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When we are faced with events or moments in our lives that cause us to fear something it is easy to slip into the role of always behaving this way. If an event or moment were to come along that reminds us of something that came before, something we had a hard time with, it is easy to associate ... Views: 958
Where does sadness come from when you don't understand its presence? Why is it there when you see no reason for it? Sadness itself has no control over you; it is not a separate thing. If we imagine sadness itself as something we must get rid of, let go of, or solve, then we are going about it ... Views: 1732
My question was this: what are you surrendering to right now? I’m surrendering to not knowing what will happen if I give pregnancy and motherhood another shot, post miscarriage. Which led me to ponder this familiar question: Do I really know anything?
There’s a doozy for my inner brainiac! ... Views: 1259
We all have situations come up where one thing is more important to one person than it is to the other. There are times when there are misunderstandings and we don’t always know the whole story. Other times we make things that are somewhat unimportant blow up into something really big that ... Views: 1265
When we let go of our ideas of the world around us, we begin to see what is really there. When we open ourselves up to what is real, we begin to live the life we are really living. Just by setting aside our agendas, expectations, control, and the process we normally live by, we escape the ... Views: 1386
Finding out who you really are is about letting go of who you think you are. We develop certain ideas of who we are and hold onto them, even if they do not fit the real us. Sometimes our habits and even certain ways of being feel so real that we cannot imagine living without them. What do you ... Views: 4835
In today’s world, it is not uncommon for someone to say that they want to let go of the past, and this is likely to be due to the fact that it is holding them back in some way. Therefore, the sooner they are able to do this the better their life will be.
A Number of Options
Fortunately, it ... Views: 1338
Life is constantly changing and never stays the same. But while this is the truth about reality, it doesn’t mean that letting go and going with the flow of life is necessarily easy or straightforward. The outer world is constantly changing and transforming, and yet the inner world and what is ... Views: 1675
If one was to think about what they used to wear when they were younger, they are likely to see that they no longer wear the same clothes. Perhaps they got to a point where they no longer fitted them and this caused them to wear something else.
They had to let go and while they may have ... Views: 1552
As soon as something ends, there is the chance for something to begin; just as when something begins, there is the chance for something to end. This is the cycle of life, and something that will continue until the time that one passes on.
However, this is not something that always takes ... Views: 1590
What is clear is that human beings don’t live forever; there comes a point in everyone’s life when their time will come to an end. When it comes to when this will be, it can depend on a number of different factors.
Due to this, it is often said that life is too short to waste time; each ... Views: 1331
What drives you?
How do you make decisions?
If you aren’t paying attention to your process, you’re missing an opportunity to make improvements in your life.
It’s how we interact with ourselves that makes us who we are.
And, thankfully, we’re free to change this relationship whenever ... Views: 1011
There are so many times in life where we disagree with what someone says or does. We believe they are doing things that will hurt themselves or hurt others. We believe they are making bad decisions and are going down the wrong direction in life. We believe they are taking wrong turns and heading ... Views: 1035
Life after retirement changes a lot. Your routine, priorities and schedule all changes. You stop doing many things that you had been doing before. You don’t have to work, you don’t have to follow a schedule and you certainly don’t have to go anywhere 5 days a week. Moreover, you might be ... Views: 957
We hear the term “life balance” a lot – but what does it really mean? And how do we find and maintain it?
I think there are two answers to these questions. The first has to do with looking at the various roles and responsibilities in our lives; and accurately and honestly assessing how we’re ... Views: 1831
Life comes at you full force. You are born an orphan. You are born into an alcoholic family. Your brother molests you. You are raised in the ghetto.
Your parents are emotionally unavailable. Your boss fires you out of the blue. A big deal falls apart. You get rejected. Your car gets ... Views: 736
Serena Williams, Bill Clinton, Andre Agassi, Hugh Jackman… just a few of the many highly successful people who use a life coach. Why? Because they know that self awareness is the key to successfully navigate obstacles, to keep taking empowered actions towards their goals, while their coach ... Views: 3035
Why would I need a coach for my life?
