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The Truth About Anger.
Ever wonder what anger is really all about? Ever wonder why it is that some people just get under your skin? Ever wonder why you seem to have the shortest fuse with those people you love the most?
Well ¡KI have pondered all of these questions. Yes, sometimes because of ... Views: 2323
Saying sorry is one of the hardest things to do in this world. Sometimes, even the two words, “I’m sorry,” are not enough to express what we truly feel. Learning how to say I’m sorry is definitely a creative process. From expensive gifts to hand-written letters, the ... Views: 2895
Anger comes from the Latin word, angere, which means "to strangle." Anger strangles us on a number of different levels. It is the emotion which is probably the most familiar to the majority of us. A consistent finding in those who have low self-esteem, migraines, ulcers, heart attacks, substance ... Views: 25248
You’re thinking your life is wonderful, no current crisis is on the horizon, no big decisions to make, everything seems to be rocking along. Then, out of the blue, something happens in five minutes, your world is turned upside down, you have to make some instant decisions. Your emotions ... Views: 1194
The Joint Commission on the Accreditation of Health Care Organizations is requiring new standards for “disruptive behavior” among professional healthcare staff. Disruptive physician behavior has been determined to increase medical errors and risk patient safety. These new requirements have ... Views: 3109
Everybody has trials and tribulations. Life takes its toll on all of us at some point of time or the other. We get angry, depressed, frustrated and miserable. Everyday is not a Sunday or a fun day for that matter. But that’s life and the sooner we accept that the better.
Why do I feel ... Views: 1644
We are all emotional beings. We may experience emotions in varying levels of intensity but nobody can deny having emotions. Recognizing and understanding emotions is of paramount importance in our personal lives and interactions with others.
Emotional Intelligence is a relatively new concept in ... Views: 1229
Feelings and emotions just happen to us. We cannot rid ourselves of them. All we can do is control the way they influence our lives. The same rule applies to anger. We cannot wish it away but we can manage the way it powers our lives and those around us.
Anger ranges from anything between a ... Views: 1314
It seems only common sense to make sure that awareness is at the very foundation of our self-protection studies. And, while this is a given for most people, I've found that the majority tend to focus only on watching for actual dangers.
What I mean is...
...everyone is watching for the ... Views: 1312
I read A Path with a Heart by Jack Kornfield several years ago and one story that never left me was a Buddhist exercise in which you are to imagine that everyone around you, from your friends, family and coworkers to the person next in line at the grocery story, is an enlightened Buddha and they ... Views: 1362
There is a new study by Dr. Redford Williams at Duke University and Dr. Robert Sapolsky at Stanford University demonstrating that anger, rage and hostility have a very damaging effect on the cardiovascular system. There is so much evidence that hostility is harmful that it is considered a major ... Views: 1368
“The mind is its own place, and in itself
Can make a Heav’n of Hell, a Hell of Heav’n.
John Milton Paradise Lost
Much of the time you are what you think. Your thoughts whether positive or negative define how your day will go. Catching and breaking into negative thoughts is ... Views: 1582
Do you experience extreme feelings of frustration? Do you see red when something doesn’t go your way? Do you get aggressive and agitated easily? Well, if the answer is yes then you are a potential candidate for anger management classes, but to be sure let’s take a simple test.
Click on this ... Views: 1978
Anger in mums is universal. If you were to ask any mother they would more often then not tell you that motherhood has brought up some unwanted anger issues.
Sometimes it feels as if anger creeps up on you from behind, and over silly things too. I mean how important is a bit of food up your ... Views: 2501
New research may indicate that people who have higher levels of irritability or anger in response to mental stress may have a reduced oxygen supply to the heart. The findings suggest that anger may be a risk factor for heart disease and heart attacks.
Given these findings, it is important ... Views: 5640
I applaud Andrew Johnston, 13 year old contestant on ‘Britain’s Got Talent 2008 Show’, for having the courage to admit to 12 million people across the nation that he was being bullied because of the love of his passion……..singing opera.
