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"Now and then it's good to pause in the pursuit of happiness and just be happy" Guillame Apollinaire (French Novelist)
So you want to be happy and you try to just let it happen but sometimes it seems too hard to do. What you need are a few simple steps that happy people follow.
1. Firstly, ... Views: 729
You may well have heard those words before - ‘Boys don’t cry’, ‘Boys shouldn’t cry’.
Whilst growing up, I was very fortunate to be raised in a stable, loving family; a lot of us may have experienced something similar. However, many of us may have experienced something completely different – ... Views: 729
The central teaching of mysticism is that Everything is One, whereas from the side of rationalism the universe is Multiple. The essence of the mystical tradition is not a particular philosophical system, but the simple realization that the soul of any individual/existence is identified with the ... Views: 729
Linda, a 42 year old attorney with two young boys, felt guilt and disappointment both on the job and at home. She never quite felt that she was where she needed to be at any given time. For all of her accomplishments, she felt like a failure as a lawyer and as a mother. She strove for perfection ... Views: 729
Recently, I attended a men’s health forum on erectile difficulties. There were three male speakers scheduled, all of whom were medical doctors. Being a sexologist, I was always keen to learn more in the area of sexual dysfunction.
I had pre-registered for the event and was queuing to sign in. ... Views: 727
The Benefits of Meditation
makes you younger
enhances performance
leads to positive personality growth
improves overall self-esteem, feelings of worthiness and self-acceptance
helps proactive health, producing the relaxation response which induces changes in metabolism, heart rate, ... Views: 726
By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.
It’s perfectly okay to worry about something sometimes. After all, there are just things that you cannot control, and the uncertainties of the outcome can leave you with very tensed nerves. However, you should avoid becoming a worry wart—that ... Views: 723
Welcome back! It means a lot that you take your time to be here, especially right now when we're all juggling new responsibilities on top of our old routines.
We started talking last time about feelings of loss, and I invited you to write down some of the feelings of loss you've been noticing ... Views: 722
When you feel disillusioned or depressed, it can seem impossible to change your mood. Happiness can seem like a prize that other people were given and you were cheated out of. It may appear that the circumstances of your life are preventing you from being happy, while someone else’s ... Views: 717
This book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Positive Psychology. Positive Psychology is the study of the strengths and virtues that enable individuals and communities to thrive. Positive Psychology has three central concerns: positive emotions, positive individual traits, and ... Views: 716
Where did the idea come from that laughter is the best medicine?
King Solomon, considered one of the wisest men who ever lived, may be the source. He didn’t say that laughter was the “best” medicine, but he did say, “A cheerful disposition is good for your health; gloom and doom leave you ... Views: 716
Do you remember when you were little and would list off all the things you wanted to be when you grew up- with wild abandon.
Have you ever heard children talk about who or what they’re going to be when they grow up?
There are absolutely no limitations put on their dreams and ideas of the ... Views: 715
Keeping your mind and body healthy should always be your imperative. Without a strong mind and vigorous body, you wouldn't be able to do your daily activities well and you'd easily lose focus. Living a hectic life filled with work tasks and other everyday life errands can easily make us lose ... Views: 714
"If I’d known I was going to live so long, I’d have taken better care of myself." James Blake
Believe it or not, you are your most valuable asset. And the only asset that will be with you for the entire length of your life. No one else, no friend, family member or loved one can promise that. ... Views: 714
Am Not, You Are
Is it just my cynical perspective and observation or have we actually become a society obsessed with avoiding all responsibility for our own bad behaviours? Kind of like five-year-olds denying we ate the chocolate cake when the remnants are plastered all over our chubby little ... Views: 713
You Can. No matter what you thought before.
by Christoph Niederstadt
You probably watched The Secret? It's all about the Law of attraction and how it works. And it's all very inspiring. I watched it may be 60 times during an unemployment period. At the Time it filled me with great hope, that ... Views: 713
Achieving success the quick and easy way requires learning about different aspects as well. Mostly, this depends entirely on oneself. Your ability to motivate yourself and push towards success or achievable goals, will determine how much success you have in life. It is crucial that you learn how ... Views: 712
Do you ever catch yourself in the middle of a swirl of negative self-talk? Maybe you find yourself imagining a conversation with someone you know, and before you know it, you're irritated and grumpy, maybe it's even keeping you up at night, making you restless.
