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You may hear people say, “I hate myself.” A lot of them do not really mean it. However, there are others who do, and they are truly dead serious about it. The last person you should learn to hate is yourself. After all, it opens a whole lot of ... Views: 2880
Finding the love of your life can be a daunting challenge these days, without having a little help! Most singles on a conscious path are relatively happy and content with their lives; however, they would usually prefer to be in a loving, spiritual partnership with a person that enhances their ... Views: 2873
Excuses are your way of avoiding to do what you need to do to succeed. Often excuses are legitimate reasons for why you won’t do what is necessary. To succeed and progress, you need to eliminate as many excuses as possible. Until your excuses are eliminated they remain as insurmountable barriers ... Views: 2871
There are a few individuals who are unable to walk or that have a tough time attempting to walk up and down the stairs inside of their house. Instead of trying to pick up their lives and move from one place they call home they need simply to get something which will give them the freedom they ... Views: 2866
As part of your spiritual refinement, you might seek to eliminate the character flaws that affect your life most negatively and to add as many good traits as possible, since all good traits affect your life positively. Only a clear perception of the exquisite worth of your spiritual traits will ... Views: 2866
One of the mottoes that I like to live by goes something like this:
“Leave the world a better place than you found it; your community a better home than when you arrived and others happier than when you met them.”
This is the message that I hope that my kids will live by. It is simple and can ... Views: 2863
Stress it's all around us, most people feel the effects of it but do we really understand what it does to the body? Let's take a closer look at stress. Stress is linked to a number of illnesses or conditions from which our populations suffers including insomnia, eating disorders (eg., obesity ... Views: 2861
We all have our favorite foods. For me, freshly baked bread and scones top the list. And for some of us, once we start eating these foods, we can’t stop. It’s as if they’re calling to us. Before we know it, we’ve eaten the whole carton of ice cream, or polished off the entire bag of cookies. ... Views: 2859
Husband Loses Temper Over Little Things: My Husband Gets Angry At The Smallest Things
Understanding men is often made out to be something that only occurs if you spend a lot of time communicating with men. That's true, but it's also affected by the type of communication; typically in a ... Views: 2859
Having a tough time deciding on what persuasive speech topics to talk about? Don’t sweat it. In this article, you’ll discover some amazing tips to easily find persuasive speech topics that will keep your audience listening to your every word.
First, you must know your target ... Views: 2858
The other night I was having a little bit of an "off" day. I had a feeling of frustration and anger that was lingering inside me that I couldn't seem to shake off. It was really affecting my interactions with people, friends, family, and my emotions start to set in.
1. Knowing
The first ... Views: 2843
Guilt exists as a fabricated emotion. It holds little or no realness. It's hard to call it a real emotion.
You see, a real emotion is one that has both a positive and a negative side.
Love, fear, hate, anger, sadness, happiness and so many other emotions all have both a positive and a ... Views: 2841
Keep in mind that having a healthy self-esteem does not mean conceit. It also does not mean that you never doubt or have low points in your life.
Here are 7 common traits of people that have a healthy level of self-esteem ….
Confident
A person with healthy self esteem is confident in the ... Views: 2839
Everybody has blind spots.
You have certain tendencies that you are not aware of but others can see. These are your blind spots, and they often cause big problems.