I want to let Andrew Johnston know that it is absolutely ... Views: 1726
Question:
The narcissist is not entirely responsible for his actions. Should we judge him, get angry at him, be upset by him? Above all, should we communicate to him our displeasure?
Answer:
The narcissist knows to tell right from wrong. He is perfectly capable of anticipating the results of ... Views: 1492
Everybody experiences anger at some point of time or the other. A certain degree of anger is normal and healthy. However, if it gets out of control you can harm not only yourself but also those you come into contact with. Anger is probably the most real of all human emotions. It can increase ... Views: 3119
Before Anger, Pain and Fear
Before we strike out with such a powerful reflex response, we are always feeling hurt or threatened in some way. The situation, which triggers our reflex anger, is often just the last straw, the final stress, the last ripple to overwhelm and sink an already tired ... Views: 1379
Anger is one of the four primary emotions and has a very good purpose of alerting us to our boundaries being crossed by others. It serves us well when it's expressed in a healthy way. However, when anger becomes screaming, ranting, raving, or becoming physical with another person, you may have a ... Views: 1777
If you have decided to take your pet along on vacation, then you have probably started a list of things to take along. Have you started a list of things to leave at home? Packing for a trip can be nerve racking. There is no reason to take along excess items or items that may cause problems ... Views: 1190
When dog training comes to mind, lots of people think about tricks or dog shows. Both behaviors are evidence of training, but training goes further than a show. If you keep your pet indoors, then you have already gone through one step of training: housetraining. Could you imagine having a ... Views: 1309
The same way that none of us can choose whom we live with, we also can't choose who we live next to. Whether we like it or not, there is no one solution on how to deal with bad neighbors. We might not even know it, but the feeling could be mutual.
Want to know how to deal with bad neighbors ... Views: 1574
"Yvonne you are a wonderful instrument in helping individuals to move closer to who they are in truth. I applaud you. Thanks for your ongoing assistance in helping to move humanity in this direction". This comment came to me in an email from one of my coaching clients.
Here is another email ... Views: 1265
Many people are joyously singing “Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me.” I love that song and I totally believe in what it is telling us. I am convinced that when we human beings who inhabit this world experience inner peace, then, and only then will we actualize long ... Views: 1718
We all get angry at times and it’s perfectly normal. But some of us have a tendency to lose control over ourselves when we get really angry, and this is a serious problem. If you have an anger problem, people will think you’re very strong, formidable and dangerous. But the irony is that, it’s ... Views: 1841
In a perfect world, there would be no con artists. No liars. No thieves. And no one would have to feel the anger and sadness that comes with getting taken advantage of. Of course, the world is not perfect and people are mistreated everyday. Fair? No. Reality? Yes.
That’s why it’s imperative ... Views: 4205
April Fools' Day is a day marked by the carrying out of practical jokes of varying degree on friends, enemies, colleagues, and neighbors. While most April Fools' Day pranks are taken in stride, there will always be some that elicit very strong emotional reactions. Feelings of shame and ... Views: 3216
Have you ever met someone who seems to have fantastic, supportive relationships at work? How do they create such thriving and fulfilling relationships with coworkers? Are great relationships based on a skill you can learn? New research has discovered a key element which helps relationships ... Views: 9980
Getting angry is a completely normal human response. However, it can occur in various degrees and frequencies, which is why managing anger is also important.
There are times when the emotion can be excessive or uncontrolled, in the sense that you can be affected even after issues have long ... Views: 879
By Ari Novick, Ph.D.
Anger management has become a huge buzz over the last few years. While the term was coined back in 1975 by researcher and University of California at Irvine professor Raymond Novaco, the interventions have been hard to define. So what is anger management anyway? More ... Views: 877
So, by now you know that the law of attraction is a Great Secret of Life.
What is the law of attraction? Simply put, the law of attraction states that “Like attracts like.” What this universal law tells you about your own life is that the thoughts you think, feelings you feel, ... Views: 1523
Releasing your anger may be easier said than done, especially if your anger is so intense that forgetting about it is virtually impossible to do. Nevertheless, no matter how you justify your anger, you have to let your anger go.