What’s crazy is the control ... Views: 712
My life has changed so much in the past year that it is truly unbelievable. I don't want to sound like someone who is trying to promote anything, but seriously, since I have began a life coaching relationship with Maia and went through her personal development program (YOU University) my whole ... Views: 711
A great way to focus, even if you are tired is to get angry. This way you get your blood pressure higher, your lungs wider opened, your adrenaline pumped up etc. However, this isn't always a good decision as the angrier we get the faster we make our decisions and the worse they are, based ... Views: 710
Successful restaurants expend tremendous effort continuously improving the quality of their food, but that is merely one-fifth of the equation. A great restaurant has an ambience that not only appeals to the patron’s sense of taste, but also to their senses of smell, touch, sight and ... Views: 709
"Tell the truth." It's the foundation of science, ethics, and relationships.
But we have a brain that evolved to tell lies to help us survive. As I've written before, over several hundred million years our ancestors:
Had to avoid two kinds of mistakes: thinking there's a tiger in the ... Views: 704
Even though depression is a very serious disorder, you can still stand up and fight against it, and beat it, if you know what to do when it comes. If your depression is really severe, it's essential that you seek the advice of a doctor.
The thing is a lot of people with depression, usually, ... Views: 703
"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us." Ralph Waldo Emerson, nineteenth-century American self-help pioneer.
Ask yourself this question what is confidence? And a number of various answers may come to your mind. Such as confidence is the ... Views: 703
Article Title: The Amazing Power of the Human Mind
Author: Craig Lock
Category (key words): Self Help, Personal Growth, Communication, Mind Power, Success Skills, Empowerment, Positive Psychology.
Web Sites: http://www.creativekiwis.com/books.html ... Views: 702
At the beginning of each year, people set their resolutions, hopes and visions for their lives. It's an exciting time because it feels like a fresh start. However, you can choose any time to reinvent yourself. You don't have to wait until January 1st comes around. Consider the following tips you ... Views: 700
If you cannot influence the situation, change your attitude towards it. We all know about this. But HOW can you change your attitude towards something? It turns out that this is not so difficult if you understand the very mechanism of the formation of our attitude to reality.
WHAT IS ... Views: 700
Are you a negative person who always thinks of the worst things that could happen?
Do you always expect the worst case scenarios?
Do you feel that something is missing in your life but don't know what it is?
Below I've listed four positive thinking techniques for you to shake off the ... Views: 700
Honor your mind first by acknowledging how powerful the mind is. This is another jewel for self discovery. We are not our minds. We are spirit in physical form with a magnificent tool, our mind. The mind is best used for creating our life with intention and purpose in union with the ... Views: 699
When we go through tough times in our life, staying positive can often seem impossible.
However hard you try you just can’t seem to lift yourself out of the doldrums, your head is filled with negativity and you’re crippled with fear with what the future has in store.
Despite these ... Views: 698
A new neuron sounds like it could be a new car. The Neuron would be a compact and efficient car, but up to new challenges. Older model Neurons would have trouble being found in parking lots, or get lost going somewhere. Actually, I am talking about the brainy kind of neuron; the neuron that ... Views: 697
Despite being in the 21st century, many people are still hesitant when it comes to taking the necessary steps to ensure that their mental health is up to the mark. This is normally due to the stigma that surrounds the subject in many different parts of the world. However, there are millions of ... Views: 694
Childhood is undeniably the most formative years of human life. It is a developmental phase characterized by lots of learning, indoctrination, inculcation of beliefs, and the development of lifestyle. A lot of things happen at this stage, and most of them will impact the child in a way that ... Views: 692
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Let body needs dwindle and soul decisions increase. Diminish what you give your physical self. Your ... Views: 692
Abraham Lincoln once astutely observed that "most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be". In other words, they decide how happy they will be.
