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When you first learn a new skill, what does it feel like? Can you remember? Are you like a duck that on the surface of the water appears unruffled but who is paddling away furiously underwater? We will take a further look at this with a "human" example. When you are first learning a new dance - ... Views: 2086
While many conflicted and combative couples stay together through the holidays to not disappoint the kids or the extended family members, other couples who may have not even been thinking about divorce, begin to feel discouraged, disappointed, and disenchanted after the holidays and decide to ... Views: 2317
"Fast, hurry, quickly, immediately” are all words that can appear extremely attractive and luring when they spring by our ears regarding weight loss. If you’ve got a horrible toothache then these words are extremely welcoming for immediate aid, if you break down on the side of the road then ... Views: 1644
Are people really choosing to stay unemployed? Really?
These comments are from a discussion I had with a man in Michigan. How do we motivate, inspire, reach and help here?
The following is a response from a man in Michigan to a community where I posed the preceding question. I have the ... Views: 4635
In this world of instant gratification, high speed technology and a ‘quick fix’ mentality it seems that many people have abdicated responsibility for taking care of themselves. This is evidenced by the growing obesity rate, the rise in substance abuse and even the number of stress related ... Views: 3385
Geographical Interpretations
Canada
Bankruptcy Process
In Canada, the bankruptcy process is divided into three stages:
Initiation
Interim
Discharge
Initiation Stage
An insolvent person may avoid bankruptcy by either establishing mutually acceptable arrangements with the ... Views: 1903
As you are fully aware being attentive and conscious of what you are digesting, how much you are digesting and your energy output are an imperative keys toward your success when traveling down your road of weight loss and weight maintenance. At any given point in your future your stellar ... Views: 1770
By its very definition, financial independence means to not be dependent on anyone or anything for our financial needs. That requires being free from debt.
When asked what they would do if they won the lottery, most people say they would pay off their debts. Just imagine what it would be like ... Views: 1182
"I have an everyday religion that works for me. Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line."
--Lucile Ball, 1911-1989, Comedienne and Actress
We all heard the saying a million times before---“When you take care of yourself first, you will then be better able to take care of, ... Views: 2379
This month’s newsletter is a guide to developing a longer term plan for your life. Each year, many of us make resolutions that don’t seem to stick. This is because they are short sighted and are not grounded in a longer term plan and direction for your life. My goal in this guide is to get ... Views: 1634
Geographical Interpretations
Brazil
In the case of Brazil, the Bankruptcy Law applies solely to private companies. However, there are a few specified categories that are deemed to constitute an exception, and these include:
Financial institutions, credit cooperatives, those designated as ... Views: 1260
Whether you call them challenges, opportunities or big hairy problems, the only people without them are in the graveyard. Someone once said don’t wish for smaller problems, wish you were better. The fact that you have problems at all are signs of growth, progress and movement. Once we set a goal ... Views: 1780
I've been blessed to play with many musicians over the years. Some have been cool as hell and others with their enlarged ego and elevated sense of self entitlement I'll never forget. I have shared a beer or two with some, and others I've finished off the bottle of Sir Daniels both on stage and ... Views: 2088
We all know that to change and grow, to have an open mind and be flexible with the daily and not so-daily changes in our life is a must in order to flourish, however there is one area where, when we expect change, it is an absolute recipe for disaster.
You may be able to already guess which ... Views: 1291
Geographical Interpretations
Australia
Continued
There are normally two principal sources from which funds can be realised, viz. the assets and wages of the bankrupt. However, the bankrupt is granted the facility whereby certain assets are set aside and their value cannot be realised. ... Views: 1269
I've often affirmed, "Let go and flow." Flow generates inspiration and births the A-HA moments of your clarity and vision.
All struggle is out-of-flow experience. Where you struggle is where you have turned your back on and said NO to you. Denying who you are and what you are here to be, do ... Views: 1404
It was 3:30 p.m. on Sunday afternoon, and I was walking out of the movie theater with a giant knot in the pit of my stomach. I had just seen the movie “2012?.