You have to cut the invisible black cord that connects you to the ... Views: 891
Anger help management comes very useful since habitual behavior is very difficult to treat or change. It would be better for individuals develop and maintain progress if they are properly monitored and handled by a support group or another individual. It can also be attained through a variety of ... Views: 740
If you feel like a volcano is about to explode in your head, get a grip on yourself and realize that there are at least three ways to control your anger: You can either express your anger, suppress it or calm yourself down. Whatever you choose, it will help you control your anger.
Expressing ... Views: 912
I get comments and inquiries about how to successfully look for a job. Most of the people who contact me do not focus on what they want. They are often ANGRY! They’re angry at themselves, the world around them, the economy, etc. It’s as if any place, person or idea is a target for a job ... Views: 1135
You know you’re only hurting yourself by being angry and yet you can’t stop the feeling from boiling inside you. What do you do? Try anger management. Yes, you can do anger management even if it feels like a bomb is about to explode from deep inside you.
First, whatever it is ... Views: 1150
We compromise every day. With every moment, with every thought. Should I do this or that? Should I go here or there? If we didn't compromise, we would not consider choices, and if we didn't consider choices, then we would be less than animals, and we wouldn't survive. Making compromises reflects ... Views: 962
Letting go of anger is not easy. Anger seizes you like a demon has come to possess your mind. No matter how hard you try to resist it, it clings to every fiber of your being like glue. Despite knowing that you’re only torturing yourself, you continue doing it.
That’s the ghastly ... Views: 2543
"When I was first diagnosed with fibromyalgia, I actually felt relief," shares Cindy. "I had been trying to find a reason for my pain and it finally was acknowledged as being something physical not mental." Cindy goes on to explain, "It wasn't until months later that I started getting ... Views: 1827
Understanding what happens when a person verbally attacks is the key to knowing how to respond to them. The hardest situations are ones where there have been ongoing attacks for a long period of time. We all know this by its common name, verbal abuse. There are two sides that we need to look at ... Views: 1356
Have you ever said something in the heat of anger that you have regretted later? Does this behavior confuse you? If so, you aren't the only one. This article offers steps that you can take for living your life with fewer regrets and feeling more peace and happiness in the process. Find the ... Views: 1193
Being judgmental is being angry.
Fear, the basis of anger, is always connected with the past or future. If you can look deeply within and find what it is that you fear, whether it is God, living up to some kind of ideal, fearing ideas different from yours, or people that are different from you, ... Views: 1034
Anger may cause troubles to your health. It may increase your blood pressure and sometimes you may feel guilty after hurting the other person. Yet you can control your anger by following some tips. You can calm down yourself by taking deep breathe. You just breathe out thinking that you are ... Views: 934
Anger is neither good nor bad! It is simply energy.
It is your natural emotional energy that arises when you feel like something (or someone) is blocking you from getting what you need or want. For this purpose, anything on the frustration to rage continuum is considered anger.
Without making ... Views: 2886
Perhaps many friends have experienced a deep feeling of regret for making wrong decisions when in angry situation. we come to realize it is so different to make decisions in peaceful state and in argry state. A win-win decision is welcome and great if we can try to take actions or make decisions ... Views: 1301
People like to tell me now and then that I am narcissistic. Yet I see myself as kind and generous. You might say I am in “denial,” about being a loving person, but there is actually some evidence to back up my perception of myself. I have a long history of “loving too ... Views: 3742
Life can be a beautiful thing, but if we don’t understand life, we might end up fighting it. More often than not, it’s you and I against the world. Making a living, holding on to our relationships, to our wealth, our political and spiritual beliefs, these can become monumental struggles. Worry ... Views: 977
We will never succeed at changing ourselves by trying to change ourselves directly. We must do it indirectly. By indirectly means merely watching our anger instead of trying to rid ourselves of it, because attempts to aggressively change ourselves into something we wish ourselves to be results ... Views: 1106
One of the bases of temper control is a good attitude. A good attitude towards temper control can make it easier to build a good temper entirely. At the same time, all the matured persons almost all have a correct and good attitude.
Tag: temper control, good temper, attitude towards temper ... Views: 7331