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- What’s Her Problem? - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederI met this girl online about 6 weeks ago and we clicked right away. We talked via the phone and internet for hours at a time almost every night. We even had live video sessions with each other so when she moved back into the area we met up face to face and she seemed to be interested in me. She ...
Views: 867 - The Problem: Inertia - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Dr. Dennis: I’ve read a number of your articles where you talk about having “game” (the ability to meet women, get numbers, etc.) Unfortunately, I don’t have any! I’m more of a home-type person who wants to get out and do more with life but a lot of times I find it difficult to do. It ...
Views: 925 - We Have Contact! - How to Make a Great First Impression Online - by What do you look for in an online profile when deciding whether to contact someone?
Is it easier or harder for men versus women to make the first move in online dating?
How do you maximize your odds of getting a positive response back from someone?
So much has been written about face-to-face ...
Views: 920 - The Girl at Work - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Dr. Neder: I have liked a woman at my work for sometime now. We were out with others from work one evening and I admitted to her how I felt after getting a little drunk. She was perfectly sober since she was the designated driver. At the same time, she told me that she was also attracted ...
Views: 941 - 5 Common Dating Mistakes Men Make - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2006 from Rod CortezShe was beautiful. She was popular. I wanted to walk up to her and say something clever so she would know that I liked her. I was different than all the jerks she went out with. So I walked up to Tina and told her that I liked her and that we should go out. She smiled and said "Why thank ...
Views: 3023 - Which is Best – Same or Different? - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederHey Doc: I have a question which might sound a bit unusual but; do relationships work best between people who are different or people who are similar? ============= Hello! Actually, as with so many things, it depends! Obviously, it's a good idea to have some things in common such as hobbies, ...
Views: 842 - Seven Ways to Ease Kids’ Anxiety When You Date - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2006 from Elizabeth YarnellWhen their parents date, it creates anxiety in children and teens. The changes and losses they have gone through often cause them to feel jealous and insecure. They may become uncooperative, withdrawn, and rebellious or over attached to you. Each child, depending on age and personality, will ...
Views: 871 - Dating and Relationship Tips - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2006 from Nishanth ReddySince Dating and Relationships are such a large, important part of everyday life, this article strives to help clear up myths from facts and present an overview of surrounding issues. Show Off – If you have a great body you’re trying to show off and young physical appearance, yet worry because ...
Views: 989 - Is your relationship moving from casual to serious? - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2006 from john waltzerHave you been dating since long? If the answer is yes, you may be moving from a casual relationship to a more serious one. Read on… You have been dating someone since long after a great find on an online adult dating, site. It may not have been a love at first sight kind of thing but ...
Views: 977 - The Relationship Mistake of Settling - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2006 from Gary CaineThere are generally two types of mindset when it comes to the prospect of being in a serious, loving relationship with someone. There are those who are quite content being independent and single, they perceive a relationship as a bonus, should someone special enter their life. They are quite ...
Views: 7008 - The Older Woman - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederHey Doc: I'm 21 years old and this girl that I've been talking to is turning 28 pretty soon. This girl has been really down on the dumps with personal problems, losing family members, etc. and we've been keeping each other "company" if you will. I want more than that however. I have a feeling ...
Views: 765 - Do You Think She Likes Me? - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederHi there, I'm 18 years old and I can't seem to get any friendly advice from anyone about this girl I like so maybe you can help me out! I met a girl over at the local community college this past week, and I can already tell that I'm developing a major crush on her! She is absolutely beautiful! ...
Views: 1150 - DATING ADVICE: Run, Dont Walk, Away - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2006 from Karen JonesIt’s no big deal, you tell yourself. You’ve started dating a guy you really like. He’s perfect in almost every way, but there have been a few signs that he’s got a bit of a temper. Just two or three minor episodes that showed you he can get pretty aggressive and impatient. You, however, ...