After going in with much anticipation and knowing that I would need to keep a strong mind to be able to stay positive in the midst of ... Views: 1395
The Holiday Season is a wonderful time for us to reconnect with our family and friends. We might have seen some of them just yesterday, and for others, many months or years have passed. We gather together enjoying a variety of delicious foods and beloved company, hopefully sharing a peaceful ... Views: 1280
As you embark upon the eve of a fabulous day, Thanksgiving Day, there is much to be taken care of, family to celebrate this special day with and an array of fabulous dishes to enjoy and bewilder at. Staying in the right frame of mind going into the holiday will make a world of difference post ... Views: 1351
I was on the learning team this week, and I thought you'd benefit from what happened.
SuccessNet has been doing business on the Internet for over 12 years. And during that time, we've come to be known as one of the most trusted sources for personal and professional growth on the Web. We're ... Views: 3203
On many occasions while giving a talk on Success Esteem I will ask audience members to raise their hand if they believe they have some fear of failure. Typically about 80% of the audience will raise their hand. Then I ask them to raise their hand if they believe they have some fear of success. ... Views: 3483
Geographical Interpretations
Australia
In Australia, all forms of bankruptcy are governed by legislation that is entitled The Bankruptcy Act 1966 (Commonwealth). According to this, the act of becoming bankrupt is only available to individuals. In the case of companies classified as ... Views: 1246
In my experience working with clients in coaching, many want to jump quickly into setting goals and making a plan. But, they loose focus quickly, get sidetracked easily, or can’t remember the goals they set or why they were important. I believe this happens because there is foundational work ... Views: 2593
You are totally getting closer to your goals. You are feeling better because you are taking action, being aware and following through and these are very important elements for success.
Remember to be kind to yourself and do not expect perfection. There may be days when everything you ... Views: 1127
The key to success in just about everything you may attempt to do ALWAYS starts with you! Whether your plans are for business success or personal achievement absolutely everything originates within your person. Once you accept the personal responsibility that you must first invest YOURSELF in ... Views: 872
We moms have a tough path to walk as we help our daughters navigate the sometimes choppy waters of growing up girl. It's our job to protect our children and do our best to keep them safe and healthy, yet we also have to allow them to grow, stretch and learn from their own mistakes. It's a fine ... Views: 1073
Spiritual growth relies, in my opinion after decades of self work and study along with meeting many remarkable and unremarkable people, on the cultivation of your morals, personality and character.
A strong character with correct standards and morals is the first prerequisite step a normal ... Views: 1480
When I was young, there was a girl who was a year younger and a foot taller than me. She bullied me for approximately two years. One day something inside of me snapped; I decided I wasn’t going to take her abuse any longer and stood up to her. Unfortunately, our confrontation ended in a fight, ... Views: 3814
Success is your personal responsibility and not an entitlement! You can not assume nor expect that others will 'do for you' in the quest for your own personal desires; that only happens for children and not grown adults! Many who have aspirations of achieving success in various aspects of their ... Views: 1507
There is nothing better than having someone verbally "pat you on the back." It doesn’t matter what the pat on the back is for…you just know that it makes you feel good, lifts you up and boosts your spirit. It would be great if we all had someone give us a verbal ‘pat on the back’ every day, ... Views: 2063
Imagine your best friend has just invited you to his wedding, and told you to invite everyone you know to the special event. Those who hear of the event will be the ones who are lucky enough to attend it. If you do not share this good news, you will be guilty of not obeying the order.
So it ... Views: 4521
How many times have you heard someone say something like this?
“He really knows how to push my buttons.”
“She made me so angry!”
“They hurt my feelings.”
“There’s nothing I can do about it.”
All of these comments have something in common. They are all designed to absolve the ... Views: 1431
In my last article regarding goal setting, I outlined some keys for accountability. This is an important element of your success for many reasons, answering to someone else is an area that is comfortable for many. Another reason that you may need to have someone push or monitor you is because ... Views: 2897
Question: Why didn't God prevent Adam and Eve from eating the forbidden fruit?