If you’re feeling stuck, or you have big dreams, or you feel dissatisfied with your current life, you might want a partner to help you move forward. Maybe you’re ready to start the next chapter in your life, but you’re not quite sure how to get there. ... Views: 1465
Have you ever wondered how a skyscraper is so stable? Why it doesn't just fall down? Well, how deep do you think the foundations are?
Yep, pretty damn deep.
The same is true with your life. The deeper your foundations, the higher you’ll be able to build on that platform. It makes logical ... Views: 1540
When my maternal grandmother, Dora, was a child, she came to America from a tiny village in Eastern Europe. One of my fondest memories of her was that she made amazing blintzes, thin crepe-like pancakes filled with savory cheese. When I was a little boy I’d visit her in the Bronx in New York ... Views: 1221
Seeing the world as new is about letting go of what feels old. It is about realizing the world is constantly changing and that you are too. Because of this, everything around you is constantly evolving, growing, changing, and nothing is repeated. The only thing that holds onto repetition is ... Views: 904
Dear Jan:
My family keeps kidding me that I have a bad attitude. Maybe I do ... But what difference does it make? Hey, I’m over 21 and I’ll have any attitude that I want! When you can show me that life will be any easier if I change, well then maybe I’ll consider it...
Signed: So ... Views: 1132
Running a small business on the internet can benefit you in ways that don't involve income or financial independence! Right from the start as an entrepreneur you MUST be willing to work and of course this means taking action on any ideas to make things happen! The journey people typically ... Views: 1194
As far as technology is concerned we live in an awesome age where everything is blindingly fast. If Sam Houston would have had our technology back then, help would have arrived in time for the Alamo. A few quick emails to patriots all across Texas, and Santa Anna would have never had a chance. ... Views: 1084
“Life is no brief candle to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got a hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.” - George Bernard Shaw
Do you feel motivated in life? Do you look forward to going to work ... Views: 1709
An alarming fact emerges out of a recent survey conducted for employee satisfaction. More than one third of the American workforce is so uninspired and unhappy in their jobs, that they think of quitting every day.
No amount of freebies that their companies dole out occasionally is enough for ... Views: 1631
It’s interesting that the Founding Fathers didn’t describe our inalienable rights as life, liberty and happiness, but the pursuit of happiness. They were onto something.
It’s while you’re in the process of getting what you want that you have the most profound experience of life flowing ... Views: 1392
I’m so confused; it just doesn’t make sense; something doesn’t add up. These phrases, or ones similar to them, are ones which I hear often. Whether I’m working with colleagues, chatting with friends, conversing with my family or just being in the vicinity of a conversation in a restaurant, at ... Views: 1611
Today we’re celebrating a huge success. Our fourth child passed the road test. I just got back from the store to buy big cake. Woohoo! What a relief! Joy and new freedom for both of us!
If you’re a parent of a sixteen-year-old, you understand what I mean. We all know it’s NOT a piece of cake ... Views: 900
Ok lets be very clear about this, a ‘belief’ doesn’t mean it’s a fact – it’s actually only your perception of the truth and this can be changed, with some work.
One great example of this is our pre-programmed beliefs about money – most of us have inherited negative beliefs or bad vibes ... Views: 899
The language of heart is silent. It is universal in its message but its not universal in its expression. This language at its highest and best connects us to one another and to God as well.
Your Heart has a Language that your mind simply doesn't understand.
You need to take a deeper look ... Views: 774
A number of months ago I was speaking to someone who said that it was time for them to put a book together and to have it out before the end of the year. After having put this off for a number of years, this person knew that it was time for them to take action.
When I heard this I just paid ... Views: 750
As you read this, I’d like for you to think of three people that would greatly benefit from this article.
Listen – Who are you listening to? The person that you need to listen to is you. Inside you is your heart’s desire, and I want you to commit today to truly figure out your “Why”. Your ... Views: 816
We now have a president who is not only willing to listen but is encouraging listening in all our engagements especially with foreign countries. Listen so we can really know what their perspective is not just impose ours. Radical and rejuvenating.
