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Couples who learn to actively, mindfully listen to one another have a better chance of having a deep, intimate relationship. It makes sense: When you listen well enough to understand your partner’s point of view, you understand him or her better, and the bond between you strengthens.
So how ... Views: 2003
Ever heard the expression “Listen up?” Sometimes coaches say it when their team is in a huddle. They want everyone to pay particular attention to their message. Listen up. Lift your chin up; direct your gaze up into my eyes. Listen carefully and hear what I’m saying. Listen up.
How often do ... Views: 2152
As the Master of Ceremonies calls out your name,you slowly walk up to the stage amidst the applause of your audience to shake his hands.
And as you are walking up, you try very hard to keep the smile on your face while hiding your anxiousness.
Glancing back, you saw that in the eyes of the ... Views: 1205
“It was 1:00 a.m. Who the hell is calling me at this hour!?”
Who? Oh, just my neighbor in California (I was in Boston at the time). He called to tell me that an earthquake had moved under their feet out there, and reduced my 48 single-family home development in Watsonville to a pile of ... Views: 1865
“You want to start your own business? That´s terribly risky.”
“You want to go where? But that´s so far.”
“You want a new what? Now, that´s not very practical.”
“You want to leave a ‘good job’ for that idea? How will you take care of your family?”
Any of this sound familiar?
From whom do ... Views: 1197
Gaining others’ acceptance of your ideas can be difficult, and even downright frustrating without the proper approach. Why do you think so many companies look to a marketing or advertising agency to promote their products and services?
Planning an effective persuasive strategy can be ... Views: 1465
Chances are, at some point in your life, a friend, family member or colleague will come to you for advice or guidance on an idea that they have. You should view this as the ultimate compliment, because this person values your opinion and respects what you have to say. They are looking for you to ... Views: 1178
Our personal and professional relationships are sometimes less than supportive and convinced of our ideas. For some of us, adversity is more of a daily occurrence than a once-in-a-while situation. When you are in a position of authority, it is the moment of crisis that can be the most difficult ... Views: 1188
When you have an idea that you’re passionate about, you are likely inspired to figure out ways to make it happen…and fast. Whether that requires a brainstorming session, a sales pitch, or a capital investment, establishing and maintaining strong relationships with other people can help you ... Views: 1145
"Have an idea for the open house at your downtown property."
"Great. But I’ll be out of town on business. Can you handle?"
"OK. Will call your assistant to help me. Need keys and voucher."
"Perfect. Call me later with details. I trust you!"
(Txtversation between two professionals familiar ... Views: 1092
When you communicate verbally, you communicate in one of the most direct ways you can to get your idea across to an audience. Yet, you can enhance what you say and how you say it by showing what you say. Letting people see your message adds another dimension to your communication. Visualizing ... Views: 2668
It’s a great feeling to successfully persuade people to support and help you implement your ideas. Yet sometimes, positive acceptance is elusive. New ideas and suggestions for improvement can scare people who resist change. When you have a difficult time convincing your colleagues to believe in ... Views: 1200
You’ve likely heard the saying, “Don’t take ‘no’ for an answer.” But if you did take it for an answer in the past, it’s possible you never saw your idea or plan through to a successful completion.
No matter where you travel in life or what you accomplish, there are always roadblocks and ... Views: 1633
If you’ve ever presented an idea, concept, or suggestion and received a less-than-positive reaction in return, then you’ve probably wondered where your message went wrong and what you could have done differently. At times, your choice of words is all that stands between you and the positive ... Views: 1231
Have you ever had a brilliant idea that fizzled because you couldn’t decide on the best way to act on it? The key to making good decisions in these situations is to organize and evaluate your options thoroughly. You can move great ideas to action by following a few tried-and-true decision-making ... Views: 986
This isn't the typical way I approach things but I’ll admit I’m absolutely dumbfounded and have to ask WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE THESE DAYS?! Facebook and news outlets are full of stories like:
- NYC man kills his boss after being laid off
- Man arrested for stabbing a puppy multiple ... Views: 1197
“Say what you mean and mean what you say,” says Frank Luntz, communications researcher and author of several books including What Americans Really Want…Really.