Views: 1612 - Falling in Love Too Fast - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2006 from Gary CaineThe feeling of falling in love is of the most exciting, thrilling and life changing events. Falling in love can change your entire outlook on life. Falling in love can occupy your mind and seem to take away all of life's problems. However, falling in love can bring about a serious problem of ...
Views: 32736(3 votes) - Going For The Kiss - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2006 from Stephen NashMailbag time gentlemen. This is where we take a particularly interesting question from someone that we feel challenges A LOT of guys out there. Today’s covers a particularly sensitive topic – how to go for the kiss. Most guys won’t admit it, but they fumble this moment like a rookie running ...
Views: 1315 - Once and For All – What Attraction REALLY Is… - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2006 from Stephen NashSo many words in our lexicon are tossed around with such a variety of meaning, that it’s a true wonder that we understand each other in this culture. This is PARTICULARLY true in the world of dating. One basic concept that you guys HAVE to grasp is the nature of ATTRACTION. Attraction, in ...
Views: 1461 - Just How Does A Guy Meet A Girl, Anyway? - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederHello Doc: I've never really known much of anything about dating. I'm 26 years old and I've never had a serious relationship. I feel like I've missed out on a lot of knowledge over the years and I feel like I'm sunk. Where can I go to meet people? How do I introduce myself when I find ...
Views: 922 - Talk is Cheap – Learn to Do It Right! - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Dr. Neder, I saw your articles on the Internet and was hoping that you would give me some advice. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me almost five months ago. He and I were friends for a few years before we dated, and we dated for about 11 months. What bothered him most (as far as he would ...
Views: 886 - Sexless Relationship, Missing Boyfriend - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Dennis, I met this incredible guy 6 months ago. He and I have much in common; we both work two jobs and I have two small children. Needless to say, our time is limited. We have not had sex yet because, (mostly by his request), we wanted to really get to know each other first instead of ...
Views: 1085 - Eight Great Dating Tips for Men - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2006 from Kevin UrbanDating tips for men wouldn’t seem like something you have to read about in an article; after all, you can ask your buddies for their advice, right? But perhaps that’s why so many of your buddies are still single. These days it seems like the rules of dating have become so complicated that the ...
Views: 1284 - DATING ADVICE: The Allure of the Unavailable Man - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2006 from Karen JonesYou’ve heard this story a bunch of times, right? Of perhaps lived it yourself? The irresistible man who sends mixed signals; one minute he’s crazy about you – calling and showering you with all kinds of attention. Then, when you find yourself succumbing to his charms, and let yourself ...
Views: 2433 - Getting Past Your Past - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederDr. Neder, I came across your articles on the Internet and thought I’d write for some advice. The short story is this: I was sexually abused throughout most of my younger years. Now, as I start to cope with this as a 32 year old man, I have found a 22 year old woman with whom I share many ...
Views: 867 - The 8 Reasons Why You Haven’t Found Your Mr. Right - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2006 from Michael MyerscoughThe statistics, in this case, don’t lie. By the age of 50, 27.6% of women are still single. That’s more than 1 in 4. Some of them of course, are not interested in finding a man as a life long partner – and if they’re genuinely happy, that’s fine. Although it does need to be a genuine wish to ...
Views: 3138(2 votes) - Dating Rights Verse Dating Responsibilities - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederHello Dennis, You have always been very helpful to me in the past and I was wondering if you could help me out with this situation I've encountered. My girlfriend smoked cigarettes for over 10 years but stopped. When we started dating I made it clear that I cannot date a smoker as I find the ...
Views: 994 - Find What Makes You Happy - by Submitted on May 31, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederHi I recently came across your article on “sabotaging relationships” through an Internet search and I really found it helpful. I’m writing to you because of my current situation. I am 31 years old and have grown up in a very religious community. Everything is judged superficially; family, ...
Views: 1694 - I Don’t Want to Look Like an Idiot! - by Submitted on May 24, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederHey Doc! I work with this girl I really like and I talk to her every time we have a chance. She is the reason why I still stay at my job. She is funny and she makes me have a fun time whenever we work together, but I don't know if she likes me. First off, she has a boyfriend, but it seems she ...
