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Mike was completely stressed when he walked into my office last week. Taking a long drink of water, he slumped onto the big couch in my office and sighed.
“Coach,” he said. “I need to get out of my relationship.”
Mike is 38 years old and a successful screenwriter. Mike was also perpetually ... Views: 1093
I want to talk about that awkward moment at the end of a date when you're not sure on how to go about getting a kiss.
First of all, it's very important to know that some single
women have a rule that they don't kiss on the first date. I don't agree with this rule and think a kiss would be a ... Views: 2284
How to Survive – and Enjoy! – Your First Holidays On Your Own
The holidays for most of us are a mix of excitement, joy, celebration, as well as sadness, anxiety, and even emptiness. For those who are newly single, the holidays can feel especially empty, sad, and daunting. If this is the first ... Views: 1103
I logged on to a dating site the other day and was greeted by a large, flashing message. It promised that if I took the time to answer a series of questions that they would find a "perfect match" for me. Imagine that? All the work and worry of being single - gone! We truly have evolved! Not ... Views: 1035
Chapter 12
Great Dates
You know what I love about dating shows?
The producers, in an effort to make good TV, rack their brains to come up with really fun and interesting ways for a couple to interact.
Forget just meeting for coffee or a meal. They have them learn how to polka. Go to a ... Views: 950
Have you ever wondered why you keep meeting the “wrong” type of person? How do you attract the right person for you? Below are some simple steps to help you attract the perfect partner.
1.Take Excellent Care of Yourself
Not only does extreme self-care help you look and feel great but it keeps ... Views: 2142
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How to Tell What Single Women are Interested In
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Okay, you’ve scored a date with a sexy somebody for Saturday night, and you’re terrified you’re going to blow it. Don’t worry; if you follow these tips, you’ll do just fine. The bonus? None of them involves getting plastic surgery or renting a Jaguar for the evening.
1. The key to being a ... Views: 848
This week I want to talk about guys who are "Sports Potatoes." I know you're thinking, "What in the hell is a Sports Potato?"
Let me explain. I'm sure that you have heard of a "Couch Potato," which is a person that spends most of his time sitting on the couch watching TV. Well, a "Sports ... Views: 1455
But, what do I say?
One of my more pragmatic clients recently made the observation that whilst her self -esteem improved by our coaching, she wasn’t really getting better results when it came to meeting Mr. Right. It became clear the more attractive she found a man, the less likely she’d ... Views: 1997
Are You a "Sports Potato?"
This week I want to talk about guys who are "Sports Potatoes." I know you're thinking, "What in the hell is a Sports Potato?"
Let me explain. I'm sure that you have heard of a "Couch Potato," which is a person that spends most of his time
sitting on the couch ... Views: 1145
Okay, you’ve scored a date with a sexy somebody for Saturday night, and you’re terrified you’re going to blow it. Don’t worry; if you follow these tips, you’ll do just fine. The bonus? None of them involves getting plastic surgery or renting a Jaguar for the evening.
1. The key to being a ... Views: 2649
I'd like to tell you a story...
It's a story that you might find strangely familiar. Don't be alarmed.
Once upon a time, there was a man who was very attracted to a particular woman.
... Views: 814
If you listen to a group of attractive, single women talking alone over dinner or drinks, the topic will always turn to MEN.
And in most cases, it will eventually turn into a RANT session about how hard it is to find good men to date...
Which will lead to a FULL-ON RAG SESSION about ... Views: 3811
How Guys Screw Up First Dates ...OR...
"The One Thing NEVER To Do With A Woman" By David DeAngelo I get a lot of guys who write in to ask me how to behave around women. Many of those questions focus on the first meeting or the first date.
... Views: 2028
Here Are The Top TenReasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One OfThese Deadly Common Mistakes...By David DeAngeloMISTAKE#1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy” Haveyou ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be ... Views: 2307
Let me start off by telling you something interesting:
I've personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers. I've found that EMAIL addresses are far better (I still get the phone number too, of course).