Happiness is your choice. It’s a powerful idea!
Most people live their lives as if they have no control over their own ... Views: 689
People have their share of amazing attributes. Whether it’s acts of kindness, bravery, courage, altruism, or selfless love, these qualities can make others believe in the goodness of humanity.
Self-doubt is a difficult thing to handle, not just because of its cynical nature, but also because ... Views: 688
MENTAL HEALTH
At present, people's understanding of mental health is still at a relatively shallow stage. They consider themselves to be one of the mentally healthy groups if they perceive their senses as normal, control their behaviors, take care of their own diet, and work (learn). But this ... Views: 688
Why Meditate? This is a good question. What might surprise you is the fact that there isn’t one specific answer. There are many answers on why to meditate and each person will have their own unique reason for starting this practice. But before getting to all the reasons that you should add ... Views: 688
Do you think it is important for you to take action to improve your community or society? Have you ever stop yourself from taking action to try to improve your community or society because you believe that one person cannot make a difference? Do you feel like it would be a waste of your time to ... Views: 686
As if we didn't have enough junk in our inboxes every day, now for the next two months, we have the barrage of political cartoons. Some are silly, some vicious, some are intelligently satirical, and some are just stupid. But to me, not one is particularly good for us. We live in an energetic ... Views: 686
Why, is it that almost everyone is afraid to make mistakes? One of the biggest obstacles that stop people from achieving anything in life is the thought of making a terrible mistake.
But the funny thing is making mistakes is a very important part of life, so why are people so afraid of ... Views: 686
This book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Positive Psychology. Positive Psychology is the study of the strengths and virtues that enable individuals and communities to thrive. Positive Psychology has three central concerns: positive emotions, positive individual traits, and ... Views: 685
Two months ago Sara had gotten the idea from her 3rd grade teacher to start a flower garden. “Then you can wake up in the morning on Mother’s Day and simply make a bouquet of flowers from your own garden! Your mommies would love that!” she had said. Sara loved the idea and quickly went to ... Views: 684
Spirituality is the process of distinguishing between the superficial and the essential. In our high-speed world there is only time for the superficial, (choose more current examples – the Kardashian’s, etc. the Honey Boo Boos, the Paris Hiltons, the Beavis and Buttheads. Instead of going to the ... Views: 683
Using Affirmations to Become a Happier Person
One of the best things about integrating posi-talk affirmations into your daily routine is that they are free and effective. Almost anyone can quickly learn to use them. Posi-talk can swiftly and successfully lead to finding more happiness in ... Views: 683
The increase in violence/shootings/bombings, bullying, threats, and judgment in the U.S. is spiraling out of control. Americans are afraid to send their children to school or attend public events. Kids can’t even play outside these days for fear of being abducted or shot on the street. Something ... Views: 681
My dad grew up on a ranch in North Dakota. He has a saying from his childhood - you may have heard it elsewhere - that's: "You learn more by listening than by talking."
Sure, we often gain by thinking out loud, including discovering our truth by speaking it. But on the whole, listening brings ... Views: 680
We Are Alike & We Are Different
By
Bill Cottringer
“It is a darn shame that we spend so much time arguing and being annoyed with our differences, and not enough time understanding and celebrating them.” ~The Author.
An important insight to apply for success is knowing the ... Views: 680
Do you find yourself getting to bed later and later every night? Are your weekends filled with never-ending lists of chores? When your lifestyle is cramping your mood, then it may be time to get rid of the most stressful things. We talk about four things you can do to give yourself some room to ... Views: 677
The origin of all thoughts, good or bad, lies in our past life. Our opinions given in past life create the thoughts that we get in this life.
How are thoughts generated?
•Every time we give a specific opinion, automatically atoms are attracted and get charged into our body accordingly.
•A ... Views: 675