You may not want to accept that your life style is responsible for your high cholesterol and that you are courting a heart attack. ... Views: 2839
Aromatherapy is derived from the ancient practice of using natural plant essences to promote health and well-being. It consists of the use of pure essential oils obtained from a wide assortment of plants, which have been steam distilled or cold-pressed from flowers, fruit, bark and roots. The ... Views: 2838
Recently I wrote about women who were attracted to the wrong men, and I discussed one woman in particular that I knew who was drawn to a criminal. I received so many comments about that short article that I decided to write a slightly more in-depth sequel, asking the question “Why?” Why do ... Views: 2837
Angel Amarushaya reminds us that blessings come in many shapes and forms; for example, through family members, neighbors, teachers and pets. She asks you to count your blessings every day. When was the last time you did? Count your blessings, that is. If you are wading in self pity and do not ... Views: 2832
I was walking down the road this morning & different thoughts, ideas, scenarios kept flashing across my mind. I was thinking about my family, wife, son, mentors, friends, work, in-laws etc. After so many thoughts, i came up with this topic ‘True courage is fighting/facing your battles ... Views: 2832
In the Narada Bhakti Sutra, a popular Sutra in Hindu tradition, the sage Narada shares the secrets to overcome maya. In essence, maya is the unreal that hides the Real. It is the sum total of all the illusions, glamours and projections that hide our Real Self – our Eternal Self or God Self, also ... Views: 2831
Far too many people are trying to do more to be happy instead of trying to be more. Those who seek more peace and happiness in their lives describe what they "do" in a normal day as feeling overwhelmed and unable to get a handle on their lives. When I write the word do on a white board for each ... Views: 2830
Have you attempted to break family patterns (like improving yourself by going to college) and met with resistance? Perhaps you developed an innovative approach to solve a problem at work only to be told “That’s not how we do things here.” If so, don’t despair. Here is a little story in honor of ... Views: 2830
The internet has been a wonderful thing, enabling information sharing and a host of other activities to effortlessly take place. However, like all good things, the internet has a downside – one that can ruin lives and destroy families. It’s called Internet Addiction.
As a Hollywood therapist ... Views: 2829
If you were to walk up to a person on the street and ask him what he believed the difference was between illness and health, chances are that you would likely receive a fast reply about how health is when the body works correctly and illness is when it does not.
When one begins to suffer the ... Views: 2829
All of us can benefit from tips that will create successful outcomes to any negotiation whether it's with our boss, spouse, or prospective business partner. Here are some sure winners for your next negotiation.
Whether you realize it or not, we’re negotiating all the time with our spouses, ... Views: 2829
The following case-study about healing mood swings demonstrates what can be achieved by practicing the simple self-help practice higher-consciousness healing as described in Tara’s book The Five-Minute Miracle.
Tilly (54 years) had been a counselor for decades when she came to see me ... Views: 2828
The holiday season is officially upon us. The history of this special time of the year is one of gratitude and giving. 'Tis the season to be Jolly, right?
For many, the modern holiday season is often marked by stress and anxiety, strain and worry, apprehension and insecurity. Dreaming of ... Views: 2828
You probably know about the fear of failure. The fear of falling short and not wanting to appear as weak or ineffective. Not wanting to let others down. It can hold you back and keep you from taking risks.
It’s what I call a first level fear. One that with some effort you are able to ... Views: 2825
A hot topic in the media currently is work/life balance, as if we all understand exactly what that means. And we think we do, as we knowingly nod agreement at the latest pundit's advice on gaining a balanced life.
What is a balanced life?
It may be easier to tell you what it isn't. A ... Views: 2824
By reaching out to others, helping, caring, and giving of yourself freely without any thought of personal gain, you will become a better and much happier person-and your impact will be felt forever. Like the ripple made when you cast a stone into water, the ripple effect you create by helping ... Views: 2822
Custom Android Tablet Firmware is a latest alternative of firmware. Various table computers and smart phones are using it based on Android operating system. It offers new features and options that are not in the official android tablet firmware. The custom android tablet firmware is in use now ... Views: 2815
A recent article in a business magazine asked the question "If theeconomy is doing so well, why does everyone feel so bad?"
There are a lot of very sophisticated answers to this question like"jobs are moving out of the county, there is a war in Iraq, the cost ofliving is rising, etc, etc." I ... Views: 2811
Trying to decide what to buy Grandma and Grandpa for their birthday? Consider a board game, a puzzle or good book. Why? Current research shows that daily participation in puzzles and board games such as chess, challenge the mind and might also delay onset of dementia-related memory decline in ... Views: 2810
The meaning of dreams was discovered by the psychiatrist Carl Jung, after conducting very arduous research. All dreams have a therapeutic function and are produced by the unconscious mind. The unconscious mind organizes the functioning of our body and sends us protective dream messages in a ... Views: 2810
Do you sometimes experience one of those terrible, horrible, no good, very bad days like the hero of the Judith Viorst book? The kind of day when it feels impossible to break out of a rotten mood, and everything seems to go wrong?