... Views: 1375
First Date Dos
Dress well. For a first date (and, really, subsequent dates), choose clothes that make you feel beautiful, handsome, sexy, and free. This might seem like an obvious bit of advice, but your appearance can provide you with 'props' that aid the conversational flow and bolster your ... Views: 2171
1. When with a woman on a date, under no circumstances whatsoever, look at and flirt with other women. This is just plain rude and disrespectful. It's very degrading to a woman and makes her feel very unimportant. It really hurts their feelings, especially if she is attracted to you.
2. Don't ... Views: 5277
Every man should develop a mission statement for succeeding with single women. This will give you purpose, a plan for doing better with women, and motivate you to take action to seduce women.
Here's the mission statement that I recommend that you use:
1. I have supreme confidence in myself and ... Views: 1215
You want to meet the right person, but you’re too scared to do anything about it.
Introductions—sticking out one’s hand and looking another person in the eye—can be terrifying for the shy woman. The brain locks up as you scramble to think of something relevant to say. You fall apart as soon as ... Views: 1412
A-Makes you "Active" in your pursuit of women. You never pass up an opportunity to meet a new woman that interests you.
B-Expects you to be "Brave" and have the balls to approach women that you are interested in.
C-Wants you to be "Committed" to seducing as many women as you can.
D-Wants you ... Views: 1128
Facing Rejection
The huge obstacle for Shys is when they're either doing the rejecting or being rejected in a relationship. One of the possibilities in any new dating situation is that it's a potentially poor match. But for some Shys, this potential reality can become so threatening, they may ... Views: 1223
Have you been looking for love in all the wrong places?
In part 1 on finding love I described how simple attitudinal changes can improve your chances of finding and connecting with a mate. In the second part of the article I tell you where you can go to find a potential love ... Views: 2942
This article is based upon advice for your first date with
single women. Here's a first date scenario that I will be
covering. It goes like this:
Your first date is going very well. There seems to be a lot of physical chemistry between you.
You even exchange some passionate kisses during ... Views: 4988
It’s Saturday night… Are you home alone again? How long has it been since you have been kissed? Loved? How long since you have felt those butterflies in your heart?
We know you don’t need a relationship to feel whole, or complete. You simply would love to share the joy and sorrows of your ... Views: 5108
How can you increase your chances of finding a love match?
In this article I describe how simple attitudinal changes can improve your chances of finding and connecting with a mate. In the second part of the article on finding love I tell you where you can go to find a potential love ... Views: 1457
Are you living in the past? Do you keep thinking about a lost love in the past? Do you keep thinking about the good old days?
If this describes you, then you are living in the past. Sometimes this can become all-consuming and it gets to a point where it interferes with the present and your ... Views: 1633
Valentine's Day!
What a great idea to set aside a day for remembering those we love. It's even more than just remembering; it's romancing.
But it is also a holiday that many dread.
Because of the romantic tradition of this holiday, many hearts feel isolated, alone and left out. Many dread ... Views: 1052
Advertising for St. Valentine’s Day seemed more relentless than ever this year. Everywhere I turned, I saw candy hearts or jewelry glistening in store displays. Radio announcers drummed the message home through constant promotions of dinner for two. There was no one “special” in my life. I had ... Views: 1044
Do a Google search for “dates from hell”, and you just might crash their servers. There are tons of websites devoted to subject. One described a guy who talked about his ex-girlfriend all night, then drove by his ex’s house a few times because he was “concerned for her welfare”. Another told ... Views: 1083
To succeed with women you must have a plan. You just can't
leave things to chance and hope some gorgeous babe is going to drop out of the sky and jump your bones. You've got to come up with strategies to meet and approach single women. You can try all kinds of plans.
Dating services, ... Views: 1185
Let's talk about trust in a relationship. Mutual trust is very crucial in establishing a successful relationship.
If you get involved with a woman you can't trust, this can cause some serious problems in your relationship.