Views: 948 - How to Approach Women – 3 Actions To Remove Your Fear - by Submitted on May 18, 2006 from Michael MyerscoughThe market is flooded with how to approach women books. The 5 signs she’s ready to talk to you. The 33 ways to get her out on a date. The 1.5 billion ways to seduce women. I don’t know about you, but I used to read this stuff and feel intimidated to even think about using it to approach women. ...
Views: 2307 - Moving On and Knowing That You’ve Moved On - by Submitted on May 17, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederI really am in need of some real help I am a 19 year old man Last year I moved away from my first love who I dated for a year. I don't believe that I ever got over her. I went through a great deal of pain and grieved so much but I’m finding it tough to move on. I don’t understand how a person ...
Views: 927 - Should I Call to Confirm a Date? - by Submitted on May 03, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederHey Dr. Dennis! I get this a lot - I get a phone number from a girl, call, try and set a date and the chick says something like, "Yeah Thursday sounds good. I may have a girlfriend coming into town so let's play it by ear. Give me a call Thursday." Basically, it's her way of saying... "Maybe, ...
Views: 1295 - DATING ADVICE: Ditch the Scarcity Mentality (“There Are No Good Men”) to Find a Good Man - by Submitted on May 02, 2006 from Karen JonesI’ve noticed a tendency in many of my coaching clients above the age of 35. Many of these women are falling into the danger zone of believing there are no good men out there. Or at the very least, nowhere near enough of them. “Scarcity mentality” is a bad place to hang out. As Norman ...
Views: 3418 - Dating Conversation – The Secret To Getting More Dates - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2006 from Michael MyerscoughDating conversation - it’s critical if you want to get more dates. It doesn’t matter if you’re introducing yourself for the first time, if you’re on your first date or if you’re trying to turn your date into a relationship – if you haven’t got the chat, you haven’t got a chance. It’s Not Body ...
Views: 913 - It’s the Choices You Make Now - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederHi Dr. Neder! I am 18 years old and just about to graduate high school. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 14 months now and I am not sure what to do after high school. My parents are going to provide us with an apartment but should I move in with her? I was reading your 10 ways ...
Views: 969 - Finding Your Soulmate - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2006 from Dr. Carolyn PorterFinding Your Soulmate As a wholeness coach, I so often hear the rather desperate sounding comments of clients who want to find their soulmate, even amongst those who are presently married. (obviously unhappily) Most individuals long for companionship, someone with whom to share their life, ...
Views: 1591(5 votes) - Removing the Mystery of Sending Flowers - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2006 from R FOrdering flowers has long been surrounded with uncertainty, mystery and even fear. Will my flower delivery be fresh? How do I choose the right bouquet? Is a floral arrangement even appropriate? Here's everything you need to know to remove the mystery from flower delivery. Why Hesitate to Buy ...
Views: 1080 - Where to Start Learning “The Game” - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederI get a lot of “beginner” questions from men about dating, relationships, sex and “the game” in general. Actually, that’s a very good thing! It shows that guys are really trying to learn what it takes to become better players – and ultimately better partners for the women we love. So, how do ...
Views: 856 - Traditional Dating and Internet Dating - The Pros and Cons - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2006 from Marvin PerryTraditional dating and Internet dating - The Pros and Cons If you are currently single and you want to position yourself for the dating circuit, you must first reflect on what type of dating you prefer to attempt. In this contemporary and technological age, there are two styles of dating to ...
Views: 6086 - Loneliness: toothache of the soul - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2006 from Jack ZavadaLoneliness is one of life's most miserable experiences. Everyone feels lonely at times, but is there a message for us in loneliness? Is there a way that we can turn it into something positive? Sometimes loneliness is a temporary condition that lifts in a few hours or a couple days. But when ...
Views: 1342 - Flirting Body Language – Recognise It, Learn It & Win More Dates - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2006 from Michael MyerscoughYou know that flirting body language is key to being able to get dates. So let me to tell you how to: 1. Recognise some of the key flirting signs 2. Start to learn to use flirting body language yourself 3. Get more dates as a result Flirting Body Language – Key Signs Let’s cut to the chase. ...