The next time you are feeling out of sorts, take out your ... Views: 2810
10 Medical reasons to go vegan
By Laura Farrell RN
Longevity- Vegans live longer, why? We will see as we examine each disease process on this list. Catherine Hagel -114 year old VEGETARIAN, despite her advanced age, she took no medications. Loreen Dinwiddie 108 year old Vegan, Missi Devi ... Views: 2806
The more you learn about things you're interested in, the more fresh and fun ideas you'll have to mull over in your pursuit of your Core Desires. You'll continually be looking for things to help you be a better parent, salesperson, businessperson, doctor, lawyer, accountant, or PR person. You'll ... Views: 2806
It’s essential to be able to distinguish the difference between our subconscious experiences and our superconscious experiences. Subconscious experiences are related to the physical body whereas superconscious experiences consist of sense-free thinking. For example the concept of “circle” has no ... Views: 2805
In this article I'd love to show you how you can go about changing the thoughts that dominate your life. You might not like what I'm about to share with you, you might love it, either way you'll learn a powerful way to change your life just by focusing on what you think about, day in and day ... Views: 2804
Mental illnesses include all such ailments wherein there is any kind of mental disorder that affects the normality of a person. Mental disorders can be of several types and can vary from a mild condition to a severe one. A person suffering from such disorders usually loses the ability to think ... Views: 2804
So you want to be successful, healthy, happily married, and rich? Do you feel like a successful, healthy, happily married, accepted, rich person? Or do feelings of resistance, frustration, anxiety, insecurities and deceit shadow you? Are you still feeling needy, lost, rejected and deprived? Do ... Views: 2801
Today turned out to be one of those textbook beautiful days. The sun is shining, the breeze is blowing softly and the temperature is just right -- the perfect day. Even with all the challenges I have to face, I still look up at the sky and smile as the clouds chase one another across a ... Views: 2801
Going through a major life change (transition) is tough. Sometimes the transition is of your choosing (quitting your job to start your own business, having a baby, moving to a new home), and other times it's not (the death of a loved one, getting laid off, divorce). Whether you choose the ... Views: 2794
On this page you will discover sound self-help guidance to be of assistance in working through your troubles and getting the level of accomplishment that you desire. The strategies provided in this article will teach you to hone in on potential problems just before they get out of palm and ... Views: 2793
In order for an individual to detect that a person is telling a lie, the person needs to understand the psychology of lying to know the reason behind the act.
In fact, having knowledge on the psychology of lying can help you become more observant to the different signs of lying, as well as the ... Views: 2793
In the event you and your spouse are celebrating 3 years of marriage this year why not splash out on romantic traditionally themed anniversary gifts? 3rd anniversary gifts are traditionally suppose to get made out of leather. So personalised leather bags are actually spectacular 3rd anniversary ... Views: 2791
What does saying yes have to do with saying no? After all, they are opposite statements, meaning diametrically opposing things. We are “supposed” to say yes to friends, family, loved ones and especially...the Universe! Isn't that the secret behind the Secret? And we should say no to things like ... Views: 2789
Imagine what life would be like if you learned how to utilise your self-pitying states of mind by transforming them into powerful resources instead. Could this be possible?
So called negative states of mind such as loneliness, frustration and despair are neutralised, changed or eliminated with ... Views: 2780
At least once a week I get a call or e-mail from someone who tells me they bought a book to set up the feng shui in their home but that instead of being helpful these books have left them feeling confused and frustrated. Just when they think they understand what the author is saying they read ... Views: 2778
THE FULLY-FUNCTIONING PERSON
The Fully-Functioning Person, according to Gestalt Therapy, is one who self-actualizes himself by freeing himself from what prevents him to live life to the fullest. In order to do so it is vital that he develops his Self-Awareness:
1) Gets in touch with his ... Views: 2778
In the book describing the fabulous tales of Baron Munchhausen, there is a story about how the legendary nobleman succeeded to pull himself out of a quicksand marsh – by his own hair. Such a miracle is not likely to recur. Narcissists cannot cure themselves any more than other mental patients ... Views: 2777