So, what are some of the warning signs that the woman you're dating ... Views: 11344
1. Lay Lady Lay - Bob Dylan
2. I Will Always Love You – Whitney Houston
3. Take My Breath Away – Berlin
4. Can’t Help Falling in Love With You, It’s Now or Never – Elvis
5. O Elizabeth - the Statler Brothers
6. Unchained Melody - the Righteous Brothers
7. Blue Velvet - Bobby Vinton
8. ... Views: 4252
Admit it. You snickered, rolled your eyes and laughed out loud as the group of "Average Joes" filed out of their bus
to meet Melana that first night. You probably thought "no way" as you settled in for a soap about a beautiful
girl's rejection of the geeks. Indeed, Melana herself stated, ... Views: 1840
A very important time for making beneficial changes in your
love life and relationships with single women is coming up. And it will be a golden opportunity to turn your love life around.
What is this special time? It's the upcoming New Year 2004.
This is the perfect time to make resolutions ... Views: 1227
Dating during the holiday season can be a special treat. Of course, in order to fully experience this you may need to re-order some priorities and make time for yourself and your own personal needs. Don't give into the temptation to put your social life on hold until after the New Year. Manage ... Views: 1469
What Should You Do if You're Stood Up for a Date?
Has this ever happened to you? You just meet this hot & sexy beautiful single woman and you agree to meet for dinner at a local restaurant.
You're all pumped up to see this girl again and you're hoping this meeting will lead to some romance ... Views: 5641
As we enter the new millennium the Internet is evolving into a major meeting ground, one that affords us access to people all over the world and draws us daily into online relationships with individuals we have not yet met. An increasing number of people are using the Internet to meet and get ... Views: 1298
Intelligence comes in many forms. In spite of this, however, our society focuses almost exclusively on academic intelligence. Think about it. When is the last time someone said, “John has really high relationship intelligence. He has a skill for listening and understanding people. He must have a ... Views: 1645
Listen up guys, I just can't stress to you enough how important it is to keep your car clean.
Single women will judge you on how well your car looks on the inside and out. If your car is messy, dirty, and smells bad, it's going to make a bad impression on women. And...guess what happens when ... Views: 4625
Yes, I know. You've heard it before. You can't love someone and you can't accept true love in your life unless you love yourself first. It does not apply to you, you say. You already love yourself.
Well, do you? Or do you secretly fear that you will not be loved the way you want because you ... Views: 1394
Singles are constantly wondering where to find their soul mate. Below are some helpful hints in finding your true love.
1. Ask your friends to set you up with any of their single friends or acquaintances that meets your specifications.
Your friends are a great resource. They know you ... Views: 2342
“A man’s wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense.”
Proverbs 19:11, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION
Forgiveness is a gift you present to yourself. It is a release from the burden of anger and pain. When resolving to forgive, you choose to live in the present instead of ... Views: 1370
For many who are happily married, they never think about the day... one day maybe not as far off as they have thought in the past... when they will again be single.
What will they do, how will they adjust, who will be there to help them and how will they get over or thru it? These are all ... Views: 1665
After you have made contact with a hot & sexy single woman you are attracted to and have talked and gotten to know each other, the best way to ask her for her phone is say, "Let's meet for lunch or dinner sometime, can I have your phone number?" Hopefully, you will get an immediate ... Views: 16068
What blocks you from resolving conflicts?
As difficult as it can be, finding a constructive manner in which to air grievances provides an open and honest relationship. Burying issues, and avoiding conflict and disagreements, do not have a place in a healthy relationship. Accept the fact that ... Views: 5849
There are seven stages in a romantic relationship: avoidance, meeting, dating, breaking up, establishing exclusivity, commitment, and keeping the love you find. Each of these stages vary in length and intensity. At each stage, there are thoughts and feelings telling you what to do and when to do ... Views: 9165
Most of us can describe superficial traits our ideal partner will possess; but have you explored what you value in a relationship? Relationships are driven by feelings. When you are with someone who makes you feel good about yourself, the relationship becomes stronger. Ask yourself how you ... Views: 2479
If you've ever had a long-distance relationship with a guy, and lose ou t to a new woman he finds in his hometown, even though you two had a phenomenal relationship, you might find some new research interesting, hopefully even consoling.
fMRI, functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging, lets ... Views: 1457