Yogically listen is Sunnia, which literally ... Views: 946
It is an essential human need to be listened to and truly heard by others. This leads to a sense of validation and the experience of being mirrored. From the moment one is born this need is there and it will stay there until the moment they pass.
Although this need is essential to ones ... Views: 2058
Little Things That Can Help a Good Relationship Stay That Way
By Bill Cottringer
“A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results; a woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.” ~John Gray.
...but John Gray’s ... Views: 1851
Have you ever wondered why some people always seem to get everything they want in life? One day an acquaintance tells you that he wants a great job, and the next thing you know, he is on a work assignment in some glamorous location. Then he tells you that he is thinking of buying a new place. ... Views: 1280
“A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write if he is to ultimately be at peace with himself. What a man can be, he must be.”
—Abraham Maslow
Each one of us was born for a ... Views: 865
Life is About Choices and the Decisions We Make
Life is like a road. There are long and short roads; smooth and rocky roads; crooked and straight paths. In our life many roads would come our way as we journey through life. There are roads that lead to a life of single blessedness, marriage, and ... Views: 2917
There is a version of your life in which you are excited about each and every day. Your feet hit the floor in the morning and you are raring to go. Each and every moment of your day brings you new joy and excitement. This is what it means to live your passion.
1. When learning to live your ... Views: 881
Do you take care of others so much that you forget to take care of yourself? Suppose your friend asks you to pick up her dry cleaning one day. You do not mind because it is along your commute and it feels good to help someone. However, a week later she asks for the same favor and you accept the ... Views: 1701
Dream it… Plan it… Live IT!
30 … 60… 90 …
Dream it… Plan it… LIVE! That is my mantra. It’s what I believe life is about. I want to share an interesting concept with you surrounding this mantra.
It goes like this…
The 1st third of one’s life is figuring out how it all works. Who ... Views: 909
Have you ever noticed how the natural world exists and grows without anxiety or worry? I began to notice this last summer, during a time of great anguish and anxiety, and it was a source of great comfort to me. Indeed, I recommend this as a practice if you are feeling anxious or worried about ... Views: 1204
Living the abundant life is easy if you know where to begin. Take a good long look at yourself and see whether you’re happy with the way your life is going or not. If you feel like something is missing, but you can’t quite put your finger on it, then this article is for you.
If you want to ... Views: 2076
People who are on a conscious and purposeful path of self-development know the dedication and commitment it takes to evolve in all life aspects.
I've been interested in metaphysics and personal growth for decades, but it wasn't until about two years ago that I finally decided to engage ... Views: 1186
Relax, take a deep breath and think. What’s stopping YOU from being happy? What’s stopping you from being happy ALL THE TIME? Grab a pen and paper and list your obstacles to happiness. Answer the question from your soul. Because you are the only person that knows the answers and you are the ... Views: 3720
We can all live with purpose because there is so much to live for. There are things we can pursue, discover, or accomplish that fill our lives with meaning and purpose. We can have vision for our lives, dream dreams, and fulfill our callings. There is always something for us to do. Pursuing ... Views: 1661
Depression is a form of escapism; it is a way of protecting one’s self from the outside world. By reverting inward one is able to let go of reality, to turn off events and withdraw. Depression can be caused by many events, real or imagined. It is a sense of being overwhelmed, being overtaken ... Views: 931
Fear is something we all have at one level or another. Why is it there, what good does it do us? It used to be important as a tool to warn us of danger, to keep us on our toes, and to be more aware. Now, we live in a time where this is almost uncalled for. We go through life aware enough to ... Views: 913
Stress is a learned behavior; it is holding onto something that bothers us, affects us, and imbalances us. We choose, in a way, to accept it and prolong it by holding onto it. Stress was once a factor in our lives when we related it to fear, a response brought on by stimuli and a need to ... Views: 986