Today’s workforce craves truthful comprehensive communications and aligned action from leadership in all aspects. They want to know ... Views: 2189
One doesn’t need much awareness to see that consumerism is a big part of the modern day world. And depending on one’s point of view or position, it can be described as either positive of negative.
A small company or large business for example, that’s main focus is on selling physical items, ... Views: 8199
This topic is something that comes up all the time. Why isn't this working for me I feel like such a failure? Failure is a temporary inevitable situation when you taking a risk or learning a new skill. Think about it, when you first learned to drive a car no one expected you to do it perfectly ... Views: 843
This time, like all times, is a very good one, if we but know what to do with it.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
I often tell my students that there’s a rather big distinction between "wishing" and "willing."
To make the distinction, I tell this story:
I've always wished I could play ... Views: 3572
Although title, power, fame, and wealth may indicate a person in a position of leadership, that alone does not give credence to being an effective leader. This is illustrated every day in the failures and incompetence of many in positions of power as they fail to understand that genuine ... Views: 1193
There is one big flaw in how we are taught to live. It is imposed upon us at birth, and as we get older, people forget to tell us one big rule about living an abundant and happy life.
So we go through life believing our destinies are in the hands of those who control our resources. Those who ... Views: 4250
When conducting my seminars, I often ask leaders, “What social trends are you witnessing that are challenging your ability to effectively lead others?” A common response is, “An acceptance of mediocrity and the lack of initiative among employees.”
The existence of this social trend decreases ... Views: 1705
I recently had the opportunity to invite a friend and her grandchildren to a local fair. I’ve been going to the event for years and like the predictability and tradition; plus it supports a good cause. The carousel is always in front of the big house, the face painting under the elms, and you ... Views: 1567
Does your life feel like it's stalled, and your finding it hard to get going again? Do you feel like you have lost your Mojo, and you have absolutely no idea where to find it?
Do you look at the people around you and begrudge them their success, because they are getting on with their lives, ... Views: 1408
In a previous article entry (Performance Management – Managers need to be role models) I discussed the significance and importance of Managing Performance in a team or organisation and, in particular, looking at the role of the leader or manager in doing so. But what are the consequences of not ... Views: 1705
Holding on to excess energy, whether you dwell on your own and/or what you continually pick up from others, is a guaranteed recipe for feeling stressed out, run-down and even angry or resentful. To put it simply: It’s just not healthy. The human body was made to conduct energy, not trap it in, ... Views: 1896
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Free Yourself - by Angela Schulz-Henke, Successcoach4you
“ When I play with the day I see it as the only way, to find what is uniquely me, and bring it out for the world to see."
This new Moon in Leo on Friday will hopefully bring out the lion cub in all of us that likes to romp and play in abandoned joy. Letting go of the stress and tension from ... Views: 1222
I recently had one of those life flashbacks that can make your stomach turn. For me, it was all the complaining I use to do. I would whine about the injustices of my life. Raising my fist to The Big Guy and exclaiming how could you do this to me.
It was easy to sit around and do nothing ... Views: 1221
Today, I’m feeling profound sadness and intense self-reflection as I heard the words of Harmon Killebrew telling the world his cancer is no longer treatable. Here are the Hall of Famer’s wise and precious words shared through the media:
Harmon Killebrew: hero for how he lives his ... Views: 2111
Once in a while you need to treat yourself with a long nice vacation worth enjoying and spending for. What’s even better is that you can go on a vacation and enjoy your stay without having to spend all your money allotted for it. You can actually make travelling less expensive than you think ... Views: 1654
There are certain guidelines one can follow. Many brides-to-be will have to decide what is in it that they want when buying a ring engagement. You will need to consider the cost, which is the foremost rule and a basic one to follow.
Avoid the notion that big and quantity is all you have to it ... Views: 1922
Have you ever perceived life as a play, and what is happening behind the scenes as important as what is happening on stage? I am going to out on a limb by sharing a new perception I just received from a car accident Monday night February 27, 2012. If you do not agree, I honor your opinion. Yet ... Views: 1240
In today’s active corporate and wired world, achieving your goals and feeling fulfilled doesn’t have to be a chaotic, stressful affair. Being completely fulfilled means having a deeply felt irrefutable sense that you are happy, healthy, and whole.