Views: 979 - The Dirty Dancing Love Lie - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2006 from David LevineAnyone who reads the entertainment section knows how quickly celebrity relationships rise and fall. And when we watch the movies, we all know that these relationships aren't real. So why do we keep comparing our relationships to theirs? Because of the major lies that Hollywood has led us into ...
Views: 891 - Grow Yourself, Grow Your Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederDr. Neder, Hi, I am very interested in your help on this. I met my girlfriend freshman year in high school for the first time. We are currently in our junior year of high school and we have been going out for almost four months. We talk about how we will always be together and how we are ...
Views: 1007 - Dating Advice: Don’t Settle for Less Than You Want - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2006 from Karen JonesMy single coaching clients often ask me what is okay to want in their life mate. My simple answer is “Nothing is too much to ask for!” In my opinion, that is a KEY component to ending up in a relationship that will last a lifetime. Sure, plenty of women settle and end up married. But need I ...
Views: 4265 - After Divorce: Seven Ways to Rediscover Your True Passion - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2006 from Joanie WinbergGoing through a divorce is a very challenging time in a person’s life. It is hard to adjust to being single again, as well as living “out of the habit” of being married, especially if you have been married for many, many years. Eventually, you begin to think about dating, but it is suggested ...
Views: 1103 - 21 First-Rate Cheap Date Ideas - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2006 from R FThese cheap date ideas are by no means second-rate. If you're a real romantic, you know that romantic living need not be expensive. Rather, it's simple, but a little involved as you'll see in these 21 cheap romantic date ideas. What makes a date romantic is not how extravagant the price tag is ...
Views: 25131(6 votes) - First Date Conversations that Get You Second Dates - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2006 from Michael MyerscoughFirst date conversations are like great opening lines in a book… …their only purpose is to get you to read the next line. Or in the case of dating, the whole reason for creating great first date conversations is to get you that second date. Or at least to the stage where it's you (and not ...
Views: 2683 - Interviewing For the Love of Your Life - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederYou probably had to interview in order to get your job. This interview process is an extremely important part of being hired because it tells the employer many things about you – how well you think on your feet, how well thought out your answer to questions are, how you present yourself, etc. ...
Views: 816 - Dating Advice: Don’t Settle for Less Than You Want - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2006 from Karen JonesMy single women coaching clients often ask me what is okay to want in their life mate. My simple answer is “Nothing is too much to ask for!” In my opinion, that is a KEY component to ending up in a relationship that will last a lifetime. Sure, plenty of women settle and end up married. But ...
Views: 1321 - Dating Advice: 5 Biggest Internet Dating Mistakes - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2006 from Trisha StoneDating after a divorce is tough. You don’t quite know where to start so here are a few internet dating mistakes and their solutions. 1. Too much too soon So you have been ploughing through those endless profiles on your internet dating site and have come up with someone who interests you. ...
Views: 835 - The Magic of the Approach - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederHave you ever seen a magician at a party walking around doing close-up magic? Everyone seems fascinated by it – even if the magician isn’t that good. There are probably just as many people hoping the performer will flop as those that are fascinated by it. This brings me to an interesting way to ...
Views: 884 - Dating Success Secrets: 10 Lessons to Spice Up Your Social Life - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2006 from April MasiniIf you are ready to start winning in the dating world, follow this simple strategy for success: Lesson 1: First Impressions They are immediate, long lasting, and usually permanent. Regardless of how great you are, and no matter how sweet you can be once someone gets to know you, the reality ...
Views: 2406 - The Three Keys to the Cold Approach - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2006 from Dr. Dennis NederDo you find it difficult to approach women you don’t know? Most guys do so don’t feel alone. I’m going to give you the three keys that’ll make the cold approach easy, fun and very, very profitable. Key #1 – Practice talking to everyone, everywhere If the only time you try to talk to strangers ...
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