Answer: I will have to answer this question in assumption, something I rarely do, because we often waste precious time when we speculate about things we don't know. To know every "why" and "how" would make us God. ... Views: 4605
I was in a golf tournament a couple of weeks ago – first time I have golfed since last year. The weather was good, the company agreeable, and the course in excellent condition.
Now, to understand the point I am going to make (and yes, there is a point), you need to understand that I ... Views: 1028
It is that time of year again when there are fall activities, celebrations and parties to attend every which way you seem to turn. The flyers are posted at work, the invites arrive in your mailbox, evites show up in your inbox and there simply doesn’t seem to be enough time to attend all. Be ... Views: 1199
"You don't have to be a "person of influence" to be influential. In fact, the most influential people in my life are probably not even aware of the things they've taught me.” - Scott Adams
Quotes are such powerful directors of thought. They have the ability to condense big and complex ideas ... Views: 1587
"When you achieve complete congruence between your values and your goals, like a hand in a glove, you feel strong, happy, healthy, and fully integrated as a person. You develop a kind of courage that makes you completely unafraid to make decisions and take action. Your whole life improves when ... Views: 1556
I often say, "Everything passes, and so will your current negative situation. When you are angry or upset, keep in mind that it will pass, so why waste your energy on something that will be gone tomorrow?"
Now you may think, "Wait a minute, does every negative situation really pass? Did your ... Views: 4580
How good are you at keeping your word? Many of us try very hard to keep our commitments to others. We try to call if we say we will. We make every effort to show up when others are counting on us. We try to get projects done on time. We don't promise things we can't deliver.
We want ... Views: 7144
Is procrastination holding you back from turning your dreams into reality? I often hear people tell me what they want to do. However, rarely do I see them do anything to make that dream a reality.
What I do see is that person’s idea for a business now belongs to someone else. When you ... Views: 1456
"It is discouraging to think how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit." - Noel Coward
The inspiration for this tip came after I had the great fortune to find out about the work of Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks. Together they run The Hendricks Institute, a hugely successful ... Views: 2812
"To be on a quest is nothing more or less than to become an asker of questions." - Sam Keen
I think we all get that questions are a really powerful communication tool when we’re dealing with others, but the impact of the questions we ask ourselves usually gets overlooked, and often this can ... Views: 1586
"To reach great heights, a person needs to have great depth." (Anonomous) When someone becomes your dream partner, they choose to actively help you to acheive success. They become your informal sales force and, done properly, you become theirs. The right person's word of mouth can be just ... Views: 1931
In an economic downturn, one of the first budget items to land on the corporate chopping block is employee training. Too often, executives focused on survival believe that they must minimize expenses. They reason that training must not be a necessity -- after all, employees have been able to ... Views: 1139
History: Continued
Since such banking practices were common in Italy, it has been suggested that the Italian words banco rotto, or broken bank, represents the true meaning of the term bankruptcy. Alternatively, some derive the word from the French banque, or table.
Finally, it has been ... Views: 1211
Over the years, I have observed the following key expressions of self-discipline:
* People with self-discipline are in charge of their moods. They live by the commitments they have made, not by their emotions. A person without self-control is going to lead a very upsetting and negative ... Views: 1703
Wherever it is that you reside during your working hours there is always a place to go to enjoy your breakfast, lunch, dinner or snack time pick-me-up. Usually there is a special room that provides you with an environment to sit down, regroup and enjoy your chosen fare for a short period of ... Views: 1183
It is imperative that we understand our internal reasons for wanting to help another person. Many talk about the building of relationships through the volunteering of time or resources. If it is your intention to help another because of the potentially fruitful relationship that may result you ... Views: 1479
Truth or Consequences
When I was seven, I moved for a brief time to Columbus, Georgia with my family while my father went on active duty for the Army. I was a new kid in a new school and wanted to make friends quickly.
One day in music class, the teacher asked if any of us knew how to ... Views: 1032