Your work and performance are deemed ... Views: 2158
THE POWER IS WITHIN YOU.
You may not be aware that you have an unbreakable, personal connection to Source Energy. It does not matter what you call this energy – a Higher Power, the Cosmos, God, Allah, or your own Higher Self. The point is that there is a greater energy out there that is ... Views: 1396
No one likes to be criticized, fairly or not. It’s always difficult to deal with, and it can hurt. Because I’m a writer of books and columns, and because I’ve lectured, appeared on radio and TV, I am sometimes recognized in public. I’m glad I’m not more recognizable, for along with the lovely ... Views: 2861
Advance technologies has brought men and women comfort and cost savings when it comes to amusement. Satellite tv for pc TV SET may be the trend now and you will discover continuos developments on how to obtain discover to it. A person new progress is on the internet satellite tv for pc tv set. ... Views: 1598
There are numerous religions in the world today; some of these have been around for thousands of years and some could be described as new in comparison. And as well as the religions that are clearly definable as religions, there are also other figures and establishments that are serving a very ... Views: 4913
How does one measure success in life? What does it look like? What are its trademarks? How much of our lives have been needlessly squandered in pursuit of a definition of it that is neither worthwhile nor accurate? There is seemingly no end to the ways in which a materialistic and self-absorbed ... Views: 1371
People often remark that they have trouble with time management. They don’t have enough time in the day. They are always running behind. They rarely meet deadlines. If only they could manage their time better.
Saying one short little word – no - can be the most important time management skill ... Views: 2724
Yes, it is true: if you want to succeed in today’s economy, you need a Ron Paul on your sales team. You’ve heard me say it over and over: this economy has changed, it is a different time and it calls for a different type of sales person. This is what I call a "Trust and Value Economy". If you ... Views: 977
Years ago, my best friend called while I was studying for a test and told me that the lottery was at $200 million.
I told her I had $5.00, gave her my numbers, and she bought my ticket.
That night she called and said "girl you won, not the big one but you have 4 of the six numbers.” I ... Views: 1582
In September 2011, reports of cheating on college standardized exams leaked. This resulted to the public questioning the credibility of testing agencies, and the college admission process.
The case that ignited the issue
Twenty high school students from Long Island New York were charged ... Views: 1315
From the second we wake up, to the time we go to bed, our days are filled with choices. It is these choices that ultimately determine how our lives turn out. When we make good choices we are living enriched, fulfilling lives, and when we make bad choices, our lives are difficult and ... Views: 1255
Each morning I gaze at the eastern horizon, and if the sun keeps its promise, I keep mine. ~Robert Brault
Finding individuals who are consistent in keeping their word is becoming a rarity today. Accountability seems optional at best. Why is this happening so often?
Here are a number of ... Views: 2569
Everyday, as we walk our daily routine, there is a constant internal dialogue happening. Whether we are working, relaxing, having meals or taking a walk, our mind is prevailed by this never ending chain of questions. It is very significant to ask questions and it is very important to try to ... Views: 2044
A mistake, no matter how large or how small, is still a mistake. It doesn’t matter if it happened on a personal or a professional level; you have to learn how to recoup from it. If you are a perfectionist, this is a bitter lesson to learn, you are human. Some people mentally beat themselves ... Views: 1696
Procrastination isn’t just a bad habit; it’s an affliction ruining the lives of nearly 1 million New Zealanders. Research has found that one person in five suffers so badly from the problem that their careers are threatened. At its best procrastination is time wasting and at its worst it’s a ... Views: 2314
As if there wasn’t enough ill will in this world, some nimrod – or a drove of them – believed we desperately needed a National Be Nasty Day. I ask you to join me in a Be Nasty Day Boycott against the poor behavior this absurd day celebrates.
The selection of a day to be nasty to our fellow ... Views: 1466
Success leaves clues. In order for us to become champions, we must watch champions. If we model what they do, think what they think, believe what they believe, learn what they learned, then we will get similar results. One such champion I think we can learn from is one of the great thinkers, ... Views: 4570