelWhat Should You Do if You're Stood Up for a Date? Has this ever happened to you? You just meet this hot & sexy beautiful single woman and you agree to meet for dinner at a local restaurant. You're all pumped up to see this girl again and you're hoping this meeting will lead to some romance ...
Views: 5641(1 vote) - Dangers of Digital Dating - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2003 from LINDA ALEXANDERAs we enter the new millennium the Internet is evolving into a major meeting ground, one that affords us access to people all over the world and draws us daily into online relationships with individuals we have not yet met. An increasing number of people are using the Internet to meet and get ...
Views: 1298(1 vote) - What's Your Dating and Relationship IQ - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2003 from Kevin SkinnerIntelligence comes in many forms. In spite of this, however, our society focuses almost exclusively on academic intelligence. Think about it. When is the last time someone said, “John has really high relationship intelligence. He has a skill for listening and understanding people. He must have a ...
Views: 1645(1 vote) - Why a Dirty Car Can Cause Single Women Not Want to Date You - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2003 from Don DiebelListen up guys, I just can't stress to you enough how important it is to keep your car clean. Single women will judge you on how well your car looks on the inside and out. If your car is messy, dirty, and smells bad, it's going to make a bad impression on women. And...guess what happens when ...
Views: 4625(1 vote) - LOOKING FOR LOVE? Love starts with you - by Submitted on May 22, 2003 from Marguerite TennierYes, I know. You've heard it before. You can't love someone and you can't accept true love in your life unless you love yourself first. It does not apply to you, you say. You already love yourself. Well, do you? Or do you secretly fear that you will not be loved the way you want because you ...
Views: 1394(1 vote) - Top 10 Ways to Find Your Soul Mate - by Submitted on May 17, 2003 from Linda LovejoySingles are constantly wondering where to find their soul mate. Below are some helpful hints in finding your true love. 1. Ask your friends to set you up with any of their single friends or acquaintances that meets your specifications. Your friends are a great resource. They know you ...
Views: 2342(1 vote) - Opening Your Heart To Forgiveness: The Path To Manifesting The Right Relationship - by Submitted on May 02, 2003 from Nancy Pina“A man’s wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense.” Proverbs 19:11, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION Forgiveness is a gift you present to yourself. It is a release from the burden of anger and pain. When resolving to forgive, you choose to live in the present instead of ...
Views: 1370(1 vote) - A answer to lonliness after the Big "D" of death or divorce. - by Submitted on May 01, 2003 from Bob ChaunceyFor many who are happily married, they never think about the day... one day maybe not as far off as they have thought in the past... when they will again be single. What will they do, how will they adjust, who will be there to help them and how will they get over or thru it? These are all ...
Views: 1665(1 vote) - How to Get Women's Phone Numbers - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2003 from Don DiebelAfter you have made contact with a hot & sexy single woman you are attracted to and have talked and gotten to know each other, the best way to ask her for her phone is say, "Let's meet for lunch or dinner sometime, can I have your phone number?" Hopefully, you will get an immediate ...
Views: 16068(1 vote) - How To Resolve Relationship Conflicts - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2003 from Nancy PinaWhat blocks you from resolving conflicts? As difficult as it can be, finding a constructive manner in which to air grievances provides an open and honest relationship. Burying issues, and avoiding conflict and disagreements, do not have a place in a healthy relationship. Accept the fact that ...
Views: 5849(1 vote) - The Seven Stages of a Romantic Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2010 from Michelle CastoThere are seven stages in a romantic relationship: avoidance, meeting, dating, breaking up, establishing exclusivity, commitment, and keeping the love you find. Each of these stages vary in length and intensity. At each stage, there are thoughts and feelings telling you what to do and when to do ...
Views: 9165(4 votes) - Manifesting The Right Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2003 from Nancy PinaMost of us can describe superficial traits our ideal partner will possess; but have you explored what you value in a relationship? Relationships are driven by feelings. When you are with someone who makes you feel good about yourself, the relationship becomes stronger. Ask yourself how you ...
Views: 2479(1 vote) - Out of Sight, Out of Mind? Will He Remember You ... the Way You Want Him To? - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2003 from Susan DunnIf you've ever had a long-distance relationship with a guy, and lose ou t to a new woman he finds in his hometown, even though you two had a phenomenal relationship, you might find some new research interesting, hopefully even consoling. fMRI, functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging, lets ...
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